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Aboywithnoname:
Thank you very much sir..
Even if you don't send. You have done well by touching lives in the way you can

SweetHearted:
Hello Ruth, I will send it to you now.

When you receive it, you let me know.

I heard the network is bad.

asanwafo:
Just re-read what u type sir. None payment of July salary? Pls what's today's date? I know my president he doesn't owe salary

pansophist:
In the discourse concerning consent and whatnot, why is the subject only on the women and not the men also? Don't women need consent to sleep with a man again? Why is it only the responsibility of a man to seek consent and not the woman? If we both didn't explicitly gave consent to each other and had sex, while is the man perceived as the violator? I'm I the only one seeing the double standards here?

Most importantly, the issue of consent is obscure. Even if one of the subjects (eg the woman) gave consent, and she later went on the claimed rape, how can the innocent man prove himself innocent? The only way I see justice penetrating deep to persecute sexual violators is if there is an official standard form for both partners to sign that 'hey, we are gonna have sex and are consenting to the act", or a short video clip, in case a partner may claim it's was not signed under sobriety.

Anything short of this will only lead to which hunt, and further destroys gender relationship and create fear amongst the sexes.

kkash:
Even if they say yes a million times, tomorrow they can turn around and still say it was rape..... Just try to get a signed document stating there was a mutual agreement.....

jmaine:
No one has been paid... It's a general issue...

Palema007:
Op for your own safety, don't listen to that woman. Yes some Women if not most have rape fetish even though they hardly know it's consequences and how painful it can be, but all thanks to the media that has given the impression that real romance must have some sort of violence or force in it. These women only wish and thirst for things they watch in movies but do not have first hand experience and when they finally do, they realize it isn't what was displayed.

Op please for your good, do not ever subscribe to such notion. Even if the woman dreams of it, it doesn't mean she will embrace it if it eventually happens. Be careful and flee. Respect her No , if you are so hot, seek those who aren't confused.

Omar09:
You should run away from such woman for what she bears are traps all over herself even in her spoken words.

Whether or not women like to give consent before having sex, shouldn't be your problem as a man. As man your problem should be ask for consent and making sure you get a response from her. Whether or not it's positive will determine your next move.

professore:
did u pay attention to all my words? That's why I said strictly speaking, let the woemen be once they withold their consent, if u don't want to be labelled a rapist. They can be cunning you know.

professore:
Mainly, they are woe unto men. Strictly speaking, if she doesn't give her consent, let her go, she will find the man that will not need her consent who may then be accussed of raping her as soon as the man messes up (if you don't want to be that man, let her be).

But on a good day, if she says no and she needs it I think you will know as a man. Conversely, if she says no and she seriously means it, again you will know and if you force your way this time, even if she doesn't come out to call you a rapist, you yourself will know that you are a dirty rapist.

handsomebeauty8:
You are correct. In a book I read in the library, it is written that all females have rape fantasy.

Even a survey that was done shows that women want men to take them by force.

You know the universe is designed in such a way that whatever is your intense desire, it must manifest either in the real life or when you are asleep in the dreams.

If you want something so much, you will get it in your dream if you cannot get it in real life.

So because of women's intense desire to be raped, men unknowingly start raping them.

Men rape women because women's desire to be raped is so strong that men cannot control themselves.

It is a law of the universe.

But I am the only male that does not sleep with women talkless of raping them.

That is one of the best things that God has done for me unlike other males who cannot stay without sex.

professore:
Mainly, they are woe unto men. Strictly speaking, if she doesn't give her consent, let her go, she will find the man that will not need her consent who may then be accussed of raping her as soon as the man messes up (if you don't want to be that man, let her be).

But on a good day, if she says no and she needs it I think you will know as a man. Conversely, if she says no and she seriously means it, again you will know and if you force your way this time, even if she doesn't come out to call you a rapist, you yourself will know that you are a dirty rapist.

4Play:
You sure this "woman" you talked to is not Bobrisky or perhaps a figment of your imagination?

ifyy07:
This is true I once told my su gf say I no fit hold body again say girls dey disturb me make we do the do..she just friend zoned me o, women are something else

Martinez39s:
The emboldened is a huge lie. You this woman, stop claiming to be a man.

Dchampion65:
Where are the men?

Both buyer and seller are culprit

airminem:
If na men, their heads for don ROLL

oglinyaanya:
Where are the customers who patronize them? one sided justice hmmmm. it takes two to tangle O.

zikter:
So what of thousands of men that did it and It ended in regret? Forget this talk, what will end in regret will end in it, the manner of the proposal is inconsequential

7victor:
I will definitely say yes.

I am even waiting for her to propose to me.

I have come to discover that I love ladies who approach me first more than the ones I approach first.

I tend to show more commitment to such ladies and it is always very hard for me to forget such ladies even when we separate due to change of locality,marriage etc.

If I approach a lady first,I can easily terminate the relationship but if the lady approach me first,I will not be able to let her go.Even if she leaves

me,I would not be able to remove her from my mind

I find women that approach me first very attractive.

I do not know why and I have talked to some men about it and they try to discourage me saying I must only be the one that initiate a relationship.

But they do not expect everyone to be the same.

They only love ladies whom they approach first

but i am very attracted to ladies who approach me first.

That is our difference.Of course everyone is different in taste.

So to ensure I give my all to a lady in marriage,I want her to first ask for my hand in marriage.

That is just the truth

Tonytonex:
okay. you tried. it's really an exploitative mentalities things