₦airaland Forum

virginprincess:
I don't know about the other things, one thing i know is that you must kneel down while proposing, it is a sign that you value and appreciate her.

paulsoniv:
Sing her Ultrasound by Joyner Lucas or Amazing Amy by Lil Wayne ft Migos

She'll accept sharp

OpinionCounts:
Bro, even in the US, Canada, Germany, France, Israel, Russia...people believe this things and even heavily patronize them, though not to harm one another with it...I am telling you from first hand knowledge not hear say. Infact we are amateurs in these stuffs when compared to the whites...some government agencies even patronize their services to crack some cases in the US, again I say, I am telling you from first hand knowledge not hear say.

There are powerful sorcerers, exorcists, satanists, ghost talkers and occult grandmasters here in the US and all over the developed world and they are heavily, I mean heavily patronized by these westerners to solve various problems.

So please dust your mind of the thinking that only Africans believe or do these stuffs.

ceaser:
Okay.

I'm usually not too convenient with the proximity of those waves in such scenario. Being exposed to so much large doses of those radio waves on constant basis.

ceaser:
How many years have you had that glo mast in your compound?

Happyguy201:
She is more home trained and well behaved you are the violent type that men/women has to look out for .

purples25:
Some guys don't want to accept the truth. Keep your mom safe from these men o.

Truly they are calling women golddiggers , but it is so glaring now that they are also after the money and comfort. Some are asking, why can't it be turned around...

May we kuku turn am and be caring for them and they sit in the house. Which is already quite common anyway. They don't really want a 50 50 situation, they want women to care for them completely. I used to think it was 50 50, but nah, most hate the fact that the role men play is to be the major provider. They still want to be men, worshipped and also enjoying as men, but not to do anything for anybody.

Some are saying until i marry, i will spend on my wife.....this is not a new thing in Nigeria. Many do not suddenly become generous after marriage. Over years and long periods in this Nigeria, many of them leave the responsibilities to the wives. Their female children see what is happening, and therefore insist on finding a responsible man that shows how he will be in marriage , even during courtship/relationship. Because that's the only way they can be sure.

Well what can we do. This is how Nigerian men want to treat their women. I guess women just have to stop seeing men as a savior and helper, true lovers with a soft spot for their women, a compassion that will make them say no....we wont allow our women to suffer and sweat like men.

Leave matter for Mathias

beauty7:
I only wanted to placate him.

I believe if someone is very angry with you,it is better to calm him or her down by cooling him or her down.

If you return anger for anger, you will actually spoil things and that anger could spread unknowingly and lead to someone innocent suffering and you could be held accountable.

What I said is the truth.

I have had men come to me whose only reason for wanting to start a relationship with me was so I could help them financially in one way or other.

Some will call me and asked to be bought a phone or to be given money for lunch, particularly University students.

This happened when my dad was still alive as a medical doctor and a business man, so we had money then.

purples25:
Sorry about how that guy replied you. Guys here are brutal. I think you shouldn't keep apologizing because it hypes them to do more. Just ignore if anyone replies you in a rude way.

beauty7:
I am sorry please.

Just that I know of men who only approach women who are well to do, women with good ride.

Maybe you are not aware.

beauty7:
I am sorry please.

Just that I know of men who only approach women who are well to do, women with good ride.

Maybe you are not aware.

bjtinz:
We have professional spas naa

handsomebeauty8:
Why not ask your girlfriend do it to you rather than go to prostitutes?
There is no prostitute that is not a Thief.
Most prostitutes are smookers of cigarettes or weed.
So going to them, you must be ready for abuses.

SweetHearted:
Scientists believe that we are all time traveling. We are moving one second at a time into the future.

Every second that passes,we have entered into our future.

This second by second movement is a slow speed.

But the desire of scientists is to destroy the second by second movement into the future.

They believe that if time which is measured second by second can be twisted, the speed can increase to a point that one can freely travel into the past and the future.

Scientists are working on how to travel into the future and past

They believe that soon,man will be able to choose if to live in the past, now or in the future.

Like if you want to live in the future, your consciousness will be in the future, although you will still be living in the present and the past.

Already everyone is currently living in 3 dimensions ie past, present and future.

But we are only conciously aware of the present.

But according to scientists,there will come a time that you can choose to live in the future and your consciousness will immediately be in the future and you will no longer be aware of the present although you will still interact with people in the present.

