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bukatyne:
What of your mother's siblings?

And have you engaged her why she keeps putting up with your dad? I think you need that answer to intelligently take a step.

yes she said she can't leave my sister alone in ph who has been staying with her pastor for over 16years now. But I did not see that as a valid reason because the said girl will be through with her university education this year. I tell my mom she is old enough to take care of herself. But she won't listen

donbachi:
e be like na ogbunabali axis una dey live.

ikwerre

donbachi:
Him go dey follow rivers men dey live choppingson life..forget sey almost of dem papa leave house or land for dem and also 1 chairman somewhere wey dey show dem love.

he has nothing, just doing big man with nothing. There's a state university in my village and everywhere is booming, there is land. But my dad does not care about everything. Truthfully he could possibly sell some plot and put his life back together. But he chooses to be forming big and lazy man in ph

crackkhaus:
People like your father always get their due when the time comes. I don't believe any of you can do anything to change him because he is a middle-aged man who is already set in his ways.
Something miraculous needs to happen which will cause him to look inwards and retraces his steps, otherwise his path is set before him.

Your only priority now should be for your mother's wellbeing...so if you can keep convincing her to create some space, then keep doing that.
Ultimately, it's going to be her decision to either remain in the situation or move away for some peace of mind.

thanks so much Sir. I'm convincing her daily. It started to look as if I'm turning her away from her husband

izzou:
[color=royalblue] Your mother has only one life to live

Save her from herself. Look for somewhere to take her to....relatives, her family, village. Just take her somewhere

Your father doesn't care about her anymore. And the worst decision to take is clinging to someone that doesn't care about you

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I'm continuously talking to her, now she said she will go stay with her relatives for sometime after the lockdown. I just hope she uphold to that

Welcomme:
Take your mum back to the village. You guys should gather money for her let her start a petty trade. Don't allow the irresponsible father of yours to know all the moves you are taking.

this is exactly what I've been telling my Mom, but she never listen. She always back the reason why she can't go Is, she can't leave her child(my younger sister 23) years alone in pH. She's has been with our pastor since young age and she is almost through with her studies. 400level in ust

izzou:
[color=royalblue]If you, or any of your siblings have a place of their own, just jejely carry your mother and leave that place

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the only place I have is my room in school, I have told her severely that she should leave, even if it's staying with me in school, I don't know maybe she's afraid of starting afresh, she's is recovering now and the lockdown is still the only issue keeping me in this House

My parents got married 27years ago, since then it has been hell for my mom. It's as if my mom was forced on him or did the love just seize to exit, this I need advice on, from my brothers and sisters here on what to do next.

It all began in 1993, two years later I was born (1995), then we reside in Lagos but my dad later moved to pH in search of greener pastures. He only comes back home (Lagos) once in a while. My mom tried all her best to cater for her kids during all those period with no help or whatsoever coming from my Dad. It wasn't easy at all.

Fast forward to early 2003, my dad came visiting after two years without hearing from him and then my mom decided we are going with him to pH, he opposed but my mom Insisted. To cut the long story short, after we get to pH we found out my dad was living carelessly, womanizing, his social life is zero because he doesn't drink or smoke but he lavished all his money outside and Care less about his family.

My mom strived and engaged in little business which we managed to survive on. My dad only comes home when he is Short of money and acted low and submissive but as soon as he got some money, he changed immediately.

So 2010 I left pH to the village, was writing waec, looking for admission and so on, later going to lag to hustle around 2013 as I'm the one to foot my education expenses.

2015 I gained admission in a polytechnic, after my OND in 2017 I went back to lag to begin the hustle as I have to further my education, all this period I did not visit my family in Port Harcourt. I went back for HND in 2018 but had to withdraw because of lack of funds, I went back again in 2019 because a family member advised he will foot the bills which he later didn't do.

So because of this covid 19 I visited my parents in pH. My mom was very ill, she can't move nor stand and she has been the one taking care of the family, my father inclusive. My father has been a lazy man who depends solely on his wife for survival. He does not work, he does not stay at home with his sick wife. 6am he will enter the kitchen and eat any food he finds he won't even ask if four of his kids and my mom will eat. He will go and sit down in people's shops around the streets discussing with people's wife's. 10am he will be back home, straight to the kitchen to check if there's any food if my mom had drop money for us to prepare food, he will eat it without even talking to anybody, in fact he owns the kitchen now. He repeats same 2pm, 5pm and night meal also. I'm just so angry right now I don't even know what I am typing again.

After seeing all this behavior i advised my mother to give him some space, she gave birth to four children for him and three of us can survive on our own as we are no longer kids, but she won't obliged it's just as if maybe she is okay with suffering.

