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MJBOLT:

nigeria needs serious prayer more than any country,too bad prayer is just wishful thinking.

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we pray even over common sense tins, d country lacks security,
most country have cctv installed every where,
forensic hospital with data base of every citizen,
wats d prayer there, we have d money to get dis equipment,

God has give people talent in advance country to create this equipment, almost 10 years ago, and till date 9ja can't afford it,

no b everything u need to gbadura put,

go sleep with other girls and ur mind will kw that other babes are sweeter thanher

midolian:
I just feel... REGARDLESS, there are some things in life you don't use to mock others...e.g poverty, lack of children, deformity in children, etc

and that why the term BE HUMBLE exist
u kw u aren't too beautiful
u aren't too tall
u don't have kids
u have k leg
u bow leg
u have body odour
u be hiv patient
and u kw say u short, like me be humble, people tell me I a$ short I Crack a joke out of it, I laugh over it, no b my fault

u have to be humble
so people don't make gest of u

forget dis ur why will u laugh at the woman for having a sickle cell child

Sirmuel1:
Abeg forget illegal job, do legit business, you will make it wherever you are.

I surprise o, he kw day 9ja and u can't hustle legit hustle, ,,truly a tortoise is a tortoise weather in Lagos or uk
that nigger is lazy

Blazing12345:
you see wetin I mean. Na this same girls wey no good for marriage today go still turn mother in law tomorrow and go still want chose wife for their pikin them. So the circles continue.

my old man go just say since una like una self ride on and provided u have d money stability in ur pocket, ,,,its a pity my old woman na carrrer woman way use work distance her self from d family, and na she wan day do I don't like dis girl, dis one go sick well and ur money go end up for drugs dis one go do dis or do dat

Blazing12345:
You are so right, most mother in laws have domineering attitude including my mum. They need wives they can control or else nothing.

if I tell u watin my old woman tell me,one babe way she meet for my campus for my room na cultist na dis na dat ,i broke up with her, out of fear na as I continue to grow I noticed say my old woman day find who she fit control and d funny thing is my mother and my father aren't together again, who no get leg wan teach person how to walk,

PUSSYHOE:
Men don't understand women, women know women, she hates you means you aren't a good lady. back off!

the truth is most mother in laws will prefer a lady they can control around, but some girls head strong, so there comes the hate,

Dabiridamilare:
this life ehen.... But come to think of it guys , y is it very easy for prophets and prophetess to see easily bad revelations for a person or nation (as seen mostly in Nigeria) but finds it hard to see clearly any up good thing coming.


Can a very good religious nairalander explain that phenomenon to me.

when something gud is coming and u intend to tell people 2 tins occur
1,out of excitement the individual will do something
foolish to tamper with d blessing unknowingly he fit even slap old man becus u tell am say u see am buy jeep and I said out of excitement, good thing is coming let me womannize, good thing is coming make I go nite party, favour go come, dats y most time most pastor just lock up if better day come ur way, dats y u will hear often, brother keep on praying God will open ur door,

2 .there is always this doubtsin the heart of man, even one has his or her level of faith, some people faith day low, some people faith day extreme, some people day if they want money and day pray just for 30 mins bro forget it, money go show, I don jam forget say na woman matter o, my guy day like day but d surprisingly thing is he isn't d strong Christian type but he get dis inbuilt faith,

now why are spiritual leader quick to tell people negative prophecy is becus, it's either u start fighting it now or d prophecy comes to play,

note before anything play for the physical realm it has already happened in the spiritual realm,

I once called a friend dat I saw is brother on d floor dead and people were weeping around d dead brother, so I got up and called dis my friend to ask after his brother and he said his brother is in gh, so I should tell him why I requested for d brother and I just had to tell him what I saw and he said he will not lie dat a pastor also to d mother d same thing 2 days ago,
so what am I saying I will not b happy seeing a friend who I saw to and tomorrow he is no more neither will u b happy too, ,,

bro dis life na still mystery to me self, just don't step into d wrong toes dats y I keep less friends

Midas01:
Why didn't she mention any other singer apart from Arafat? Was he the only singer in Cote d'ivoire? Same thing happened when Ebony died, the prophet even predicted that it would be a road accident and the same occurred yet people called for the pastor's head.

