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RomanceRe: Why Do Women Say "Consent To Sex Is Bad", But Turn Around To Accuse Men Of Rape by lecturer50(op): 1:22pm On Jul 30, 2020
professore:
Mainly, they are woe unto men. Strictly speaking, if she doesn't give her consent, let her go, she will find the man that will not need her consent who may then be accussed of raping her as soon as the man messes up (if you don't want to be that man, let her be).

But on a good day, if she says no and she needs it I think you will know as a man. Conversely, if she says no and she seriously means it, again you will know and if you force your way this time, even if she doesn't come out to call you a rapist, you yourself will know that you are a dirty rapist.
Alright.

It is true.

But like handsomebeauty8 says: What if after she want sex (but said no) and you slept with her(since as a man you know she wants it), tomorrow she said it was without her consent therefore you had raped her?

That is how rape accusations are made in so many cases.

She says you have used her, you took advantage of her, you raped her, you harassed her sexually and etc.

I mean the thing is very complicated
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Say "Consent To Sex Is Bad", But Turn Around To Accuse Men Of Rape by lecturer50(op): 1:01pm On Jul 30, 2020
handsomebeauty8:
You are correct. In a book I read in the library, it is written that all females have rape fantasy.

Even a survey that was done shows that women want men to take them by force.

You know the universe is designed in such a way that whatever is your intense desire, it must manifest either in the real life or when you are asleep in the dreams.

If you want something so much, you will get it in your dream if you cannot get it in real life.

So because of women's intense desire to be raped, men unknowingly start raping them.

Men rape women because women's desire to be raped is so strong that men cannot control themselves.

It is a law of the universe.

But I am the only male that does not sleep with women talkless of raping them.

That is one of the best things that God has done for me unlike other males who cannot stay without sex.
RomanceRe: Why Do Women Say "Consent To Sex Is Bad", But Turn Around To Accuse Men Of Rape by lecturer50(op):
professore:
Mainly, they are woe unto men. Strictly speaking, if she doesn't give her consent, let her go, she will find the man that will not need her consent who may then be accussed of raping her as soon as the man messes up (if you don't want to be that man, let her be).

But on a good day, if she says no and she needs it I think you will know as a man. Conversely, if she says no and she seriously means it, again you will know and if you force your way this time, even if she doesn't come out to call you a rapist, you yourself will know that you are a dirty rapist.
Alright.

It is true.

But like handsomebeauty8 says: What if after she want sex (but said no) and you slept with her(since as a man you know she wants it), tomorrow she said it was without her consent therefore you had raped her?

That is how rape accusations are made in so many cases.

She says you have used her, you took advantage of her, you raped her, you harassed her sexually and etc.

I mean the thing is very complicated
CrimeRe: Canadian Lady Says Men Should Shut Up And Accept False Rape Allegations (pics) by lecturer50(m): 12:47pm On Jul 30, 2020
4Play:
You sure this "woman" you talked to is not Bobrisky or perhaps a figment of your imagination?
Let me ask you something.

Have you ever told your girl (I do not mean Ashawo) "Let us have sex" and she will be happy about it and enjoy the sex?

If you want sex with her, do you not start small,small,maybe by first rubbing her back, then before you know it you have slept with her without her verbal consent.

Is it not so?

That is what she will later accuse you calling you a rapist. That you took advantage of her. That you slept with her without her consent.
CrimeRe: Canadian Lady Says Men Should Shut Up And Accept False Rape Allegations (pics) by lecturer50(m): 12:05pm On Jul 30, 2020
ifyy07:
This is true I once told my su gf say I no fit hold body again say girls dey disturb me make we do the do..she just friend zoned me o, women are something else
RomanceWhy Do Women Say "Consent To Sex Is Bad", But Turn Around To Accuse Men Of Rape by lecturer50(op): 12:03pm On Jul 30, 2020
There is something I need to ask ladies here.

A woman told me that if a male/her boyfriend ask her "Let us have sex", she will be very angry and will leave him.

But if in the process of being together, a man starts removing her cloths even when she refuses, and then sleep with her,

she will love the man more afterwards.

She said women hate to say the word "Yes" whenever a man demands sex.

She said that no woman can ever give her CONSENT if she truly wants to enjoy the sex.

As in, a woman can only enjoy sex if it happens without her CONSENT.

