₦airaland Forum

Nazgul:
Most times, the best relationships begin from odd meetings.

It was an arranged affair without your consent, you're angry...I'll implore you to look beyond your displeasure and ask yourself if the guy in question possess the qualities you want in a partner.

You've already confessed that you're already developing a soft spot for him, meaning he obviously meets some of the criteria of your dream partner so why break it off?

From your write up as far as I can tell, the only reason why you're so bent on ending things is because arrangements between you both were made behind your back. That's a very silly excuse to terminate a promising relationship unless if you have other tangible reasons (which you wouldn't wish to share) as to why you choose to end things prematurely.

Don't advise her leave her, she's very lucky is not someone like me that full the world others her name would have been evening newspaper. Leave her let her serve fuckboys for some more years. How I wish the morooon of a guy can see this post and man up and terminate the yeye courtship

kramer:
Finally! The man is so unprofessional!

When someone says that she feels like killing herself and you reply that you “don’t believe her” then you’re causing a major mental health problem

Yes is true because Meghan said it, and because is about thrashing whites. So tell me can your oba marry a different tribe, I mean another tribe just beside you here not some distant race?

Beremx:
Seems the British Monarchy will end soon. I see massive protest looming.

Just my thoughts

So you want the british royal family to mix up the pure blood of their race in the name of political correction? So can your oba marry a white woman and have a half caste as heir abi? Nonsense Meghan Markle or what is her name sef

ABANGWABOI:
you are a useless scumbag, cry is not peculiar to only a particular region..
asshole..

Mention another tribe that has done anything close to this before in a strange land?

moscobabs:
Seriously? What's wrong with this people..are they the only tribe suffering in Nigeria ?

They keep tarnishing our imagine in any county they find themselves. I'm 100% sure that no country will grant them visa if they eventually get their own country because their country name will be synonymous to Crime

Watch how they will insult Abike Dabiri when she mentions news like this. I have never seen a sophisticated mumu tribe like ibos

HellVictorinho:
It is not all the tools that are imported.
Besides,there are Africans outside Africa that produce tools.
Concerning goals,it is impossible for everyone in any country to have the same goal.
National development requires much more effort from the government because the government has the resources and power.
The number of smart Africans is large.
It is the smartness of some African politicians that helped them to accumulate so much wealth.
It is also the smartness of people like Aliko Dangote that lead to the creation of jobs/job opportunities.
I have stated that there are African inventors so you shouldn't state Africans can't invent anything.
Ultimately, every human being with a competent brain wants to make money or keep making money.

You see that's what I'm saying, there's a level of intelligence that let's you know that you can't make money beyond a level for only yourself because in the end you will still pay for the opportunities you denied others and worse when is through crooked means like we do here. Only a shortsighted African thinks you can build a gold house on a street with mud road. Only an African governor will buy a rolls Royce to drive in a state like kogi where he owes workers over 1 year of salary. You see even when white people like money they have the intelligence to know the limit at which they must tend to others as well, but you see down here its childish greed unrefined, raw, basic and stewpid. Bring corrupt white people here to be leaders and you will see them still do far better than the primitive oafs we have here as leaders. Because white people have higher intelligence averagely.
On black people inventing things I have no doubt there are some, but as earlier said very very few, I don't think this requires argument. Lie we got covid now but we waiting for white people vaccine.

HellVictorinho:
There are Africans that are active or involved in science/research, production of technology, generation and distribution of electricity, production of drugs,psychiatry, psychology, sports, music, acting, fashion design, production of weapons, web design,programming,web creation, ETC.

I'm one of the listed you mentioned so you haven't said anything I don't know. All the people you mentioned either work in the developed world or live here but use tools from the developed worlds. What we lack is the intelligence to combine our efforts to produce a targeted goal. And our number of smart people are too few. We can't invent anything here because no one can invent in isolation, you need the input of others to boost your efforts. This is where white people display superiority, everybody just knows what to do to fit in to the larger objective. Here each party can't see beyond his immediate task. So you see it takes intelligence

HellVictorinho:
No race is a failure.
But your brain has been heavily damaged by inferiority complex.

Tell us our achievements as a race with your undamaged brain, list some

Shokoloko:
Do you know that african American women have the highest mortality rate in America even when they have the money to pay for medicine and care. They are attended to LAST.

