There are types of TRUTH living in the human mind; The Idealistic TRUTH and Realistic truth.

Idealistic Truth is ALWAYS spiritually truthful (Nothing changes it) with pure aim/objectives, it operates with the aim of bringing healing and order to the mind, breaking patterns that are not serving to the mind on the right course. And yes, it can be twisted! it's chances of becoming a reality is very slim. Overtime, encourages enhanced growth of the mind, most times, it starts and ends in the mind (more like a mere wish/fantasy) because it is very tedious for the human mind grasping let alone process it. Though that doesn't imply that it is not the TRUTH!

There's also a Realistic truth; highly appealing to the human sense because it tend as an instant relief/remedy to the injuries of human mind with no promise of healing to it, it is the twisted Idealistic Truth that makes a fact that can fly around successfully. It starts in the mind with a higher chance of becoming a REALITY but overtime, encourages decay of the mind, It's intentions sprouted from dubiousity, characterised by control rather than freedom for the mind. Though Realitically true but doesn't imply that it is TRUTHFUL.

Congratulations Mr. President Bola Ahmed Tinubu. GCFR.

brainhgeek:
Chai, may the prosperity of those leaders who are making policies to keep or youth under financial bondage and mediocrity, turn into penury before their very lifetime. May their children be their nightmare and their wealth their mystery. Those who drove us here, those who are driving us now and those who have plan of driving us to this position will not be spared.
I am touched that a job of 25k monthly salary ( i.e. lesser than $50 monthly) is what is demanding national deliberation in this nation.
Anyway this is my advice. The real estate job will frustrate you but it will drill tenacity, zeal and drive into you. Making real estate sales is not easy. Remuneration might not be regular but if you eventually pull a good hit, you can redifine your dream from there.
As for the teaching job, you can stay a few a career. Although the income might be steady (if the management is faithful) but with 25k, you will soon realize that what gulps your salary is more than transport and house rent. You have dreams and some unbudgeted responsibilities to service.
Best bet, take both. You can be doing real estate marketing as side biz but take up the school job.
My final and golden advice is this, 'give yourself a timeline to progress exponentially or abandoned either or both positions'. Dream big!

Thank you sir. �
I'm in same shoes as the OP!

Dear OP, I'm right in the same shoes with you, somedays i lose interest in both the teaching and marketing and i feel like crying.

life has not been sweet.

Zzor:
Men are very good at saying a particular thing but act the exact opposite, you will see men all over social media saying they will go for brains over beauty but in reality you will see these same men ignoring the brain and going extra length to attract a beautiful lady and eventually marry them.

I have a friend (a first class product) who is bitterly complaining of not attracting men and that if she had options she will choose beauty first and a moderate brain.

Men why do you guys act this way but in reality you do the opposite?

It will be foolish to build the marital choice solely around beauty of a woman rather intelligence but gaskia, i love beautiful women and God knows it, please God give me these two features in a woman, i need it, i wouldn't want to be put in a situation where i won't think twice before cheating on her, beauty matters (really don't mind the face, but let her have a bodyshape that will command my attention) as much as the IQ to me!

give me the big onion booty and flat tommy, we can always make the face beautiful with make up. this is how i want it from any woman

Sheezybobby:
Hello Palz,
A.M, Am a little bit confused, i graduated at a tender age of 19 years, Currently Serving at 20years of age. But My wish all this while is to travel to Abroad to Further/Relocate, but my parents want me to take a Nigeria Immigration Job, But am a Confused,

I want you to advise me friends, Cause am so confused, Also what is the Salary scale. (Immigration) for a B.sc graduate,
I will appreciate your opinion, Palz

check your heart, you know what your values and priorities are, go with the one that matches, plus don't forget to ask God in prayers too, i sent you a DM, Reply please.

wirinet:


And you think nairaland is a christian only forum or only Christians exists in Nigeria.

like i said, Christ has the better plan for you than any religion has to offer you, he died for the sins of the world, you only need to identify with him to get saved.

wirinet:

What exactly does virginity command? So it's is virginity than confers purity on a human being? So are you pure?



It depends on your religion and your sect. Sin just like beauty is in the mind of the believer. It's even a sin to impose your own beliefs on others. You hate it when muslims impose their beliefs on you.

To some cultures sex is not seen as a sin but as some sort of spiritual exercise.

