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SweetHearted:
Scientists believe that we are all time traveling. We are moving one second at a time into the future.

Every second that passes,we have entered into our future.

This second by second movement is a slow speed.

But the desire of scientists is to destroy the second by second movement into the future.

They believe that if time which is measured second by second can be twisted, the speed can increase to a point that one can freely travel into the past and the future.

Scientists are working on how to travel into the future and past

They believe that soon,man will be able to choose if to live in the past, now or in the future.

Like if you want to live in the future, your consciousness will be in the future, although you will still be living in the present and the past.

Already everyone is currently living in 3 dimensions ie past, present and future.

But we are only conciously aware of the present.

But according to scientists,there will come a time that you can choose to live in the future and your consciousness will immediately be in the future and you will no longer be aware of the present although you will still interact with people in the present.

Currently,we are only consciously aware of the present although we are still living in the past and in the future. We are consciously living in the present.But scientists believe that soon we will choose where we want to be consciously living: past, present,or future.

It shows that all things that had happened,is happening and that will happen have already been fixed by God.

Just like movie that you copy to your phone/laptop. You can start watching it from any point. You can decide to go back to any point in the movie and watch.

So will it be. We can decide to go to any point in our life(either past or future)and start living from there.

It is a mystery that is about to be.

SweetHearted:
Even me I have lost count of how many times women whom I don't know have harrassed me for sex.

If you don't like sex as a man, women will be coming to you for sex.

It is only those men that want sex too much that ladies will never approach. Women always prove hard to get to such men.

Like me that don't like sex, ladies use to approach me in such a way that it sometime becomes an harrassment.

Some men will come here and say they wish they were the aboki so they could Bleep the girl. That mentality is what is making them not to be approached by ladies as that aboki.

When once a lady knows that you like sex,she cannot approach you neither will she give in to you easily. That is why I say you can't be in the aboki's shoe.

A woman can only approach you if she senses that her sexual urge is stronger than your own.

That is why they approach men that don't like sex.

Just like most men cannot approach women(nymphomaniacs) whose sexual desire is stronger than their own,woman can't approach a man if his sexual desire is stronger than her own.

Most of the time,men sexual urge is stronger than female own, that is why in general, men are the ones approaching women first.

beauty7:
I heard the news today in society news here in Uyo.

They were all sentenced to death by hanging.

handsomebeauty8:
I read the news in saturday sun newspaper.There were 2 girls and 1 boy in the house.So she made away with the 2 girls but succeeded in killing only one of the females.

The other female escaped from her.

Is it not that story you mean?

dukeprince50:
Good day nairalanders, I am a young graduate in his late twenties, there is this lady who is in her early 40's, she is a family friend, she is nice to me and I see her as a good lady nothing much, but sometimes she does things that goes way beyond her boundaries.

At first she use to tell me she would have married me if I was older, I always see it as a joke and smiled, but it got worse that I'm no more comfortable around her,
sometimes she comes to our house and will decide to take her bath in my bathroom meanwhile we have another free room where she could change, I am not comfortable looking at an older woman with towel around her, she does a lot of things which disgust me and I can't just stop her cos I like and respect her.

Recently, I had something with a church girl of mine which became public, I felt embarrassed though, few people chastised me and some adviced me, This very lady heard it, came to me and told me some things like I shouldn't have fling with a young girl but look for older women if I want to just enjoy myself(while saying the F-word continuously) she was saying it in a way that made me feel uncomfortable.
Though she hasn't said anything about having sex with me but she has given me all green-lights, the truth is I do not like an older woman and would want her to stop pestering me without sounding harsh, pls I need advice, not insults

beauty7:
I does not knew their strength and weakness.

beauty7:
Every tribe has weakness and strength.

The weakness of the fulani is that they dont forgive and they will pay you back in one way or other.

Fulani people are different from Hausa people.

Fulani people are good people who will help you when you are in trouble.

But if you offend them,you may not live to tell your story.

When my brother was teaching in Sokoto,

he lived in a compound with a fulani student of UDUS.

One day,they had a very little misunderstanding.

My brother easily forgot it because the misunderstanding was very minor.

It had to do with who should use the bathroom first that particular morning.

But this guy did not greet my brother neither did he answer my brother's greeting for a long time.

When i told one lady,she said that my brother should go and beg him,

otherwise he may harm my brother.

I started the reconciiation by meeting the guy and begging him on my knees.

By the time he came home the next day,i had already fetched water for all his jerry cans.

My brother later met him and apologize and he accepted.

If that did not happen,I do not know what he would have done.

Every tribe has a weakness and strength.

So it is good to know this weakness to avoid problems.

The strength of a Hausa person is that they accept other tribes more than they are being accepted.

They are ready to accept you in their midst.

But the weakness that i have seen in the Hausa is that if you go to them today for help(like helping to charge your phone etc etc) and he helps you,

if you go again the next time,he may still help or assist you in one way or the other.

If you go the third time,he will turn you down except if you are his close friend,associate or family member.

That character is very pronounced in Sokoto.

My brother lived there and he has experienced all these.

Aboywithnoname:
Thank you very much sir..
Even if you don't send. You have done well by touching lives in the way you can

SweetHearted:
Hello Ruth, I will send it to you now.

When you receive it, you let me know.

I heard the network is bad.

asanwafo:
Just re-read what u type sir. None payment of July salary? Pls what's today's date? I know my president he doesn't owe salary

pansophist:
In the discourse concerning consent and whatnot, why is the subject only on the women and not the men also? Don't women need consent to sleep with a man again? Why is it only the responsibility of a man to seek consent and not the woman? If we both didn't explicitly gave consent to each other and had sex, while is the man perceived as the violator? I'm I the only one seeing the double standards here?

Most importantly, the issue of consent is obscure. Even if one of the subjects (eg the woman) gave consent, and she later went on the claimed rape, how can the innocent man prove himself innocent? The only way I see justice penetrating deep to persecute sexual violators is if there is an official standard form for both partners to sign that 'hey, we are gonna have sex and are consenting to the act", or a short video clip, in case a partner may claim it's was not signed under sobriety.

Anything short of this will only lead to which hunt, and further destroys gender relationship and create fear amongst the sexes.

kkash:
Even if they say yes a million times, tomorrow they can turn around and still say it was rape..... Just try to get a signed document stating there was a mutual agreement.....

jmaine:
No one has been paid... It's a general issue...

Palema007:
Op for your own safety, don't listen to that woman. Yes some Women if not most have rape fetish even though they hardly know it's consequences and how painful it can be, but all thanks to the media that has given the impression that real romance must have some sort of violence or force in it. These women only wish and thirst for things they watch in movies but do not have first hand experience and when they finally do, they realize it isn't what was displayed.

Op please for your good, do not ever subscribe to such notion. Even if the woman dreams of it, it doesn't mean she will embrace it if it eventually happens. Be careful and flee. Respect her No , if you are so hot, seek those who aren't confused.

Omar09:
You should run away from such woman for what she bears are traps all over herself even in her spoken words.

Whether or not women like to give consent before having sex, shouldn't be your problem as a man. As man your problem should be ask for consent and making sure you get a response from her. Whether or not it's positive will determine your next move.

professore:
did u pay attention to all my words? That's why I said strictly speaking, let the woemen be once they withold their consent, if u don't want to be labelled a rapist. They can be cunning you know.