If she says "Yes", it is because she wants something from you like money, job etc in exchange for the sex

But she would not enjoy it.

But for her to enjoy sex, it must be without her consent.

Why then do women shout rape whenever a man sleeps with them without their verbal "CONSENT"?

Please women I need a clarification on this.

I am so confused.

You ask her for sex, she will not like it , but want you to take her without her consent.

You take her without her consent, she says you have raped her.
CrimeRe: Canadian Lady Says Men Should Shut Up And Accept False Rape Allegations (pics) by lecturer50(m): 11:52am On Jul 30, 2020
There is something I need to ask ladies here.

A woman told me that if a male/her boyfriend ask her "Let us have sex", she will be very angry and will leave him.

But if in the process of being together, a man starts removing her cloths even when she refuses, and then sleep with her,

she will love the man more afterwards.

She said women hate to say the word "Yes" whenever a man demands sex.

She said that no woman can ever give her CONSENT if she truly wants to enjoy the sex.

As in, a woman can only enjoy sex if it happens without her CONSENT.

If she says "Yes", it is because she wants something from you like money, job etc in exchange for the sex

But she would not enjoy it.

But for her to enjoy sex, it must be without her consent.

Why then do women shout rape whenever a man sleeps with them without their verbal "CONSENT"?

Please women I need a clarification on this.

I am so confused.

You ask her for sex, she will not like it , but want you to take her without her consent.

You take her without her consent, she says you have raped her.
Nairaland GeneralRe: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by lecturer50(m): 8:30pm On Jul 28, 2020
Martinez39s:
The emboldened is a huge lie. You this woman, stop claiming to be a man. grin
You don't believe?

No problem.
Foreign AffairsRe: 2 Indonesian Women Publicly Whipped 100 Times Each For Sex Work by lecturer50(m): 4:26pm On Jul 28, 2020
Dchampion65:
Where are the men?

Both buyer and seller are culprit
Well it is believed that it is a man's world.

To have sex is only the privilege of males.

A woman can be stoned,whipped or hanged for hanging sex.

But a man is always free.

So many things that a woman does that is an offense is not an offense when done by a man.
Foreign AffairsRe: 2 Indonesian Women Publicly Whipped 100 Times Each For Sex Work by lecturer50(m): 4:22pm On Jul 28, 2020
airminem:
If na men, their heads for don ROLL
Well it is believed that it is a man's world.

To have sex is only the privilege of males.

A woman can be stoned,whipped or hanged for hanging sex.

But a man is always free.

So many things that a woman does that is an offense is not an offense when done by a man.
Foreign AffairsRe: 2 Indonesian Women Publicly Whipped 100 Times Each For Sex Work by lecturer50(m): 4:19pm On Jul 28, 2020
oglinyaanya:
Where are the customers who patronize them? one sided justice hmmmm. it takes two to tangle O.
Well it is believed that it is a man's world.

To have sex is only the privilege of males.

A woman can be stoned,whipped or hanged for hanging sex.

But a man is always free.

So many things that a woman does that is an offense is not an offense when done by a man.
RomanceRe: Lady Kneels To Ask Her Boyfriend To Marry Her In Public And Gets A Yes From Him by lecturer50(m): 11:57pm On Jul 27, 2020
zikter:
So what of thousands of men that did it and It ended in regret? Forget this talk, what will end in regret will end in it, the manner of the proposal is inconsequential
True
RomanceRe: Lady Kneels To Ask Her Boyfriend To Marry Her In Public And Gets A Yes From Him by lecturer50(m): 10:14pm On Jul 27, 2020
7victor:
I will definitely say yes.

I am even waiting for her to propose to me.

I have come to discover that I love ladies who approach me first more than the ones I approach first.

I tend to show more commitment to such ladies and it is always very hard for me to forget such ladies even when we separate due to change of locality,marriage etc.

If I approach a lady first,I can easily terminate the relationship but if the lady approach me first,I will not be able to let her go.Even if she leaves

me,I would not be able to remove her from my mind

I find women that approach me first very attractive.

I do not know why and I have talked to some men about it and they try to discourage me saying I must only be the one that initiate a relationship.

But they do not expect everyone to be the same.

They only love ladies whom they approach first

but i am very attracted to ladies who approach me first.

That is our difference.Of course everyone is different in taste.

