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Romance › Re: Why Men Should Stop Worshiping Women. by lecturer50(m): 8:54am On Mar 29, 2020

Women are beautiful and lovely creatures.

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Travel › Re: Wish Me Safe Journey. by lecturer50(op): 10:06pm On Mar 25, 2020

dangermouse:
welcome back my dear n thanks for the update. Never mind all that transpired btw the two of u. God will send ur wife to u as it is obvious she is not the one.

Amen.Thanks

Travel › Re: Wish Me Safe Journey. by lecturer50(op): 10:04pm On Mar 25, 2020

generalcoucou:
Ozwor.. means may the peace of the lord go with u....

Let me add big Ozwor...

Ok.Thanks for the lesson on what Ozwor means

Travel › Re: Wish Me Safe Journey. by lecturer50(op): 9:34pm On Mar 25, 2020

dangermouse:
U really need a safe journey wishes! Dont forget to let us know how it all went...

I met her and we discussed.

But she is not my type.

I want a tall,slim lady with a good character.

or a medium height lady with big head and big yansh with good character who loves me and makes me feel great and desired.

But she is very short and fat and old.

I am far taller than she is.I am slim and she is about 5 times my size in terms of fatness.

Maybe I would have accepted her as she is but she began saying that she cannot even pray to God concerning a marriage to a man she does not like.

This she said when I asked her if she would pray over my proposal.

Also she said that in marrying a non igbo man,she would have to be speaking English always with him, which she does not like.

I am non igbo.

She said she could not even begin to understand why two people of different tribes marry each other.

Even when we went to eat,people were calling her mummy and madam.They called me a boy and called her mummy.

So you can imagine how old she looks although she said she finished her NYSC in 2010.

But she looked like someone who graduated since.

One man in the place where we ate,after the woman left,asked me concerning her,I told him all what the woman said.

He was shocked and asked me if a small boy like me was planning to marry an old woman.

I told him that I am not a small boy.That I am a masters degree holder.

He was shocked.

Travel › Re: Wish Me Safe Journey. by lecturer50(op): 10:24pm On Mar 23, 2020

Dave233:
Ozwor

Does 'Ozwor' mean 'safe journey'?

Or what does it mean?

Travel › Re: Wish Me Safe Journey. by lecturer50(op): 10:22pm On Mar 23, 2020

Sunnymatey:
Coming to Aba to marry a total stranger. You are on your own o.

Is the lady a single mom?

I don't know.

I don't even know anything about her until we meet and discuss about ourselves.

then i will know if she is tall or short,dark or fair,stupid or intelligent, etc

Travel › Wish Me Safe Journey. by lecturer50(op): 9:36pm On Mar 23, 2020

I am on a journey from Kaduna to Aba.

Some one called me on phone that i should come and meet a lady so that we can marry each other.

I have never met the lady before.

I took the opportunity of this corona viral lock down to travel since my place of work is currently locked down

Someone should wish me safe journey.

Romance › Re: Why Is Nature So Unfair To The Male Gender? by lecturer50(m): 9:17pm On Mar 23, 2020

You know that the natural woman is evil and prideful,but the saved woman can be humble.

1 timothy 2:14: Adam was formed first, and then Eve. And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman who was deceived and fell into transgression. Women, however, will be saved through childbearing, if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control.…

In the olden days,women were considered carriers of evil.But now the bible says that Women, however, will be saved through childbearing, if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control.…

So there is hope for them in CHRIST.

So many great men and philosophers considered women as evil.Jesus Christ was the only one who allowed women to follow Him and contributed money to His ministry.Other great men and prophets saw women as evil.They never allow women follow them nor contribute to them..

So there is hope for them in Jesus Christ.

Women, however, will be saved through childbearing, if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control.…

Health › Solution To Problems Involving Corona Virus by lecturer50(op): 5:54pm On Mar 21, 2020

Please can someone solve this problem involving corona virus:

What can be added to Ebola to give Corona virus(ie Ebola + x = Corona virus, find x)

Rabbis^2 + SARS = y(Corona Virus),Find y .