The reason there is sometimes an "if"
with prophecy is that there is usually room for a change. If a person was to be prophesied to die, he or she (not the prophet or prophetess) could still change the outcome of the prophecy with serious prayers and genuine repentance.

everyone is gifted one way or the other, if a person spend ;ust a day with me even with out talking with me I will definitely tell d person his or her biography, even reach e name,
while back in campus I have actually know many people name I came across while having a discussion with them for d first time or probably advising them on certain issue, without anybody even telling me anything about them,it isn't psychology it's just a gift, I have dated different girls who confirm I can easily read their mind ,

I don't point fingers to pastor or prophetess or any spiritual individual because everyone is gifted one way or the other

Naijafull19:
My brother, you have spoken well.

Let me add something too

Many of our 'prophets' are just prophesying to promote themselves.

As a Christian, when I was younger, I used to read the books of the Bible like Amos, Jeremiah, Hosea, etc. All those prophets were for the most part not popular. Amos was chased out of Bethel back to his hometown. Jeremiah was beaten, stoned, whipped, etc. And there are many other examples in the Bible.

But these our prophets of today.....unlike Amos they don't speak against corruption in government and high places. Na to just come and perform for the masses, get likes, etc....and nothing changes. (Some of them live comfortably..Amos was a broke shepherd. Jeremiah was not that rich) Na to say 'X will probably die'...and when X dies...people will suddenly start crowding around Master Prophet.

Maybe I too holy holy...but today's Christianity in Africa....na to please man, not God.

bro have u heard of mind ur business, u live in a very complicated world bro both physical and spiritual

BOOOMNAIJA:
Marry descent guy, u won't listen....na Yahoo boys Dem go dey chase upandan....one more benz owner is added to d zoo.

bro na air u day advice o,by Tomorrow morning they go continue the benz chasing o,

Fidecoo:
I been no want put mouth for this your matter,but see guy make I advise you, better free the babe oo!!. I was once in this kind of your situation and guess what?? "THE GUY WITh THE CASH AT THE MOMENT MOSTLY WINS". I nearly want die because I been date that babe for good 7years. So,I managed to give up (they got married,I change state) and let go ,focusing all my attention on making money. but guess what? ??,today she begs I pick her calls and very happy when I talk to her on phone. God answered my prayers, turn things around for me (now guy with cash income is just my 1 week take home). I am not saying this to praise myself, but to advice and encourage you. So be wise and decide on time. My opinion sha

nice one bro,
I wish op learns from most guys advise and ditch d ladies here saying if u lve her u will stick to d plan,

Michaeljnr225:
Do you think I should move on? It is interesting to note that she still texts and calls me on a steady and we get intimate still

bro ur babe is already creating a room for open relationship, just Google what open relationship means,and to an average 9ja man it doesn't end well,
my advice just still fin another girl down becus last last u and that ur babe might likely end d relationship, so let's assume all doesn't ends well in 4 years time probably d lots of money u are expecting doesn't turn up, I wouldn't b surprise if babe sends u her wedding card 2 weeks after breaking up with u, cus right now all I see is u are just an option to her,

by the way are u working?

Heineken:
asthma bad bro...I no get am Sha. God forbid. My guy was telling me this talk last week... He brought a beautiful girl to he's house to pass the night. Actually the girl get asthma. What brought her asthma up that day was Jealousy imagine cos my guy picked another girls call in her presence. My guy confuse immediately. He said he even shit for body... Lol. He said he started praying seriously before the girl got herself. I pray never to see this kind of thing o...

bro that shite ur friend pass Tru is real,,,watin u wan tell people say babe come ur hux she con kpuff,when dat stuff happened to me, for d babe hux as at 2am, I be wan run o, ,,,now adays though as u get older ,u get mature and u try to get to understand the girl u are into before asking her to come to ur side even for a drink, unlike when we still day university every call we make na can u come to my side without knowing d implications

victorian:
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Lol at the bolded.




So funny! Shebi na you wan do marathon sex!




