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Romance › A Note To Young Men. by lavylilly(op): 6:05pm On Jan 06, 2023
A NOTE TO YOUNG MEN.

This content is not for everyone.

Firstly, I'm directing this content to young men who are not married and trying to figure out their lives.

Secondly, I am directing this content to those young men who would agree that they need to hear this.

One way to distract yourself from fixing your life and falling into distractions is by falling in love easily.

A guy that hasn't found himself in life but easily falls in love with women is probably a danger to himself.

It pains me when I see young men who have not defined their lives getting themselves entangled in a love relationship.

You are struggling like hell, nothing productive you are doing but you're busy dating ladies up and down.

Where is the energy?

Like I said, this content is not for everyone.

I am speaking directly to my male gender.

Dear brother...

Leave women alone and go figure out your life.

I am not saying "you must be rich first."

No. No. No.

But you must at least have some direction or focus for your life before you start adding women into it.

Stop carrying someone's daughter and adding to your confusion. Take a break and go fix you, first.

One of the most distracting activities for any man that is fledgling is falling in love with women easily.

Love is emotionally demanding.

When a man falls in love, the lady becomes his distractions. For example, my wife is my distraction.

But because I operate from the place of solidity, I can accommodate the distraction and love her well.

Ladies, don't get angry here.

This is not about you. This is about speaking hard truths to my fellow brothers to save themselves first.

When my life was a big mess, one tough decision I made was to suspend any form of love relationship.

I didn't date any lady for close to 5 years because I needed to concentrate all my energy on fixing me.

So by the time my wife came, she met a focused man.

She met a man that she could trust to lead her because she could tell he was already leading himself.

Listen guys, you might not agree with me.

That's fine.

Don't copy me but reflect on the principle here.

Yes, I know that there are guys who lack direction for their lives and a lady comes and gives them direction.
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But those guys are mostly seen in Nollywood movies.

In real life, they are few and far between.

So listen...

You have a better chance of fixing your life first and falling in love, than waiting for a lady to come fix it for you.
Forum Games › Re: What Will Be Your Reaction In This Situation? by lavylilly: 6:04pm On Jan 06, 2023
A NOTE TO YOUNG MEN.

This content is not for everyone.

Firstly, I'm directing this content to young men who are not married and trying to figure out their lives.

Secondly, I am directing this content to those young men who would agree that they need to hear this.

One way to distract yourself from fixing your life and falling into distractions is by falling in love easily.

A guy that hasn't found himself in life but easily falls in love with women is probably a danger to himself.

It pains me when I see young men who have not defined their lives getting themselves entangled in a love relationship.

You are struggling like hell, nothing productive you are doing but you're busy dating ladies up and down.

Where is the energy?

Like I said, this content is not for everyone.

I am speaking directly to my male gender.

Dear brother...

Leave women alone and go figure out your life.

I am not saying "you must be rich first."

No. No. No.

But you must at least have some direction or focus for your life before you start adding women into it.

Stop carrying someone's daughter and adding to your confusion. Take a break and go fix you, first.

One of the most distracting activities for any man that is fledgling is falling in love with women easily.

Love is emotionally demanding.

When a man falls in love, the lady becomes his distractions. For example, my wife is my distraction.

But because I operate from the place of solidity, I can accommodate the distraction and love her well.

Ladies, don't get angry here.

This is not about you. This is about speaking hard truths to my fellow brothers to save themselves first.

When my life was a big mess, one tough decision I made was to suspend any form of love relationship.

I didn't date any lady for close to 5 years because I needed to concentrate all my energy on fixing me.

So by the time my wife came, she met a focused man.

She met a man that she could trust to lead her because she could tell he was already leading himself.

Listen guys, you might not agree with me.

That's fine.

Don't copy me but reflect on the principle here.

Yes, I know that there are guys who lack direction for their lives and a lady comes and gives them direction.

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But those guys are mostly seen in Nollywood movies.

