₦airaland Forum

HelenBee:
Say wetin? I don't password my phone cos of my own secrets only but I also have other people secrets there and my phone is meant to be personal sef. Some people will just be using your data or airtime anyhow without permission. If my partner gat issues with that na wahala o.

My phone has a password because of my bank alerts. You can't be too careful. What if the phone falls into the wrong hands?

OlaMiki:
Somebody is being stupid obstructing a constituted security forces to carry out their constitutional duties. has Nigeria become so lawless that a state governor now stupidly abuse the immunity on him to commit crimes or take law to his hand ?!!!!!

Opposition is not played brainlessly . he should go to court for justice if he feel his right is being abused.

Lagos state was once the only AC/AD state in South West with PDP at the central doing the worse intimidation. BAT (Jagaban) was professional, civil and sensible in handling issues like this.

Which dirty, yeye constitutional duty? Why did they not carry out the same constitutional duty to arrest the Fulani herdsmen that were killing and maiming people in different communities across the nation? Were they asleep?

zendy:
Guy, Nigeria is not legitimate. Just because a British opportunist called Lugard came in 1914 to force everyone together at gun point does not make Nigeria legitimate. If you want Nigeria to be legitimate, support a referendum let the indigenous ethnic groups Lord Lugard came to West Africa to force together, the option of opting in or out. If you say no, then dont expect peace or happiness by supporting the holding of people against their will.

Nigeria doesnt have as much legitimacy as Czechoslovakia, USSR and Yugoslavia who all broke up into smaller countries in the 1990's

Your statements are contradictory. You claim Nigeria was set up by the British through Lord Lugard's efforts, and it is therefore 'illegitimate.' Not so? What do you call a person or an entity that carries out an illegitimate action? In another breath, you claim the British who created Nigeria have used the referendum successfully on various occasions to resolve their internal issues, and so Nigeria should adopt the action of the British. Why should a country that you call illegitimate, adopt the action of another nation who created such an ''illegitimate contraption? Or has the action of the British, suddenly become legitimate, because they have used the method of referendum successfully?

Who watched Roshni and Sid's wedding? Er... second marriage ceremony, actually...or should I say, re-marriage after the divorce? It was so colourful! And you should have seen how delighted Sid's grandmum was, when she learnt Roshni was pregnant. And the wahala the two elderly sisters of the grandmothers caused, when the news of her pregnancy leaked...

You forgot to add that they would spray perfume on the letter and some guys would even put a rose or some other flower inside the envelope, to impress the lady. My uncles told me this!

Where can I get a print-out of how many actual kilowatts is consumed by a user, on a monthly basis? All the Eko Disco offices around Lekki, Agungi, Lagos Island etc., are pretending not to have the information. So what do they use as the basis for calculating their estimated bills, every month? Is it 'juju or voodoo?

onedayatime:
now, , it is a parent's job and duty to raise up his child in a love filled environment. Does that mean a child shouldn't be corrected if he misbehave? Okay, lets say you have a child who steal or lies, because, you want the child to develop according
to his nature or character, you will just pet your child and tell him, you are weldone, boy. that is your nature, continue in it. that is how you are mould, that is how you are created.

No child, I repeat, no untrained child is useful to
the society or his family. Why? Every child loves liberty and liberty is good but too much for kids is bad. Show them love, but don't spoil them. You might ask..how then can I show them love? You show them love by correcting them and impacting the right knowledge and attitudes into them. Every child has the tendercy to misbehave and will misbehave if not corrected when they are young.

Let me end by telling you this. Pac i mean tupac, as great as he his, as brilliant and inteligent as he his, he lacked one thing and that is his father training and it shows in him(look @ d kind of life he lived). Ask those hooligans and they will tell you, when I was young, I have nobody to tell me what am doing is wrong and then I thought that is how things should be, or they say, my parents don't care or one of those things.

too much over-sabi is bad. Philosophy has its advantages and but certainly, its disadvantages are higher. At the end, it makes someone looks foolish and stupid.

