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Family / Re: Can I Still Marry Her,advise Needed by liberalchick(f): 5:46pm On Nov 05, 2019 |
OTayobami: lol very confused being. He had issues with his wife, he ran away to start another relationship. He had issues with the new woman, he ran away again, back to his wife. However, his 17 Likes |
Family / Re: Can I Still Marry Her,advise Needed by liberalchick(f): 5:16pm On Nov 05, 2019 |
1StopRudeness: OP, this except the bolded. Most countries where polygamy is illegal accept marriages from another country as valid, so your second marriage to this woman will become invalid if there is proof you have contracted marriage to another. If you want to get married again, you would’ve to legally divorce your first wife. It seems you like running away from issues rather than deal with them. Please do the right thing and give your wife closure. 12 Likes |
Family / Re: Can I Still Marry Her,advise Needed by liberalchick(f): 5:09pm On Nov 05, 2019 |
1StopRudeness: He knew about her first child before they got married. New issues cropped up during their marriage. 20 Likes |
Sports / Re: Copa America: Argentina vs Paraguay 1-1 by liberalchick(f): 7:52pm On Nov 03, 2019 |
I don’t know what I did or typed, rarely use curse words, maybe the dude I was having a back and forth with is a mod. It’s very nice that you’ve made progress on your book, can’t wait to read it. Magnoliaa: 4 Likes |
Family / Re: She Went Back To Her Abusive Husband by liberalchick(f): 3:25am On Nov 03, 2019 |
Plead: Source? 15 Likes 1 Share |
Sports / Re: Copa America: Argentina vs Paraguay 1-1 by liberalchick(f): 2:46am On Nov 03, 2019 |
Magnoliaa: Lol I just finished serving a ban. I am fine, how are you? How is the book coming along? 1 Like |
Sports / Re: Copa America: Argentina vs Paraguay 1-1 by liberalchick(f): 7:38pm On Nov 02, 2019 |
lol feels like it was a long time ago. Are you watching the U-17 WC? Magnoliaa: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: My Wife Insists No Sex Until Wedding Night Even After Our Traditional Wedding by liberalchick(f): 8:53pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Then you should have told her this before going ahead with any wedding plans. What you did to her was bait and switch. You gave her the false impression that you would honor her wish of a white wedding night, then you switched it up after the trad. She showed you who she was but you deliberately ignored it because you thought you could manipulate her into renouncing her principles. This is one of the problems in most marriages, people show us who they are while we are dating but we ignore and think we can change them after the wedding. igwegeorgiano: 30 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Should I Continue This Relationship Or Quit? by liberalchick(f): 5:38pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
lol I don’t think you’re ready to get married. The girl has told you the reason but you refuse to believe her, which is on you. What were you expecting to hear? That her mother cheated? Or that the father saw a black pot under his bed, so he kicked her mother out? She was a toddler when they separated and she can only tell you what the adults in her life told her. If you are going to hold her responsible for something she had no control over, please leave her abeg. 198 Likes 17 Shares |
Crime / Re: Raped And Abused : I Am Confused, What Should I Do to save her ? by liberalchick(f): 12:39pm On Oct 30, 2019 |
Donald95:...and also report the rapist, so he can be removed from society. If indeed he’s a rapist, they don’t stop at one victim, you have to do all you can to prevent an unsuspecting young woman from being this man’s future victim. 21 Likes 4 Shares |
Romance / Re: Man Accused Of Hate Crime For Refusing To Have Sex With Transgender/crossdresser by liberalchick(f): 9:40pm On Oct 29, 2019 |
lol my city has already renamed “manhole” all city officials are to refer to it as “maintenance hole” now. As for the OP it’s good the trans woman has the individual right to report, if it’s a frivolous case (which it is) it will be thrown out. That’s what a liberal and progressive society does, we fight for the individual right of all not some. The photographer also has the right to contest it and the police is there to serve the society. This is news because it involves a trans woman, straight people also report ridiculous sh!t to the police. The police is open to everybody to report a perceived crime. It’s nothing new, when and if the photographer is arrested and charged, then it deserves outrage. Modernist: 9 Likes |
Romance / Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by liberalchick(f): 10:55pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
You’re not answering my question. The adoption process is neither cheap nor straightforward. Some husbands refuse to raise an adopted child. We both know that in Nigeria, there are childless marriages. So I will ask again, what happens to the wife in a childless marriage? Toks2008: 22 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by liberalchick(f): 10:06pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
These options are not available to all infertile couples and it is expensive. So what happens to the wife in a childless marriage? Toks2008: 18 Likes |
Romance / Re: (Opinion) The Present-day Woman And Her Misplaced Priority In A Marriage. by liberalchick(f): 10:00pm On Oct 25, 2019 |
So what happens to an infertile wife? Toks2008: 21 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: When Freedom Starts Taking Away Our Rights by liberalchick(f): 10:14pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
bukatyne: If he doesn’t outgrow it, then as a legal adult he can decide for himself. As you’ve rightfully said this is America and their culture is light years ahead of ours in terms of the rights of an individual. The jury made a decision based on the laws written and voted in by members of their society. 7 Likes |