In real life, they are few and far between.

So listen...

You have a better chance of fixing your life first and falling in love, than waiting for a lady to come fix it for you.
Forum Games › Re: What Will Be Your Reaction In This Situation? by lavylilly:
Just a reminder:

A lay-off does not change your worth, skills or experience.

You are still very much so deserving of the best opportunity to continue to grow and flourish and you will find that next company that will value you and hold on tight.

Wishing that for anyone impacted or looking for work in 2023.


Hiring!!!! Role: Admin assistant -Internship.
Type: Full time, on-site
Salary: N60,000 (Lunch)

Location: lekki phase 1

Candidate Must be smart and proficient with the use of computer. Interested candidate should send CVs to hr@waschepoint.com

Cheers and best of luck! �
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Are You Jobless? Sell Yourself by lavylilly: 6:03pm On Jan 06, 2023
Just a reminder:

A lay-off does not change your worth, skills or experience.

You are still very much so deserving of the best opportunity to continue to grow and flourish and you will find that next company that will value you and hold on tight.

Wishing that for anyone impacted or looking for work in 2023.

Cheers and best of luck! �
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Are You Jobless? Sell Yourself by lavylilly: 5:59pm On Jan 06, 2023
Dear Applicant,

Most adverts are short lengths as your brothers and sisters in employment have a high tendency to resign once they receive their salary when they are tired. So, there is a need to fill up these spaces as soon as possible.

So please, when you see these adverts closing in three days rather than attack the recruitment process if you are interested just send your cv as soon as possible.

Best regards
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Are You Jobless? Sell Yourself by lavylilly: 5:59pm On Jan 06, 2023
Needed urgently

Two Human Resources Officers for immediate employment for a client in a Security Company around Oju Elegba at Lagos.
The candidate should be a Graduate of any business related discipline from reputable institutions.
At least three years of HR experience is a must.
Suitable candidates should forward their CVs to my WhatsApp number 08053612119 within a week.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Would You Go For- A Club Or The Company? & States Your Reason(s) by lavylilly: 5:44pm On Jan 06, 2023
mediclife1987:
How dem sef go dey allow debt dey pile up anyhow laidat?

Na why I gbadun Shina Peller be that. The guy na the true epitome of "no paddy-paddy for jungle". Hin bounce African Giant sef comot him club if hin ask for credit.

If you like no come again, nothing consign am. Baba yen o ran yalaya anybody nise...
Be has the money, stop lying he didn't bounce African & club business is based on debt
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Would You Go For- A Club Or The Company? & States Your Reason(s) by lavylilly: 4:56pm On Jan 06, 2023
shocked
Aklee4994:
I will advice you to go for the one of flexible working schedule which is option A because option B will always exhaust your time and energy.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Would You Go For- A Club Or The Company? & States Your Reason(s) by lavylilly: 4:55pm On Jan 06, 2023
mediclife1987:
Hmmm, so you mean sey club business no dey last?
Yes o!! Debt kills such business.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Would You Go For- A Club Or The Company? & States Your Reason(s) by lavylilly: 4:54pm On Jan 06, 2023
angry
AllDModsAreMaad:
Tell that to your elders.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Would You Go For- A Club Or The Company? & States Your Reason(s) by lavylilly: 7:42am On Jan 05, 2023
house10studios:
All ur thread are similar.
Seun dey pay una ni?
No hustle dey play o
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Which Would You Go For- A Club Or The Company? & States Your Reason(s) by lavylilly: 7:41am On Jan 05, 2023
AllDModsAreMaad:
Make up story.

