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kevin25:
Wat u said now means that u didnt read my write up very well coz i said dat d man is working now nd provides for the family just dat no matter any amount he has d wife has it times two d wife is stil richer than him

my brother, there is a popular saying "first impression matters alot"
I have a friend passing tru dat same problem right now,i wouldnt be surprised if the lady is even older than the man,
2ndly the man should have gone with his level,,my advice to every young man out there, marrying an older lady who is older than u, doesn't end well, in public u will see smiles but inside d bed room na civil war day take place,

when it comes to marring a highly stable lady in money, please choose wisely, becus some or even many don't have respect d moment day start touching money, ,they are easily toxicated,

lastly if the man has kids already with d said lady, he should just don't be too far from d kids else they might grow up with so much hate for the father /man for not catering for them in accordance to what the said wife will tell them even though d man is trying his best to cater for them, ,,that man is in big messs for real

Iwanttoto1:
That your husband na very stupit boy. Infacts, him be disgrace to human beans wey carry prick in btwn dier legs

Bro after reading the first 3 lines of that lady,i had to stop reading because it's irritating, ,,,and she is even prude of saying it,,,,,if u want to know how ur future wife will treat u,try visit her family and see how her mother treats her father, then dat is what u should be expecting, ,my husband pays the kids school fees,,,provides basic amenities, fuel the generator comes home late from work and u still expect the young man to eat and go wash d plate, ,,?na house boy u marry no b husband

u for just tell us say u don lock the man brain inside bottle na,,,,,

Investmentfreak:
4years and you are still alive?? Google made me fear this hepatitis b o

Hb is even more deadly than HIV, most times Hb is contacted tru any thing fluid, sweat or blood like, that's y most times wen entering public bus, I for example always wear long sleeve or something to cover my arms completely, cus that's d easiest way persons get contacted,u partially become a carrier,

An elder in church once told me a story where a man and his wife were hiv,and Hb positive respectively, the church had to ask them to divorce, becus of d unborn kids,

HIV is just too overated, dont f*ck with Hb (hepatitis B)

I888:
God bless you. Someone must have planted evil in their midst. I don't want to believe it is their wives but something more sinister, like spiritual things.

Exactly for dangote to even visit them, to settle the quarrel, then you should no, this is not just ordinary again,,,,

It's a pity that the end of psqure has just began already, ,,,

Both of them just day sing RUBBISH wen ever I turn to mtvbase,,,,,even orishe femi con better pass them

RTSC:
Shut up.
None of una get sense for una family.

A Duo that was one time the kings of African music and making millions of dollars now turn to upcoming musicians that can barely scrape together 10 million views as solo musicians.

Grace to grass as a product of collective pride and stupidity.

Stark morons.

This simply shows they have been together because of the money not becus of the love, ,,,

Uyi168:
One thing I know is that no sane man will deliberately want to be jobless..
Na condition make crayfish bend..

And it's suicide to think about marriage when u are jobless..

I support u my edo guy,
They should not also start coming around me wen am no longer jobless, ,,,becus they will still run away wen every where becomes hard

NgeneUkwenu:
I love this people. I wish I was a man. I would have joined them

U fit still join,just go any primary school, wen them don panel beat you, ,,u are confirmed already, ,,,

Are u married, ?no
Which man wan marry person like u

coputa:
Nigerians are the happiest people on earth

That one na assumption, ,,
Though we believe say if we suffer for earth we go enjoy for heaven, ,,how are u sure u will make heaven, ,,

Suffer for earth
U still go end up for hell

She actually right
That is why I stop my neighbor from entering my house, ,,na watin I get u too wan run go buy for market,,and wen u kw fit buy am, u go day Cary face for me, , ,,na wa oooo

mknigeriagreat:
Bro until they cant even afford 100naira data we will keep cursing them. It is becoming disgusting.