So to ensure I give my all to a lady in marriage,I want her to first ask for my hand in marriage.

That is just the truth
You are really a great man.It is great men that women approach first.Ask male celebrities,they would tell you.
But if you are not great,women will wait for you to approach them first and they will give you tough time before accepting.
For you to have this mindset shows that you are meant for greatness such that women will be coming to you.
Ask IBB how many women proposed to him after his wife's death and you will understand what I mean.
IBB himself was the one who said so.
Nairaland GeneralRe: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by lecturer50(m): 8:21pm On Jul 27, 2020
Tonytonex:
okay. you tried. it's really an exploitative mentalities things
CareerRe: Has Any Federal Civil Servant Received The New Minimum Wage? by lecturer50(m): 1:07pm On Jul 27, 2020
toivar:
Well everyone will receive according to their level in the govt service but I know someone that's a teacher in Federal govt girls college in Benin city edo state, he received additional 11 or 12k per month. At the end he received like 105-110k which covers a period of April to December 2019 and that amount was added to the minimum wage before the arrears came around December last year. So for the teriary institution workers that have not received since April last ur till now, u can do the calculation. That's about 15months arrears. I think if u in level 9, u may take additional like 14-15k additional Pay rise. So for those teriary workers that have not received
minimum wage, once u pay rises significantly this week Friday when they pay, just know that the minimum wage will hit the following week. It's a 3-4days interval.
OK
CareerRe: Has Any Federal Civil Servant Received The New Minimum Wage? by lecturer50(m): 10:23am On Jul 27, 2020
This one that everyone is talking about new minimum wage arrears.How much is it going to amount to self.
The juniors staff may even receive about N50,000 as the total arrears.
It could be very small self.
Nairaland GeneralRe: My Experience At A Wedding Affected My View On Gender Equality by lecturer50(m): 8:38am On Jul 27, 2020
Tonytonex:
the female wants gender equality. but will shy away from the responsibilities. when it comes to spending money, they will shift it to the man.
You know every gender tries to exploit the opposite gender.As a man,there are somethings that you expect from a lady that you dont expect from a fellow man.You expect respect,submission,love from women.You expect a woman to give in to you and live only to satisfy you.They expect a woman to give up her identity and live for them.That is the mentality of men.
Same with women.They expect men to act nicely towards women even when the woman is erring but they cannot accept equality when it comes to paying bills.They expect a man to exist only to satisfy and please women.

THERE WAS A TIME I DID SO.I PRETENDED AS IF I ONLY EXIST TO SATISFY AND LOVE WOMEN.I PRETENDED AS IF I HAVE LOST ALL SENSE OF PERSONAL IDENTITY IN ORDER TO SERVE AND LOVE WOMEN.I WASHED WOMEN CLOTHES AND COOKED FOR THEM.

I WASHED THEIR TOILET AND CLEAN THEIR HOUSE.A WOMAN WILL ASK ME TO MASSAGE HER BACK TO MAKE HER SLEEP FASTER AND I WILL DO SO.

I WENT ON ERRANDS FOR HER.

I GAVE UP MY PLACE FOR WOMEN WHO CAME AFTER ME.

ETC,ETC,ETC

I DID ALL THESE TO SEE HOW WOMEN WILL RESPOND.

THE RESPOND WAS THAT FOR THE FIRST TIME IN THE HISTORY OF HUMANITY,A WOMAN I HAVE NOT KNOW BEFORE APPROACHED ME AND PROPOSE MARRIAGE TO ME

.OF COURSE SHE DID SO WITH THE MIND THAT SHE HAS FINALLY FOUND THE TRUE/REAL MAN THAT WOMEN WANT.

SO DON'T BE DECEIVED,WOMEN WANTS MEN TO LOVE AND SERVE THEM.THAT IS THE PURPOSE OF OUR EXISTENCE AS FAR AS WOMEN ARE CONCERNED.


WOMEN EXPLOIT MEN JUST AS MEN EXPLOIT WOMEN.EVERY GENDER TRIES TO TAKE UNDUE ADVANTAGE OF THE OPPOSITE GENDER.
A WOMAN WANTS MALES TO ONLY EXIST TO PLEASE WOMEN JUST AS A MAN WANTS WOMEN TO EXIST JUST TO PLEASE MEN.
IT IS AN EXPLOITATIVE MENTALITY AGAINST THE OPPOSITE GENDER.
RomanceRe: Dear Guys, Please avoid ladies with the Entitlement Mentality. by lecturer50(m): 12:16am On Jul 19, 2020
daddymummy:
That is what i use to say.