Today this morning, my dad did the most outrageous thing, he woke up and started ranting, saying does my mom think he is not going to be rich later, and he won't stay here forever. I got the message he was passing that he is going to leave my Mom if he stumbles upon some money. And I exactly told my mom this statement yesternight too.

Please you guys should advise me on what to do because at this junction, it hurts me a lot having the knowledge that my mom is with man who doesnt care or love her, even at her sick bed, he never for once visited the doctor nor the man of God taking care of my Mom.

Abboki:
All this online beggers with multiple bank account number will never acknowledge when someone sends money to them...

They can afford data but can't afford garri.



Lala is my boi

I'm one of the beggars sir, I'm not doing this with pride but sometimes pride and ego need to be sold in exchange for survival, though I have not received any help from anyone yet on nairaland,but i always have the thought that if I had not do away with pride and ego, will I have survived up till this moment. There are so many people who are facing more severe situation than I am facing but most won't come out to say and they die in silent because of ego and pride. And I'm still open to anybody who is willing to help with the little they have. We will all survive any situation we found our self just by giving the situation what it want from for you to overcome the situation. 0034262156 stanbic bank Hassan olalekan

Digmygold:
No but giving out to a faceless, random person does.

OK I will work on that faceless right away by uploading a picture. But there is nothing I could really do about the random case

Digmygold:
And you are.looking for fools whose money you will chop.

no, does giving out makes one a fool?

Please when did buhari said he will share the through bvn

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[quote author=Bossontop post=88858330]
Wait ooo how did kano cases change from 74 to 4??

[img]https://media1./images/ed5df27b536d117876ceddb0f0964d8c/tenor.gif?itemid=14450462[/img][/quote it's not that hard to think

Eminya:
Ganduje said 74, NCDC reported 4, who is lying? Or do we have another Kano that is not in Nigeria?

y not use ur sense for once

The guy actually knows the lady is lieing about being a virgin

Imyourex:
Please where can I get it?

just get at any of those shop that sell alcoholic drinks. Price range 100-200 Naira, depend on your location.

Let me follow you

TANTUMERGO007:
Smiles, give am Adonko bitters before knack and pre-intimacy is so key, make sure your pussy is fresh suck and stroke his diick and make sure as he's sucking your pussy you squeezing his diick that man go Bleep you like an Hungry lion.

You need to know his fetish, like me I don't even need head just massage the diick while I chew the clitoris after my ADONKO its over. The key is knowing his turn on

after having this same problem during intimacy with my girl, she introduced this adonko bitters to me. I started going hours, more rounds the girl self tire. But the funniest part is throughout the number of time we have sex. I did not release

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KingZaddy:
confidence! I Have Seen Less Attractive Guys Get Pretty Girls Number. Just Be Confident And Different, many Guys Use Random Techniques.


My smile Is Usually Very Attractive and Many Testified To Meltin for It. I Just Know How To Apply It, i Practised With My Mirror.


Confidence Bro!

A girl once told me that with the way I smile, I would definitely be a womanizer because Ladies will love my smile. And a lady I dated once told me ther first attraction was my smile. If this girl is in a bad mood for days, all she needs is for me to smile to her and immediately she will start smiling too. It's 5g network

Really

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Jinja007:
please guys I'm tired of seeing people dropping their account details for help.. you were surviving before the lockdown, then lockdown came, immediately u're broke. I mean, u had no savings or anything at all??
unless it's those who have emergencies to settle with their savings. this is crazy because even barrow pushers won't make 3k in a day n finish it that day. they'll definitely have savings.. it pains me more to see working class people also dropping account details

pls let's build ourselves, let's not look down on ourselves by always doing this almost everytime.

you do not teach nor correct a man that is on an empty stomach. Befor you teach or correct me, pls help me and my family with a little food. 0034262156 stanbic bank. H.O.J. You will never make a decision you will regret in the future. Thanks

Rossybliss:
dis is so me,smtimes i get tired of it

I never got tired, imagine staying indoors this period with nothing and any single time you come outside you keep a smiling face, neighbors won't even know that hunger don finish person inside

Holyfield1:
Yes, an ambivert

I think that qualifies me ambivert

I'm not an introvert, but I don't keep friends,. I can stay indoors for a Month if I have the required resources to.


Is it possible for someone to be an extrovert and introvert

KingZaddy:
that quote looks like what was born out of emotional hurt

so it doesn't stand?

Chi59:
Here, not "hear", lad.

thanks dear, what are friends for. We could actually make a good one. Call me Tunde

Chi59:
Is it not funny how a man with a saggy scrotum can say a girl has a "wide" pvssy?
I laugh in shrivelled deek. :

please go and sleep, your mate are no longer hear