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fastseo:
First who is the man acquiring those wealth for? His brothers? Mom or friends? Is it not you and the kids?


Am saying this if you aren't prepared for marriage remain single.

U know women when they get wealth that's when you know their true color. Man will endure everything but women will hardly.

That is why they are having problem even thinking of entering political position becus we already kw that

Annwrites:
Many women don't even marry for love, they just wanna bear a title. For this reason, they will remain married whether they are happy or not.

The same pressure which pushed them into getting married in the first place is what keeps them there.

That's their own problem. It's not my business.

Exactly becus my friend is getting married so make I quickly marry too o
Becus her level don high o na mrs so so so they day call her o

flyca:
Why talk about my father this way? Why? Do you know him? Will you be happy if someone talks like this about your family? You lack home training. Why hurt me with careless words? Wait for Karma.

And also I do not need your pity. I am a successful woman. Thank you.

Lady u indirectly insulted ur own father from ur first comment no offense,

[quote author=Annwrites post=74935358][/quote]Building a house as a female isn't a crime? Single or married but doing it codedly while ur husband goes on debt just to feed d family and cater for d need of the hus is wat we call wickedness in d highest order,

There was a story of a woman in benin who built a hux and she and d husband moved in unknowingly to the man dat the wife is the owner of the house they were staying and the woman was also collecting rentage from the man all unknowingly to the man, but trust God nothing is hidden under the sun for ever, and 80% of women with this mentality they have will do the same just a few will open up,

Be friend at day time
And be lovers at nite,
Marry someone u understand not becus all my friends are married I too want to quickly get married, ,,,cus na there all dis problem for day start

Annwrites:
You may disagree with my opinion but it still doesn't change the fact.

Marriage - The two marry themselves.

And yes, we both have equal right.

Not everyone wanna be submissive to stay married.

I understand not everyone wants to stay submissive in marriage but a husband can't not do all the catering for in d hux and d wife working or not working she go day open eye for am , like say na e younger brother she day talk to,
Any way na d leg way man give e woman na so she go use follow u
Peace

Annwrites:
You may disagree with my opinion but it still doesn't change the fact.

Marriage - The two marry themselves.

And yes, we both have equal right.

Not everyone wanna be submissive to stay married.

I understand not everyone wants to stay submissive in marriage but a husband can't not do all the catering for in d hux and d wife working or not working she go day open eye for am , like say na e younger brother she day talk to,
Any way na d leg way man give e woman na so she go use follow u
Peace

Laws of marriage have been long placed on ground for females to follow but they now tend to bend it,

The men of age who said it was betteer for the woman to change her surname to the man's name knew why day did that, because of issues like this and so u don't say did d man not buy properties in his own name?

Ladies and pride are increasing daily, and I have come to observe no matter how beautiful or ugly a lady is some can't be a good house wife even if oyedepo pray for them,

tunjilana:
This is the real ish...If the man is doing it all alone...dying under bills and maybe even debt...cant even save to buy block...then all of a sudden u pop out with a surprise house all in your name...then u are being selfish...But if u have supported the home reasonably...And most needs at home are being duly met and u use ur surplus to build a house in ur name...my dear U have my absolute blessing...miat women caught in issuea regarding this...dont usually give the full story...they just want the world to see the man as retrigressive and "enemy of progress"...

Exactly dis is what I have been waiting for, the story isn't usually complete when ladies report dat their husband is angry because she built a house without him knowing, the man goes into debt just to feed d family pay the kids school fees and u have the money to buy a land, mold blocks,payer workers at the site, and roof the hux,
I will not talk o,but u go just suffery pack go your papa hux since u first day plan to move, it is not pride, some things are just hard to forgive and example is this

Philpham:
You are nothing but a greedy thief, I pity your wife. She don enter one chance.

Why pity his wife when day are happily married

Omudia11:
For every selfish woman you know, there are at least 50 selfish men. Women have learned to be wise. They learnt it the hard way. They learnt from the experiences of friends, relatives and close associates.
I know some women who after being married for over 30 years, their husbands sent them packing with nothing, I mean nothing; and then brought another woman into the house.

So many men today buy properties without informing their wives. So why should the woman inform the man when it's time to buy hers. As the saying goes, what's good for the goose.......

Is marriage a business?

When u said she had nothing to show for it after 30 years of marriage, does she not have kids (grown-up kids) seeing them should put a joy on ur face, madam now people like u day follow ur relative advice on how to control ur marriage,

toyetade:
From experience that marriage is heading for a rock. Eventually the woman head will become swollen and any small challenge in the family, the wife will be looking for a way out. It is a bad omen. One of my friend is dealing with this now. If you notice your wife doing this especially secretly you need to be weary

Am from a dysfunctional home, I wouldn't hide it, and this was one of the tins dat scattered or separated my father and mother,
U kw bro ,some people are lucky to come from a stable family so day are very easy to drop comment like "I will put my name, my husband can't do anything " we dat know d effect of such an action will try every possible means to avoid it .
When u think marriage is easy then ask a dysfunctional kid how marriage is he or she will tell u to be careful of things you might take for granted
And example is this

ibizgirl:
This issue has broken a lot of homes. The basic thing in any marriage is know your spouse. That Mrs A tried it and it worked does not mean Mrs B will try it and it will work.