Is it fair that there are 2 genders in this world(males and females) but females are carrying themselves as if they are higher than males sexually?

That is why they place demands on men when it comes to relationship.

It is this sexual superiority mentality that makes them do so.

Why should it be so?

Men have their sex organs and females also have their own.

One gender needs another to be satisfied

What then makes a woman to feel her sex organs is more important than that of men?

Do they not go to toilet and also urinate using their sex organs?

They even discharge more impurities via their sex organs(like menses and other impurities) more than males.

But they(females) carry themselves so arrogantly that they are superior to males.

They believe a man must pay to have them,a man must spend to have them.

A man is the one that will behave well in order to have them.

But women believe they need not behave well.

Is it fair to the male gender that they must behave properly/excellently in his interaction with females but a woman does not need to behave

properly towards a man ?

That is why if a man does not behave properly while interacting with females,the females will say the man is behaving like a woman.Can you imagine that.

She treats you anyhow/badly but she does not expect you to treat her anyhow/badly.



So to treat others anyhow is only the right of women,abi?

A man must always respect and treat a woman well but a woman can act anyhow?

If a man stands up for his right against a woman,they say he is not man enough(or is acting like a woman),but if a woman stands up for her right

against a man,everybody will applaud and support her

Why?
Na true you talk my brother
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Amotekun Commences Recruitment In Ondo State by lecturer50(m): 6:01pm On Jul 08, 2020
Hunchogee:
Why will you say this to an innocent people why...
May God richly punish you and your family Amen
Me and my family are blessed.

God promised me that curse is he that curses me and blessed is he that blesses me.

May GOD forgive you.May GOD not curse you.May HE bless you and your family instead.

The bible says to bless them that curse us.

So i bless you.

It shall be well with you and every thing you lay your hand to do shall prosper.

In the name of JESUS CHRIST i pray.

Remain blessed.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Amotekun Commences Recruitment In Ondo State by lecturer50(m):
Hunchogee:
Why will you say this to an innocent people why...
May God richly punish you and your family Amen
Me and my family are blessed.

God promised me that curse is he that curses me and blessed is he that blesses me.

May GOD forgive you.May GOD not curse you.May HE bless you and your family instead.

The bible says to bless them that curse us.

So i bless you.

It shall be well with you and every thing you lay your hand to do shall prosper.

In the name of JESUS CHRIST i pray.

Remain blessed.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Amotekun Commences Recruitment In Ondo State by lecturer50(m): 11:46am On Jun 10, 2020
beauty7:
Are females permitted to apply?

What of if a girl from Akwa Ibom state wants to apply?
But they say you calabar girls (Akwa Ibom and Cross river girls) are very cheap.
CareerRe: Has Any Federal Civil Servant Received The New Minimum Wage? by lecturer50(m): 2:40pm On May 28, 2020
Today is the 28th of May and yet lecturers are not paid.

Other Federal government workers have already been paid except lecturers.
EducationRe: Lost WAEC Certificate. by lecturer50(op): 2:23pm On May 26, 2020
agnes7:
The rate people are missing their certificates now is alarming.
I wonder what is happening?
Although i dont have system to be replying to comments since i am currently paying for the time(1 hour) in a cyber cafe.My own case is some how surprising to me because i put it in a file and i thought the file is in the small bag but when i check the bag,i did not see the file.Sometimes when something like this happens to someone,we are quick to blame the person.I accept the blame. But i tell you the truth that things like this can happen to anyone.I use to think that sth like this cant happen to me but now it has happened.
EducationLost WAEC Certificate. by lecturer50(op):
Please the general public i need to bring to your notice that i misplaced a file containing my WAEC certificate.The name on the certificate is John John.Anyone who sees it should please contact me.Please help a brother.A handsome reward awaits anyone who sees it.
CrimeRe: UNIPORT Student Sentenced To Death By Hanging For Murder Of 8-Year-Old Girl by lecturer50(m): 1:18pm On May 14, 2020
u know i love u beauty udosen,but u must learn 2 think b4 u talk.

beauty7:
[s]The man looks like Samuel Eto'o.