Abegi, 1.4m/month as in I don't get.
You be mumu, you should know that annual
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Are You Jobless? Sell Yourself by lavylilly: 1:16am On Jan 05, 2023
We are recruiting to fill the position below:

Job Title: Outlet Manager

Location: Gbagada, Lagos

Job Description

The Outlet Manager is responsible for ensuring customer satisfaction, resolving customer complaints and addressing any questions or comments that customers may have.
The manager will be actively involved in the preparation and execution of meals for clients.
The manager will have a thorough knowledge of policies and procedures related to the operations of the outlet
The Manager will provide leadership to a team of about 6-8 production assistants.
Essential Duties and Responsibilities

Execute high service standards and exceed guest expectations daily by holding all employees accountable to adhering to company service, quality and cleanliness specifications, and food handling
Effectively enforce company policies and procedures
Achieve operational objectives by preparing and completing action plans, implementing productivity, quality and standards of service
Review the daily inventory levels, orders, and prepared products and compare to sales in order to control costs and minimize waste
Prepare and review daily sales report
Use daily sales and activity reports to identify areas of opportunity for sales initiatives and cost savings
Responsible for food preparation and stocking the outlet and production factory
Provide leadership to the production assistants
Receive and process orders via phone and online channels.
Offers advice to clients regarding products or services.
Market the products to supermarkets and outlets
Ensure production is done according to the best practice standard
Requirements and Qualifications
Knowledge, Skills & Abilities:

BSc or HND holder
Previous supervisory or management experience in a similar environment (quick service food or retail)
Experience as a customer service personnel
Extensive food knowledge
Knowledge of social media management
Ability to multi-task, and change priorities constantly in a fast-paced environment
Application Closing Date
16th January, 2023.

Method of Application
Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV and Applications to: lomeedarfresh@gmail.com using the Job Title as the subject of the email.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Are You Jobless? Sell Yourself by lavylilly: 1:13am On Jan 05, 2023
Medical officer is needed for immediate employment at Balm of Gilead specialist hospital Ilesa ,Osun State.
Requirements: Current MDCN practicing license.

Schedule : Resident with alternate weekend off.
Salary- 250k with accommodation and remuneration for surgical procedures performed.
Patient load is light.

Enquiries: 08037151125, 08033567495q
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Are You Jobless? Sell Yourself by lavylilly: 1:13am On Jan 05, 2023
Why people start businesses has changed.

5 years ago the narrative was to:

> Make a lot of money
> Gain social clout
> Buy a bigger house
> Get the latest gadgets
> Live a flashy lifestyle

Today the narrative is to:

> Have freedom and flexibility
> Bring positivity to the world
> Turn your passion into income
> Unlock your dream lifestyle
> Become your own boss

For the new generation, it's about being happier in life.

It's about being in control.

And I love to see it! ��
Family › Re: Your Advice Is Needed by lavylilly: 1:06am On Jan 05, 2023
shocked
Kapeter:
Life is a risk. What if she sell it and then spent the money seeking Visa but still Dem nor stamp d passport nko? And then what if she sell and then get it too. On God. Just tell her to avoid mistakes and think it both side before making a decision.
Business › Re: Crypto For Beginners by lavylilly: 2:45pm On Jan 01, 2023
Happy new year
Family › Re: Skyrun 1.5hp Inverter Ac by lavylilly: 2:42pm On Jan 01, 2023
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Romance › Re: What's The Best Advice You'd Give Your Younger Self? by lavylilly: 2:17pm On Jan 01, 2023
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Investment › Re: BOOM! Part 1 Of Crypto Vocab: Cryptocurrency Lingo by lavylilly: 2:17pm On Jan 01, 2023
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: LCV Jobs by lavylilly: 2:16pm On Jan 01, 2023
Happy new year
Family › Re: Your Advice Is Needed by lavylilly: 2:12pm On Jan 01, 2023
My friend is actually in this situation and I'm very confuse on what to do, she's yet to complete the project and honestly speaking she don't get money the way she use to before and stuck in between completing the project or selling it to relocate since she doesn't n't have a job anyone, she want to relocate to Canada via student route with the husband on the othe hand the man is a professional trucker and she's also transitioning into tech (UIUX)
Need some advice pls
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Lessons Learnt In 2022? by lavylilly(op): 2:10pm On Jan 01, 2023
cheesy
kalu61:
I have following for years now, l must confess, you are doing well.