My own, my heart is selective with alcohol, I must not consume anything called lager beer.
If I'm to take alcohol? Just a Lil quantity through red wine, and just a glass of it.
Anything more than a glass of red wine means, Im planning to shut down the heart lol.

So when friends take me out and say Princess drink! There is alot to go round. I will just smile, take a glass then malt aftewards. They will be like you are falling our hand o! I'm not a kid nah. I will smile, shake my head. These people no know what's up with me and alcohol.

Don't worry, I accept I'm a kid. Leave me with my choice Biko.

marathon sex ke, girl way I never even insert my rod, na beg I just day beg make she open heaven gate for me, till date if dat babe day come for my front I day do about turn, I no wan see am for face at all,

Urs is even good, at least u understand ur system very well, unlike some other females who can't even understand themselves or even keep count of their flow /monthly, I remember vividly back in d university na we day help some females answer questions relating to biology in 300level concerning period, ,its quite funny when some don't actually take their time to understand themselves and they want their man to understand them, HOW IS THAT POSSIBLE?

Kingv:
"Our oil" will soon phase out

it's already happening, that's y our voice is not heard any where in d world, cus those other developed countries are far far ahead, they have oil just like us but they don't dwell on it

nnamdi16:
I think one of the reason for this is those who have made it in uae, by made It, I mean those who have gotten jobs (comfortable jobs) have refused to share how or the peocesses/procedures they used in landing their jobs. And some have not represented us (Nigerians) well in their workplace, hence not promoting the manager of their workplace to consider taking more Nigerians.

Having said this, there's no smoke without fire, I'll still not advise anyone to sell lands, cars, properties or even give up ur pr3sent job in Nigeria just to go and try luck in uae; I'll consider those negative advise from some people here.

and I also noticed something funny about Nigerians or let me say many Nigerians that are base in uae, the moment day land a job over there they just quickly delete their account,
I thought at first it was a something day decided to do on their over personal due to a personal reasons, but when I checked other thread I also noticed the same thing like the Netherlands thread,America thread, uk thread and many other, they will even give a testimony of how they were able to secure a job and the next thing u see is POSTED BY NOBODY, ,,we sabi they chop alone for 9ja that's y we are only supportive only when it comes to fraudulent activities, make we change our ways,,

And there are persons saying uae is bad my people no where is easy make everybody try e luck dats life, there is no work in oil companies but people are retiring and people are getting employed every day, it's about connection, and if u can't connect people up legitly PLS stop discouraging them , every country day hard for 9ja it's not a new thing


IF YOU CANT HELP YOUR FELLOW PERSON, DONT MAKE THEM FEeL BAD

Olawrites:
Na woman matter u carry for head like this..i dey run from em sef they're much on my neck.. Make u try hardened up bro no girl is worth it.

Trust me girls matter isn't all about money

A yahoo friend of mine bought iphone worth 250k,freezer and other stuff to 1million, yet bae dumped him for a poor dude.. Lol

are u serious bro
ur yahoo friend mess up o
lol

OmoAlata1:
Lol

u really mature sha,
if na some other females u go see insult throwback

babyfaceafrica:
life is ying yang...think about everything

lol
na really Ying yang
unpredictable

Faber:
tell them more...

abeg no kee pesin here...

Konji don put me for trouble before, since that day...I come repent. I carry girl go hotel, we spent quite good time drinking nd catching fun. It was getting close to mid night. We decided to lodge. I have paid for the room and submitted my details with the receptionist, going back to the VIP bar to pick her up, the girl don disappear. Hotel security come change am for me. According to them, the girl ran out from the small gate and they pursued her down the streets, but she increased her speed and they retreated. They detained me until the following afternoon to make sure nothing was missing in the hotel. Since that day I come repent give my life to Christ. Na once in a while now...I dey play daddy and mummy game cos man no be wood

my brother I day always ask of health status of most girls I meet o codedly not like say I day question her o,make I kw d kin market way I day buy

Lemskey:
Guys,am bringing our attention to this b'cos of the deaths of two young girls found in two different hotels in Port Harcourt and owerri within one week.Hmm

I ve been reading the comments here and other platforms and it is obvious that most persons have concluded that it must be either yahoo boys or some other ritualist which are very possible anyway,but I want us guys to look at d other side that might lead to such incidents to protect ourselves and sustain our freedom.
Situations like that can land an innocent person in prison.