He resembles Samuel Eto'o the footballer facially.

Please is it true that Samuel Eto'o is from Akwa Ibom state?

I heard it said that the real name of Samuel Eto'o is Samuel Eto Okon which is Akwa Ibom name.

The short form of Eto'o is Eto Okon.[/s]
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do We See People Who Are Already Dead And Buried? by lecturer50(m): 7:03pm On Apr 29, 2020
beauty7:
Sorry sir.

It is not what you think.

Although my parent's house is in Ewet Housing,

I am not living there presently.

The day we met,I told you something like that.

My aunties and uncles always require that I should come to their houses and help them.

That is how my extended family is.We stay with each other and help each other.

I can't say 'NO' to them.

I use to stay in the woman's shop sometimes when I am home because her niece was my friend in primary school.

The woman does not know me by the name Beauty.

It is only her niece that really knows my name.

I gave you the newspaper that day and you said you would return it the next day.

That shows that I was not trying to deceive you.

It was my brother that said for me to travel to Abuja and inquire concerning his NYSC.
Ok. So when are we meeting?I need some of those your novels.

You like reading always.I want to be like you.
Christianity EtcRe: Why Do We See People Who Are Already Dead And Buried? by lecturer50(m): 4:44pm On Apr 29, 2020
Look Beauty Udosen.You are surprised how i know you?Of course we met last year.You refuse 2 give me your number.
You say i can see you anytime in Ewet Housing at the woman's shop.That the owner is ur relative.
I have not seen you there since.The owner says she does not know you from Adam.
You see your life?
Why must you deceive me?
I know you are still a small girl but learn to say the truth.
I saw ur comment the other time.May be you thought i hv forgotten.
Foreign AffairsRe: Kim Yo-Jong, Jong-Un's Sister To Lead North Korea If He Dies by lecturer50(m): 9:28am On Apr 27, 2020
petitejolie:
. I knew what i was writing . im just playing with words
OK
TravelRe: Travelling For Pleasure From Kano To Uyo by lecturer50(m): 12:12pm On Apr 26, 2020
That means Abak means valley.


beauty7:
I do not know what Abak means.

But I know that Abak is called Abaag Ikot Anwan pursuant to the fight between the local people and the British colonial invaders at the valley lying between Ediene and Abak Clans.

Abaag means 'valley' and Anwan means 'fight'.

So the whole area later become known as Abaag Ikot Anwan.

This is because the fight took place in a valley(Abaag in local dialet).

Abak became the seat of Government in 1902 after the British conquer the local people.

Abak as at that time included the present Ukanafun, Oruk Anam, Etim Ekpo, Ika and the present Abak.

It was in the Old cross river state.

But after the creation of Akwa Ibom state from the Old cross river state,

Abak is presently a local government in Akwa Ibom state.
Foreign AffairsRe: Kim Yo-Jong, Jong-Un's Sister To Lead North Korea If He Dies by lecturer50(m): 12:03pm On Apr 26, 2020
petitejolie:
This woman should tamper johnson with mercy o. This north koreans have suffered greatly in years.
Justice not johnson

Koreans not koreans.
TravelRe: Travelling For Pleasure From Kano To Uyo by lecturer50(m): 9:35am On Apr 26, 2020
What does Abak mean and
Why is Abak local government normally called Abak ikot awa


beauty7:
After the check point,we entered Akwa ibom state and drove via the following villages/towns in Akwa ibom:

Essien udim LGA wherein I saw the following:

Ikot Ineme

odoro ikot

ukana

ukana odoro ikot

Nsasak afaha

Ikot ukpong etor

Essien ukana

We then entered Ikot ekpene LGA

To us from Ikot ekpene LGA,the real name of the LGA is Ikot apene which means "The bush of cassava".

Ikot means 3 things namely:

(1) People,
Ikot Abasi(The people of GOD)


(2) Descendant
Ikot Otu(The descendant of Otu)


(3) Bush
Ikot ekpene(The bush of cassava or cassava bush)
RomanceRe: Is It Good To Borrow Money To Marry A Wife? by lecturer50(op): 6:25pm On Apr 19, 2020
I HAVE LEARNT A LOT FROM THE POSTS SO FAR.

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