Regiomontanus:
I did not any part of his post instead I pointed you out for ignoring certain parts of his post. Keep playing dumb. If at this stage you don't know that read a write up completely before attacking the writer, you can't be helped. If you can't understand such a simple write up by Martinez39, you can't be helped. At your age, you call a clarification the addition of "some"? Do you know what it means to clarify?

When Martinez39 said he can't expect reasoning from the female gender on certain issues, he seemed like a misogynist but now I can see where the wise guy is coming from. Good day and from henceforth, I won't engage you. Rot in your foolishness.

Regiomontanus:
You are a shameless and pathetic liar or your brain did not develop properly. You are very manipulative. Beside, why read the first part? Are you not supposed to read the whole thing? What sensible person reads just the first half of someone's write up and attacks them? Are you okay?

You purposely picked just the first part so you can avoid the clarification in the second picture below and therefore have some ground to attack me since your emotions are against me.

pic 1: The very first thing you will see in his write up. How come you got your inference for the first half of his post? Are you that dull? Despite this you and other dull girls still attacked him for painting all fathers as saints and all mothers as evil.
pic 2: @blue part, Martinez39 made himself clear again that some mothers could be good while the fathers could be at fault. No sensible person has any ground to accuse Martinez39 of generalising. Only daft humans claimed Martinez39 was generalising.

KanuSE:


I quite understand your drift but this is not an issue of We vs Them. The Op is addressing the issue of 'manipulating mothers' whose actions ain't in the best interest of the kids.

Gerrit?

Regiomontanus:
Lol. Women. The op is about mothers who unfairly alienate children from fathers. The lesson is for children to think for themselves.

GLYCOLYSISS:

Emotions !
Guys,pls ignore these lady,she got nothing pertaining to the write up to offer,rather she may even end up spoiling your beautiful Sunday morning for you with her emotional gimmicks !

You don't fight a shark in the sea,unless you want to be turn to shred.
The same way you don't engage a woman if she go emotional,you're never going to win.

Elliot2:
Why are you people like this na? You have the liberty to create your own thread about dads who are really deadbeats. just leave this for those who can relate.

Elliot2:
See how a well articulated topic has been spoilt by idiots who should be in the caves. This is one topic that would have had meaningful engagement if it were on quora.
Well,the truth is that a good number of mothers are not altruistic in their show of love toward their children. Like every other things women easily create competition even when uncalled for,they are in a competition for the child's attention; one which they get and perpetually use. This becomes especially pronounced if their is a friction between the woman and the man. It is as if they book-keep every act of kindness towards the child; they highlight those deeds,trying to reinforce your memory. You remember their acts of kindness more than you do for your dad's. In fact, most mothers' love is a weapon they consciously build and nurture.

larryking540:
To all the single guys out there,to every married man, to every hustler base in 9ja and outside 9ja,
pls and pls, create time for ur kids, it's very important,

I always speak from experience, I was at the backyard of my house the other day, and I noticed that my next door neighbor just had a misunderstanding with the wife and after the man left the house, the wife sat outside the house doing some hand laundry, with 2 of the kids around her, u need to see the way d lady was saying some harsh words to the kids about their father, I wouldn't want to say it, cus it was just not worth hearing such from her, I just went back into my room and I sat on my couch and reason that if this man and woman continues to have such a misunderstanding and while the wife spends more of the time with d kids, trust me, the kids will channel so much hate for their father, even thinking that their mother is the bread winner of the house, not knowing is their father ,,


So pls my fellow men out there,
always create time for your kids, call them, if u are base outside the country, do a Skype call with them,
often, if u can call them every day by evening call them because na old age matters o,
for u men who are within the country, calls check up on them via calls or chat, a 1 minutes call will go a long way in their thinking about anyone has said or told them concerning u

Speaking from experience, that's is what saved my own father that we still use to respect him till date, even though my own mother backlash at hime at his back ,a day never passes by my father doesn't drop a call on my cell phone, infact he call me pass mtn,
and dat is what I have actually used to prove my mother wrong,

I hate people that pretend,

LocalNietzsche:
Human beings have always wandered and settle somewhere. Whether is intra-continental or inter-continental. When the Dutch settled at the southern Africa, it was a no man's land. Remember the concept of a nation state not kingdoms or hermits is relatively modern idea. Have you seen the size of South Africa? There was no kingdom of that size before Advent of colonialism in Africa at that location.

LocalNietzsche:
What makes someone indigenous? By your Logic Fulani are not indigenous to Nigeria.