Family / Re: When Freedom Starts Taking Away Our Rights by liberalchick(f): 9:16pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Don’t mind them. They quickly believed this very false news because it aligns with their bias. You can be anti-LGBTQ, that’s fine, it’s your right. However, do so with the facts and the truth. We are in perilous times now with fake news and the internet, it was a right wing dude that started this madness on twitter. If you notice reputable mainstream media is not reporting it. It’s very easy and tempting to believe news that confirms your bias, that’s why we have so many blogs and ‘journalists’ making money from disseminating false or misleading news. When the case is fully over and if it’s going to be made public will keep updating for the court transcripts. For a conservative leaning court to award full custody to the woman, I am curious to see the evidence that was presented in court. Mindfulness: 6 Likes |
Family / Re: When Freedom Starts Taking Away Our Rights by liberalchick(f): 9:03pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
bukatyne: For the Zillionth time NO sex change. How can there even be a sex change when the boy has not gone through puberty? If there will be a sex change it will be when the boy is of age and can decide for himself. It was a custody battle, the father wanted sole custody because he disagrees with the son dressing up as a girl and calling himself Luna. The mother got therapists for him and based on their professional opinion, they told the mother to affirm. If it’s a phase then he will grow out of it simple. The court heard from both sides, and they concluded the boy was better off with the parent that wasn’t going to force him to wear boys clothes. bukatyne:“Gerogulas’s (the mother) witnesses in the trial were mostly therapists or counselors who said that James told them that he was a girl and wanted to be called “Luna.” Younger’s witnesses (the father) in the trial, while not having met James, were medical professionals who pointed out the dangers of a “social transition” and the “medical transition” it usually leads to.” The bolded quote was what right wing media purposely used to create this false news. The jury didn’t buy that allowing a boy to live out a phase will make him get a sex change in future. Which based on the posts on this thread seems to be a good decision. Many of you on this thread have referenced tomboys, so we do know that just because you dress as a boy when you were a young girl doesn’t mean you would want a sex change when you become an adult. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: When Freedom Starts Taking Away Our Rights by liberalchick(f): 8:13pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
FALSE The court’s verdict is NOT about whether the boy should transition or not it was for child custody. The father took the mother to court for full custody, his defense, that the mother is manipulating the boy into dressing up as a girl and that if the mother has full custody she can potentially manipulate him into getting it done medically when he is of age. Apparently the courts didn’t believe him and they awarded full custody to the mother. Each had their own doctors/professional witnesses, the court also heard from neighbors and teachers. Ultimately, the court decided the boy is going through a phase and he is not being manipulated and they decided to award custody to the parent that is not going to suppress that phase. The fake news going round is the defense that the father presented in court and the court found them baseless. You have to know for custody hearings both sides present outlandish claims to get custody. It is the duty of the court to separate facts from fiction. I can’t believe I am going to quote dailymail but here you go: mainstream media is not even carrying this non news. https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7604687/Jury-rules-against-dad-trying-stop-son-transitioning-girl.html virgoquin: 3 Likes |
Family / Re: When Freedom Starts Taking Away Our Rights by liberalchick(f): 6:50pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
virgoquin: This is a misleading post. The “transition” is social transitioning, no courts will grant any parent any right to medically transition a minor. The bolded is what the mother went to fight for in court. The boy is in a girly phase and the father wanted to suppress it, just as our “agemates” were allowed to phase out their tomboy period this mother wants her son to be able to do the same. 5 Likes |
Family / Re: Who Should Be The First SON. by liberalchick(f): 6:14pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
Sad PrimadonnaO: 2 Likes |
Family / Re: Can Lack Of Communication End A Maariage? by liberalchick(f): 5:49pm On Oct 23, 2019 |
daddytime: Well, without comprehension, communication can not occur. If the receiver doesn’t understand, then there’s no communication. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Who Should Be The First SON. by liberalchick(f): 4:10pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
If you can’t treat your adopted child as you would your bio child then you’ve no business adopting a child. 28 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: Sometimes I Regret Marrying My Wife by liberalchick(f): 1:06pm On Oct 22, 2019 |
I am sorry I know you mean well but depression doesn’t make you a violent person. I have worked with depressed people and I have been depressed myself and depressed people don’t maim children. She is a violent person simple. In fact when you’re depressed you withdraw not attack. Op, when violence enters a marriage/relationship then a line has been crossed and it’s no longer healthy. Honestly, I am not optimistic about the future of that marriage. You should try a marriage counselor but I am sorry I am not hopeful, people rarely change. I agree with pocohantas observe how your girlfriend/boyfriend act around people that she/he isn’t going to gain anything from/or trying to impress that’s her/his true character. olabrinks: 171 Likes 9 Shares |