Some courtship na just 3months ,courtship followed by marriage. becus money just arrive, some guys go pick random girl for church or for street or campus and quickly do marriage, I intend to live with my girlfriend even give her belle dats if she is presentable and do marriage after wards, in a way dat after d marriage life will still continue and every activities still goes on in d hux,

Cus I don observe say nigeria girls too hold marriage with high esteem and I go porge them and delay dat marriage make dat high esteem die

ct2:
the first thing I told my wife when we got married was that I don't like surprise

if you buy a house to surprise me ,be ready to live inside alone

but if you inform me no problem

am in different, as long as she uses my name as her surname

the Bible said and the 2 shall become 1

Exactly, ,,some women don use their hand scatter their marriage becus they day fine equality,

Annwrites:
If a husband can buy a property in his name so can a wife.

She doesn't even need his consent or support except she feels like it.

A woman will misbehave because she has the tendency to not because of some properties she acquired.

If a husband would not let his wife know of any step he wishes to take he doesn't even deserve to know about his wife business.

See as u day talk like say na u marry d man or na d man marry u ,

These are some of the reasons marriage don't last, becus ladies like u now believe man and woman was created the same day and equal right is attached to both of them

dancok:
15k,have a brother there.

150k or 15k

Joeregen:
You are mad and have no one to tell you. If the people around haven’t pointed this out already I would suggest you change your circle of friends because they don’t love you. How can a normal human being type such rubbish. So we should vote Atiku? Your madness is higher than Mount Everest. It is well with your soul.

Oga ur vex will not change anything in 9ja economy, so calm down and think of something productive for ur kids sake,not 9ja politics

With dis pant tread
Guys go just day happy
Atleast before u say jack Robinson we don chuck hand inside d dudu, ,,no more pant, ,,easy action

MhizzAJ:
There is no need
What is the function of pant? A piece of material worn around the waist to inconvenience someone??

Who is d someone
Cus na men e day mostly inconvenience time for action

Who knows how much they pay BSc holder in navy for new recruit?

Kidnapped from ondo and released in delta state

Na wa oo

Security in dis country is really poor o

freemanbubble:
Says who
Who says learning yahoo is a wrong move
Anybody can learn whatever pleases them

U wouldn't kw wat I mean untill u get to dat point in life, farewell

U can drive d best benz
Marry d most beautiful girl
Build d biggest Castel
If u aren't happy within all dis are just a waste
And happiness from materials tins na temporary

Oma307:
I doubt if any ladies can bend to what I want because they have issues with ego

And off lately I just begin to admire the less educated ones with skills (occupied doing a vocational skill) becus they have dis less pride / ego stuff, ,just d few I have met am pls with them,

laurel03:
Everybody can't be rich? And a lot of micro finance loan that are not up to 20k. Those mama selling in market trade between 10k and yet they can still achieve something from it becos of high profit on those petty trades. 1k can change some people life whereas 1billion is nothing to some.

My brother who knows the value of 5k in business will also speak exactly wat u just spoke, ,,
The problem with our people is fast money and the fast lane,,,,,thats y u see lottery winners go poor again becus they lack d ideas of controlling money,
2k in business is something
3k in business is something
7k in business is something

Am a graduate and I Am into agro if I see who give me 10k ,every morning I go day leave good morning text message and appreciation message for e phone

Seun360:
This post has shown how dumb u are and also unaware of reality.

You will be amazed what NGN10,000 can do to market women.

My person
Leave an average nigeria person who tinks he or she needs 100k to start a business

Start small and see it grow big and invest again ...

I just pray for more wisdom in our youth
Becus quick money ideology has destroyed their brain

If I give that person 100k to start a business and I come back after 1 year to ask how far, ,,am not sure I will even see u again becus u can't withstand d breeze of the market

freemanbubble:
Says who
Who says learning yahoo is a wrong move
Anybody can learn whatever pleases them

It's alright

celebgistz2:
Learning Yahoo

Wrong move bro
Learn to b usefull to urself and to d society,
Happiness comes from within and not from materials achievement

LisaAnne:
wanted to learn something but I no get moni

Go online /youtube and learn how to bake snacks, cake, meatpie, fish pie, chicken pie, eggroll they are many ,,not all skills require money to learn, ,,u only need capital when it comes to marketing just learn and client will come

D best type of woman u can get married to are d virgins, ,,d chances of the flirting outside marriage is low

Don't quote me with insult

bayusman:
That husband must be mad as well for leaving a newly married wife far away from without having a second thought on her emotional needs. Body no be fire, between who know's how many woman the guy dey bleep far away in the village.

Abdulahi is not guilty.

Dude so u want to tell me that for a man to travel and hustle is now a sin?

To leave a woman who claim she loves u and will die for u just to hustle and make sure she's financially ok and also meet her where u left her is a sin


My guy abeg go sleep

dairykidd:
She said he closed the gap.. With a big fat black rod of course

Some women na evil

Women have always ben evil, na 2 tins day make them saint
Dick
And money

Oma307:
seriously, marriage is not appealing to me

God seriously help d lady I will get married to o,,becus relationship just b like heavy load in dis era

Satan66:
You're drunk.
You think they will come Cuz of no yahoo?
What of crime, Naria deflation, Corruption, Lack of power supply, Poor roads.
Think with your head.

Oga yahoo yahoo has done more harm to d name of d country externally than internally think with ur brain and watch foreign news