₦airaland Forum

tayoccu:
abegii!!!!
unilag wey dey do pta meeting!
I thought you would mention hardcore schools like Ibadan/Ige...

Opeyemi4real:
I don't see any sense in what you wrote, i'm not talking about bf an gf here. So your boss narrated his wife virginity status to you? SMH bro Lai

engrkaz:
I am sure I am his victim....Hennessy XO and Eagle schnapps dey there? I am a VICTIM

TrendyP:
They do better than the First Class? Seriously? They were that good and they couldn't make at least 2.2

SternProphet:
There are third class graduates in major oil companies. They actually do better than first class. Anybody who is depending on his academic qualification in his career is a fool and will end up a failure. Leadership skills, technological skills, team skills, creative problem solving skills are what employers are looking for, not some evidence that you passed your exams well in school, although admittedly that is good indicator of discipline and conscientiousness as well.

Opeyemi4real:
You lied! No man....i repeat No man will remember that moment and won't melt for the woman. He might not be perfect but there will always be a preferential treatment for her. Two reasons why you won't agree with this are:
1. You're not a man.
2. It's so clear and evident in your comment that you've lost what it takes to fall into that category of women.

Jochabed:
There Is No Better Joy Than Being Dis-virgined By Your Husband. Shut your legs till Marraige,its worth the wait.
p.s I am not married,am just seconding this popular motion.

Jochabed:
awwn!! Thank you. The insult me but secretly send me mails.

hush15:
True but here is another fact, their reactions however differs...

Nonetheless being a virgin still matters if you can, its extra value however, its not being a virgin that truly determines a womans worth, its all in the character. I mean whats virginity when the lady who is a virgin has a bad attitude and character. If you a virgin and you lack virtue or in lay man language, home training, you still of no value but if you not a virgin, and you behave, you can still make up for it, afterall nobody is perfect.

Like a wise man quote i read years back,
" Dont look for Mr Right, be right with yourself and you will attract Mr Right."
The beauty of a lady is not in the hole between her tighs but what defines her in body, soul and spirit and if you still a virgin while at it, the better.There lies the value thats appealing to anyone, even God.

highqueen:
lool, that's the kind of misguided mentality some people were made to grow up with.
lool,had an ain't that insisted that she must marry as a virgin,all the guys that came for her hand in marriage were turned down because she said it must be after wedding bla bla bla shiit, okay,she never visited them to know their character,that was how my aunt reached 40 years and it was dawn on her that she needs to get married ,unfortunately the one she later settled with just did intro and travelled out since 3years now and he's not even planning to come back to see her,she's now 43

okay,had it been she got married at her early age with those suitors that were truthful with their sexual life and lives her wholeheartedly,wouldn't she be happy by now with kids??

some ladies think that getting married as a virgin automatically earns her the whole award none has earned,well I'm sorry for people like op in this contemporary world.

highqueen:
the worst guy I dated was the one forming Christian brother, holier than thou, infact,he's one the best workers in his church,one would think he is close to meeting God till I dated him.

gosh,pretense is the order of the day in church of today, don't be surprised that the guy you are wasting your energy to lecture is worst that serpent itself.

I promised myself,never to have anything to do with self righteousness people.

be a good Christian but don't over do,cos they appear the worst at the end.

Pataricatering:
tell him to go fck himself !

Pataricatering:
pleasing Yahweh is only for women ? I’m confused!

ndcide:
I've told you the truth.

I don't live in hypocrisy. All these.. " know your partner before commitment " is not the issue I'm driving at. As if you won't know the person before.

Unless, the "knowing" you are referring to is against keeping oneself sexually pure ..we are then not on the same track.

I'm neither a Muslim nor a traditional worshipper, hence can't respond from their angle..

Shugavee:
ok as she kept it!! Is it the virginity u r marrying

ndcide:
1, non virgins will get married. That's not the issue. The church should be a place that produces chaste people irrespective of what is happening in the world. We can't make that happen, when we have people like you downplaying chastity and telling us about qualities "non virgins" have.... Haba! Shouldn't our virgins remain pure and have good character? Isn't that what will make God happy?.. Or we don't want to please God again? Rather manage the effects of disobedience?.. Can we have you as a worker preserve the church from the attack of the world and it's ungodliness?

2) Great question! I may not know, but I know God wants us to be pure and if we cannot find pure people in the Church or they are so few, it's the Devil fighting the Church. Will you stand for righteousness?

3) Same as above. I don't know. But the church of God cannot be a place where you massage, manage or remodel sexual impurity. Especially with "it doesn't matter " narrative.

I'm a strong believer and advocate of chastity.

There's nothing a non virgin can know /understand that a virgin can't know / understand except engaging in premarital sex.

This respons, is only because you claim to be a church worker.

wink2015:
Igbo's in their traditional craftsmanship which is faking of consumable products.

Their 2nd trade is hard drug pushing.

Maybe by the time their dreamland of Biafra is actalised it will be a sovereign state of fake products and illicit drug trafficking.

Those Igbo's and non Igbo's that are members of association of fakes are therefore warned and called upon to change for the better.

Turn over a new leave and help to protect the good image of Nigeria overseas.

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ndcide:
Church worker indeed...

No holy spirit filled person walking with God, not just "chuch worker " will downplay chastity with the level of brazen sexual recklessness, we see even in the Church.

How can a virgin, not possess the good qualities, you claim a non virgin can have... a virgin cannot understand his/her partner? Be loving?, be generous? be disciplined?

At some point we need to tell ourselves the truth.

The same old tactics of the devil used with Eve is still at play today.

It's a pity.

Ladyhippolyta88:
your fellow brothers who quoted me would not understand.One claims he is an ambassador of the truth.

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ndcide:
It is deceit to claim those who advocate Chasity, want people to base their marital decision Only on virginity.

That's crap.

Any one who trivialises or downplay chastity, in this day and age, will have no issues supporting promiscuity. In fact, how will such a person not even support promiscuity?

Marital relationships increasingly became difficult and complex, because people jettisoned chastity.

While you claim people mask their sexual weakness with Chasity, I will tell you that much more have ruined their lives through sexual recklessness, and had to finally bow to the ideals of chastity. Unfortunately, much damage have been done.

I challenge you to go back to any of those Christian counselor and ask them for the truth.

A non-virgin who respects and loves his/her partner, while believing in the sanctity of marriage, would not cheat on his/her partner .

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ndcide:
While you know of those who married a virgin wife killing him.

I know of so many beautiful marriages where both couple married as virgins and their unions are examples of what marriage should be.

I know of many who followed that same path and also had beautiful marriages.

Most people I know who believe and practice chastity, have strong character, integrity, accountability, respect, discipline etc. Interestingly for me, I have not met any of them who falls short of such great character, both men and women.

Personally I've not seen. Lucky me.

On the other hand, look at how the enemy of mankind punish those who don't believe and practice chastity and still give them the logic to validate their errors.

I don't need to give examples. It's everywhere but they they love what's afflicting them.

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Duru009:
You are blaming me!!!!

Okay oooooooo.

I said it!

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Espada10:
and I said that you are daft Espada10 and should read well before jumping in ..stop embarrassing yourself