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Romance › Re: Is It Good To Borrow Money To Marry A Wife? by lecturer50(op): 7:16pm On Apr 17, 2020

PureGoldh:
Bro....keep marriage matter aside....work hard..when you get the rands...you can go ahead and get married.

Don't borrow shishi from anybody...e get why

Why?

Romance › Re: Let Us Discuss Here. by lecturer50(m): 7:06pm On Apr 17, 2020

Romance › Re: Is It Good To Borrows Moneys To Marriage A Wife? by lecturer50(op): 6:59pm On Apr 17, 2020

Humanoid01:
This one is obviously deliberate na.

I am not a deliberate

Romance › Re: Is It Good To Borrows Moneys To Marriage A Wife? by lecturer50(op): 6:59pm On Apr 17, 2020

samwash:
@op, I think you wrote those grammatical blunder on- purpose .
Well sha if the man is working, he can borrow a little to compensate his savings for the marriage ceremony.
But if he is not working at all & no source of income then, he does not have any business getting married if his family can not support him.
Better still let him castrate himself, marriage nor be beans ooo !!!!

Romance › Re: Is It Good To Borrows Moneys To Marriage A Wife? by lecturer50(op): 6:57pm On Apr 17, 2020

mechanics:
No o, don't marry on debt o.

OK.

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Romance › Is It Good To Borrow Money To Marry A Wife? by lecturer50(op): 6:51pm On Apr 17, 2020

Let's say i want to get married.

Is it good for me to borrow money to marry a wife?

I know of a man who borrowed a substantial amount of money in order to do his marriage.

After the marriage,he was greatly in debt.

Maybe he borrowed so much money.

Maybe he should have borrowed less.

That is why i am wondering if it is good to borrow money at all,in order to do marriage.

Also If you look at money spent to do marriage vis-a-vis the money earned by the 2 partners(bridegroom and bride),

Is it good for the bridegroom/bride to spend so much money to do marriage rather than keep the money to sustain themselves after the marriage?

I know of someone who became broke after spending so much money to do his marriage.

Please I need sincere opinion.

Please I do not need abuses and curses please.

I just need your input.

Romance › Re: Is It Good To Borrows Moneys To Marriage A Wife? by lecturer50(op): 5:48pm On Apr 17, 2020

Tozic:
Borrow and pay more than you bargained for.

GoldChest:
Not a good idea

Romance › Re: Is It Good To Borrows Moneys To Marriage A Wife? by lecturer50(op): 5:44pm On Apr 17, 2020

yyba:
OP please re arrange your English before the count of 5

Ebenezer2021:
and the the irony of it is that he's a lecturer according to his moniker

Dibodibo:
U better Respect yourself before I give u ........

Bluezy13:
Seems intentional...

I hope he proves me right.

Ebenezer2021:
it's pretty obvious

Akinsoladwayne:
Bros you lack sense o

dukeprince50:
Ur moniker reads lecturer

marti198:
see english.....my head dey pain me.

acetylcholine:
Op, do well to edit your post starting with the title..

The grammatical errors therein can give someone migraine

What are you talk about?
What did i did to you people?
I am ask a smallish questions and you people are here vex

Romance › Re: Is It Good To Borrows Moneys To Marriage A Wife? by lecturer50(op): 5:36pm On Apr 17, 2020

Teaveapoet:
No., it's not good to borrow money

Romance › Re: Is It Good To Borrows Moneys To Marriage A Wife? by lecturer50(op): 12:11pm On Apr 17, 2020

Engrgreg231:
Stop fooling yourself

I am not a fooling myself.
I am askable a simply questions.

Romance › Is It Good To Borrows Moneys To Marriage A Wife? by lecturer50(op): 11:56am On Apr 17, 2020*

Like to saying i wants to marriage a wife.
Is it good to borrows moneys to marrying a wife?
I knows a man who wanting to marriage.
He does not has money.
So he going and borrows a money and do the marrying.
Now he cannot pays the moneys.
The man who he is borrow the money taketh him to a polices.
So i am ask: Is it good to borrow a moneys to marriage a womanes

Romance › Re: N1000 For Someone Today by lecturer50(m): 10:34am On Apr 13, 2020

handsomebeauty8:
You are the first person to send your account number.
when i wanted to transfer,i saw that the initials of your name is O A C.
I do not want to write your 3 names here. That is why i am writing the initials.
Like if i am Charles Augustine Uzo,the initials are C A U.
You understand?
I want you to confirm first before i transfer to you.
You get it?

