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Kingosytex:
Help me ask am?

Right from the on set of this whole saga, i came to understand that more people are more interested in the pastor's downfall than in getting to the truth of the matter. Many people are against the pastor

exactly, probably an average Nigerian isn't happy seeing d exclusive lifestyle of d pastor,
but I keep asking why bring d pastor down now

1, he raped u
2 ,u still continue to attend his church
3 ,u pay offering every sunday
4,am sure he must have connected u or linked u up to where u even go ur job
5,am very sure u must have helped d wife or assisted her in cooking a meal for d man of god

6 ,u don marry na,u say u wan expose d man say he rape u 20 something years ago,

the story get as e take day o
e get some part way day jump for d story

bastardmod:
Don't mind the bastards

lots of hypocrites In 9ja
always selective of whowe finger point, if d coza pastor was a poor -pupper pastor with where 1 or 2 are gathered ministry she for talk.i don't support rape o
but d question is why now?

Back2Daura:
Somebody rape you as a teenager 20years ago you joined his choir as an adult got pregnant by the choir master left the church and later accused the man of rape. Nawaooo

it is really na wa
I can really say dat there was a promise made by d guy dat wasn't fulfilled to her,am very sure she must have even tried to black mail him using hidden video camera or hidden audio recoder but e kw go as plan,probably d guy was always speaking outside d box of d rape isue

Emanodimo:
Believe me, I haven't check on that Daniel... Bla... Blaa... marital status but I assume his marriage can't be intact.....and to my amazement you burst him out.

Busola is just taking advantage of being a rape victim when disagreement ensued among them.

If I am to ask her what is her intention for raising the issue now?

bro u just nailed it,
there was still something going on between them, dat kalas/ended recently .and the promises he made he didn't fullfill it,

of what benefits will dis be,
does going online heal her wounds?
timi is just a confused person, + e wife

kolafolabi:
See who's talking self.. You abandoned your wife and went for another woman.. Birds of the same feather

I tire o
pot day call kettle black,
is he different from the coza

abi no b manipulate he still manipulate e first wife put for marriage then run comot

now i don't blame pastors dat doesn't visit people, because of scenario like dis

benuejosh:
An allegation of Rape was labbelled against Joseph by Portiphars wife. She even presented an exhibit which was Joseph s shirt. Nobody believed Joseph. He was jailed.
But God knew Joseph was innocent!
WE ARE HERE TODAY.

abi o

na man way don arrive these girls day disgrace o
suliman

t b Joshua

pastor chris

coza,,,,the list goes on,

I don't understand does disgraceing these guys online heal d wounds,or they just plan to tanish their image?

a man wants to revenge his father's death who was killed by an arm rubber,even after killing d arm rubber, it doesn't change any thing,u just have to heal ur self by ur self

y not sue d pastor, instead of ranting on social media, I kw ur life depends on it to succeed, but just sue d guy if he truly did it,
because u are actually making it cool to bring private Matters online,

they kw day rape man ?we day talk? abegeeee

tegrianonigltd:
Bill Cosby was jailed at 72,remember for rape cases of over 20 to 40 years ago

and don't also forget people have also been jailed wrongly whom d supposed victim later confessed he didn't do it,,,,

it takes an intelligent judge to kw d truth and keeping emotions aside

KKKWHITE:
the question now is who is right and who is wrong

we don't kw o

there are always 2 side of a story
And everyone go talk e part make u fit support am

but timi wife wan talk say she na virgin wen d pastor meet am,or she never sleep with another person since then,

all I kw is that pastor must have promised her something he didn't fullfill,

Eaglefine:
Majority of Men will never stand or support women on the issue of RAPE.

do u kw y,
becus to even sleep with una first of all na beg, even wen una love us o
even after marriage we still day beg and struggle to still chop the konto,
now tell me how we fit differentiate bw rape and real sex

this one na almost
almost doesn't kill a bird

DANLOVELYHOOD:
my question is if truly she felt guilty...while did she go back to the pastors if trully her conscience despise it

exactly, ,
na becus say dat pastor day financially stable, dats y, if na one conductor rape am, she for don move on