In my own experience,there was a day I took a girl whom I had known in a while to a hotel in Uyo.We checked into the hotel room,she took her bath and laid on d bed

As we waited for d food we ordered for,she started rolling on d bed and shouting that her head and stomach were heavy and aching her seriously.
That nite was d most fearful day of my life.
While I was confused on what to do,I thought d girl was going to die that nite b'cos of d way she was groaning in pain and agony.

Somehow,I was able to summon courage, called d reception to ask for help in taking her to the car and was directed to an hospital I took her 2.
In fact,sex disappeared from my mind completely as my prayer was for the girl to be fine in my custody.
While we were at d hospital,her blood was taken to d lab for various tests,while she was in the emergency unit being examined.

Finally,it was discovered that she had ulcer but was not religiously taking her drugs.
She was taken care of and drugs administered to her.
I spent #28,440 on her hospital bill that day as it was a private hospital in Uyo,but I didn't mind but for her to be fine and leave my custody healthy and in peace.

While I waited thru out d nite,I became a prayer warrior by force, begging God to give this babe a sound health b'cos if she had died in the hospital that nite,God forbid,I would ve still been held responsible.

Finally,she was fine and she was discharged from d hospital at 7am d following morning.
I was so happy that I took her back to the hotel,we took our bath and immediately,I returned her to her house in alacrity.

Since that day,I swore never to spend time with a runs girl or even a girl I call my babe in a hotel or in my house over d night,since d day this incident happened,just less than 2 months ago,that was in June.
Now,my people;

1)What could ve happened if that girl God forbid,had died in that hotel room?

2)Could her family members or the Nigeria police had believed my story that she died of natural cause?

3)Obviously,I might ve out of panic abandoned her corpse in d hotel room that night and fled to avoid going to prison innocently or tagged a murderer or a ritualist by d media, social media and d world b'cos nobody will want to understand.

So,guys,single or married, while I am not saying that u might also ve my experience or that a babe might die in ur custody,it is however crucial that if there is a way that we can control our sexual urge to avoid taking a girl that is not ur wife,that ur families do no know each other,but a runs girl or ur girlfriend not intended for marriage,to a hotel,we shld please avoid it b'cos we do not know d medical history of these girls and their state of health.

Many of them dey carry one or two liabilities inside body dey walker.

There is someone I know serving in a prison in Delta state,still awaiting trial for a murder case in the last 3 years and I believe he is innocent b'cos he explained that the girl had an asthma attack over d nite and died.
This,the Doctors confirmed but all of us know our country that b'4 u re understood or ur innocence is proven,u must ve spent d better part of ur life in prison all b'cos of a maximum of an hour sex and ejaculation.
So,my guys be very careful as u take these unknown runs girls and our babes to ve a nice time in the hotel,hmm,IT IS HIGHLY RISKY.

Ur face will be brought even here on Nairaland and trust us here na,all they will call u is a yahoo boy,yahoo plus,ritualist or a murderer.

No time to reddeem ur image ooo.

Even as a student in school,try as much as possible to avoid camping a girl in ur room or u going to camp in her house.

If u guys ve to do it,do what u ve to do for an hour or more and let everyone depart to their abode.
Guys,let's be careful o

May God not allow us go spend years in prison innocently oo.Amen.

bro I am also a withness to what u just wrote, few years back while in the university like 3 years ago,,
I once crash in a girl room, she is actually my coursemate so I b wan chop her, my brother watin u pass Tru na d same with my own, so ladies are healthy wise not okay, ,when the bible called them weak vessels it is really Tru, forget all this what a man can do a woman can do better stuff o,,,

bro the night of my own incident this girl was not breathing again o, I b wan shout for help o for d hostel but I kw very well, they go rush me join wall claiming I killed their lodge mate,I had to do my own slef treatment quickly by running into her small kitchen to get water and pour on her body while she was lifeless on the floor, I quickly run off windows make better air enter d room, bro it wasn't funny dat night o,,,,

wen she finally took a strong oxygen breathe na me con day beg her o,i con even day pet am make she day awake, I just day wait make morning reach make I run go my hostel o,,

as 5:30am reach na run I run since then till date I have vowed not to sleep in any lady room again o,

many of them just have one liability or the other,
it's either
they get weak easily
they have breathing problem
they have hearing problem
they have loss of memory stuff

so many liability bro

Iamgrey5:
lol I beg make I no choke on the food way I dey eat.