5 and 6 have been very critical to my expansion this year. I intend expanding on them more.

Nice piece. Compliments of the season.
Romance › Re: Thread Of The Year 2022 by lavylilly: 6:23am On Dec 29, 2022
I was 5 when I saw my father do a drug deal.

I always called him a dumb criminal ��‍♂️

Not just because he brought his kid along to the exchange. But because he got himself into stupid trouble trying to do the right things out of desperation.

It cost him a lot in life.

��‍♂️ He got busted by the police
� He spent time in prison
� He ruined his relationships

I couldn't look up to him as a role model ��‍♂️

As a young lad in the states I had to figure it out on my own while trying not to make the same mistakes. My track record in my younger years wasn’t great �

But I don't regret it.

Growing up in a turbulent environment isn’t easy. I know hundreds of people reading this will have had some tragic or troubling experience they’ve undergone behind closed doors too.

But I think it’s how you respond that matters.

A dodgy childhood exposed me to right and wrong choices and forced me to make tough and uncomfortable decisions and to take accountability for my f*cked-up choices.

Chaos gave me an identity.

You can’t dodge every punch life throws at you �

But you can learn how to hit one back!
Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Lessons Learnt In 2022? by lavylilly(op): 6:22am On Dec 29, 2022
wink
T0BY:
1. Ignorance is a disease
2. The company you keep can either make or mar you.
3. Sin will cost you more than you can pay.






Happy boxing day.
Nairaland General › What Are The Lessons Learnt In 2022? by lavylilly(op): 3:47pm On Dec 26, 2022
As the year comes to a close, here are ten life lessons I picked along the way.

I consider them to be worth sharing:

1. The importance of adaptability: The ability to adapt to change is key to thriving. This year presented unexpected challenges that required me to adapt in ways I didn't expect.

2. The value of resilience: It's important to bounce back from setbacks and keep going. This year tested my resilience, and it's important to remember that it's a valuable quality to cultivate.

3. The importance of self-care: Taking care of oneself is essential for overall well-being. It's important to be available for self-care and prioritise physical, mental, and emotional health.

4. The power of gratitude: Practicing gratitude helped me focus on the positive aspects of my life and find joy in the present moment.

5. The importance of relationships: Strong relationships with family, friends, and colleagues can provide support, connection, and a sense of belonging.

6. The value of hard work: Hard work and dedication can lead to personal and professional success.

7. The importance of learning: Lifelong learning help improve as individuals.

8. The power of forgiveness: Forgiving others and myself helped me move forward and heal from past mistakes and hurt.

9. The importance of honesty: Being honest with yourself and others can help build trust and improve relationships.

10. The value of balance: It's essential to balance work, personal life, and leisure activities to maintain overall well-being.

Which of these can you relate to?

P:S Some of these aren’t new, but I experienced a lot that helped me see them in a new light.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Come In! by lavylilly: 1:59pm On Dec 26, 2022
Location: Lagos

Job title: Management Trainee

We are seeking for graduates to join our team. We are looking for goal driven and passionate individuals to support the business services department.

Requirements
- HND/ B.sc or B.A in any discipline
- Excellent written and verbal communication skills.
- Research and analytical skills.
- Flexibility skills.
- Ability to work with little or no supervision.
- A positive attitude and a growth mindset.

Qualified and interested candidate should forward their CV and cover letter to michaelloe@cradfield.com.ng using the job title as the subject of the mail.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Come In! by lavylilly: 1:58pm On Dec 26, 2022
Internal Control Officer with background in Accounting is needed urgently in the hospitality space. Interested candidates can contact 08037277583(WhatsApp only) for information.

