₦airaland Forum

toivar:
Well everyone will receive according to their level in the govt service but I know someone that's a teacher in Federal govt girls college in Benin city edo state, he received additional 11 or 12k per month. At the end he received like 105-110k which covers a period of April to December 2019 and that amount was added to the minimum wage before the arrears came around December last year. So for the teriary institution workers that have not received since April last ur till now, u can do the calculation. That's about 15months arrears. I think if u in level 9, u may take additional like 14-15k additional Pay rise. So for those teriary workers that have not received
minimum wage, once u pay rises significantly this week Friday when they pay, just know that the minimum wage will hit the following week. It's a 3-4days interval.

OK

This one that everyone is talking about new minimum wage arrears.How much is it going to amount to self.
The juniors staff may even receive about N50,000 as the total arrears.
It could be very small self.

Tonytonex:
the female wants gender equality. but will shy away from the responsibilities. when it comes to spending money, they will shift it to the man.

You know every gender tries to exploit the opposite gender.As a man,there are somethings that you expect from a lady that you dont expect from a fellow man.You expect respect,submission,love from women.You expect a woman to give in to you and live only to satisfy you.They expect a woman to give up her identity and live for them.That is the mentality of men.
Same with women.They expect men to act nicely towards women even when the woman is erring but they cannot accept equality when it comes to paying bills.They expect a man to exist only to satisfy and please women.

THERE WAS A TIME I DID SO.I PRETENDED AS IF I ONLY EXIST TO SATISFY AND LOVE WOMEN.I PRETENDED AS IF I HAVE LOST ALL SENSE OF PERSONAL IDENTITY IN ORDER TO SERVE AND LOVE WOMEN.I WASHED WOMEN CLOTHES AND COOKED FOR THEM.

I WASHED THEIR TOILET AND CLEAN THEIR HOUSE.A WOMAN WILL ASK ME TO MASSAGE HER BACK TO MAKE HER SLEEP FASTER AND I WILL DO SO.

I WENT ON ERRANDS FOR HER.

I GAVE UP MY PLACE FOR WOMEN WHO CAME AFTER ME.

ETC,ETC,ETC

I DID ALL THESE TO SEE HOW WOMEN WILL RESPOND.

THE RESPOND WAS THAT FOR THE FIRST TIME IN THE HISTORY OF HUMANITY,A WOMAN I HAVE NOT KNOW BEFORE APPROACHED ME AND PROPOSE MARRIAGE TO ME

.OF COURSE SHE DID SO WITH THE MIND THAT SHE HAS FINALLY FOUND THE TRUE/REAL MAN THAT WOMEN WANT.

SO DON'T BE DECEIVED,WOMEN WANTS MEN TO LOVE AND SERVE THEM.THAT IS THE PURPOSE OF OUR EXISTENCE AS FAR AS WOMEN ARE CONCERNED.

WOMEN EXPLOIT MEN JUST AS MEN EXPLOIT WOMEN.EVERY GENDER TRIES TO TAKE UNDUE ADVANTAGE OF THE OPPOSITE GENDER.
A WOMAN WANTS MALES TO ONLY EXIST TO PLEASE WOMEN JUST AS A MAN WANTS WOMEN TO EXIST JUST TO PLEASE MEN.
IT IS AN EXPLOITATIVE MENTALITY AGAINST THE OPPOSITE GENDER.

daddymummy:
That is what i use to say.

Is it fair that there are 2 genders in this world(males and females) but females are carrying themselves as if they are higher than males sexually?

That is why they place demands on men when it comes to relationship.

It is this sexual superiority mentality that makes them do so.

Why should it be so?

Men have their sex organs and females also have their own.

One gender needs another to be satisfied

What then makes a woman to feel her sex organs is more important than that of men?

Do they not go to toilet and also urinate using their sex organs?

They even discharge more impurities via their sex organs(like menses and other impurities) more than males.

But they(females) carry themselves so arrogantly that they are superior to males.

They believe a man must pay to have them,a man must spend to have them.

A man is the one that will behave well in order to have them.

But women believe they need not behave well.

Is it fair to the male gender that they must behave properly/excellently in his interaction with females but a woman does not need to behave

properly towards a man ?

That is why if a man does not behave properly while interacting with females,the females will say the man is behaving like a woman.Can you imagine that.

She treats you anyhow/badly but she does not expect you to treat her anyhow/badly.



