₦airaland Forum

Lucyliz:
Please I am really scared and confused right now. I need serious advice.

It happened when I and my boyfriend broke up due to some misunderstandings, we were not engaged then.

We broke up and didn't contact each other for weeks. Then I traveled to Ogun state at my grandma's place for somethings. I met this guy and we got along well. We go on outings, had fun and eventually had sex. After that it dawned on me and I regret it. I ignored him for some days and later came to my grandma's place to look for me.

We talked and he told me he want us to start a relationship. I declined and told him I have no feelings for him.

After a week I left Ogun state and came back to Lagos.

Afterwards I got back together with my ex and now we are engaged. We haven't picked a wedding date yet but we planned it to be next year.

Fast forward to last Month, my fiance told me he needed to rent an apartment for one of his friends coming to lag to stay permanently.
He got the apartment and the guy came to lag..
I didn't get to meet him until after a week...
I was in a mall with my fiance and he called him telling him he need to go out since he was bored. He came to the mall and behold it was this same guy I met in Ogun State. I knew I was doomed .... I got really scared and nervous at the same time cuz my bf never mentioned or showed me his pics before...

He was only looking at me without saying anything except to my fiance... I was even scared of leaving their midst cuz I was scared he would tell my fiance....

Later that week he called me with a different line and told me it was him. I ended the call immediately on hearing his name....

I can't tell my fiance what happened btw us or he would never forgive me...

The guy has been calling but am not picking his calls am scared of what he might say...

I told my friend abt it and she asked me to have an agreement with the guy never to tell my fiance but am really scared about everything and confused....

But then I remember have seen his face on my fiance phone before but didn't pay attention cuz he was on lowcut there...

Have been acting funny around my fiance especially when the guy is there and he is starting to suspect something is going on...pls help me...

I can't lose my fiance and I don't want the wedding called off...

Pls kindly advice but I can't tell my fiance cuz he often tells me he can't have a taste of what his friends have tasted...

I can't stop thinking and crying...

Pls help me I beg u all

I think i know this Movie..
The name of the move is, Broken Heart.
The guys later got to know and he eventually lose trust in the girl.
The movie dey interesting sha and na Nollyhood movie, i mean New Nolly

Beat the guy first nah...

No only God go judge this man for testing him ooo
Matthew 4:7

Well, what is bad is bad but the truth must be told.
It is the foundation that was laid then that is hurting the building now.
Abi nobi so una dey do ham when una dey power?

It encouraging sha.
I just hope this is not for the news alone.

metformin:
my brother, move on with ya life, think of how you can better your life.

Straight and sharp.
True yan.
Focus on your life because eyes whey go follow pecin reach night nogo dey develop fault in the morning.

When hate is too strong like this type, it doesn't allow progress to come close to such fellow that possesses such hate.�

Why is she covering her face if she is real the chioma we know?.

Where is papa's ring?.

daddytime:
Congratulations your excellency...

Anyone wey una think na him I mean.

I get you bro.
Its true nah..
He also controls the ASO rock and dress like the president too..
That mode of dressing speaks volume

What of Sosoliso Airline.
How much is their ticket now sef?
From Nigeria to USA

Dangote don't give fake news...
O ye rice lovers, wait for it..
It's Coming!!!

kestolove95:
Gold digger

People sha..
Nothing dey good for dia eyes.
Is it your Gold?

When greed mixed with poverty, another man moni go start to look like your own.

Lol .
After upper level,whats next?

NOC1:
If oritshafemi did nothing for him in time of need, Bleep him and his condolence message.
Thank God I got no friends because they will desert you once the going is tough, the only come close to you because of what the want to get.
Was out of job for few months, I knew how lonely I was despite not begging any human.
Because I cut my budget to my savings, no more balling and spirits, the so called niggas stayed afar.
No friend is gonna be there for you in time of need, if they know nothing gonna come out from it.
I learnt a lesson, God bless my babe for her words of encouragement, who never called for a penny in this period, I gave her out of my love, she never pressured for one bit.
I equally thank God who did it ones more and family who was like “I am paying for your flight ticket whenever I am traveling.... don’t touch your savings... God bless my family.
Friends don’t exist it is only about what is on the table.

Bro, i empathise with you but i disagree with you on your claim that friends will always stay away if they have nothing to gain from helping you out.
If you are a real dude, then you should know that you are not just fortunate to have met real people that loves genuinely.
What am i even saying, your babe stood by you are you still claim that friends will always leave in the time of challenge.
Is your babe not your friend?.
Haven't you heard of babes leaving bobo when. time hard?.
What i have trying to say here is that, there are still real, caring and loving friends out there.
So don't be too quick to generalise.

The marriage could fail if she's not a virgin after all the waiting...
Trust would be bruised...

Such loves isn't for baby lover.
It has been through a lot to get there.

Na so e go be nah.
When they have told them that only academic education can make their lives better.
So, dia life don automatically spoil since dey don fail exam nah..
So, that is why suicide was the plan B for them..
Lazy minds gbogbo.
I no know how many school dangote go sef.

Bros. .
You no dey hunger too, why you nova bust your neighbors room to steal food??.
Na lazy fine bio be dis one jor..
He can not sell pure water but still soft drinks.
If you hear some people hunger stories ehn, you go fooor and yet den nova turn thieves.

When Nigerians copy a thing,they go crazy will exhibiting it

That is what the endorsement worth.

Is it your body?.
After all, social media is 18+

That is how they flog at C.C.C. they flog the demon in the person and not the ground.
Oooooya flog your demon before e turn devil ooo.

Idiot.
You go steal fat pecin pant so that the money go plenty abi

I really don't see any special thing about the clothes.
I go fit see ham buy for bend down select later.

Ofcus.
Everyone that can travel via the air is a celebrity oo.
E easy?.
For country whey hunger full ground so, and you come fit travel by air; baby you be celebrity jor

Hello Sir.
You didn't mention ELECTRICITY ooo!

With this kinda face and body, she can never have the first class in Nigeria.
She would only be BONIFACED...

Elewooooooooon!!!
their father, Pursue dem.
Koba! Koba!! Koba!!!
Up Nigerian Army, at least make i praise den small

Lol:-)The reply is wicked...
It is highly unfortunate that when you become a public figure for example an Artist, Pastor,governor or president etc; people start to have unrealistic expectations on how you should live your life and sadly so, almost everyone here are guilty of that.
So, it either we allow people to control us or we take the charge of our lives.

This is what the Yoruba's call, Ise Aiye.
Aaaaaah, O ma se oooo!