Find the complete solution to the non homogeneous Corona virus problem:

d^2(Corona virus)/d(Ebola)^2 + d(Corona virus)/d(Ebola)= T(Corona Ebola)^2 - Ebola SARS^2/(SARS Corona)^7

Education › Re: UNIOSUN Lecturer Sends Female Student Out Of Class For Indecent Dressing by lecturer50(m): 4:34pm On Feb 27, 2020

medTechworld:
i see nothing wrong here.... maybe the lady in question turned down his proposal...

Any time there is a negative issue involving man and woman(Like the one involving the lecturer and the female student),

some women would say something like:

Maybe the man wanted to sleep with her,

maybe the woman turn down his proposal.

Who tell you that all men always want to sleep with all women?

The truth is that the lecturer may even be disgusted at the sight of her.

Even if they give some women to some men to sleep with for free,

some men will turn it down.

Let women know that some men have dignity.

Even the naked body of some women may be disgusting to some men.

I know what i am talking about from my experience and from the experiences of some of my male friends.

Although it was wrong to send her out of the class.

He should have mind his lecture.

He was employed to lecture and he should mind that.

I am also a lecturer and i do not care what you wear to my class.

Only don't disturb my class and don't come late

Nairaland General › Re: Happy New Year, Nairalanders by lecturer50(m): 1:08am On Jan 01, 2020

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL.

DO NOT FORGET THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED TO CLEANSE YOU FROM SINS.

MEDITATE ON HIM AND ON HIS LOVE FOR YOU AS YOU BEGIN THIS NEW YEAR.

Education › Re: Flogging Boys On The Buttocks And Girls On The Hands In Schools by lecturer50(op): 1:15pm On Dec 29, 2019

Hello nairaland users !

Let us discus this topic once again

Romance › Re: Should I Cancel My Marriage Proposal? by lecturer50(op): 3:34pm On Dec 28, 2019

CopyJoe:
Of course. It's only a proposal.

Romance › Re: Should I Cancel My Marriage Proposal? by lecturer50(op): 3:33pm On Dec 28, 2019

That is it.

movingclouds:
I think you might be right about u not liking to call people including your fiance..but when we talk about matured lovers, communications through calls is one of the major things that get them going... "I just wanna hear your voice" "just wanna know if you're fine" "I got a gist for you"...and so many things to atleast spit out to the one you love..... There's a part of love war that I love... And that's when one calls his/her partner and the call is on waiting, then the partner drops the other call and call his/lover, and the one who first called says "Hmmm, you were talking to them abi", it's a very interesting part in the lives of matured lovers, they end up laughing about it and hanging up the call with a more intensified love... Any relationship in which the lady says she hates calling is just not one, cos the word "relate" is missing and he's alone in the ship

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Romance › Re: Should I Cancel My Marriage Proposal? by lecturer50(op): 3:32pm On Dec 28, 2019

It is like being in an environment where generator is on.

You would not notice it until the generator is off.

That is when you would noticed that the generator had been making noise.

Same thing goes with this relationship.

I never noticed this attitude until i traveled to kaduna and met this other new lady.

Riele:
Okay .

But my point is , "Why propose when you were not comfortable with her Non-calling attitude , only to regret because someone else has stepped into your life ?"

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Romance › Re: Should I Cancel My Marriage Proposal? by lecturer50(op): 2:06pm On Dec 28, 2019

Riele:
You notice all these but went ahead to propose ? .

If a new lady hadn't stepped in , you wouldn't have noticed her flaws .

You are your problem .

BTW

I too don't like calling people neither do I visit people so I don't think there's anything wrong with your fiancee .

johnkey:
Marry the second lady or regret for the rest of your life. Never ever beg for love or attention.

lilwetdick:
she is not lucky to marry you that is why she isnt calling

you are not special, so stop hyping yourself

you better go with someone who feels you

SillyeRabbit:
Stop asking stupiddd advice. You know what to do yourself. If you want people to tell you what to do here, then you are not mentally fit for marriage.

olumide3367:
Leave am na. Is it by force? You better go and unpropose

Shibaraba:
Go and marry a piece of wood. At least e go useful take do firewood when you tire for am.