So to treat others anyhow is only the right of women,abi?

A man must always respect and treat a woman well but a woman can act anyhow?

If a man stands up for his right against a woman,they say he is not man enough(or is acting like a woman),but if a woman stands up for her right

against a man,everybody will applaud and support her

Why?

Na true you talk my brother

Hunchogee:
Why will you say this to an innocent people why...
May God richly punish you and your family Amen

Me and my family are blessed.

God promised me that curse is he that curses me and blessed is he that blesses me.

May GOD forgive you.May GOD not curse you.May HE bless you and your family instead.

The bible says to bless them that curse us.

So i bless you.

It shall be well with you and every thing you lay your hand to do shall prosper.

In the name of JESUS CHRIST i pray.

Remain blessed.

Hunchogee:
Why will you say this to an innocent people why...
May God richly punish you and your family Amen

Me and my family are blessed.

God promised me that curse is he that curses me and blessed is he that blesses me.

May GOD forgive you.May GOD not curse you.May HE bless you and your family instead.

The bible says to bless them that curse us.

So i bless you.

It shall be well with you and every thing you lay your hand to do shall prosper.

In the name of JESUS CHRIST i pray.

Remain blessed.

beauty7:
Are females permitted to apply?

What of if a girl from Akwa Ibom state wants to apply?

But they say you calabar girls (Akwa Ibom and Cross river girls) are very cheap.

Today is the 28th of May and yet lecturers are not paid.

Other Federal government workers have already been paid except lecturers.

agnes7:
The rate people are missing their certificates now is alarming.
I wonder what is happening?

Although i dont have system to be replying to comments since i am currently paying for the time(1 hour) in a cyber cafe.My own case is some how surprising to me because i put it in a file and i thought the file is in the small bag but when i check the bag,i did not see the file.Sometimes when something like this happens to someone,we are quick to blame the person.I accept the blame. But i tell you the truth that things like this can happen to anyone.I use to think that sth like this cant happen to me but now it has happened.

Please the general public i need to bring to your notice that i misplaced a file containing my WAEC certificate.The name on the certificate is John John.Anyone who sees it should please contact me.Please help a brother.A handsome reward awaits anyone who sees it.

u know i love u beauty udosen,but u must learn 2 think b4 u talk.

beauty7:
[s]The man looks like Samuel Eto'o.

He resembles Samuel Eto'o the footballer facially.

Please is it true that Samuel Eto'o is from Akwa Ibom state?

I heard it said that the real name of Samuel Eto'o is Samuel Eto Okon which is Akwa Ibom name.

The short form of Eto'o is Eto Okon.[/s]

beauty7:
Sorry sir.

It is not what you think.

Although my parent's house is in Ewet Housing,

I am not living there presently.

The day we met,I told you something like that.

My aunties and uncles always require that I should come to their houses and help them.

That is how my extended family is.We stay with each other and help each other.

I can't say 'NO' to them.

I use to stay in the woman's shop sometimes when I am home because her niece was my friend in primary school.

The woman does not know me by the name Beauty.

It is only her niece that really knows my name.

I gave you the newspaper that day and you said you would return it the next day.

That shows that I was not trying to deceive you.

It was my brother that said for me to travel to Abuja and inquire concerning his NYSC.

Ok. So when are we meeting?I need some of those your novels.

You like reading always.I want to be like you.

Look Beauty Udosen.You are surprised how i know you?Of course we met last year.You refuse 2 give me your number.
You say i can see you anytime in Ewet Housing at the woman's shop.That the owner is ur relative.
I have not seen you there since.The owner says she does not know you from Adam.
You see your life?
Why must you deceive me?
I know you are still a small girl but learn to say the truth.
I saw ur comment the other time.May be you thought i hv forgotten.

petitejolie:
. I knew what i was writing . im just playing with words

OK

That means Abak means valley.

beauty7:
I do not know what Abak means.

But I know that Abak is called Abaag Ikot Anwan pursuant to the fight between the local people and the British colonial invaders at the valley lying between Ediene and Abak Clans.

Abaag means 'valley' and Anwan means 'fight'.

So the whole area later become known as Abaag Ikot Anwan.

This is because the fight took place in a valley(Abaag in local dialet).

Abak became the seat of Government in 1902 after the British conquer the local people.

Abak as at that time included the present Ukanafun, Oruk Anam, Etim Ekpo, Ika and the present Abak.

