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That's how it starts, before u know it they become a household name. Its a kind of networking, trying to get d big names to be by ur side, almost all artistes did/do it.

veekid:
is that his motive for the journey?

Yea, he wud ve alighted along d road if he succeeded.

Igbo girls got a good heart. Don't quote me pls!

So what did you do with the cow @vizkiz

Package a well written CV containing subjects you can teach, write a show stopping cover letter, staple together and fold nicely into a clean envelope.
Walk confidently into any school of your choice and drop it. You can't go wrong with that, especially at this period of huge transfers.
Do as many schools as possible, then go home and watch the calls and texts roll in.

Stop waiting for people in your location to post vacancies, go out and look for vacancies. My present job wasn't posted here or anywhere online. I had to dress up, leave my house and visit the school with my credentials, unaware that there was a vacancy there. 70% of top companies don't advertise their vacancies including top schools.

Buy kerossine and Garri and sell in the hostels

Yeye-brities

ebubey:
can i d1?

PM me

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28 plus 1 currently there right now

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ebubey:
and don't want one? what's the excuse?

I neva said so.

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trisha01:
okk... we want abt your first "intimate" kiss with a special person...

So my mum is not special?

UyiIredia:
Honestly, I got no p with what u wrote.

OK cool

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UyiIredia:
By approaching ladies ?

By not taking things personal

2 months old. My mum kissed me!

UyiIredia:
I don't get. Zif u ask me many NL guys approach girls they like on this forum.

Learn 2 have fun

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UyiIredia:
What do you see on NL ?

Read D post again

starlingslimnet:
It's innate not acquired.

OK

Sylvarresta:
am guilty of no.2

Go and sin no more

starlingslimnet:
Cos I know who I am and how far my words can go to affect Ladies' heart. I know the kind of spirit I am and what I can do to Ladies' heart.May sound eccentric but you will never understand until I do it to you. Can't hurt Ladies again have done more harm already.

What have u done bro? And I wud like to have ur skills lolz...

ArchEnemy:
Just adding to your post

Yea I know. I was trying to say that you're right.

ArchEnemy:
12. I don't want my heart to be broken
13.ve not met my ideal woman

Hehehe, ideal woman keh...

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valyzubxx:
She's not even up to my taste

Exactly!
Ur head dey there.

Every guy knows that its not an easy feat to successfully approach and woo a lady. Even the most confident of guys usually need to "gather morale" before doing the needful.

This could stem from the fact that you don't know what the outcome of the action you're about taking might be.

Another reason is the fear of rejection, nobody wants to feel ridiculed or like a looser sort of. We are all created with a sense of self worth and we crave for respect and regard which is normal.

However, society has made it look like a guy who cannot approach a lady is not a "real man". Such a guy is mocked by friends, relatives and even the female folk. As a result of this utter mockery and in order to live up to the expectation of the society, guys come up with some funny excuses to defend themselves and also to remove their mind from trying to approach ladies.

Below are some of the excuses guys give themselves and others for their inability to approach women.


1) Naija girls are gold diggers: I'm sure you've heard or read many guys make such comments. They be like "Naija girls too like money jare, if you no get money forget am!" The truth is that this is not a valid excuse at all. No matter your level of economic power, there is always a woman out there who will accept you the way you are. you don't need to have money to find love anywhere, besides I know some really poor guys dating rich chicks and even eating from them sef. What you need more is self confidence and social skills.


2) I Don't Have Time for Girls Now: I hear this all the time and all I see is a guy who is frustrated about his inability to successfully woo a woman. I mean is there any such thing as a separate time you need to have for a woman? Lolz... Guys please enlighten me on what it means to have time for women. U ask a guy "What of your girlfriend?". He goes like "Which girlfriend, I don't have their time oo". When I hear this I just laugh!

3) Girls are a Distraction: For real? You that has been jobless for 5 years after graduation, how is it a girl's fault? It is you that is a distraction to yourself not girls. How come all these footballers, musicians, entertainers, bankers, doctors, oil guys that I see change chicks like wrapper don't get distracted, na u come dey get distracted. My guy forget excuse and do the needful.

4) Women bring Badluck: Lols... I don't even know what to say about this one. You hear guys say that if you want to make it in life, forget women. Funny thing is, they can't! The more they try, the more they fail. Men and women have been created to 'complete' each other so my guy, unless you're gay.....

5) She's too Pompous/disrespectful: No my guy, you're too timid, that's the truth. You have the right to woo any woman you like, she has the right to agree or disagree. Don't give away your right, exercise it!
Btw, research has shown that ladies who seem too pompous are usually much easier to convince than guys tend to think.

6) I can't Satisfy her Sexually: Most guys won't voice out this excuse at all, only to very close friends if he's the very open type. This however is not a valid excuse. How do you know you can't satisfy her? How do you even know she's after sex? Must you Bleep every girl you date? Enough said jareh...

7) I Prefer Foreign Women to Nigerian: All na wash! So of all the millions of women in Naija, you can't find a suitable one for yourself, na for foreign land you go see am? My guy, your problem no be Naija women, your problem is internal. Search yourself and tell urself the truth!

No Responsible Woman Anymore: If I hear! Maybe you want a Mary magdalene or virgin Mary. Guy, if na responsible woman be your excuse, why not enter Deeper life, Jehova Witness, mountain of Fire and the various mosques and look for them? Why look for responsible women at Allen Junction? Mtcheeew...

9) I Prefer to Roll With my Fellow Guys: You be gay? Yes its good to have a good rapport with fellow guys, to have fun and drink with guys with no chick around once in a while. But my guy don't use it as an excuse, because very soon those your guys will start asking you to go and look for a chick. They will soon start laughing at you bro.

10) Complete it.



LaurelP

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