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This matter get as e be lol, What do you want us on NL to tell a 37-year-old grown ass man like you, my only advice for you is to dump her and look for younger lady, you are approaching the peak of your SMV and she is in great decline so don’t let her tie you down with marriage. Shalom

Op hold my beer

CuteVally:
Good evening Nairalanders.

Please i need an advice on the next step i should take in life. I am a guy, 25 years of age and still living with my parents, though i am not jobless but recently my bank account just hit one million and 200 thousand naira.

So my parents are advising to buy a landed property in my home town that will take about 900 to 1 million naira. But the thing is that i am 25 and i feel at my age i should no longer be staying with my parents, so i want to rent a flat and furniture it to my taste, i feel it is time to move on, i need my freedom to finally face life like a man.

So my question is, should i purchase a landed property at 25 and continue living with my parents or pack out and start my Adult life. Note: i am not jobless".

Op just rent a house and have your peace of mind that’s my candid advice to you, the land you can always do that later in life or do you plan on building a house while living with your parents? And also Buying a land in your home states is not advisable unless you live in your home state it’s pointless. Bro you are 25 and a man you need your own privacy, Imagine your girlfriend wanting to visit you but can’t because you live with your parents doesn’t sound nice. So just rent and have your privacy and peace of mind

Omoluabi9:
Elucidate bro.

There’s something women call sweet mouth, It’s all about the things you say and how you say them, it gets them infatuated with you and then you can get what you want from them so bro it’s all about knowing what to say to a lady

EMEKUSBOY9:
Nice ideal.... But swear say when u fix date with her u no tell her say " she is beautiful " or you no take style tell her say u want her to be your girl.
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You can't just kpaansh without toasting ....


Anyway u see it toasting is there.

Of course bro you have to be sweet and tell her she’s beautiful and things like that, as for asking her to be my girl not necessarily there are ways to bypass such areas it’s all about being a smooth talker. I wouldn’t call that toasting

I no kuku dey toast woman, who still toasts this 21st century, just collect number n fix date catch cruise and kpaansh, no time to begin check time

GraGra247:
A LADY THAT OFFERS COOKING, CLEANING, CHORES AND EVEN SEX IS OFFERING MORE THAN A LOT.

Go and hire employees to handle those tasks for you and your shrinking bank account will tell you what I mean.

IF YOUR GIRLFRIEND DOES ALL THAT FOR YOU PLEASE STOP DISRESPECTING HER.

It gives you no right to turn her to your sex slave. Men please be reasonable for once.

What do you mean? Do you mean you cannot do all those by yourself? Are you crippled or something? Stop trying to act woke it just makes you sound dumb. Shalom

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RIP to Lyon, Bayern sodomy to continue

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WonderWoman5775:
Lol he came to beg for money online because there's no one close to him physically to borrow from, people Don vanish for e area?.. He should just accept that he's an online begger
What I need money is not a matter of life or death if my boyfriend doesn't give me I'm still going to pay for it, I just considered it as an option to ask him..

omo ase like you, come I will feed you, hungry leech coming online to ask people how to extort your poor undergraduate bf, is it not God that will punish you? olofo, shameless being, It will not be well with that your bf if he gives you that money, don't go and work and earn money be waiting for man, na your coochie I pity, werey

cezarman:
Don't mind the pauper. Let him help the girl, he refused, saying she didn't ask him directly.
But he keeps encouraging her to go and leech a guy (her Bf, also a student like her oh) who's obviously hustling to secure his future.
Na mumu oldman.

The equally mumu geh was secretely watching her bf hustling/saving, while she's busy cooking formats to empty his account.
Isn't that wickedness?

Don't mind him, I'm sure he married a leech that has sucked his bank account dry and now sucking his blood that's why he sees nothing wrong in leeching girls and is busy throwing his frustration here on NL. Indeed not all old people are wise my boither, some fools also grow old

chukwuibuipob:
kip quiet.U are still in Ur late 20s.u knw nothing.So,why come her to seek for loan? Did the Op beg a riffraff like u for assistance? Do u even knw what she need the money for? Nut

Lol op said she needs it to acquire a skill, Is that’s not what a reasonable person should ask their father for rather than a fellow struggling undergraduate? I hope you’ll be happy if your son gets such a parasitic leech to call his girlfriend

As for that shameless old hegoat that keeps throwing Cheap shots I can bet my left testicle that if you see me on the road shame will not let you even open your mouth to talk to me. Back to you Op Don’t you have parents?

chukwuibuipob:
U are a thief.Why come here @, d first place to seek for assistance ,,,?Why not sorted it out outside,? Ur parents struggle to give u dat money,a Useless son like u probably used it to play Bet9ja hoping to Win.Online beggar