And it's a pity that seun posted some rules regarding this forum, which is no advertising of betting, and I am still surprise, this stuff still plays here, ,,any way keep it up, ,,,,keep putting fire on their head

Nice work

Yard4people:
Single mothers association

safarigirl:
you don't know anything about marriage.

I know poorly behaved women that some of you claim men will never touch with a ten foot pole that are married, just as I know very good women that have been constantly used by poorly behaved men and did not marry.

Is it not the same women you like refer to as postitutes and runs girls, that are getting married everyday? If men want all women to become prostitutes, so that they can be married, no problem. The same men will still return and say married women are loose.

Most men are poor judges of character, because their minds are clouded with sex, they overlook everything else. It is easy to accuse women of having chips on their shoulders, but don't forget that any woman who will easily roll over for you, will easily roll over for other men one day.

I repeat, you know nothing. Marriage these days is not about character.

Marriage these days is about what,drive your point very well girl cus u are floating left to right, just say it

Angelawhite:
When you see your speck ( I like voluptuous waists and boobs ) who is smart... you know the kinda girls that turn heads and cause accidents I bet you’ll rethink your stance

Na waist and boobs, wan make me mad for woman? ,,this is where u all are getting it wrong,

,,times have changed, ,,
boys are getting wiser
,if there is nothing upstair on that brain of yours, na 24hours date we go date una,,,,the next day na I am traveling u go hear, ,(park up,make I drop u for park) ,wen I need ur attention I will call u,

Big yash

Big pant

Slim waist

Boys are getting wiser girl, ,,,

Most 9ja overseas guys still prefer the quite girl ,they left back home, even if she kw fin, u think they kw get sense

Big yash way e b say wen old age reach they kw fit Waka again (na load na)

Zinny25:
No girl should do that ooo, the guy go use u tire, even the ones that didn't play hard to get are being used not to talk of one who made the first move. As far as Nigerian men are concerned, let them do the wooing and as a girl, u should play hard to get[b]small[/b] that's when naija guys will value you.

Lol
But many 9ja girls play hard to get very high,,,making them to lose their value even later wen they con gree to date,,,u don make d guy spend both time, money and energy,

yinkeys:
Cheap or no cheap. Life is too short if you ask me, live your life

Exactly, ,,i just love your comment, ,,,
I asked a girl out, and she told her friend who inturn told her, make she date mature man, ,last last she turned me down,,few months later na her friend(advicer) I con go for with re-enforcement, ,,her friend gree(advicer),,,,,advices, ,,both of them now are d worst enemy "like pdp and apc,,,,though I don drop even her, because she is a snitch, ,,


I tell girls if u like a guy approach him, it's either a yes or a no answer, ,,that is not d end of the world,

adewest1999:
ehn ehn....wetin adults con dey do

Na b my mouth u wan for hear am, ,,go agbo joint every morning make u sabi how adult take day chase lady

Bebe0147:
Do you feel happy cursing another human being like that... God forgive you

They don scam the guy,,,,,probably na e final year school fees he send give the scammers

mknigeriagreat:
FROM TODAY YOUR LIFE WILL NEVER MAKE MEANING AGAIN ON THIS PLANET. YOU WILL ALWAYS BEG TO EAT EVERYDAY. YOUR GENERATIONS TO COME WILL BE BEG FOR MONEYBTO FEED AND TO BUY CLOTHES. YOU WILL NOT KNOW PEACE IN LIFE. YOUR CHILDREN WILL SEE STONES AND CALL IT MONEY BY THE TIME POVERTY HITS YOU.

Guy u mean this person o,,,,,

Nice work, ,,,,,,,because this nairabet dis, nairabet that don too full every where

omojeesu:
She risks exploitation if its the wrong dude.

Wat are u exploiting from a 9ja girl?

Angelawhite:
It depends on the approach. If a girl throws herself at me, it will raise a red flag. You don’t necessarily have to be direct. Women are meant to be chased and not the other way round but if you must chase a guy, I’ll give you some tips.