The lady must belong to the new set of Nigeria's version of feminism that know all the right of women in relationships but conveniently forget responsibilities involved

some ladies are terrible, some times I just look am say na baby mama even better pass, the type of ladies way we day meet these days go make u ask ur self if u ready to tie the knot with her even on ur wedding day

babyfaceafrica:
and so?..some married people if die without having children... are you better than them?..This life is no ABC.. marrying early dowa not guarantee anything.been married does not guarantee anything

if u kw u have dream of marrying then marry early, if u wish not to marry it's ur choice ,,u no even day positive at all,Na who marry way no get pikin ur brain pick

enemyofprogress:
Rubbish. I ate people showing off their wellthes

is it your money or is it ur wellthes according to u, ,

bro or miss hustle your own it's there life not yours

Iamgrey5:
exactly bro!

no b lie o

our family friend who is a doctor and he also married a female doctor day regret till date, d wife who is paid more than him doesn't contribute a dime in d family to even fill gas, na d man day do am, then what's d need of having a working class lady at home, d last time I checked on him he just day wait patiently make e kids day of age before he run go sit down for abroad

Iamgrey5:
Your use of the word average is wrong.

In most homes, the husband's money is usually the family's money, while the woman's money is usually her money.

I tire o,

most home I have witnessed the woman's money hardly touch d family,
those women dat are mostly excluded are those ones dat do petty trade I don't kw if it's because they aren't highly educated o,but d educated ladies dat work, bro just forget, if she even give u, na borrow she borrow u cus she will definitely tell the whole world she has been d one feeding with her money,

my choice of woman if she like she is a working class or not but just make she get sense

babyfaceafrica:
if u never make money, remain single,if u make money late..marry late!!..no late comer anywhere..a 60year old can marry 20 or 30 year old gal

at d age of 80, dats wen you see your children entering university, u fit no even see ur grandchildren, Mayb one of ur pikin carry carry Belle for ss1 then u might b lucky

that was my cgpa after my 100level, I was pissed, even after graduation my people I can't even remember when I thought about cgpa again ,them in my room, u go see calculations of cgpa assumption tire,

my people cgpa doesn't determine life o,it only shows how obedient you are to exam questions

Biglittlelois:
Are we suppose to clap for her cos she's now a single mother or we should be happy that two adults couldn't compromise on important issues that'll make their marriage work for the best? No one should come online to rant on being happy regardless of a failed marriage, it is not an achievement.

I really find it disgusting, we no even get shame at all for some kin matters o, it's her life sha,
she is working and can afford to take care of herself even if she breaks out of the next marriage

every story written here spoke something about myself, and every story also written here provided a solution to myself too, it's not easy living in this world mostly 9ja, family problems, after graduation what next,

most times u think ur secondary school mate a way ahead of u after high school, only for u to meet after few years only to find out u are even doing better than them after all the snubbing because they first u gain admission,

dating has really been a bit difficult becus every lady na suspect or they aren't been truthful because of my growing up, I had a mother who hated my old man for no reason, she left d hux for no reason, before entering ss3 non of my mother's cloths can b found in d hux, it really pathetic, so every lady I meet I just find it difficult to actually trust them not to talk of dating them but as some mentioned earlier hang out more and u will definitely see d one ur heart melts for,

Uchexxy:
my brother, too much sense will not kill u! I wonder why we are so afraid of existing separately when we all know that we were not originally one to begin with. Someone just lumped us together and all of a sudden we somehow believe we are one. We know what to do but we are just scared to do it

we all know dats d truth which u just said but the other regions are afraid becus of the oil well,,,
forgetting there are countries without oil and they are doing better, ,na oil day cus our problem so