Bros, you talk am well, jare. But some people will still believe the fallacy that sounds good in their ears...

Phaeze:
Interesting revelation you've got there. Since your thoughts are yet to be contaminated, and your Sanity's not been tampered with, I'll advise you to get on with doing something else, 'cause your immunity might not be as strong as you think. I can see your fears, you should take my advice.

You still here throwing tantrums?? Eeyah... this matter is truly causing you a lot of grief, I swear! Do carry on...

elsomm:
@ Laudate

It took the madmen of yesterday for us to be able to act with extreme clarity today. I want to be one of those madmen. We must dare to invent the future.- Thomas Sankara (1949-1987)

IPOB are today's madmen. Tomorrow will be clear for their generations.

Don't you agree?

IPOB are today's madmen?? How?? Your comment is a disservice to those creative geniuses, who were called "madmen," because they were ahead of their time, and they dared to invent the future.

elsomm:
That's the only thing you picked.

What's ur feeling like to the Igbo man next to u?

Let me rephrase...if you so much dislike them, then stop forcing them to be part of you. Remember they are just greedy drug dealers. And wanting power to themselves. You said an Igbo man is not good enough. Why are you afraid of them leaving?

And yes...that was the only thing I picked because it looked so ridiculous that those who agitate for a cause, would seek those who are not interested in their cause, to carry it forward on their behalf. Why??

Ehn? Where did I say that an Igbo man is not good enough? Point it out in black & white, o! And where did I say I was afraid of an Igbo man leaving? Must you lie to get your point across?

Phaeze:
Oh, dear, I thought you were going to storm the thread and show me, concretely and to the latter, the benefits of exercising your right to impact the "right values" (which happen to be your own probably stupid and extremely limited, myopic worldview) into your child, and this crap was all you could pull? What a mental dwarf. I knew I wasn't going to trade my pants for the intelligence of a rigidly backward African monkey like you. Now, you want to play "the higher moral ground" by trying to scream civility? Sheezzzzz..... You're manifestly nuts and remarkably dumb to think I give a hoot what image of me you end up painting with such a pathetic strategy.

So, there wasn't much to what your parents achieved? Nothing different? Nothing remarkable? Nothing unique in comparison to all that had gone before? Still the same old, same old? The same idiotic mantras the inane elders have screamed for ages, but have added nothing of the the tiniest magnitude to the advancement of society? What a dumb Bleep, child of the elders. So impertinent, yet has so much gall. What a cosmic jester. So much for having walked a long way, seen it all, and understood, to the tiniest detail, the role of parents. Unlike you, the bungling buffoon who froths at the mouth screaming crap, I'm a creator of values, a deviser of systems, one who trumpets enlightenment values, and thrashed into the grim dustbin of history, the crippled cretinous values your parents instilled in you. A machine manufactured by fools to come and promote primitive values to choke the human future.

Well, as it is, you come no where near me in intelligence or enlightenment. Your dinosaur values are there floating in the air, waiting to become extinct. You can stagnate all you want, but enlightened men and women who're but keepers of the flames won't be drowning with you. It's the destiny of humanity to progress, not to remain stuck at a spot as your kind envision.

You're still entitled to your right to prove the point of your parents though, by coming back here to give me an awestrucking response. You're going to show how these values they induced in you, and all the time you've spent with them has made you astoundingly insightful to come up with new ideas on how to solve humanity's problems and bring about the ideal society.

Otherwise, just fvck off and leave the show for illuminated humans, admit that your parents were as pointless as their outdated values, and get out of the way for capable people to REVALUE ALL VALUES.

Wow!! Another long rant! The problems tormenting your mind must be enormous. Those who love & respect their parents will never cast aspersions at the parents of other people. Your long epistle of hate & your tirade against parental values, just shows how dysfunctional your background was, and how starved of affection and good upbringing your childhood was, when you were growing up. Accept my sympathy.