Do you know that there is a monthly quota in the US police of how many african American boys are arrested. There is no quota for white boys.

Do you know where the word "m*therf*cker" comes from. Your white people forced boys to sleep with their mothers to raise children to work in the slave farm.

My dear if you come from a family that saw these horrors for 400 years, it will take God to restore your thinking faculty

So even Africa that is still useless and has been useless is because of slavery abi? You should be ashamed of this over beaten narrative by now. So Europeans did not suffer at the hands of fellow europeans like the horror the Huns and barbarians etc visited on others for ages? Or is it the horror of Roman slavery? Or more recently what Hitler did to whole generations of Jews roasting them in gas chambers? Yet the Jews are successful. So why are we blacks not? Not even one black country except of late with the likes of Kagame's Rwanda. Why is our race wholesale failures?

Even though there are other factors for this, but the highest is the effect of jazz (charm). The best brains don't feel the need for jazz so they believe in effort and reward just like it happens in developed climes. But you see the incompetent out of fear for their own inadequacy resort to jazz, and because intelligent people have all options including migrating out of the country to the developed world where they will still excel, they shy away from struggling for local control here. Is why you see the majority of hopeless governors like yaya bello as heavy jazz men. Most of NASS, many politicians etc, all jazz men. And that is why you see poor decisions by leaders because most of them listen to some hopeless oracle or magician before taking decisions instead of using the objective reasoning that built the developed worlds. Look around your neighborhood and retrace 20-30 years ago, the brilliant students in class then compared to their classmates who were thugs then tell me who is better today. All the thugs I knew in my area while growing up are all honourable members of the state assembly today and drive home in convoy. Meanwhile the brilliant serious ones may have one quiet job somewhere and have no means of contributing to national development.
The next evil is quota system which the north is responsible for, I won't even dignify that one by explaining how hopeless it is. But it's the reason we have a dead public service that always come up with the dumbest policies

U don't even need to check the name to know it will be Igbo, but trust his brothers to cry xenophobia when SA attacks them for wickedness like this. In their useless culture anything done to get money is fine, and once anybody has made money if you criticize him for anything at all then it must be because of envy, it can never be because of what he did wrong, is only envy. Hopeless culture

Since you are obviously a fool I think you should send the money. So every birthday must be celebrated now? Mumu people everywhere

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Isoright....

sowore has always been a pussy ass niggarr...and he is a gonna remain a pussy ass niggarr
Fighting for his own damnn interests
Same moda fuckkker that destroyed Jonathan now wants freedom
He ain't gonna see no freedom...pussy ass moda fuckkker

And Jonathan did well abi? And is he fighting for a different thing now? Why are black people so dumb? So you think he was fighting for an individual just like dumb people here do? He has seen Buhari to be another failure just like your hero and the fight continues, what is confusing there?

Lies! How is the proof that's the highest award from a central bank? Liars

FreeSpirited:
Many of them think I'm only here to encourage infidelity..but if that's the way they see it then fine...Maybe I'm also the one that pushed the OP to write her present situation in marry which mirrors the problem of thousands other young marriages....Abi I'm the person who pushed those disillusioned partners to try out cheating just to drag themselves from depression...Most Nigerians hate reality...
From the plenty likes generated by the comment...u can bet it was by married couple who have gone through the experience

Yes only those married for a while will understand

Yeye bello the most incompetent governor ever in the history of democracy. His biggest fault is his firm belief in lies

descarado:
No security in Cedi plaza
CCTv nkò?

You know the OP is a typical black man reporter, no idea of the time of day, how many assailants were seen, was it inside the plaza or outside because ceddi plaza is a top scale plaza so how? You see black people are very dumb people, just the same way most people report road accidents, no details so even the reader learns nothing

igbeke:
I have stopped the consumption of beef in my household for close to a year now.
If you know what the fulanis do with these cows before selling.....,
It is well. Pls boycott beef in Nigeria if you love yourself and your household.

