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Idowuogbo: I sight u!! Happy new year

hahahttps://www.yoursmiles.org/tsmile/salut/t9307.gif calls for celebrity, wia art thou been??

babyosisi: Let me say something here that many men may not like including my own hubby if he reads this but it is so true
Almost every man wants to control his partner
It is a man's nature and make up to control the things around him including his family
The same make up that makes them protect their own also makes them wAnt to be in total control
It is the duty of a woman in marriage to wisely set a boundary and create some independence for herself
Anyone who has been married to the same man and is comfortable in the marriage knows exactly what I am talking about
And it is not easy to obtain ,the man will resist it and term it " open eye" and non submissiveness etc
But you are just trying to be allowed to be your own person within the marriage and there is nothing wrong in it.

That is why I insist every married woman should have a job and earn her own money
There is some level of respect when he knows you can take care of yourself and are pulling your weight .
I have heard women hiding clothing in the garage and in their cars so the man won't be upset
Well if You made your own money and had your own personal account even if you had a joint account,he cannot be mad that you bought a new pair of shoes or sent money to help your brother out .
Babyosisi ain't hiding no shoes in no cupboards,I work too hard for it.

Marriage is good and I love my husband to pieces,he is not perfect by any stretch and neither am I but we are determined to make it work,thank God he is a Christian man that fears God.
I have written here before that I have this one chance at marriage,I will not do this marriage thing with anyone else lai lai
It is hardwork to fashion my life to align with hubby and I have invested a lot into it and God knows I don't have the energy to start it with anyone else
It is not easy training a man to your taste wallahi
Men are tough creatures

baby that's not true at, all. Just few insecure men. Though your Last sentence is true, why would you train me, I resemble your kiddo??

Waiting for swag...

Nonybb: They are following our Prophet and u ppl should not be pucknosing on us. This is the only religion acceptable to allah. May allah bring wrath to anybody that condemns them. Remember assad must be brought down and any nothing neccessary is allowed. Awolowo starved the igbos during the war and he knows hunger was neccessary. This time around, sex is neccessary. Bismillah assallam aleykum

seriously, when ever they come to Nigeria, don't forget to tell me where to get Islam registration form.....

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didicold: What would u like ur uncle to do if d shoe is on d oda foot and moreover how close r to ur uncle, is he d kind of person dat will appreciate u telling him or otherwise, as for me, i would reveal it, not doing so insinuates dat u r ok wit his wife's affairs and for God's sake in ur uncle's bed, how low can she get?
Well sha ,dats for me o,as for u ,do whatever u feel is best but if ur uncle's wife doznt join u to her list of conquest, she will set anoda trap for u, mayb like poison?
Be kiaful o

you are already commenting, gullibility at its peak, how many times do I have to hear this recycled story. Op prove me wrong and I will prove you a liar... It's not a must to post topic on nairaland.

ehiblessing: We women have to knw what we want in a marriage b4 we go in, nobody is too big 4 an abuse, my husband beat me once and he can say what he went tru to get me back, cos i ve always said that a man cannot beat me but when it happened i took a bold step and left d hux with my phones switch off i did not even tell anybody at home, but had to cos of my families concern. And when we where called to explain wht happened d only thing i could say was if he tried d rubbish again i wud leave his hux without coming back and i meant it cos i dont c any reason why i shd be at an abuSive marriage.

the only and I repeat, the only solution is this and not necessarily being financially stable. Ask the banker who was killed by her husband. Ladies, stop trying to change your man, you can only do that in your grave.

chidyhels: why look for escape route when u can address the cause and enjoy a happy life?

read my above post, that only happens in wonder land. And nobody holds the key to anyone's happiness, don't you think so?? She can be happy with anyone anywhere,any day and only her can make it happen. Do you wanna spend your life fixing things that you ain't sure of it's possible outcome?? We only live once sweetie but love numerous times, if I were the op, go for the later.

Hettymoore: and how do you get a solution to a problem without Knowing the cause?

sometimes, the cause of a problem can be a source of a mystery, in such cases, the solution is to look for an escape route and leave the problem behind. Her husband is not her problem, her problem is the abuse and if getting out of the marriage is the only solution, so be it.

Donjazzy12: FINALLY........THE TRUTH!

no truth, do you judge this case by what a family went through?? People are different, families differ, mentality differs. As a critical thinker, I'm yet to fault the op, if u have been able to spot any, let me know, but if you have not, stick to the problem at hand and stop looking for a complementary problem.



And the problem here is how to stop the op from being abused and not what she does that make her to be abused by her husband •

What will happen Hell will let loose?? Op might have said this. Domestic violence are unpredictable like death, if not o would not be in this situation, not even whole Rihanna anticipated it. The only thing is to deal with it the same way Rihanna dealt with it, locking up that gay and putting a restriction order on him after he might have completed his jail term. So dear, ur gra gra is bullsheet...

mysticgal: oh God deliver any man that would raise up his cotton wool hand to touch me >

swag queen: [b]One elder brother and a younger brother. I've never told them any of these things.[/b]His brothers beat up his sister's husband and even locked him up for beating their sister.he was away in America else he would have taught the man a lesson.

like seriously Can't they help you financially?? So you prefer money to your life?? Who told you that you can't money @nothing but just 30?? And you said you read law?? Sweetie, please leave that marriage..

swag queen: !