For The lady you described has zero feelings. Zero

Erediauwa:
I totally understand how you feel.... I have been in similar situation before, but as a smart dude, I quickly stepped out of the "one sided" relationship.

I will advise you to do same. Do not tolerate bullshit, it should be 50-50.

rtdCivilservant:
Marry the two and observe which is better then after a year or two u divorce the evil one after all na muslim man u be.

murphyibiam15:
The rest of your comment made sense except the cancelled part...op said fiancee and not people..if you don't like calling people that's different and not a fiancée...op talk to her, if no change abeg quit

CopyJoe:
You noticed these traits in her before you proposed to her. That's the mistake people make in a relationship. There are things you don't overlook.

A failed relationship is better than a failed marriage. Don't marry her if you know you can't cope with all the things you've mentioned above.

Marry someone that cherishes and appreciates you.

Your love language is likely words of affirmation and/or quality time.

Riele:
I only sighted that example to let him know that there are people who don't like calls .

MJBOLT:
the op wants to look for a silly reason to cheat on his babe,the lady lacks what you desire in a woman yet you proposed to her abeg carry your cross

Prec1ous:
Sorry my guy, you are about to commit a blunder that is only less serious than going to hell (that is if it exist).

What exactly are you doing with a women who makes no effort? Sex, I can understand but marriage, that is a grevious violation of your sanity.

You better call it off. So imagine, I f you do not call for one month, you guys will not talk?

The lady is not digging you so bounce. It will hurt you a lot but bounce, delete everything that connects to her and BOUNCE NOW.

About your new miss, I have nothing to say but please, DELETE THAT LADY YOU PROPOSED TOO AS SOON AS YOU FINISH READING THIS COMMENT!

I have gone through these posts and i am already beginning to make up my mind.

Some of the posts are reasonable.

Romance › Should I Cancel My Marriage Proposal? by lecturer50(op): 1:23pm On Dec 28, 2019

Hello there everyone.

I have a problem which i want to share so that i can be advised accordingly.

There is a lady which i proposed marriage to and she accepted the proposal.

But the problem is this:

She has not called me for once.I have been the only one calling her always.

She does not want to stay close to me when people are around.

She does not want to come to see where i am living.

I feel that she is not that interested in me because of this.

I want to be desired/loved by a lady.

I want her to feel that she needs me in her life.

I like to feel important to a lady.

I want a lady to feel that she is lucky to marry me just as i am lucky to marry her.

That is the kind of lady i want to marry.

I want our desire(including sexual desire) for each other to be mutual.

But this lady(whom i proposed marriage to) seems to be the exact opposite.

She is behaving as if i am the only one that should be desiring her.

My friend says that maybe she does not want to look cheap.

But she had agreed to marry me,so the issue of being cheap should not arise.

If she had wanted to play hard to get,it could have been before she said 'yes' to my proposal.

But there is another woman from southern Kaduna.

That woman is all over me.

She desires me.

She makes me feel loved and important(The feeling is mutual).

She makes me feel loved/respect as a man.

She believes that she would be lucky if she marries me, since GOD has blessed me with a federal government job.

She even calls me 'My husband'

She calls me as often as i call her.

The problem is that i met this second woman after i had proposed to the first woman.

So i don't know what to do now.

Should i cancel my marriage proposal to the first lady?

Is it advisable?

Please i need advice.

Romance › m by lecturer50(op): 1:16pm On Oct 11, 2019*

Christianity Etc › Re: . by lecturer50(m): 6:49am On Oct 06, 2019

What you say could be true shaa.

Even women use to confirm that men are far better than they.

One woman who had near death experience of hell said women outnumber men in hell.

But in Jesus christ,males and females are equal.

So it is not hard for a woman to be righteous.

When once they believe in Jesus christ,and do good always,

they can make it to heaven.

handsomebeauty8:
I saw in 1 timothy 2:14-15 where the bible states that the woman being deceived was in transgression.

But it also says that a woman shall be saved in childbearing if she continues in love faith and holiness.