The guy thinks you are trying to play him 419.I believe he will not answer you again.Why not try the next person on the line

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Romance › Re: Why Men Should Stop Worshiping Women. by lecturer50(m): 7:32pm On Mar 29, 2020

uthlaw:
see one of them.....dat y ena dey die early!

To say that women are beautiful does not mean i am doing rubbish or fooling around with them.I dey respect myself

Romance › Re: Why Men Should Stop Worshiping Women. by lecturer50(m): 8:54am On Mar 29, 2020

Women are beautiful and lovely creatures.

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Travel › Re: Wish Me Safe Journey. by lecturer50(op): 10:06pm On Mar 25, 2020

dangermouse:
welcome back my dear n thanks for the update. Never mind all that transpired btw the two of u. God will send ur wife to u as it is obvious she is not the one.

Amen.Thanks

Travel › Re: Wish Me Safe Journey. by lecturer50(op): 10:04pm On Mar 25, 2020

generalcoucou:
Ozwor.. means may the peace of the lord go with u....

Let me add big Ozwor...

Ok.Thanks for the lesson on what Ozwor means

Travel › Re: Wish Me Safe Journey. by lecturer50(op): 9:34pm On Mar 25, 2020

dangermouse:
U really need a safe journey wishes! Dont forget to let us know how it all went...

I met her and we discussed.

But she is not my type.

I want a tall,slim lady with a good character.

or a medium height lady with big head and big yansh with good character who loves me and makes me feel great and desired.

But she is very short and fat and old.

I am far taller than she is.I am slim and she is about 5 times my size in terms of fatness.

Maybe I would have accepted her as she is but she began saying that she cannot even pray to God concerning a marriage to a man she does not like.

This she said when I asked her if she would pray over my proposal.

Also she said that in marrying a non igbo man,she would have to be speaking English always with him, which she does not like.

I am non igbo.

She said she could not even begin to understand why two people of different tribes marry each other.

Even when we went to eat,people were calling her mummy and madam.They called me a boy and called her mummy.

So you can imagine how old she looks although she said she finished her NYSC in 2010.

But she looked like someone who graduated since.

One man in the place where we ate,after the woman left,asked me concerning her,I told him all what the woman said.

He was shocked and asked me if a small boy like me was planning to marry an old woman.

I told him that I am not a small boy.That I am a masters degree holder.

He was shocked.

Travel › Re: Wish Me Safe Journey. by lecturer50(op): 10:24pm On Mar 23, 2020

Dave233:
Ozwor

Does 'Ozwor' mean 'safe journey'?

Or what does it mean?

Travel › Re: Wish Me Safe Journey. by lecturer50(op): 10:22pm On Mar 23, 2020

Sunnymatey:
Coming to Aba to marry a total stranger. You are on your own o.

Is the lady a single mom?

I don't know.

I don't even know anything about her until we meet and discuss about ourselves.

then i will know if she is tall or short,dark or fair,stupid or intelligent, etc

Travel › Wish Me Safe Journey. by lecturer50(op): 9:36pm On Mar 23, 2020

I am on a journey from Kaduna to Aba.

Some one called me on phone that i should come and meet a lady so that we can marry each other.

I have never met the lady before.

I took the opportunity of this corona viral lock down to travel since my place of work is currently locked down

Someone should wish me safe journey.

Romance › Re: Why Is Nature So Unfair To The Male Gender? by lecturer50(m): 9:17pm On Mar 23, 2020

You know that the natural woman is evil and prideful,but the saved woman can be humble.

1 timothy 2:14: Adam was formed first, and then Eve. And it was not Adam who was deceived, but the woman who was deceived and fell into transgression. Women, however, will be saved through childbearing, if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control.…

In the olden days,women were considered carriers of evil.But now the bible says that Women, however, will be saved through childbearing, if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control.…

So there is hope for them in CHRIST.