Currently,we are only consciously aware of the present although we are still living in the past and in the future. We are consciously living in the present.But scientists believe that soon we will choose where we want to be consciously living: past, present,or future.

It shows that all things that had happened,is happening and that will happen have already been fixed by God.

Just like movie that you copy to your phone/laptop. You can start watching it from any point. You can decide to go back to any point in the movie and watch.

So will it be. We can decide to go to any point in our life(either past or future)and start living from there.

It is a mystery that is about to be.

SweetHearted:
Even me I have lost count of how many times women whom I don't know have harrassed me for sex.

If you don't like sex as a man, women will be coming to you for sex.

It is only those men that want sex too much that ladies will never approach. Women always prove hard to get to such men.

Like me that don't like sex, ladies use to approach me in such a way that it sometime becomes an harrassment.

Some men will come here and say they wish they were the aboki so they could Bleep the girl. That mentality is what is making them not to be approached by ladies as that aboki.

When once a lady knows that you like sex,she cannot approach you neither will she give in to you easily. That is why I say you can't be in the aboki's shoe.

A woman can only approach you if she senses that her sexual urge is stronger than your own.

That is why they approach men that don't like sex.

Just like most men cannot approach women(nymphomaniacs) whose sexual desire is stronger than their own,woman can't approach a man if his sexual desire is stronger than her own.

Most of the time,men sexual urge is stronger than female own, that is why in general, men are the ones approaching women first.

beauty7:
I heard the news today in society news here in Uyo.

They were all sentenced to death by hanging.

handsomebeauty8:
I read the news in saturday sun newspaper.There were 2 girls and 1 boy in the house.So she made away with the 2 girls but succeeded in killing only one of the females.

The other female escaped from her.

Is it not that story you mean?

dukeprince50:
Good day nairalanders, I am a young graduate in his late twenties, there is this lady who is in her early 40's, she is a family friend, she is nice to me and I see her as a good lady nothing much, but sometimes she does things that goes way beyond her boundaries.

At first she use to tell me she would have married me if I was older, I always see it as a joke and smiled, but it got worse that I'm no more comfortable around her,
sometimes she comes to our house and will decide to take her bath in my bathroom meanwhile we have another free room where she could change, I am not comfortable looking at an older woman with towel around her, she does a lot of things which disgust me and I can't just stop her cos I like and respect her.

Recently, I had something with a church girl of mine which became public, I felt embarrassed though, few people chastised me and some adviced me, This very lady heard it, came to me and told me some things like I shouldn't have fling with a young girl but look for older women if I want to just enjoy myself(while saying the F-word continuously) she was saying it in a way that made me feel uncomfortable.
Though she hasn't said anything about having sex with me but she has given me all green-lights, the truth is I do not like an older woman and would want her to stop pestering me without sounding harsh, pls I need advice, not insults

beauty7:
I does not knew their strength and weakness.

beauty7:
Every tribe has weakness and strength.

The weakness of the fulani is that they dont forgive and they will pay you back in one way or other.

Fulani people are different from Hausa people.

Fulani people are good people who will help you when you are in trouble.

But if you offend them,you may not live to tell your story.

When my brother was teaching in Sokoto,

he lived in a compound with a fulani student of UDUS.

One day,they had a very little misunderstanding.

My brother easily forgot it because the misunderstanding was very minor.

It had to do with who should use the bathroom first that particular morning.

But this guy did not greet my brother neither did he answer my brother's greeting for a long time.

When i told one lady,she said that my brother should go and beg him,

otherwise he may harm my brother.

I started the reconciiation by meeting the guy and begging him on my knees.

By the time he came home the next day,i had already fetched water for all his jerry cans.

My brother later met him and apologize and he accepted.

If that did not happen,I do not know what he would have done.

Every tribe has a weakness and strength.

So it is good to know this weakness to avoid problems.

The strength of a Hausa person is that they accept other tribes more than they are being accepted.

They are ready to accept you in their midst.

But the weakness that i have seen in the Hausa is that if you go to them today for help(like helping to charge your phone etc etc) and he helps you,

if you go again the next time,he may still help or assist you in one way or the other.

If you go the third time,he will turn you down except if you are his close friend,associate or family member.

That character is very pronounced in Sokoto.

My brother lived there and he has experienced all these.