Also in islam, i read that women are the majority in hell because of ingratitude to their husbands,complacency in the performance of religious duties,complaining too much,etc.

Also in most books on the testimonies of those who saw hell,women are said to be the majority.

Also in most eastern religions and occultic religions, women are considered to be very low spiritually to the extent that if a man wants to achieve something spiritually,

he may be told not to eat food cooked by a woman,not to stay close to a woman,not to have anything to do with women etc.

In such religions,women cannot pass a certain mystical level but men can reach the highest mystical level.

Why is it so?

So i sat down and thought on these things.

Why is it that in most religious thoughts,women are said to be the majority in hell?

Could it be because of pride?

Why can't women seek God as men do?

The answer is pride. Because women are used to men seeking them,

they believe God suppose to seek them and not them seeking God.

But can't they see that the so called female pride is NOT applicable to God?

As a man,if you ask God for something,and He does not answer,

you would continue worshipping and praying to God.

But not women.They will bring female pride by believing that as a woman, she cannot be seeking God so much,

rather God suppose to seek them and bless them.

But the way you want God to seek you,that is the same way God want you to seek Him.

So you are competing with God in terms of wanting to be sought,admired and loved/worshipped.

I use to think that women do not seek God much because they believe God is male.

According to this thinking that a woman's pride does not allow her to first seek a male.

That may explain why some catholic females pray to virgin Mary more than to God.

It feels comfortable to them to pray to/seek a female saint than God who is male.

It could equally explain why women are greatly committed to any religious system which worships a female deity

But i want to tell you the truth:

God is God. He wants you to seek Him fervently irrespective of your so called female pride.

Don't consider Him as a man. Because your pride does not permit you to seek anything that is male.

Consider Him as God,your creator.

God does not have gender.

You cannot be claiming 'pride' when it comes to God.

PLEASE women.

Also this so called female pride is keeping you from displaying righteous attributes,

because you believe that males are the ones to say sorry,to give up their place for women,to display kindness to women, to suffer pains in order for woman to be comfortable etc.

You as women neither do these things to males and females,but males do so to their fellow man and more so they do so to women.

But as a true believer,nothing should stop you from doing these things to both males and females.

It is not only males that should be displaying these kind attributes.

The display of these attributes is what combines to make it seems that males are spiritually higher than females.

So called female pride will not take you to heaven.

I am infinitely aware that some males will come here to attack me.

After attacking me,they will then send a message to any female that response to this post.

To their minds, they are very sharp.

Males would want to attack me thinking the females who response to this post would be pleased with them.

After attacking me,they will send her message with the aim of having sex with her.

I know males and their antics and mentality.

They would see this my post as an avenue to have cheap sex.

But i trust women.

Such antics cannot work on them.

But i know men will always try all means even if they know there may be no hope of getting the girl into bed.

For such men, i warn you to repent.

Nairaland General › Re: JUNGLE JUSTICE: How I Would've Been Burnt For A Crime I Knew Nothing About by lecturer50(m): 3:36pm On Sep 27, 2019*

Na wao.

It is part of the nature of females to wrongly accuse someone.

Even Titus chapter 2 verse 3,while speaking concerning women said that women should not be false accusers.

It did not say anything concerning men as false accusers.

It shows that even the bible recognizes this weakness in women.

I have witnessed so many instances where women accused men of theft but it was later found to be false accusation.

Before the theft allegation was found to be false,the men's lives had already been in danger.

But the problem is that it is still the men that will beat up and kill their fellow man over a theft allegation by a woman.

Men should always pray not to be the victim of false theft allegation.

And you women that accuse men falsely of theft,

dont you know that he has a mother and sisters just as you have brothers or sons and would not want them to die.

If you are a man and you take part in beating/killing your fellow man over unverified theft accusation by a woman,

my question to you is :what if it is your turn 2moro?

What if a woman falsely accuse you 2moro and other men beat/kill you?.

Men dont have sense whenever the issue involves a woman.

We need to start having sense and be united just as women are united.

If as a man,you try accusing a woman in the presence of other women,

take it or leave it, NO woman will attack another woman over unverified accusation by a man.