May you find the help you need, in order to achieve the peace you seek.

@oyatz, you are responding to that chap who is well known as the resident lunatic of Nairaland....

oyatz:
How are yorubas fighting tooth and nail to be in the same country with you or stopping you from seceding?
Your bitterness against the Yorubas is based on so many wrong assumptions,like all bigots do.

Na di same question I wan ask too, be dat! I don talk am before say you Yoruba people, di 'juju wey una cook for other tribes dey too strong. If dem never mention una name for one day, their market no go sell!

elsomm:
Every question all supposed Nigerians should ask themselves, "do I love the Igbos?" Do I trust them? Would I allow an Igbo man to rule Nigeria if it were to be in my power?

If your answer is no...then support that they leave.
If yes, then act accordingly. Agitate that Igbos be given chance to prove themselves. Do business with Igbos like you would with other tribes and be open minded.

Why do you guys always expect other ethnic groups to agitate for the Igbo? I really do not get it!

Phaeze:
The same game. I used the words because they're accurate. If you're stupid, I'll say it. Like I said, you're THICKLY endarkened, and revel with so much arrogance in the stupidity, even having the impudence and bumptiousness to think of schooling me. I'm under no obligations to be polite or politically correct. Call it hate, bile, depression, anger, pain and any other crap that fits into your delusions and fuel your stupidity, whatever floats your boat and makes you feel at the top of the world. I DON'T CARE. All I'm concerned about is showing your orientations to be false, backward, stagnating and toxic. If, however you choose instead to obsess over my tone, that simply shows where your priorities lie, and whatever you choose to make out of that is YOUR OWN BUSINESS. You can get lost now.

Oh dear! You are throwing another tantrum. Jeez!! The problems tormenting your soul must be many. You have just given the whole world a recital of all the ailments afflicting your soul (i.e. endarkened, arrogance, stupidity, impudence, bumptiousness, hate, bile, depression, anger, pain, false, backward, stagnating and toxic etc.) Eeyah! Those who inflicted all these things on you, deserve no mercy. Hehehe..... no wonder such toxic emotions are oozing out of your life.

Like I told you the last time: Seek professional help. Don't be ashamed of your mental illness.

eddiebruk:
You are still a fool for calling out a shop who is nothing but a Tenant rather than calling out your fvking government who put up such Notice, your stvpid hatred for one another and other foreign investors is the same reason why you will die in Hatred. Fvcking bigot

_(yawn) Is that all? Or is there something more? I was expecting you to throw a tantrum, and you really haven't disappointed me. Everyone can see the hate coming from your end, and the bile oozing out of your soul. Get rid of the hate before it kills you!! May you find relief from the afflictions that torment your soul...

Oh by the way, how much is Shoprite paying you, for making you throw a fit on their behalf?

Phaeze:
Oh, dear, I thought you were going to storm the thread and show me, concretely and to the latter, the benefits of exercising your right to impact the "right values" (which happen to be your own probably stupid and extremely limited, myopic worldview) into your child, and this crap was all you could pull? What a mental dwarf. I knew I wasn't going to trade my pants for the intelligence of a rigidly backward African monkey like you. Now, you want to play "the higher moral ground" by trying to scream civility? Sheezzzzz..... You're manifestly nuts and remarkably dumb to think I give a hoot what image of me you end up painting with such a pathetic strategy.

So, there wasn't much to what your parents achieved? Nothing different? Nothing remarkable? Nothing unique in comparison to all that had gone before? Still the same old, same old? The same idiotic mantras the inane elders have screamed for ages, but have added nothing of the the tiniest magnitude to the advancement of society? What a dumb Bleep, child of the elders. So impertinent, yet has so much gall. What a cosmic jester. So much for having walked a long way, seen it all, and understood, to the tiniest detail, the role of parents. Unlike you, the bungling buffoon who froths at the mouth screaming crap, I'm a creator of values, a deviser of systems, one who trumpets enlightenment values, and thrashed into the grim dustbin of history, the crippled cretinous values your parents instilled in you. A machine manufactured by fools to come and promote primitive values to choke the human future.

