Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 11:22pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
walesalak: . It tells nothing. Cos she isnt d mother of d Lord Jesus. I advice u stop quoting what u dont understand and do not b a stumbling block to odas who may b @ d cross roads of the subject of discussion. I hope u u derstand my point? Thanks I have quoted what I understand. It appears you are the one who lacks understanding.  And you cannot stop people from sharing their views. This is a public forum, not your personal backyard. God could have planned things so that Jesus could have descended from a lineage of priests, or only virgins. But He didn't. Rahab the harlot was the ancestor of our Lord Jesus. Deal with it.  |
Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 11:19pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Espada10: It is like you are daft...I say the ones I know..next time read well before jumping in. .haba..that is why i say - do you ,let me do mine..It is simple All I did was to ask if you conducted a survey....why are you so upset?
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Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 11:17pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Duru009: Continue with your poor life mentality Duru009, I already know how your stupid likes always end up!
Your type always n always n always realise themselves toooooooo late..... Always trying to blame people around them for their wolves!
What a pity!
You better go n die, you are not fit to leave plz Duru009
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Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 11:13pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
ndcide: You missed the point. The campaign to trivialise chastity, is negative and it's of the devil... Quote me anywhere on this.
Chastity is a trait that can also guarantee marital success. When you are looking for a marriage partner, and Chasity is one of your criteria because you believe and practice it, you will succeed in that marriage.
And please don't tell me those who are chaste don't have other good qualities because they do..
The evil of the time, is to subdue and downplay chastity, while elevating traits and qualities that many, actually do not possess. Show me where and how virginity guarantees a good marriage or a successful union.  I have seen too many women get taken in by this deceitful tale, to recycle such stories. There are good people, and bad people. Virginity does not bestow a toga of sainthood on anyone. People should study their partners, very well. Every woman was born a virgin. But it was lost at one time or the other. Some lose it before marriage, others lose it after marriage. Personally, I would seek for qualities such as integrity, accountability, respect, compassion, supportive behaviour, generosity, tact, discipline etc, over and above virginity. I know a case of a man who married his wife as a virgin, and she ended up killing him in anger!  Late Princess Diana of England married Prince Charles as a virgin. It did not stop her from having an affair later, during her marriage. |
Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 11:08pm On Apr 03, 2018*. Modified: 11:25pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Duru009: Did you read my first comment before you jump in. Never say virginity makes a perfect marriage but I said I repeat again. A lady that marries as a virgin has far more respect to the one that marries overwise to her husband. Whether you like it or not this sooooooo true. You are not a man you wouldn't understand at all!
So keep your senseless comments to yourself.
I know how your likes lost your virginity, it's a pity...
Am sorry You just proved how shallow you are.  What makes you think that I am a woman? Where and when did I mention my gender?  And as for your story that "A lady that marries as a virgin has far more respect to the one that marries overwise to her husband....," it is a big lie. You can only speak for yourself. A woman gets respect because of her character and good values, not because of her virginity. I know women who married as virgins, but ended up being turned into punching bags by their husbands. What is the respect in that?  |
Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 11:05pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Espada10: All this virgin talk and creating virgin thread all over the place...I don tire..
Abeg , marry whoever you want to marry..I am going to borrow Joshua words in the bible when he addressed the isrealites saying- I don't know what god you will serve but as for me and my family we will serve the lord
likewise
I don't know the type of girls, you men wil marry..I dont care .. but as for me (even though I am not a virgin)..when it is time to marry and settle down.. I will look for and marry a virgin . .because it is my own choice and personal preference and I owe no one any apology....simple and short
I hate to go this route but
From what I have seen..majority of broke men marry non-virgins because they have no choice ..Most successful men ( I know )with their own house and car and doing financially well ..where the ones that disvirgined their wives. Bros biko, no talk dat kind lie for here, again.  So you conducted a survey on all the successful men in Nigeria, and they told you that they disvirgined their wives? Chimo!  |
Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 11:02pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
walesalak: This thread is so so hilarious. I dont think OP. Has mentioned anything bad. Its just to encourage dos who are virgins to keep it or hold on to it. And for dos who av lost dias. It is well with u. Nobody send u to lose ur virginity in d first place. Cos it was just ur decision. And even if u were tricked into it, u accepted to do it. So its ur palava. God holds virginity in high esteem though. Av u wondered d reason for virgin Mary ? The reason God selected Virgin Mary, was so that the baby Jesus could come to earth through the natural birth process, while having divinity as His DNA, even though He was in human form. If the father of Jesus had been an earthly father, His divinity would have been questioned. Rahab was a harlot, yet she was the great great-grandmother of our Lord Jesus. What does that tell you?  |
Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 10:43pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Duru009: You sound soooooooo freaking bitter, hope you are okay. By the time you are 40yr without a husband you will certainly remember me. You better save this page. Because one day de one day, you will remember me! Na God I take beg you, take your stuvpidity go one side and park well. Virginity is not a guarantee that a lady will have a successful or happy marriage. A woman should be encouraged to study the character of the man she is going to marry very well, before she decides to make a commitment. The man should also do likewise. Qualities such as integrity, accountability, respect, discipline, tact, compassion, hard work ethic, supportive nature, generosity etc, are far more important than virginity.  Some women have used virginity as a mask to cover their frigid nature, while some men have used virginity as a cover-up to hide their dysfunctional status. |
Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 10:34pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
ndcide: It's unfortunate seeing people react harshly against chastity or any post / topic the encourages people to keep their virginity.