LocalNietzsche:
The Afrikaans. They are natives. There ancestors build that nation from the scratch. There were not colonialists. They were settlers.

Just30:
what is wrong is, you decided to be xenophobic to murder and Chase Ghanaians who came into your country doing their own businesses


today you are crying about South Africans

Ghanaians dont even make noise about
your whole Ghana must go episode
All the time i get to hear it, it is a Nigerian talking about Ghana must go.

LocalNietzsche:
I hope you have the same view when Yorubas start shouting Igbos must leave Lagos. Cause that sentiment is strong too now.

Just30:
It wasnt the cocoa sector that brought workers to Ghana
it was the manufacturing sector

There was more work than available workers
people were house freely on the Ghanaian taxpayer dime.

It is only reasonable that they be sent back to their countries when the economy can no longer house and hire them.

Just30:
Ghana did not expel Nigerians in the 60s

Ghana expel Workers whom Ghana brought into Ghana
employed them, housed them

Those are the people Ghana expel.
Their services werent needed anymore and they werent only nigerians.

Just30:
Ask every single African country
what Ghana contributed to their economy and in making their country a free one.
whiles you are at it, go and ask your historians of how Zik was given employment in Accra and trained to become a freedom fighter.

Ghana sent millions and cloths and medicines to both Liberia and Senegal during all of their crisis.
Comment on things you know about next time.

In the 80s, Ghana transported it own citizens back to Ghana in buses and ships
and yes, people were killed

isthatso:
where did Nigeria get $61B from? it's not taday we have been giving false figures in our headlines. And if it is true it just shows our stupidity is not today it started, you dont have light, road, rail your reserves have never been up tp $50B and you are spending $60b to free south africans from aparthied? When America invaded Kuwait and irag at least they got something in return....Oil and contracts for American companies.


Anyway I digress the figure is obviously not correct!

LocalNietzsche:
This a classic they "They came for the bla bla but I didn't care because I was not bla bla......... Finally when they came for me, there was no one left to defend me."

They first came for the White Indigenous South Africans and every body shrugged. Now they are coming for other Africans.

Economic grievance whether in South Africa, within Nigeria, is never a justification for violence against a certain nationality or ethnic group. Period!!!!!

johnchins:
Why is Chioma looking sad up there?

baby124:

People really have a problem with just minding their own business and focusing on their life. If they are busy, happy and satisfied with their life, they wouldn’t have the time to monitor and give unsolicited advise!

cooooooks:
Even after she left him, he still killed her.

Please my Nigerian sisters, NEVER stay with an abusive partner. There is no gain. It is not virtuous. Please respect your life and vamooz!!

shine12:
I use to have a cash at hand mentality. While I agree that too much debt is bad for an individual and that the financial companies in the western world are almost operating at usury level now and very greedy at the same time how do you expect a drop-out bus driver to buy a house, a family car, pay for car insurance with cash at hand. Its through credit.
In the western world, the jobs that are frowned upon in Africa like a bus driver can guarantee a mortgage and the bus driver can even own a house and a family car through credit.
Credit is nothing but borrowing from your expected future earnings. The buy with cash at hand mentality doesn't mean anything. In fact credit drives growth. The reason why we don't have as much infrastructural development in Africa is that FDI credit is not coming our way.

A large nation cannot move to middle income or high income status without credit to coming from consumer spending.

Hypothetical Question:
If you have £100,000 at hand and you can invest it and net a 10% yield yearly or rather buy a house and pay 2% interest on the loan. Do you buy with the "cash" or invest your money and pay the credit interest from your investment income and be left with 8%.

kunmiiii:

This pretty much sums it all up.
And the music, how I miss the classics nothing but din and racket are called songs now.

nextstep:


The policy doesn't even make sense, since it only affects people who are already US citizens, who give birth while abroad. It does not affect children born in the US nor their (possibly foreign) parents.

wamiikechukwu:



I remember watching a YouTube video on the executive power of the US president.

the president can do much with an executive order, it is treated as a law as far as the judge of the highest court approves it.

well, how do you think he has been waging trade war? through executive orders cos congress will definitely not allow him.

Watercarrier:

Thank you so much, I appreciate.

aaronson:
Age is irrelevant in all any form of relationship in life Even at your work place. What really matters is the ability or capability to dominate or to be dominated. I call it power struggle. When people gets dominated they succumb to it by justifying age difference.

It don't matter if you a teenager, if you have the resources to dominate your peers or woman, you would naturally earn your respect. Age is none but a number.