Well, as it is, you come no where near me in intelligence or enlightenment. Your dinosaur values are there floating in the air, waiting to become extinct. You can stagnate all you want, but enlightened men and women who're but keepers of the flames won't be drowning with you. It's the destiny of humanity to progress, not to remain stuck at a spot as your kind envision.

You're still entitled to your right to prove the point of your parents though, by coming back here to give me an awestrucking response. You're going to show how these values they induced in you, and all the time you've spent with them has made you astoundingly insightful to come up with new ideas on how to solve humanity's problems and bring about the ideal society.

Otherwise, just fvck off and leave the show for illuminated humans, admit that your parents were as pointless as their outdated values, and get out of the way for capable people to REVALUE ALL VALUES.

Oh boy!! Another long epistle! Hehehe..... This matter pain you, no be small. Is that why are you frothing at the mouth in anger?? Na wa, o! Take it easy. Get rid of the bile in your soul. Hate kills, you know. Try and seek professional help in order to rid yourself of the afflictions that torment your soul. I don't know what your parents did to you, to make you so bitter, but do try and forgive them. I hope you eventually find the peace you so desperately need, in order to let go of the hate that clouds your mind....

fratermathy:
Body tight o. I been de expect those iPod youths to come here come claim our king before.

Hehehe.... I see as una Urhobo kings just stage walk-out for Osinbajo, during his state visit. I hear say na Okowa beg them to come back inside the hall. The monarchs were upset, that their kings were not recognised and placed on the high table. I throway salute for them, jare.

If na our Ipod brothers dem, na clap their Eze go dey clap for the King wey talk say im go throway dem for lagoon!

lofty900:
sharap, he can feed u and ur generation starting from ur great grandfather

Says who?? FFK is broke!

rtmajayi:
How time flies... The former Head of State and his wife of 47 years pictured above as a young couple in 1969, the year they got married. They have age stronger.

Source:
http://www.ajayiwrites.com/2017/01/yakubu-gowon-and-his-wife-victoria-as.html

Gowon was (and still is) a fine man! I throway salute, sir!!

Would you consider =N=3 million??

Phaeze:
I realised you were a tradition-directed African monkey, oh-so benighted and evidently endarkened, who isn't going to discard his primitive values and archaic orientations any time soon, so I thought I should give it up and argue no further, especially since you didn't even understand where I was coming from exactly. But what you wrote there is serious, so I'll give you the appropriate response.

Since you didn't grow up in a dysfunctional setting, and had parents to inculcate in you the "right values", why then couldn't they make you intelligent, and receptive to new, better, rational ideas, no matter how alien? Why're you still this dumb? If they couldn't prevent you from being stupid, what important function did they serve? I ask that if this was ALL your "right values" parents managed to achieve, what then, exactly, was the point of people like them?

Hahaha..... I expected you to throw a tantrum and guess what? You did. Did the truth hit too close to home? Is that why you are spewing insults all over this thread? Hehehe...

discusant:
You admit that 200 IPOB/Biafra people have been missing since their Trump inauguration solidarity in Portharcourt.

Why can't Nigeria security officials give account of the missing IPOB/Biafrans if Nigeria is not truly a dungeon, a zoo at best?

Your mind set aptly justified the Biafra secessionist moves.

Biafrans want to leave the dungeon, Nigeria.

Biafrans don't want to share one country with nitwitts who celebrate the missing of 200 citizens.