Lol I don’t bet first of all, secondly I don’t think you realize what a loan means, I did not ask anybody to dash me money, I clearly stated that I would Pay back within the stipulated time and even with an interest of 15% so you are just talking like a drunkard, I don’t blame you you must be very frustrated as for myself I’m currently living a very good life so shalom.

chukwuibuipob:
Why com online to beg at the 1st place? .Yeah! I'm Ur fada's mate.U just round off with Ur service.U are a kid.Dumb goat

Like I said you sound really foolish to be my father’s mate also I don’t come from a poor home, I used my school fees and couldn’t ask my parents for another that’s why I came here to ask but like I said I sorted myself out. So go and talk to your unfortunate children who Will listen to your unwise self

chukwuibuipob:
.Kid.Wetin a beggar like u sabi? Aren't u d same hopeless boy begging for loan to pay Ur school kudi .U are insulting u father age mate

Lol I later raised the funds myself and done with my service. You my friend are really stupid for someone Who claims to be my father’s mate

chukwuibuipob:
She said her boyfriend.She's not Almajiri like u dat beg online/drop Acc number.Wisdom make pipu wise.If she ask Generally/drop her Acc,I'll surely give her.Did she beg u?

Your stupidity is foolish

Lmao you said this PhD Holder/Dr. flashes you LOL better call it off because somebody’s playing somebody. Anyway your story get as e be

Op are you an orphan? Or don’t you have parents? Who pays your school fees? Please don’t annoy me this morning.

walcruise:
You must be an apo boy

Yes oh lol
Are you one too?

When I was in secondary school back in 2010 we used to have this tree close to our dining hall there were rumors that The tree was spiritual, so they wanted to cut down The tree to expand the dining hall so that evening the tree was cut down and there was a really eerie mood around the school and one junior student came to my hostel and was telling me and my roommates stories about the tree and after that he offered to rob anointing oil on our heads, being in SS3 and this boy was still in junior secondary we all dismissed him, It was only after he left that we all figure out that’s none of us actually knew this boy, even though he was wearing our house wear we had never seen him before. Thankfully none of us took his “anointing oil“

La click la bend

tallfish145:
This question keeps hovering my mind about married men who has beautiful wives and still have a mistress or what some people called side chicks. The question is : Can do that without reducing the love and feelings they have for their wives at home?

Yes op It’s very possible, that’s why most men don’t leave their wives for the side chick

Prestige001:
There is this girl, we dated for one and half years before the major break up (not officially), the fault was from me due to insecurity, ego and i had other side chicks then. After 3 months, we bumped into each other, i tried to made up but she told me she is seeing someone else.

All this while i never knew i really loved her not untill we broke up. Now we have been seeing each other lately, she does anything a normal girlfriend would do, she would even inconvenience herself to make sure she satisfy me whenever i demand something from her (not sex).

Now old feeling have resucitated fully, we cant do without seeing each other nor talking to each other for a day. But whenever i asked her to come back to me fully she usually tells me she cant leave her boyfriend cos he havent offend her to to justify breaking up with him. But she told me she doesnt love him And i know too. cos i do check her phone, the communication between them is nothing to right home about, the guy doesnt appear in her chat list nor call history like me. I see this as having integrity

I really love this girl and i am very sure she loves me too (100percent), we are so connected naturally but the issue is this bf. If not i would have engage her cos she is a wife material. She does things for me she wouldn't do for her bf. I have asked her several times to choose i will be fine with whoever she chooses, she wept and told me point blank i shouldnt leave her again. She told me after i ceased communication with her in 3months then she was broken and now very scared what if i hurt her again. I told her i will seal things up if she dump the other guy for me. Now we are still in this issue 7month has passed.

All girls have been coming across it is either i dont develop any atom of feelings for them or we dont just connect, some of them like me very much but i love this girl more than any girl i have ever met.


Guys should i leave her again or just continue with her like this till her relationship die naturally with the other guy. Since shes doing a girlfriend role already?

Mature response please.
Bashing is allowed too.
Thanks as you bail me out of this one.

Simp

GerraMeh74:
Bleeping a girl without Bobby will be like bleeping a fellow Man... Tufiakwa [color=#990000][/color]

It can never be too flat my guy

Fourwinds:
my brother the thing shock me like Buhari is shocked... I wonder where the guy keep e brain

No mind the mumu he de here de ask us wetin he do wrong

Nakamura tins and tins, after all dem no de bleep Bobby

Lol is it the dull Nigerian girl that you expect to ask such questions? You are on a long thing

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Homer SIMPson is your name, these girls belong to the streets, how can she tell you that she lives with her parents but doesn’t cook the food in the house , Is she mad? And are you also mad to believe that shit? To slap you just de hungry me