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Bomboiy:
Nneka Ede.


I don't want to scream it but I can't help it......


Lol, Igbos una too like trouble







IGBO AMAKA!!!

quadriolakunle:
This is a wow story.

Seeing that you have coped so far means you will become great.

10 years of hussle no be small.

NewDelhi:
How correct is this?

ModestGal:
What do you think we can do about it?

ModestGal:
I have this problem, 90% of people get infatuated with me, not sexually or romantically I think. But this extreme intense feeling of likeness and uncontrollable interest in me that makes absolute no sense to me. Humans get extremely wowed with me, wants to know my in and out in an impatiently funny way, they would want to start an intense friendship/relationship with me, in a very fast funny way. I wont call myself beautiful though, but I'm indeed an Angel in Human form, what I mean is that not like I'm intensely beautiful, but I know I have this Uniqueness, an Angelic presence that is binding, inviting and mouth opening. Also, I do not think I have any features that would be immodestly inviting because many atimes I wear Abaya. I wear only jalamias with big arms and extremely long ones, I don't use make ups either nor do I use powders as I'm fond of rushing out of my house. Of course, I want to be loved,I cherish those that like me, but not in a toxic, weird manner, a healthy one.

I have tried both ways of accepting and rejecting these people, but they all usually end sour. Infact, in a particular case, I almost got my defense paper thrown away by one of these people (a Prof) that got infatuated with me.

It has lead to many haters, sometimes I feel its because I could not return same energy of love and likeness, that's why they end hating me in return, but each time I try to accept these people, it still doesn't end well. But my love/likeness for people actually grows in a healthy way, I don't get wowed at first, or extremely excited like people do to me

It's emotionally draining because I'm naturally a nice person and of course act friendly, and thus it's difficult to manage these people that get infatuated with me

This has nothing to do with dating me please, it happens with both males and females. The females end up doing all sorts of crazy things. Its painful because I don't feel infatuated about anyone, I don't know why people do that to me. I also like people, but usually in a healthy way, and it would definitely be respectful and would end very nicely and the people would always be glad I met them.
Some would say I'm proud, some would say I don't like them, some would just go funnily mute, some would become obsessive,some would want to be controlling, etc.

It makes me to avoid people, when I'm supposed to be happy that I get liked easily by people, I'm usually sad about it, because I know where it would end. It makes me not to want to associate the more, or talk where I am supposed to, or be real me in public
Please share with me how you are able to solve this problem if you have ever been in my shoes, or if you know any way I could stop this from re occurring.

Note** This has nothing to do with dating, or people asking me out, I get healthy people in that region, and no problem there at all
Also, I don't fit in the definition of ''beautiful'' with so many people, it would only take another Angel to see those beauty, so no need dropping any pic
I'm not weird either, I'm a normal human being

ZINIBANKS:
You're fûcking lieing bro a guy carried it once in my presence before with a bag of 300kg sugar he dropped it and I tried but I can't even lift it so what you're trying to say now is your teeth are stronger than your hands right

ZINIBANKS:
Na jazz jare one niggar don do am for my eye before

ybalogs:
A politician doesn't want to get involved in politics? What does that mean please?

BeLookingIDIOT:
That's not paedophilia

asanwafo:
That word paedophilia dey sweet ueeeeee. See as u don analyse the situation and come up with the same word

Maxymilliano:
Gov.Wike, has to work on his temperament. He is doing his best no doubt, but he must reduce his penchant for public outburst at the slightest provocation. Leaders are known to be calm in the face of turbulence.

Samakus:
Your work looks nice. Do you have a thread where you showcase the ones you have done? Not these 3D pictures

SmartPolician:
That dinning set is fine

How much is it?