They release sperm into them during bestiality

FreeSpirited:
Guys, When you want to date married women, women who are like 5 to10yrs above in marriage are the most vulnerable to fall into your trap. Many times they crave attention..or are just bored of their husband.
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It's not gainsay when they say the first 5 to 7 years is the most turbulent in marriage that can break or make a marriage.
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The story this young woman detailed above is a typical cycle of almost all marriages. The point our OP finds herself, for an average lady, after trying to endure or make things work will just succumb to the pressure of guys out there...and before u say jack..smart bold guys are already pounding her pvssy with all alacrity.. It's natural these days.. especially if you are in the business of chyking/chopping married women. You will know this.
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It's only a matter of time if nothing is done before this woman starts riding the BBC of a guy who gives her attention and tickle her fancy...Naso e dey start...Nothing new.
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That's why to me, fidelity in marriage is overrated..cos most times couples have broken their vow long before their significant other realises.
But in her situation, some women will deliberately go out and give in to the advances of their admirer just to kill boredom, depression and feel happy. To hell with marital vows..women do this most times to be Happy. However, the smart ones still find a way to balance home demand by not making it affect the integrity of the marriage...what they do is just flow with the marriage and not stress too much for the attention of their busy husband since he's not ready to be disturbed.
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In thesame vein, the busy husband most times is also somewhere cheating with a university or polytechnic slayqueen cos he's also bored of her wife....That's the paradox of marriage.
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You see... cheating on both sides maintains the marriage and happiness of both party codedly. Argue with me all you care...that's the reality..
Meanwhile, the stupid couples when they start the cheating game, they transfer the bottled anger and aggression on their partner which usually cause breakup......While the coded smart ones maintain their marriage and we keep praising and complimenting their marriage as the best thing that ever happened since Adam and Eve.
May God give us wisdom in all we do.

Any young unmarried person that reads these experienced narration of yours ought to pay you for the priceless advice. I often laugh when I see young people that think the marriage they see on Facebook is the real marriage, I laugh. The fundamental problem with marriage is that it's against nature, nature abhors doing the same thing forever, nature loves changes but marriage says stick to 1 person forever. That's why I advise young people to focus on their own success as an individual first, don't see marriage as the focus of your life. Go out and be achieving even before marriage, so you won't put all your expectations on marriage that's nonsense.

Dino that was the one that brought yeye bello, what a clown of a guy

Nbotee:
Oh definitely.. Anybody who still blames PDP for all the classical failings of dis govt is not jus a mor.on but a hopeless one at dat

Yes improving power at one third of Jonathan's income is moronic, completing the second Niger bridge that Jonathan could not build with crude price at $120 must be moronic. Hopeless fooool

Nbotee:
According to the Dead Meat Resident Mai Suya, PDP stole all the monies dat were supposed to have been used to fix the power sector and fight insurgency that's why insecurity is at an all time high in every region and all Power now belongs to God...

We insult Buhari only where he gets it wrong, anybody who attended school that is still supporting PDP is definitely a morooon

Lewisalexander:
Tricycle ambulance in 2021. Backwardness is in naija DNA

My brother if you got 200 million people that only give birth and can produce nothing tangible except extractive activities like farming, then you will use tricycle ambulance oh

Elzakzaky:
Stop advertising your ignorance on the internet. Gani Adams has achieved more for yoruba interest than Sunday Igboho can ever achieve. Sunday Igboho's mission is unachievable and his method is foolish. You cannot drive a tribe away and expect the government to fold its alms and watch you. If the northerners retaliates, will sunday igboho protect yorubas in the north or feed them when they return here? His method of abusing south west governors and monarchs will also end in tears for him.
Mark my words. If he is not careful, he will be locked up and heaven will not fall. he should go and ask dasuki, elzakzaky and sowore.




No matter how noble ones intentions are, his methods can ruin it.
What are the goals? I believe one is to stop farmers vs herders clash. Can we mount pressure on our legislators to make laws that will prohibit the nomadic method of cattle rearing?
It makes no sense to label all fulanis terrorist. All hands must be on deck to identify and punish the criminals among them (and criminals among us too).
Sunday Igboho is simply shooting himself in the foot by insulting Tinubu, Ooni, GSM, etc. He will surely need them as the struggle continues. How do you think Nnamdi Kanu escaped? Was it not the traditional institutions and politicians that pleaded for him? Who will plead for Sunday Igboho?



I am not Gani Adams spokesman but as an Accountant, I know that no goodwill is better than negative goodwill
. At least unlike Sunday Igboho, Gani Adams is not endangering the lives of yorubas living outside southwest.
I also have a question for you. Why do you think Sunday Igboho visited Gani Adams?