Agugbadin:
Because she was a teenager when it happened to her and for that 20yrs she has been nursing the pain.

am not in support of a rapist, but my question is after d incident, where day still in touch,and if they did, then something must have been promised dat was never fulfilled, (marriage)

and y e be say na rich man way get money day day quick attack concerning rape, becus I never see poor man way day day attack, after d matter don die down after how many years

cococandy:
Idiot

how is he an idiot,which girl go willingly open left for man,unless una drag or tear pant,even d one way claim to lve u, una go still drag,so d next tin na rapist u be

thank God for d power of money, no too much talk

calddon:
Hypocritical Hypocrites..
how will apology stop the trauma?
how ill apology stop the shame?
how will apology stop the nightmares?
How will apology clean the scares?

SHAME!!!

I don't kw my brother, d funny thing is most of these guys(pastor) are still in touch with their victims or rapee,

so a girl right nw who is not sexually active will say na rape too o,

timi wife go university she kw talk
go nysc she kw talk
start to they work she kw talk o
friend and slept with other guys, she kw talk,
na wen she don marry na,dat time she get power to talk,

KendrickAyomide:
the man is grieving and you are cracking useless jokes

don't mind the @dora,so d op must use heavy grammar b4 u will understand his language, ,acting as if they speak the English in their family because say she manage go school /ear kw go hear word

bro truth b told here
just a few guys now adays will say no to pregnancy b4 marriage, people fit confuse u here o but within them day know it's d truth, if ur sis isn't comfortable with it, she can move on

ojun50:
na only woman thy damaged womb, man no dey get damage sperm

go and sit down jor
Nob lie,

Fountainofyouth:
Why say decent men are in churches when you also say men are polygamous in nature? Why contradict yourself? Don't you reason?

ask ur father at home

ibkayee:
Broke babble.

Suffer with him and when gets money he’ll cheat anyway with his new found status, this story is as old as time.

Nothing wrong with suffering with him if you want but don’t feel bad for wanting one when he’s made either. Give some men the world and they’ll still cheat, sometimes all it is is luck

men are polygamous in nature, ask ur people at home,

if u want a decent man u kw where to find them(church)/pastor

Godoverevery:
You are really funny bro.....if am to count .....I think I have dated more than 15 ladies both serious and unserious relationship excluding the one nite ladies(dat I can't even recollect all of them) so I think I av got experience a lil went it comes to ladies.

one thing I have realised in me is that ladies I love always Bleep up but the one dat loves me i Bleep dem up.
I av a lady a while back dat was ready to be dropping her salary every month for us to build a home together.... like she did everything possible but I just don't feel anything for her..... you guys think I was a Mumu or a fool but you all are totally wrong....I did it all with my brain intact and am glad I did it during the courtship and not after marriage....

guy man no day argue again,
go sharp ur eye for woman matter,according to patoranking,

there is no expert in womanization, we still day learn guy man,listen wen pple talk,dont talk just pay attention

asalimpo:
your friends r 100% correct. Diplomacy nd decorum is for respectful nd considerate people and not selfcentered ingrates. This girl is a liar and senselessly selfish. All u r to her is a cashsource. She doesnt think or take time out to ponder on ur goodness to her or the ramifications of her actions. So reason wont work on her-only force.

men are know to be practice polygamy from time ago, and the funny think right nw is dat it is one innocent gullible brother that will put her inside the hux,
thank God, god exposed her by revealing her tru character,


my advice to all male in the hux date as much lady as u can date,becus experience will help u on a long run,
it is ovious the OP has not been on much date b4,
if d said lady had sense, she would have turned down the money the guy was presenting to her wen she hasn't had the first one,

and the op was not sharp enough, the girl never give u ur first money, u still send another one, na wa for d op ooo

but truth b told many ladies really miss their helpers sha,in the name of materials tins that eventually fade away

Fountainofyouth:
You are evil, Biglittlelois deserves someone greater, better and highly sensible than you.