My mindset is not justifying anything. Are you inside my mind? Have you chaps not been agitating for Biafra even before your new claim that 200 people are missing? Instead of taking the right steps, you have decided to act like the nitwit you mentioned, by throwing e-tantrums. Ask your ministers & govt appointees to withdraw their services from the Federal Republic of Nigeria, and relocate back to the east. Get all your people in different parts of the nation to follow suit, too. Ask all your legislators, to raise calls for a referendum in the SE on the floor of the Senate & House of Reps. Start going through all the legitimate lawful means available, to put your motion in action. And watch how your new country materialises.

Instead of doing that, you prefer to throw tantrums online on NL and other social media platforms in addition to calling other people names. Is that how to give birth to a country?

eddiebruk:
It is you who diverted the whole question into a South African thing when the notice has nothing to do with Shoprite, I am still waiting for you to tell me how the notice is related to Shoprite.

I have answered your previous questions on how Shoprite is related to the whole issue. Now, go back and read my previous posts with an open mind. After providing you with answers, you then decided to digress by bringing up silly inanities like "is Shoprite the only tenant in the building?" I am not interested in your digression. Get off my mentions you low-life SA apologist, and get a life!

mikolo80:
what's your point. Is 1 mill not middle income or you think they are using Nigerian naira poverty mentality to calculate income levels

My point is - $1 million USD (not 1 million naira, o! ) is not middle-income level by any standards in Nigeria. Heck, it is not even middle-income level in the US itself!

Phaeze:
In what way does that matter?

That's some assumption you made there. A rather stupid one though.

And your own values happen to be the right values, right? Our understanding of parental role are world's apart, and yours is not the superior one.

In other words, you want to CONTROL and CONDOTION your child to accept and live by your beliefs and viewpoints. Oh, perfect.

Guy, you just proved my point with this kind of response!

Phaeze:
NO parent has the right to brainwash, coerce, or intimidate a child. The truth is that many children only gain an illusory freedom from their parents. They are still hardwired to the same belief system and cultural values. They are still trapped. They are like a virus spreading their parents' beliefs, who in turn spread their parents' beliefs, and so on back to the dawn of the religions of mass brainwashing and mind control. To be free means to be free of ancient and deadly poisons. To develop according to your own nature, character and personality, without any interference. The only thing you're not free to do is to harm others either directly or indirectly. It is only at that point that YOUR FREEDOM CAN BE INTERFERED WITH REGARDLESS OF YOUR WISHES. If you want to harm yourself, I can do my best to persuade you from getting on with it. If you're engrossed in a self-destructive behaviour, I can call you out on your folly, inform you of the consequences, and give advices, hoping to snap you out of it. But I have no right whatsoever to coerce you into submitting to my will, to force you to follow my advice. That's tyranny. This is the proper definition of freedom.

[color=maroon]A parent's job is to lovingly raise free children, capable of maximising their potential and becoming heroes. It is never the job of parents to rigidly mould children in their own image. That is to treat children as a means to an end [so that a parent can revel joyously in narcissistically and selfishly gazing at its own reflection in its children] rather than as ends in themselves, free to become anything they want to be [as long as it poses no danger to the health and stability of the state], regardless of parental approval. A free society is one that prevents anyone from controlling children. A free society is one that does everything to allow children to be all that they can be according to their own unique characters and talents.[/color]

The idea that children are appendages of their parents is anathema. That's why society and government should be explicitly constructed to smash any possibility of a child's life being rigidly controlled by any pathetic tyrant. For example, if a parent wants to be a Jew, a Christian, a Muslim, an atheist, a Gnostic, a rightist, a leftist, a Marxist, an Ogun worshipper or whatever, THAT'S HIS BUSINESS. He has no right at all to impose it on his child as if he's some petty tyrant. Children are not the glove puppets of their parents. They are people in their own right and must be treated as such. They must be protected from the brainwashing that brainwashed parents seek to inflict on them.