See I only have few seconds to correct you, yes it's not all Fulani's that are criminals but the difference here is that even after arresting criminal fulanis the law-abiding Fulani in police still get their brothers released. Since Fulani has been killing for ages why has the issue not gained national attention? Is because all fulanis deny it even happens. There's no tribe that defends their own criminals like fulanis and everybody knows that. Fulanis kill hundreds of people and go scot free but the moment you beat or retaliate the FG comes in with all their might to the aid of fulanis. So tell us how any outsider will view fulanis? And that Yoruba's stay in the north does that mean the truth should be buried? Do Yoruba's in the north have the audacity to kill and rape Fulani women in the north? Even stubborn IBO's do they try that in the north? Your reasoning is crap

marsman:
That "for you" is average for me. Nothing else to say since i have not heard the rest.

Useless list of songs, I wonder how most people here end up with poor taste

bcomputer101:
Something is smelling in Aso rock...


Don't force her to speak up oooo

She fears the day jubril will be finally exposed

PastorandMentor:
I'm just laughing at you all.
These men belong.
OK i agree he was humble that was why he maduka introduced him to their cult.
See this world is spiritual.
There is a level you can't get to until you Join..
You can build one small 3 rooms in your fathers house, buy small Toyota corolla, but for you to be able to control wealth, i mean real wealth, you have to look for someone who is already there, humble yourself and he will introduce you to the cult.
Some people won't still understand my point.
Don't quote me

Modified: For those of you abusing me No problem.
But I'm certain that there are secrets you may not understand until you live this earth. You may only see it as a spirit man and not in your physical self. So let's forget about it and i wish you a good life. Those who have been knows what I'm talking about and those people will just read this post, smile and pass.

The Paystack boys did not do that but are worth about N200b as we speak. Chinedu Echeruo worth close to $1B didn't do that. Pls stop selling this archaic mentality prevalent among Alaba shopkeepers. Yes is true in your small world but don't ever think everybody operates at that level.

revolt:
Mtchweeee all these useless stories... I lived in a hospital beside the mortuary for , 5 years during my uni days . We used to go in sometimes to receive chill air, the only problem was the stench of chloroform which got in our eyes. Some dead bodies do twitch ie little muscle movementss. This isn't spirit bla bla bla...infact chickens and goats do same when slain. The human brain may be dead but sometimes there's still little life in the muscles and some organs. I NEVER saw walking dead movie scenarios and zombies loooollll. Black men and stupidity shaa. .... Look at all these useless stories lol...do they also knock in the west? Ok oyibo dead bodies don't do all that loooooil...dumb ppl

Many many are real, I'm an evidence-based person like any other and I can confirm to you that they are real. White people don't have all the answers, science doesn't have all the answers. I have seen with my own eyes AK47 sprayed on someone and all the bullets dropped as if his flesh was made of some SciFi material. If you don't believe come down here and try it

Go and check his classmates from the south and middle belt have not even gotten job yet after graduation. Fulani Islamic empire no be small thing

100trillion:
I work in a state govt agency, the pay is good but the work can drive one insane. No time for yourself or your love ones, 80 percent of female in my agency are single due to the work.

Let no one deceive you, 80% of female civil servant are single, the married ones ain't faithful.....I pity those men that married those female in my dept
I do make money in a day (normal civil servants level ), but the pain is when they pay imagine gettting paid the 2nd-3rd week of the next month instead of d prev month end.....right now I've not been paid, although I do make "small money" at work but I want my fvcking pay.

So, if I retire na like this I go dey fight for my money .....olorun maje, tufiakwa.

My plan is to finish my uni and focus on building my biz, bcus govt wrk ain't it.....you'll just spend waste 35yrs of your life doing shit for the govt.

I pray God grants my heart desires and guide me through the right path of life.

I wish you well

meobizy:
I like how low-key the party is. Her maga who did all the spending wants everyone to know she belongs to him. If he doesn't hit the gym she'll continue sleeping with small boys. Let him know that now.

Hahahahahaha, thanks for advising the dedicated mmumu

The north builds mosques with public funds, pays for pilgrimage for thousands etc so abeg free Udom