no b rape na,how is fu*cking her evil,
he did not tear her pant na,
I don't understand, if I fu*ck u is it evil?did u not enjoy the heat on the bed too, ,

ebonyggurl:
why is it that guys hate helping out their female friends in need without bedding them first? Just curious


Imagine you a guy asking another guy for help...and he says you should blow him first

because many 99.9% females don't appreciate, na una they make us harden our heart,nobody is born with a stone heart,

guy that lady pass u, ur father is fully aware of that, ...just move on but if u choose to ride on with her, no problem, ,,but ask urself how many times u don see ur late mother hit ur papa?

ohhhhh I see, u wan see as marriage with quarrel and blood fight be abi,,,,bro it doesn't end well o

nnamdi16:
It's either you're not a Nigerian or it've been long you visited Nigeria. If you earn 200k in uae with benefits like accommodation and transport in some cases sef with feeding allowance how can you compare it with naija where you earn 100k and you'll be responsible for house rent, transportation, feeding, nepa bills alone is from 8k upward monthly and you're not even guaranteed the light, still from same 100k you're expected to fill gas. Oga I fear you but I no run...

no matter how people say it, my brother when it comes to quality of life, nigeria is zero,no matter d pay as far day don't own salary over there, there is still better than 9ja o,,,,i am sure it's been long some people on this thread have been to 9ja,,,,i will b realistic with u, ,no b every body way dress fine for facebook or put fin dp for whatspp day live well o for 9ja,,,,ur health isn't even secure first of all

double0seven:
You mind her

The point is this:is a we're not saying a man cannot dish out for himself. Only a foolish man will say its a taboo for him to serve himself. But this lady has made it a point of duty that the man must always dish his own food himself. Then, that is so wrong, and a man that goes along with that is stupid

Even in UK and US, in most homes, the woman serves her husband food. So why must make it a habit that you cannot dish ur husbands food, that he must do it himself

Leve them make chimamanda Ngozi adechie day feed their head with wrong idea of womanhood, ,,i would have been happy if she added she also wash the husband car, while d husband is washing d dishes, ,,children getting married to innocent gullible church brother's

[quote author=double0seven post=79327815]You mind her

The point is this:is a we're not saying a man cannot dish out for himself. Only a foolish man will say its a taboo for him to serve himself. But this lady has made it a point of duty that the man must always dish his own food himself. Then, that is so wrong, and a man that goes along with that is stupid

Even in UK and US, in most homes, the woman serves her husband food. So why must make it a habit that you cannot dish ur husbands food, that he must do it himself

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XavierD:
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I say again...

A woman that shares bills with you will share respect with you. Whether you like it or not .

Don't go in to find out. Let other people's experience teach you...

A woman that thinks she has can handle being the bread winner.... Sisterly think again. Your predecessor have done it and didn't find it funny.

There's nothing like old time religion... Man main provider, woman helper

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U first lines really got me thinking to all angles, I need to save that as a reminder for every month

BiggyB242:
Exactly why my cuz broke up with his previous gf because she knew him when he had nothing (though there were other reasons), this his new gf respect him so much she met him when he already built his house.

The long and short story, when the man is richer the wife respect him. Money brings respect, forget those love story. Have you seen a wealthy man serving his food by himself let alone his wife calling him by his name, she can't do it.

at all,but some foolish boys will not still learn any lesson from this story, ,,

2019news:
You can not control Nigeria women but you are bringing another Nigeria woman that you will force to respect you even if you fail to respect yourself. Na wa for WAEC OH. Did you check your kitchen or friend's kitchen whether there was food on that faithful day? Or your friends wife does not want to see your face in her home because of gossip. What does your friend do for a living and why was his wife looking down on him. There must be something you are not telling us.

my friend many9ja ladies are easily intoxicated wen day are financially stable, forget all dis ur was there food in d table stuff,,,na just few still day humble,,,men dat fall into dis type of problems with d mentality of I want us to be rich, are d ones dat were in money while d lady too was also in money b4 marriage but conditions changed for d man after marriage then u go see d woman try character, let them deal with their cheet, ,,marriage no b force if u don tire move, /forge ahead who cares to kw why u left should come ask u in ur hux,