So many great men and philosophers considered women as evil.Jesus Christ was the only one who allowed women to follow Him and contributed money to His ministry.Other great men and prophets saw women as evil.They never allow women follow them nor contribute to them..

So there is hope for them in Jesus Christ.

Women, however, will be saved through childbearing, if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control.…

Health › Solution To Problems Involving Corona Virus by lecturer50(op): 5:54pm On Mar 21, 2020

Please can someone solve this problem involving corona virus:

What can be added to Ebola to give Corona virus(ie Ebola + x = Corona virus, find x)

Rabbis^2 + SARS = y(Corona Virus),Find y .

Find the complete solution to the non homogeneous Corona virus problem:

d^2(Corona virus)/d(Ebola)^2 + d(Corona virus)/d(Ebola)= T(Corona Ebola)^2 - Ebola SARS^2/(SARS Corona)^7

Education › Re: UNIOSUN Lecturer Sends Female Student Out Of Class For Indecent Dressing by lecturer50(m): 4:34pm On Feb 27, 2020

medTechworld:
i see nothing wrong here.... maybe the lady in question turned down his proposal...

Any time there is a negative issue involving man and woman(Like the one involving the lecturer and the female student),

some women would say something like:

Maybe the man wanted to sleep with her,

maybe the woman turn down his proposal.

Who tell you that all men always want to sleep with all women?

The truth is that the lecturer may even be disgusted at the sight of her.

Even if they give some women to some men to sleep with for free,

some men will turn it down.

Let women know that some men have dignity.

Even the naked body of some women may be disgusting to some men.

I know what i am talking about from my experience and from the experiences of some of my male friends.

Although it was wrong to send her out of the class.

He should have mind his lecture.

He was employed to lecture and he should mind that.

I am also a lecturer and i do not care what you wear to my class.

Only don't disturb my class and don't come late

Nairaland General › Re: Happy New Year, Nairalanders by lecturer50(m): 1:08am On Jan 01, 2020

HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL.

DO NOT FORGET THAT JESUS CHRIST DIED TO CLEANSE YOU FROM SINS.

MEDITATE ON HIM AND ON HIS LOVE FOR YOU AS YOU BEGIN THIS NEW YEAR.

Education › Re: Flogging Boys On The Buttocks And Girls On The Hands In Schools by lecturer50(op): 1:15pm On Dec 29, 2019

Hello nairaland users !

Let us discus this topic once again

Romance › Re: Should I Cancel My Marriage Proposal? by lecturer50(op): 3:34pm On Dec 28, 2019

CopyJoe:
Of course. It's only a proposal.

Romance › Re: Should I Cancel My Marriage Proposal? by lecturer50(op): 3:33pm On Dec 28, 2019

That is it.

movingclouds:
I think you might be right about u not liking to call people including your fiance..but when we talk about matured lovers, communications through calls is one of the major things that get them going... "I just wanna hear your voice" "just wanna know if you're fine" "I got a gist for you"...and so many things to atleast spit out to the one you love..... There's a part of love war that I love... And that's when one calls his/her partner and the call is on waiting, then the partner drops the other call and call his/lover, and the one who first called says "Hmmm, you were talking to them abi", it's a very interesting part in the lives of matured lovers, they end up laughing about it and hanging up the call with a more intensified love... Any relationship in which the lady says she hates calling is just not one, cos the word "relate" is missing and he's alone in the ship

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Romance › Re: Should I Cancel My Marriage Proposal? by lecturer50(op): 3:32pm On Dec 28, 2019

It is like being in an environment where generator is on.

You would not notice it until the generator is off.

That is when you would noticed that the generator had been making noise.

Same thing goes with this relationship.

I never noticed this attitude until i traveled to kaduna and met this other new lady.

Riele:
Okay .

But my point is , "Why propose when you were not comfortable with her Non-calling attitude , only to regret because someone else has stepped into your life ?"

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Romance › Re: Should I Cancel My Marriage Proposal? by lecturer50(op): 2:06pm On Dec 28, 2019

Riele:
You notice all these but went ahead to propose ? .