His mum presently lives with us and takes everything he says.tells initially,my mum was supportive but relapsed after a while urging me to forgive and forget! I told her that if i forgive and forget,he'll come back home and the cycle begins. Lovey dovey for one month,two,three and then a flimsy reason to be beaten up! When he talks,no one talks! If u walk away,u're walking out on him! I'm just scared he might take my daughter away from me.

don't you have brothers?

Please where is 13volts??

zeb04: I tink I knw wat u mean. I get tired of r/ship esp after 3mnths no mata hw gud it is I dnt knw y, I guess I jst push pple away nd dat's a really bad stuff. I remove my sim card so no one cals me anyways I checkd on line abt pple born in march nd I found dat their personality. Anyways gat 2 change dat nd u ve 2 change dat 2 op.

you are just introverted like I said. My new relationship is less than a week old and I'm tired already but still in it cause I'm scared of hurting the babe. Waiting till she breaks up like others



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My gf ended my two year relationship last week, all I did was to say thank God, I wasn't moved and this is how it has always been. I remember one of my exes told me that I'm not even remorseful that we broke up and I simply told her tha ut is a man thing just to get her off my neck even though she was the one that ended it.
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what I think is the reason.......
I'm so introverted and I don't like being around people simply because I have trust issues. If at all I would get married, I'll be tempted to tell my wife that she should always use cd anytime she wants to cheat on me simply because of trust.

in other words, I'm not hurt simply because I'm anticipating that she would cheat, so I would not be surprised either.i might even want her to cheat subconsciously so to actualize my anticipation

I so much love this. Number 1&2 is the reason I never like never visit the politics section. Number 3, funny enough that I spoke on that today, I don't mind being a criminal if only it doesn't involve violence (arm robbery and molestation). Don't think I m a weak guy because I remember I fought in sec school and I m so proud of it because I was fighting for my right since the staff I fought thought he could intimidate me because of number 4. Nice topic. Though I didn't read all that sha..

IYA NGBALI: I like your signature,pls permit me to use it so that the modafoka would get the message

freedom

d2ddayo: lmao wif my pata!!! i was only waiting till oct 1st atleast to hear if it be extended or not, 34k where i wan take gather that one within a month that i heard of it? atleast now i can start saving 4k per month till april next year when i go do am.... naija for show, eko oni baje o!!!1

that's so cruel, some people have cars but they don't make up to that amount un a month. I have a copper friend whose sole source of income now is his allowie which is just 18k, what do you suggest he does?? Dump the car or go hungry for 2months??

Nigeria why?

overdrive: Ur phone no get camera,upload d n.aked pictures make we believe say naa ur area e happen. Abi na 3310 u get.

*grabs popcorn* this is really going to be interesting •••

emmaelectelect: [color=#000000]Why Friend?[/color]

it is one thing to be in total darkness and another thing to have a strong affinity for light. I'm not asking for heaven on earth, but that is not a reason to make life a living hell for me just because we bear the same nationality. That's why •••

And I thought it was because of the lawyer that sued them. Dear God, everything you made was good except making me Nigerian.

Silkmoth33: Heeee!!!!
Dont say that oooohhh!

Tell me what essence is going to a school that is not listed even on d 1000th position in d qs system of ranking universities.

even a high school dude from d states can boldly questions d credibility and worth of ur certificate compared with what goes over there...Even after attaining postgrad honours.

Where would u hang ur head? If it happens. That guy messed up big time. Chai

and when boko haram says that western education is a sin, you guys will be the first to say"kill them, we will talk about human rights later" now that same western education is proving something, you are shouting mediocrity. Makes no sense...•••





Bro, whether you use chemistry or introtech• magnet or bread, gay marriage is bad. No need trying hard ••••• >

networkgenuis: You can't bro.
Use Airtel instead.

I'm using airtel now but it is disappointing, do something guy, I'm tired of subscribing without making any use of it.

olayiwola9: true but I can confirm it lasts for a week

I didn't bother to check how true before doing it. Does it work only on BB Cos I have 240 Mb that is not functioning, please how can I make this work on my device.



NB: I have changed my apn net.g do something

Net.g and house,make Una answer me na..

networkgenuis: Thanks to Anonymous.

From AirH̸e̸a̸d̸Tel 
Get 240mb with #200 and it will last for one month.
Switch to club 10 Padi by dialling *166#
Recharge with 2H
Dial *440*018#
Start surfing the web after you get a confirmatory SMS from them.to check your bundle balance, dial *123*10#.

please, how true or trustworthy is this because I want to try it, guy abeg respond,,,,,

This reminds me of when my baby girl was sharing money in the church, her offering money. And comes back for another one. Well, all the people she shared money to returned them with alot of extras eh, I love you so much •••••

diarra94: I HOPE SOME PEOPLE ON NL WILL NOW UNDERSTAND THAT islam ARE JUST MERELY ANIMALS THAT HAVE EVOLVED BUT THOSE ANIMALISTIC TENDENCIES ARE PRETTY MUCH STILL THERE. LOOK AT THE STUPID ARAB HYPOCRITES WITH THEIR LONG BEARDS, WELL WE WILL SEE EVENTUALLY WHERE ALL THIS RELIGIOUSNESS WILL LEAD HUMANS TO.

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