Application closes on the 5th of January, 2022.
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Traceconsult Urgent Recruitment

Job Title: Credit File Management Officer
Location: Mainland, Lagos
Salary: 150k

Job Summary
Assists the Team Lead, Credit Files & Documentation Custody in the centralization and warehousing of all customers’ security documents (collaterals) in a vault


Responsibilities
• Collection of new security documents (for fresh facilities and renewal) from branches, head office departments, and warehousing.
• Authenticates to ensure that the collected documentation conforms with the Bank’s standard documentation whilst complying with local legal, regulatory, and internal requirements
• Ensure the documents received are captured in the security document database
• Ensures the register is signed and photocopied documents endorsed with details of his/her name, staff ID, GSM no and signature
• Recording of documents to be released in the log register with the photocopies kept in customer file

Requirements
• 1 years minimum experience in File Management
• Good knowledge of the various types of Security documents (Collateral)
• Good knowledge of Microsoft Office application (strong knowledge in Excel)
• Ability to use Credit application system

candidates should send their CVS to traceconsults@gmail.com

Season’s greetings, dear esteemed customers �


RECRUITMENT:

Role: CBT Administrator
Location: Lekki Phase 1
Salary: 100k Gross

Requirements:
1. Degree holder
2. At least 1 year year experience in managing CBT center.
3. Excellent interpersonal and communication skills
4. Simple accounting skills
5. Ready to resume next week.

If eligible and interested, send your CV to hr@premierhub.com.ng using the Job position as the subject of the mail.

We are organising a full day intensive training on HR Fundamentals. This is also an HR for non HR professionals training.
Date: Saturday January 7, 2023
Effective and efficient management is an offshoot of excellent HR Management and thus the need to be abreast of HR Strategies to drive a winning team. Are you interested in a career switch to Human Resources? Do you want to sharpen your skills in people management? Come and learn from a team of Global leaders as we learn strategies to think out of the box, to view multiple perspectives and acquire the capacity to achieve organizational goals and objectives.
1. Fundamentals of Human Resources Management
2. Compensation and Benefits Management
3. Performance Management
4. Talent Management
5. HR Analytics
6. Legal Issues in HR Management
7. How to hire, train and reward employees
8. Developing a High Performing Team
9. Tapping the creativity of your Team
10. Increasing Productivity through a Motivated People
11. How to Help Employees (your team) be their best
12. HR Business Partnering
13. HR Strategy

Follow this link to join my WhatsApp group: h Course Fee is N2000.
*Serious participants only*



Urgent Recruitment: Sales/Customer Relations Specialists.

A client on the Island is currently a Sales/Customer Relations Specialist for the company's social handles ( Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, etc.) and attends to walk-in customers.

Basic Pay: 100k-150k with 13 months and Bonus.
Location: Lekki Phase 1.
Working days/hours: Monday - Saturday. (8am - 5:30pm).

Requirements
- HND or BSc. in a related field.
- 2-4 years of work experience handling the company's social media handles.

To apply:

Send your CV to dayspringconsulting2022@gmail.com using the job title as the subject of the mail.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Come In! by lavylilly: 1:54pm On Dec 26, 2022
Job Title: Human Resources Officer

Location: Lagos

Requirements
B.Sc or HND (2nd Class Upper or Upper Credit) in Human Resources Management, Business Administration and any other related discipline with a good computer based knowledge.
Must have 3 - 8 years work experience.

Application Closing Date
30th February, 2023.

How to Apply
Interested and qualified candidates should send their CV to: hr@compovine.com using the Job Title, Age, Class of Degree and Location" as the subject of the email.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Come In! by lavylilly: 1:54pm On Dec 26, 2022
RECRUITMENT:

Role: CBT Administrator
Location: Lekki Phase 1
Salary: 100k Gross

Requirements:
1. Degree holder
2. At least 1 year year experience in managing CBT center.
3. Excellent interpersonal and communication skills
4. Simple accounting skills
5. Ready to resume next week.

If eligible and interested, send your CV to hr at premier hub dot com dot ng using the Job position as the subject of the mail.

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