Learn more about Kama Sutra;

i thought i was chatting with a Christian, that makes it better, give your life to christ, he's the way, truth and life.

wirinet:

Virginity is not even rated. Virginity was only important when girls were given away at very young age (13 - 17 years). It is impractical to expect a 25 year old girl that went through university, NYSC and pursuing a career to remain a virgin.

I would be very weary of marrying a thirty year old virgin. I feel something must be amiss for her to remain a virgin that long.

your opinion doesn't change what virginity commands to those that understands chastity and purity.

little advise for you, never be part of a sin no matter how normalized or in vogue it is, for it doesn't change the fact it is still sin.

Virginity is not overated, stop giving yourself that shit slogan thereby hiding in Sin. Chastity is bliss!

Guestlander:


What kind of pastor is issuing a death threat? Isn't Daddy Freeze justified now? What is Christ like in Ibiyeomie's outbursts?

Ibiyeomie is human, in a weak flesh like you too, the fact he's a pastor doesn't mean he's perfect, Freeze only wanted attention, he's not out to shed light like his followers think.

CharlyG1:


If you're having dreams of deceased people, you have to pray against "untimely death". It's not your portion in Jesus Name, Amen.
I don't like being the one to tell the meaning of such dreams, but it is what it is. Pray against it and such dreams will stop in Jesus Name.. Amen.

Shaving the dead boy's head, {or even clothing him, bathing him or caring for any deceased person in whatever way} is not good at all. If such dreams of seeing dead people keep recurring, then you might need deliverance prayers, because it reveals that the "spirit of death" is lurking around.

I pray that you'll never see such again in the dream. You have no business with the dead, and the Lord has proclaimed long life over you and not death, Amen (Psalm 118:17).

Don't be afraid, just pray, ask God for mercy and repent from any sinful ways.

God bless you

thank you sir.

CharlyG1:


Hello lawrykings,

Please I'll need you to send me a mail.

Have you had recurring dreams like this? Have you been seeing this boy or any other deceased person in your dreams?

Let me know in the mail.
God bless you.

this is the first time i see this boy, and the first time I'll do such with him in a dream.

i have seen another deceased friend in my dream and this has been a long time ago.

please sir, whatever you have to tell me, you're free to do so here, i have no data to mail you, operating on free mode.

thank you sir.

Believe in Jesus' Sacrifice on the Cross as a sealed redemption for you.

Sacrifice yourSELF for Christ (follow him sincerely)

study your Bible to hear him daily.

Pray with every word you hear from him


this is where the utmost deliverance is.

God will heal you as you believe in him.

cheers!

CharlyG1:



Pray for your friend's health. May he not die from sickness.

Pray that God preserves him from health problems and save his life. Amen

please sir, i had a dream where i was giving haircut to a young boy that died long ago, what could this depict please?

CharlyG1:


Hello tosyne55,

I'm sorry I won't be able to give out my contact number at this time. But you can send me a mail and I will reply you.

What I plan to do next is get a private line for the sole purpose of this ministerial work. So that everyone who wishes to contact me directly will be to call me. I'll do this by nextweek.

But for now, please just send me a mail.
I hope you understand.
God bless you.

Update: I'll reply you today.

i had a dream last night;
what does it mean when someone plays me a video of me masturbating in it ?

thanks sir!

yettymuse:
But what is wrong with Masturbation?? An Adult having a self sexual satisfaction na him una dey quote plenty scripture like this

You want a single man with no girlfriend not to masturbate And you cry wolf at child molestation, Rape and sexual harassment??

That’s why you all push broke boys to go and marry! You think say marriage na small pikin play??

You all should get a grip!

Any man after adolescence with no adequate sexually satisfaction go masturbate!

Your pastor sef dey jo soapy!

We have more pressing issues that needs your concerns and not What an adult choose to do with their body!

Africa my Africa!! Mtchewwww!

you don't understand what porn does to the mind of a man, you won't understand.

derrick015:
Good morning everyone.

The subject refers,
I am a Christian. However, I have been struggling with a whole lot of non Christian like habit. One of such habit is watching of pornography and masturbating. This habit has lingered for more than 10 years now.
I am an introvert probably what has made it worse and perpetual.
I don't like this act. But I usually still practice it.