Bump into him, or sit close to him , brush your body casually against his, ask him for the time, ask for directions etc. The trick relies on circumstances and place to work .

There is a financial level a guy gets to, all this bump him,sit close to him, brush your body, my dear na waste of time the girl just day waste her time,we kw go just send u,most guys way send those kin girls na chop and run e day end last last, ,,

adewest1999:
lol......so wetin we go do now

make everybody keep their love to them self

Na kids still day tell girl I love u,,,

bluefilm:
Don't do it, if you're a girl.

'Cause once you do, your intrinsic value in the eyes of the guy starts to tend to zero.

I will tell u my own part, the moment I chase a girl for too long, after she don use me see hell all in the name of toasting,
The moment that girl gree na to chop her move on becus all the love way day my heart she don turn am to yeye, ,,

adewest1999:
Guy I dey tell you.......them go be like parasite

That one na if na teenager u day date, ,,guy follow mature girl, na every day u go day play patoranking ft wizkid, which kin love be this

adewest1999:
If a guy walks up to a lady and says he loves her is he considered cheap?

make una anwser o

That's the moment the guy is completely friend zoned,,,(too cheap)

safarigirl:
The Nigerian men I have met are indecisive, and mostly selfish. They believe in immediate satisfaction, hit and run.

I can't say for all of them, I'm just using a tiny fraction of those I've met. And the things I see and hear haven't made most of them look better, tbh.

They say a lot of things they don't mean. I don't know why this is so, and I don't think I want to find out anymore, but you see women that can't get good relationships at certain ages or are unmarried, it is not always because they were promiscuous. Sometimes, it was because they had values the men couldn't uphold

Everybody must always defend their sex,thats very nice, woman way kw gree marry at the appropriate age,many of them if u check well get shoulder as pree mountain, wen they speak, no body wants to be around,,,,,even the young guys who later settle for them last last regret it,,,show me a woman that has a good writeable character that is not married and I will tell you d lady needs to go and see her grandmother in d village for consultation

Naturally there are some women that are not even approachable, no vex, ,,

dingbang:
thats the devil speaking to her. Every child deserves a complete family.

Most of these celebrity actually grew up in a complete family, so they want to have a taste of the uncomplete family, ,,forgetting also that it's d child that will bear the burden not them
Speaking from experience

Our parents actually endured with them selfs even wen na garri and palm oil they see chop, but now adays, every body want chicken and beef in their rice,
A lady that's goes outside the country(9ja)and stays there for a long time has a different perspective about love because they sometimes come to realize it isn't all about money,

centoqoh:
How on earth can you say "I don't need any benefit for my family - just cash for now"

I sense selfishness in u.
Change your mindset bro.
We live for our family.

Even if you aren't married, do you not have brothers? Sisters? Nephews? Nieces?

Your comment really got my attention, and it is nice to still believe people with a pure heart still exist,

I just pity d guy cus wen u have no responsibility trust me,u can't give account of how u send ur money, ,,,,its a pity all he thinks about is himself alone,while back home he must have promised his family, and definitely wen ever they call him, is reply will b "I never see work o" whereas he is earning some good money over there,

When you eat alone, dont expect your family to stand by you when your world comes falling apart later in life, because no condition is permanent, be it poor or rich,

omoadeleye:
Mama and son no get sense... Even an electron microscope can never detect a brain in their skull

No matter how u insult the mama and son, it doesn't stop the monthly alert from entering their phone, guy or lady mind ur business and just watch

Gazzy88:
Sell your phone and you will be alright.

I love ur reply,nice one, ,,,,
In as much as money has completely blinded 9ja people eye, due to poverty, whichi wouldn't blame them but we gat to make things right

StarUp:
This is a Super Twitter Story.

this isn't super story, I once watch Emmanuel tv where two old couples gave same advice life video coverage, same goes with the boys(minor) the freedom outside 9ja don't play with it o,for 9ja ur pikin na every body pikin for dat area, except say na away match d pikin day play