One thing I know, is that all these reactions no matter how popular they are, are not of God.
Belittling keeping virginity or chastity does not give glory to God and it's a deceitful campaign by the devil.
The new trend of tagging reasonable things like this as, RELIGION is a way by the enemy of man, to take man far away from God... When you see people using the word "religion " to make their point or defend their stance, know they are very far from God.
The devil is too smart. Just as he deceived Eve, he has deceived many.
Anyone who fornicates and commite adultery without there heart judging them, CAN NEVER VALUE A VIRGIN.
A VIRGIN MAN WILL VALUE A VIRGIN WOMAN. the only way a non virgin man will value a virgin lady, is if the man is GENUINELY BORN AGAIN.
NOTE THIS FACT.
GOD LOVES CHASTITY, THE DEVIL HATES IT. You have missed the point totally.  Nobody here is advocating promiscuity. What we are saying is that when looking for a marriage partner, there are far more important things to consider, instead of just basing your decision on virginity. Virginity is NOT a recipe for marital success or happiness.  |
Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 10:27pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Jochabed: It takes Discipline and Character to keep yourself. The woman may also be frigid, or she may be a cantankerous biitch. So nobody wants her. Virginity is NOT equal to marital happiness. It is more important to know and understand your partner's character, before making a commitment. Jeez!  Jochabed: God is no fool,he can't give his precious daughter to an irresponsible man. The have to be compatable. Which dirty compatibility?  God gave which precious daughter to who? Why do you folks like deceiving yourselves? Who defined the so-called compatibility? How do you know if you are compatible? Because you kept your virginity? Do you know how many Christian sisters claim to have heard from God, concerning their marriage partners, and still ended up unhappily married to the person? Taa!  |
Politics › Re: If You Have Any IPOB Yoot Near You Now, Pls Provide Comfort... by laudate: 10:23pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
PrecisionFx: I did not read ur jargon Mr LaudableXX aka Laudate PrecisionFx aka onye nzuzu. .
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Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 10:21pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Shugavee: precious because of virginity?? What if they steal n kill!!! Premarital sex has nothing to do with Christianity!! There are enough women who married as virgins n are unhappy. You dey mind am?  Do you know how many naive, virtuous Christian sisters have had their lives wrecked, because they got married to wolves in sheep's clothing, popularly called Christian 'brothers, without knowing the true nature of the men they married? There is one on my street right now, whose husband had a big fanciful wedding with her in a pentecostal church. Eight months later, the guy left her to go abroad promising to send for her once he had settled down. This is the 5th year and he has not sent for her, o! Meanwhile, he left her pregnant to go abroad. She has been all alone trying to keep body and soul together down here. Someone in his family confessed that he has already married a foreigner abroad, to get his residency papers.....  Don't ask me if he divorced the one he left behind, because I really do not know the details. |
Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 10:15pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Opentokwowledge: Keeping the virginity comes with a message that means 'No other man has been here before, I'm not loose, I'm a woman of standard moral principles and virtues'. Whoever is keeping her virginity for her husband is not doing him any favour, she's just showing the man how principled and determined she could be, and that's attractive! Ehen? So virginity means a woman is not loose?  But she could be a shrew? Or she could be a thief? Or a backstabber, gossip monger, trouble maker or even a disrespectful creep! |
Romance › Re: There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. by laudate: 10:03pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Jochabed: Shut your legs till Marraige,its worth the wait. p.s I am not married,am just seconding this popular motion. Wubbish!  After the so-called husband has sampled all the babes around? Or after the guy decides to get married, despite knowing he has inner problems? Your advice has led some women to get married to impotent men, or guys with sexual dysfunction. Instead of you advising a girl to look out for characteristics such as integrity, compassion, discipline, hard work, respect etc, in their potential husbands, before making a commitment, you are asking them to save their virginity for their husbands. What happens if the husband collects her virginity, but later becomes a wife beater who turns her into a punching bag?  XhosaNostra: Good for you. Pray that he'll be faithful to you afterwards. Being a virgin doesn't = to preferential treatment or immunity. You'll still face the same marital struggles that a whòre does. True word!  |
Properties › Re: Fabricate Bathroom shower cubicles, office partitions &stainless steel handrails by laudate: 8:34pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
melakes: Good morning bosses, that is a 6mm thick glass fabrication fully frosted with aluminum frames. ₦70,000 did that cos it's just one unit. Nice job!  Keep it up. My project is almost done, and I am definitely going to use your services. |
Education › Re: Covenant University Punished Students For Keeping Their Hair (video) by laudate: 8:20pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
DCMIX:
and you think you will be punishing the school by doing that? Of course! By carrying that haircut, I am thumbing my nose at them and the academic barbers on campus, will get more infuriated. There is nothing as upsetting as trying to teach someone a lesson, and that lesson is not sinking in...  In fact, I will make sure the haircut sets a new trend on campus.  Anyway, they can only try that crap with glorified secondary school students like the undergraduates in Covenant. No true Akokite will tolerate that nansense! |
Politics › Re: If You Have Any IPOB Yoot Near You Now, Pls Provide Comfort... by laudate: 8:04pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
PrecisionFx: I have no need to make sense of anything u say Mr Laudate. .
Laudate = LaudableXX.......... .
It's no secret. I must admit that it is heartwarming to see how defective your sense of reasoning has become.  Keep making wild allegations without any foundation.  I have been called many things on this forum, and they are all false. I know you are obsessed with my moniker, because your destiny is tied to any attention I can give you. If I do not notice you in one day, it means your day will be ruined. That is why you keep doing all you can to get my attention. Keep chanting my name, please do not stop - because that is the only way you can make it in life....hehehehe!  |
Politics › Re: If You Have Any IPOB Yoot Near You Now, Pls Provide Comfort... by laudate: 7:58pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
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Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 5:38pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
neezar: I do respect elders on this forum, But fear can't make laudate neezar accept the truth
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Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 5:34pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
imhotep: Laudate refuses to accept the obvious truth that Igbo amaka
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Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 5:29pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
neezar: Back to the topic, Do u know that it's cos of the SS/SE that Nigeria ain't islamised yet??
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Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 5:27pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Throwback: See as the guy retrace his steps and denied his own question which I answered with facts he seemed to have forgotten, yet his tribe daily lament since 1966 the dilemma and anguish that Igbo foresight caused. But you should know by now that such intellectual discussions are way above the guy's IQ.  He was baptised with the waters of shallowness, on the day he entered this world.... |
Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 5:22pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
neezar: You ve been on this forum for years, yet u can't accept the truth Chimo!  You mean you had to cut off a human head in order to make a point? Chisos! Is this what they taught you in your village? 
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Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 5:20pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
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Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 5:18pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
imhotep: say something suffersticated, we are waiting
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Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 5:13pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
imhotep: why are you attacking us na?
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Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 5:09pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
imhotep: Emir laudate imhotep of Ibadan , gist us about the jihad na
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Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 5:00pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
imhotep: Give us emirate updates joor 
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Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 4:58pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
Sctests: You forget to claim you are not yoruba but anago?  imhotep: Give us updates, how the latest emirate na 
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Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 4:55pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
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Politics › Re: How The Foresighted Igbos Predicted The Emirate Of Osun by laudate: 4:53pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
LZAA: laudate wee hate this resurgentxtian4 is undergoing dezombiefication Alariiwo and i are loyal to the caliphate heemotep is still looking for yoruba wife kikikiki  Sctests: laudate? That one that can denies his yoruba family and lineage just to make a point against Igbos, but i'd bet my scrotum he swallows amala like no man business.  Guys, I know your problem.  If you both do not mention Laudate in one day, your market will not sell....and it would not be well with your pocket. It gives me a high to know that I hold the keys to your destiny, and how far you can go in life.  Oya, carry on...I will be here watching you make a fool of yourself. onye ara! |
Education › Re: Covenant University Punished Students For Keeping Their Hair (video) by laudate: 4:49pm On Apr 03, 2018 |
DCMIX: the young adult chose to behave like a little child, the best thing to do is to treat him like one.
I don't buy the idea of sending students out of school especially at the gate. The student might have important things to do. Just make him regret breaking the rules. If na me be dat student, I will just carry that badly cut hairstyle for a month in order to infuriate them. I will not cut it off. Nansense!  Are they teaching 16 year olds, or young adults? |