If a new lady hadn't stepped in , you wouldn't have noticed her flaws .

You are your problem .

BTW

I too don't like calling people neither do I visit people so I don't think there's anything wrong with your fiancee .

johnkey:
Marry the second lady or regret for the rest of your life. Never ever beg for love or attention.

lilwetdick:
she is not lucky to marry you that is why she isnt calling

you are not special, so stop hyping yourself

you better go with someone who feels you

SillyeRabbit:
Stop asking stupiddd advice. You know what to do yourself. If you want people to tell you what to do here, then you are not mentally fit for marriage.

olumide3367:
Leave am na. Is it by force? You better go and unpropose

Shibaraba:
Go and marry a piece of wood. At least e go useful take do firewood when you tire for am.

For The lady you described has zero feelings. Zero

Erediauwa:
I totally understand how you feel.... I have been in similar situation before, but as a smart dude, I quickly stepped out of the "one sided" relationship.

I will advise you to do same. Do not tolerate bullshit, it should be 50-50.

rtdCivilservant:
Marry the two and observe which is better then after a year or two u divorce the evil one after all na muslim man u be.

murphyibiam15:
The rest of your comment made sense except the cancelled part...op said fiancee and not people..if you don't like calling people that's different and not a fiancée...op talk to her, if no change abeg quit

CopyJoe:
You noticed these traits in her before you proposed to her. That's the mistake people make in a relationship. There are things you don't overlook.

A failed relationship is better than a failed marriage. Don't marry her if you know you can't cope with all the things you've mentioned above.

Marry someone that cherishes and appreciates you.

Your love language is likely words of affirmation and/or quality time.

Riele:
I only sighted that example to let him know that there are people who don't like calls .

MJBOLT:
the op wants to look for a silly reason to cheat on his babe,the lady lacks what you desire in a woman yet you proposed to her abeg carry your cross

Prec1ous:
Sorry my guy, you are about to commit a blunder that is only less serious than going to hell (that is if it exist).

What exactly are you doing with a women who makes no effort? Sex, I can understand but marriage, that is a grevious violation of your sanity.

You better call it off. So imagine, I f you do not call for one month, you guys will not talk?

The lady is not digging you so bounce. It will hurt you a lot but bounce, delete everything that connects to her and BOUNCE NOW.

About your new miss, I have nothing to say but please, DELETE THAT LADY YOU PROPOSED TOO AS SOON AS YOU FINISH READING THIS COMMENT!

I have gone through these posts and i am already beginning to make up my mind.

Some of the posts are reasonable.

Romance › Should I Cancel My Marriage Proposal? by lecturer50(op): 1:23pm On Dec 28, 2019

Hello there everyone.

I have a problem which i want to share so that i can be advised accordingly.

There is a lady which i proposed marriage to and she accepted the proposal.

But the problem is this:

She has not called me for once.I have been the only one calling her always.

She does not want to stay close to me when people are around.

She does not want to come to see where i am living.

I feel that she is not that interested in me because of this.

I want to be desired/loved by a lady.

I want her to feel that she needs me in her life.

I like to feel important to a lady.

I want a lady to feel that she is lucky to marry me just as i am lucky to marry her.

That is the kind of lady i want to marry.

I want our desire(including sexual desire) for each other to be mutual.

But this lady(whom i proposed marriage to) seems to be the exact opposite.

She is behaving as if i am the only one that should be desiring her.

My friend says that maybe she does not want to look cheap.

But she had agreed to marry me,so the issue of being cheap should not arise.

If she had wanted to play hard to get,it could have been before she said 'yes' to my proposal.

But there is another woman from southern Kaduna.

That woman is all over me.

She desires me.

She makes me feel loved and important(The feeling is mutual).

She makes me feel loved/respect as a man.

She believes that she would be lucky if she marries me, since GOD has blessed me with a federal government job.

She even calls me 'My husband'

She calls me as often as i call her.

The problem is that i met this second woman after i had proposed to the first woman.

So i don't know what to do now.

Should i cancel my marriage proposal to the first lady?

Is it advisable?

Please i need advice.

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