The family, in some cases, has been a toxic breeding ground for neurosis and psychosis. Parents imagine that they "know" how to bring up their children better than anyone else. Really? Are they all psychological geniuses? Where are their parenting qualifications? How can they be sure that they are not inflicting huge psychological damage on their children? And if they can't be sure, shouldn't they be less arrogant about their "right" to do as they please with their offspring?

The task of parents is to love, protect and nurture their children, to provide the environment in which they will flourish and reach the maximum actualization of their potential. It is not the job of parents to force their children into a rigid mould of parental, religious and social expectations. It is not the job of parents to bring up their children in their own image. It is not the job of parents to be dictators and tyrants over their children. Rather, they must be helpful guardians, guides and mentors. They shouldn't be in the business of trying to makes them into "mini me's".

"They Bleep you up, your mum and dad.
They may not mean to, but they do.
They fill you up with the faults they had
And add some extra, just for you.

But they were bleeped up in their turn
By fools in oldstyle hats and coats,
Who half the time were soppy-stern
And half at one another's throats.

Man hand on misery to man.
It deepens like a coastal shelf.
Get out as early as you can......." - Philip Larkin, This Be The Verse

"We should listen more to children, communicate more with them, be friends with them, make them trust us, not hate us, deal with them kindly with love and understanding. Correct them with examples and kind words, relate with them the implications of their mistakes in their person, not threaten them. Beating a child won't solve the problem, but rather instill in them an anger that lingers, bitterness that stains, and fear that diminishes them" - John Williams, The Life and Philosophy of Johnydon22

CHILDREN ARE NOT PROPERTY. THEIR PARENTS DO NOT OWN THEM.THEIR PARENTS ARE NOT FREE TO DO WHATEVER THEY LIKE TO THEM. CHILDREN, LIKE NATIONS, SHOULD BE ALLOWED TO BE SELF-DETERMINED.

Your epistle is rather long. Nothing in my previous post mentioned anything about brainwashing, coercing, intimidating or using a heavy hand to raise kids. Neither did I advocate for kids to be turned into clones of their parents. But your response has revealed a few things.

1). You are obviously not a parent.

2). You had a rather poor relationship with your own parents. Maybe grew up in a rather dysfunctional setting.

3). You do not understand the importance of imparting the right values to your children. Neither do you understand the primary role that parents play, in imparting the right values to their kids. It goes deeper than just providing a safe environment for them and maximising their potential.

4). You still have a long way to go, if you think kids that are freely left to their own devices will magically turn out right, without proper guidance, discipline and input from their parents or elders.

zendy:
What are you talking about? Have you ever heard of a permanent military rule. Military rule always gives way to civilian rule in the end. It may take years but every country eventually returns to civilian rule because military rule is simply not sustainable.

Ironsi was killed 6 months into his adminiteration, he left 4 Regions. What Gowon should have done on assuming power was to preserve the 4 Regions he met and and beging planning for a phased return to civilian rule in 3 or 4 years. That way, civilians will still return to the 4 Regions that were on the ground and life goes on.

But because Gowon and his Northern goons knew that having a 4 Regional structure prevented them from dominating Nigeria, they abolished the 4 Regions, created 12 'weak' states, entrenched unitary rule and took away resource control.

You are a real joker. Military rule always gives way to civilian rule in the end, in your own view...oh, I forgot. You are psychic.

DisGuy:
great. hope they keep to this date. been on holiday several times to lagos since hoping to take a ride

December 2016 has come and gone, o! No single train don waka pass for that Blue Rail, o!

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Is it still available? What is security issue like, in that area?

Omudia11:
I don't waste time reading epistles from those who are sympathetic to murderers.

Ah... this matter don pain you enter bone. Sorry, o! That is why you had to resort to lies. Oya, point out in black & white, where I expressed sympathy for murderers, or it will never be well with you in this lifetime & the next!

abacus:
The rant you cannot jail me is funny. Is Kuje not a prison?

Nah! It is a beach resort....with water fountains splashing in the background.