Romance / Re: How Young Ladies Mistakenly And Regretfully Lose Their Virginity by liberalchick(f): 7:00am On Oct 22, 2019 |
Michellekabod2: The bolded is on the mark! What a brilliant way to put it. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why Do Broke & Jobless Lady Degrade And Insults Broke & Jobless Guys? by liberalchick(f): 9:50pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
lol bless your heart for thinking they are somehow different from the male monikers. They don’t do anything because they see nothing wrong in such behavior. Michellekabod2: 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Do Broke & Jobless Lady Degrade And Insults Broke & Jobless Guys? by liberalchick(f): 9:02pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Michellekabod2: You see why I say you like to state what I didn’t say? In most civilized societies a child has a right to education and it’s actually punishable. A child doesn’t attend a university. Obviously as an adult your parent don’t owe you sh!t. 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Do Broke & Jobless Lady Degrade And Insults Broke & Jobless Guys? by liberalchick(f): 8:43pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Michellekabod2: It’s either you’ve not been paying attention or you’re being ignorant on purpose. I am actually a one trick pony on this forum when it comes to feminism lol my main issue has always been protecting the individual choice, I talk about it all the time. My definition of “choice” has always been the same it hasn’t changed. In a civil society, a “choice” that affects another the ability to choose will never stand. In your examples; a father that refuses to send a girl child to school has obstructed the child’s individual civil liberty; a right to education. The boss has impeded the female’s right to a fair wage. (You can switch the sexes, still applies) We’ve been on this since June across three threads, I am not doing this with you again, of course you’re free to continue your shade, it’s your right. I just think it’s silly for two women that agree most of the time to be going back and forth about a nuanced view on feminism, on a thread that another woman is being attacked for her looks. What two grown consenting adults decide and chose on how they handle finances in their relationship, doesn’t affect me or you. 6 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Do Broke & Jobless Lady Degrade And Insults Broke & Jobless Guys? by liberalchick(f): 7:48pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
Michellekabod2: Yea that’s why you created a whole thread to call me out, when I didn’t respond, you quoted a comment I made since June. I responded, and we both agreed to disagree. On the same thread you made another dig, I called you out. Anytime feminism is mentioned you reference our discussion and twist what I said. Michellekabod2: Example of you twisting what I said; please quote here where I made that statement. So saying people should do what they want to do in their personal lives without shame is holding on to a stereotype?!! Where did I say men are to be financially responsible for ladies? Michellekabod2: Jeez, I didn’t think I had to explain what a personal choice is, a choice you make that only affects you. Obviously in your examples each of those choices affects/limits/obstructs another individual’s liberty. I never said stereotype and choice was synonymous. I have said this ad nauseum, and I hope this time around you finally get it and stop twisting my words. No gender should have a pre-defined role of the responsibility of footing bills, so men and women should not be shamed if/when they decide on which financial role they take in a relationship. E.G a man should not be shamed if he is financially dependent in a relationship. Michellekabod2: I will when you stop harassing me for a comment I made since June! 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Why Do Broke & Jobless Lady Degrade And Insults Broke & Jobless Guys? by liberalchick(f): 5:55pm On Oct 19, 2019 |
lol Michelle, really?!! You’re still on my case? lol babe you need to fvcking move on, not everyone will agree with you. I believe that with every civil liberty we fight for, people should decide what they want to do with their free will to choose without shame and recrimination. Some men don’t like financially independent women, let them choose; some men like financially independent women, let them choose. There are lots of problematic sexist men and women here on this forum, yet you continue to throw shade and harass me because we disagree 5% of the time. Michellekabod2: 5 Likes |
Romance / Re: Which Tribe Treats Their Wives Better? Pls Be Honest And Objective. by liberalchick(f): 6:10pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
Yes this will be true if Nigerian marriages are based on the individual, we know this is not true. A Nigerian wife marries the husband, the family and all the culture that come with his tribe. How successful are Nigerian men at protecting their wives from the aforementioned? Only some are brave enough to go against the grain. I have also seen men of varying tribes treat their wives good or bad. Fashdeejay: 11 Likes |
Romance / Re: Which Tribe Treats Their Wives Better? Pls Be Honest And Objective. by liberalchick(f): 6:04pm On Oct 04, 2019 |
It’s not a myth. There are some cultures that treat women better than others. The question was “which tribe treats a wife better?” lol @ bolded. stinflame: 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: What Is With All These Naija Girls And Tattoos All Of A Sudden? by liberalchick(f): 1:35pm On Oct 02, 2019 |
Yup Magnoliaa: 1 Like |
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