In fact,if you want to be at peace with women,dont attack another woman either verbally or otherwise in front of other women.

Even if she steals your money,dont accuse her in front of other women because they will hate you for it.

Please men be united.

Being reasonable in a matter involving a woman does not make you less of a man.

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Travel › Re: Why Am I Always Very Happy When Traveling? by lecturer50(op): 3:15pm On Sep 27, 2019

Newway2:
We are in the same shoe. I am always happy traveling. I always prefer the window seat

I browsed it online that travelers are happier human beings than those who don't travel.

They said so much on the benefits of traveling.

They even said that traveling is a spiritual exercise.

I read that looking at nature (trees,valleys,rivers,etc)while on a journey, is a spiritual exercise.

It is practiced by some people as a spiritual exercise.

Looking at nature while traveling also increases our overall happiness.

So it is good to sit at a window seat and be observing nature and cities,towns and villages as the journey progresses.

Nairaland General › Re: Drop Your Most Embarrassing Moment - Let’s Laugh A Little by lecturer50(m): 11:40pm On Sep 20, 2019

HBB1:
'Biriful!'
Sorry o, uncle.

Thanks you sir

Nairaland General › Re: Drop Your Most Embarrassing Moment - Let’s Laugh A Little by lecturer50(m): 10:59pm On Sep 20, 2019

HBB1:
A Nigger asks me to suck his Di.ck, imma kill him!

No i cannot do that.

He was the one that employed me as a teacher when there were thousands of other applicants.

So whatever he asked me to do,i must it shaa.

Nairaland General › Re: Drop Your Most Embarrassing Moment - Let’s Laugh A Little by lecturer50(m): 10:45pm On Sep 20, 2019

HBB1:
...and you didn't commit murder?!

commit murder how?

Nairaland General › Re: Drop Your Most Embarrassing Moment - Let’s Laugh A Little by lecturer50(m): 10:31pm On Sep 20, 2019*

The day a fellow man asked me to suck his prick.

He was the vice principal of the school which i taught.

I used to massaged his toes, feets, legs, buttocks, back and hand while he slept faced down on a bed.

But that day,he asked me to suck his prick.

Note:What i have written above is a lie.

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Pets › Re: Lions Seen Taking Tourists And Park Rangers On A Tour In The Jungle by lecturer50(m): 2:28pm On Sep 15, 2019

Lions cannot attack you if you don't run.

Also lions can only catch you from your back.

So even if you come across an hungry lion and you face it(ie you don't turn your back to the lion) and you don't run,it cannot eat you.

Lions only adapt to eating any animal that runs and turns it's back to lions

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Christianity Etc › Re: GOD Is Both Male And Female by lecturer50(m): 1:59pm On Sep 15, 2019

7victor:
I am totally in submission to this biblical recognition of GOD as both male and female.

One can recognize on the highest state of awareness that all things were created in GOD's image including humans.

I like your use of words.

You write like a philosopher.

The way they play with words is amazing sometimes.

Education › Re: Flogging Boys On The Buttocks And Girls On The Hands In Schools by lecturer50(op): 5:15pm On Sep 07, 2019

CAPSLOCKED:
MY GUY... THINGS ROUGH.

Yes

Education › Re: Flogging Boys On The Buttocks And Girls On The Hands In Schools by lecturer50(op): 5:13pm On Sep 07, 2019

iswallker:
You must be kidding me..
How you were flogged - on your hand VS on your bombom.. Is your own contribution to national development..

Bros go and get a job nah..

Thank you

Education › Re: Flogging Boys On The Buttocks And Girls On The Hands In Schools by lecturer50(op): 2:59pm On Sep 07, 2019

Chimookigwe:
When we were kids, boys were flogged on their palms, on their buttocks, behind their legs, etc. Girls on the other hand were only flogged on their palms.

As kids, we didn't see it as anything since the idea was to inflict pain and both genders got fair measures of the pain.

That being said, I've helped you pick out portions of your post needing amendments. Strive for excellence, don't say that because you're used to being insulted, you've become impervious to corrections.

Thank you

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