It was in the Old cross river state.

But after the creation of Akwa Ibom state from the Old cross river state,

Abak is presently a local government in Akwa Ibom state.

petitejolie:
This woman should tamper johnson with mercy o. This north koreans have suffered greatly in years.

Justice not johnson

Koreans not koreans.

What does Abak mean and
Why is Abak local government normally called Abak ikot awa

beauty7:
After the check point,we entered Akwa ibom state and drove via the following villages/towns in Akwa ibom:

Essien udim LGA wherein I saw the following:

Ikot Ineme

odoro ikot

ukana

ukana odoro ikot

Nsasak afaha

Ikot ukpong etor

Essien ukana

We then entered Ikot ekpene LGA

To us from Ikot ekpene LGA,the real name of the LGA is Ikot apene which means "The bush of cassava".

Ikot means 3 things namely:

(1) People,
Ikot Abasi(The people of GOD)


(2) Descendant
Ikot Otu(The descendant of Otu)


(3) Bush
Ikot ekpene(The bush of cassava or cassava bush)

I HAVE LEARNT A LOT FROM THE POSTS SO FAR.

PureGoldh:
Bro....keep marriage matter aside....work hard..when you get the rands...you can go ahead and get married.

Don't borrow shishi from anybody...e get why

Why?

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Humanoid01:
This one is obviously deliberate na.

I am not a deliberate

samwash:
@op, I think you wrote those grammatical blunder on- purpose .
Well sha if the man is working, he can borrow a little to compensate his savings for the marriage ceremony.
But if he is not working at all & no source of income then, he does not have any business getting married if his family can not support him.
Better still let him castrate himself, marriage nor be beans ooo !!!!

OK

mechanics:
No o, don't marry on debt o.

OK.

Let's say i want to get married.

Is it good for me to borrow money to marry a wife?

I know of a man who borrowed a substantial amount of money in order to do his marriage.

After the marriage,he was greatly in debt.

Maybe he borrowed so much money.

Maybe he should have borrowed less.

That is why i am wondering if it is good to borrow money at all,in order to do marriage.

Also If you look at money spent to do marriage vis-a-vis the money earned by the 2 partners(bridegroom and bride),

Is it good for the bridegroom/bride to spend so much money to do marriage rather than keep the money to sustain themselves after the marriage?

I know of someone who became broke after spending so much money to do his marriage.

Please I need sincere opinion.

Please I do not need abuses and curses please.

I just need your input.

Tozic:
Borrow and pay more than you bargained for.

GoldChest:
Not a good idea

OK

yyba:
OP please re arrange your English before the count of 5

yyba:
OP please re arrange your English before the count of 5

Ebenezer2021:
and the the irony of it is that he's a lecturer according to his moniker

Dibodibo:
U better Respect yourself before I give u ........

Bluezy13:
Seems intentional...

I hope he proves me right.

Ebenezer2021:
it's pretty obvious

Akinsoladwayne:
Bros you lack sense o

dukeprince50:
Ur moniker reads lecturer

marti198:
see english.....my head dey pain me.

acetylcholine:
Op, do well to edit your post starting with the title..

The grammatical errors therein can give someone migraine

What are you talk about?
What did i did to you people?
I am ask a smallish questions and you people are here vex

Teaveapoet:
No., it's not good to borrow money

OK

Engrgreg231:
Stop fooling yourself

I am not a fooling myself.
I am askable a simply questions.

Like to saying i wants to marriage a wife.
Is it good to borrows moneys to marrying a wife?
I knows a man who wanting to marriage.
He does not has money.
So he going and borrows a money and do the marrying.
Now he cannot pays the moneys.
The man who he is borrow the money taketh him to a polices.
So i am ask: Is it good to borrow a moneys to marriage a womanes

handsomebeauty8:
You are the first person to send your account number.
when i wanted to transfer,i saw that the initials of your name is O A C.
I do not want to write your 3 names here. That is why i am writing the initials.
Like if i am Charles Augustine Uzo,the initials are C A U.
You understand?
I want you to confirm first before i transfer to you.
You get it?

The guy thinks you are trying to play him 419.I believe he will not answer you again.Why not try the next person on the line

uthlaw:
see one of them.....dat y ena dey die early!

To say that women are beautiful does not mean i am doing rubbish or fooling around with them.I dey respect myself