I believe God loves me but he hates this act. I really don't know how to STOP IT.

Pls I need help. This has really affected my relationship with the Holy spirit, myself and other people please help.

Also I have discovered that in the past 2 years i have been so disorganized, and forgetful.

At work I have been termed a LIER. I feel really embarrassed with myself when people give me something and I forget I have been given or I don't know where exactly I kept it. Then I will be asked of the same thing I won't be able to find it. Sometimes I deny it was ever given to me because I can't remember It was ever given to me.

This has brought me a lot of struggles at work(banking) and has made me ever so frustrated with myself.

I WASN'T LIKE THIS[font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] before. It so unfortunate this is happening to me.

My prayer life too has gone down the drain it's zero. I attend church service Sunday however due to the current lockdown I can say I don't have any relationship with God!

Please I need help

i don't have any advise to give you but i will tell you never to involve yourself in anything like "Yoga Meditation" or any kind of Meditation that is not a Biblical Meditation.

any Meditation that isn't the biblical type please refrain so you don't have to open yourself to demonic influences thereby compounding your issue or even bringing you issues you never saw coming, please take my advise serious.

Trainee223:
Bro by the Lord's grace you will be out of these..

Let me give u some hint I used to dump that devastating life style.
! Never you be idle, read motivational books once you know that you are idle.

!! Get marry if you can but if not get a girlfriend

!!! Write down your goal of not watching anything porn for the first 2 months and write it down on ur note pad or jotter book and place it beside ur bed anytime the urge come, sighting of the book alone will help you to focus on the goal at hand

!!!! Never you follow the advice of demons on Naira land here shouting up and down that it is not the cause of ur problem. Personal I don't believe on God but the act of masturbating is a crime against humanity and totally a wrong practice.
It bring down ur IQ, you will have low self esteem, poor communication with the outside world and a total shadow of ur self.



##Iamasurvivorofmasturbation

you believe in Demons yet you don't believe in God. funny.

it's funny how everyone on this thread has become holy and they are all good christians by their deeds to God. � Nigeria suppose don better be that o.

you can't keep to the commands of God, and if you're doing that please feel free to quote me (I'm not encouraging you to sin; sin has it's pay, sinning makes you an inferior version of yourself)

you need a blood spilled (Jesus Christ) and belief (faith) in this sacrifice that is made by God for you to be put right with God.

this is nothing but the Gospel and this is the era we're living in.

if the criteria for righteousness is Man's deed, then a good number of Nigerians (almost all) are in hell already. God can't be that mean to what he created to love and for fellowship.

PS. this post is no license to sin, Sin has it's detrimental consequences on you.
sin shouldn't be the identity of the believer, the believer should strive to the goal of being Christlike, even though he has no righteousness of his own but he's of the righteousness of God through faith in his Sacrifice for the world (Jesus Christ).

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Slutty dirty Women

Big boob chest-out slim girl

sniffing panties of hot slutty women: this drives me wild so bad.

seeing a hot woman pee.

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the truth is ... you've got to tame this flesh for meaning to life.

CharlyG1:


I thank God that you surrendered your life to Jesus Christ. Don't be afraid, He will help deliver you completely.

Since you engaged in new age practices (I don't know what extent you went to), it is best to go for deliverance if you haven't done so.

Yes, Jesus has forgiven you as long as you have stopped it and confessed to Him. But you still need to schedule a deliverance session with a Bible believing church to be sure that you don't have any demon that has found a way into you or attached itself to you.

I pray God's mercy show you the way and give you perfect healing in Jesus Name.. Amen.

God bless you.

thank you sir for your response, I'm the guy who dabbled into astrology and developed anxiety and clinical depression, sir i just need you counsel now, i noticed anytime i walk i feel like people are walking behind me and anytime I'm eating or holding something, i get strange feeling and sensation as though there is a force wanting to pull off the food or what I'm holding, this is really getting me disorganized, i noticed it most especially when i fall into sin, i hardly get good sleep at night.

I'm yet to book a deliverance session like you advised, I do observe mid night prayers. I'm finding it hard trusting Men of God around me here sir.

you can imagine sir, after narating my experiences i asked a pastor to pray for me he was thinking whether to do it or not. when he finally did, it was just few minutes prayers with me, he may have thought it wasn't serious, I don't know

please remember me as you pray. thanks sir