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Which side of Gambia do you have an office.
My peeps want to set something up there and can you give details abt the internet connection.

It happens, It's as if the world is crumbling on your head, it's as if you don't know how to make things work. Nevertheless, look inward nd draw strenght from your inner ability, Pray if you can. Get something else you can push the pain into.

e.g see yourself as somebody that want to be better than she left you so you can channel alll the energy into a professional course, I bet you you will pass, . or Channel it into sport if you like 1, u will excel or be reading books or be attending programs. Men you will come out better.

It's not meant to be , if it has been meant to be, it will work out.

Prof. Othman Kyari, Prof. A. Akinsola,Prof. Kyari , Just wondering how they became a Prof if this is the first sucesful one they got.

Kudos to the 9ija Dr. Never despite the days of little begi, ing

Take heart, It Happens in life. Thank god she did not disappaer on ur wedding day or start affair when she is fully married.

Thank your star now and move on, check beside, around you, there are ladies there that loves you. Get along and get a new life


Peleeeee

^^^ What is the essence of being a frend if you cannot tell me the hardened truth undiluted. That is what friends are meant for, We are more that sharing common interest or just aquitances. It's better to hear the truth from a friend than to be hearing the bombshell from an outsider, a stranger. A stranger can use it to abuse you, a friend will use the same information to advise you.

It is not an AMEBO thing, at least it's not a rumour, it's the truth he is speaking about.

@Shaunscot, R u still busy gazing at the star?

@seyibrown ,
How will you feel if your friend knows that the guy you are about to tie the knot with is a serial rapist or armed robber or a cultist? You are not aware and ur best friend is aware.   wont you feel betrayed by that friend?

@NikkyKay,
We can see the extent you girls can go to get married after messing up their life, some can even go to the extent of doing VOODOO to get a man to marry them.

What was she thinking when she was doing the video? Forgiveness comes from confession not by adding another deciet.
The bedrock of every Successful relationship should be TRUST. Trust don't come from deciet, they come from the truth.

Desperadoes everywhere!

It's not about destroying the girl's happiness, It all about NOT DESTROYING my friends happiniess. Whether I tell him now or not, The secret is out there, He is going to know soon., May be he is even reading this posts.

Do you need anothe BIG LIE to cover a lie in the name of remorse?, If you are remorse, come out clean and tell your guy that i have done it before (kini big deal?) you might spare him the 'horrific' details  instead of lie ingggg and still puting another lie lie (virgin operation).

somebody like the girl can lie to get herself a certificate then she need another lie to get herself a job, then another set of lies to get herself promotion and somebody like IYABSIRA is saying she is a good girl because she has a pure heart.

if she has a pure heart come out clean and stop deceieving the man. If the man loves you, he can still go ahead and marry you and stay beside you whenever anybody want to use your past to haunt you. Instaed of cajoling him to marry you at ALL COST

Poster say the truth and Let the devil be ashamed and be free from guilty conscience.

@poster,
I wouldn't have done better for a friend that we have been through all together. GOOD MEN DESERVES GOOD WOMEN.

^^^ I guess you just butress my point of calling you a FEMINIST. If somebody has done wrong regardless of sex, let's not be afraid of saying it point blank.

If it's the poster relation, He would have talk sense into the Girl's head. If guys sleep with his friends Girl, we all in Nl always condemn the act. Not because they are guys.

It's not been harsh on a girl, it's all about saying the truth undiluted.
let us assume you know an impotent man/or a man with HIV and your friend is about to get married to the same impotent man.Witjh HIV. and He has been lying to the GIRL what will you do? will you keep quiet and let her run into eternal pain because she is a girl?

even if being impotent or HIV is too far. What is the man is a married man with kids and was deceieving your sister What will you do, Keep quiet because she is a girl and you don;t want to be harsh on her.

Common, create a level playing ground and stop bein a sexist or what do they call it.

^^^May be definition of friend from a guy perspective is different from ladies.
To a guy: My friend is my core paddy, eje mi, My personal person that I can entrust my life with, Somebody that got my back always and Somebody that watches my back tooo, a brother from another mother. I can't see such a core person like that going down the drain of deciet and I will keep quiet. THAT IS A BETRAYAL.
To guys, before a girl comes to his life, he has known his friend.

If he happened to know such a thing and he did not tell me, common forget the friendhsip.
He is not killing anybody by saying the truth, there is no point being economical about it. He shoould notify is friend, not in a judgemental way, if the guy can live by it fine, if not move on. Such a girl can even kill my friend if she knows that he has life insurance worth millions somewhere. should he wait till that happen before he speak out.

What I see here is Desperation to the CORE.


Even if you are not bad as the girl, Just assume he is your brother that is about to make the move without him knowing.

^^^ From your post, you apologised, 3 weeks later he called and you resolved it. Not in the case of the posters friend , The girl was bad, she did not tell the man that she is not a virgin. If he has told the man and the man can live with it fine, if he cannot then he will move on. Marriage should be put on trust not deception.

interested

Too many feminist in the house.
My question to both nikkykay,Valadiva: is this?
If you find out and see your husby to be in a MO.JO film online, what will you do (mind you, the guy is claiming innocenty).

If the guy in question is your younger or elder brother and you saw the movie of her girl online or in a fone or youtube, what will you do?

Will you be happy that your brother is being tagged OKO ASHEWO out there unkon to him and known to u.

In as much as NL is an anonymous, I believe we should be putting people into our shoes before advising them.

If this lady in question know that she still want to get married in the future why did she engage in such immoral act up to the extent of having about 1 hour movie.

she still have the gut of telling the guy a BIG Lie, and she need another BIG Lie to cover it up.

It's her past let it haunt her, she did the mess , let her clean it up. No matter how the it's been hidden now, It will be revealed sooner or later, then The situation might have been worse that this.

Well, i f I am the poster and the friend is very close to my heart, sincerely I will let him know (not in a judgemental way and i will leave him to decide). If he break up with the girl, I will be ther for him , if he choose to forgive her fine but the friendship can never remain the same again.

What are friends for If i cannot tell you the truth or advise you truthfully about a decision you are about to make. That makes me a decievtful person as well and I will have to be living a life of lie. God forbid.

And this is a warning to our young women out there.

NYSC is a bridge between the school life (Aluta/felowship) and the real world (jobs, politics, church settings).

Its fun, You meet a lot of new set of people. Mine was fun, I had time for myself, I travelled,  I met the ONLY person I have ever loved. (Though she is getting married to sombody else next month- TRUE LOVE EXIST O, I prayy to find real love again sha). I had nice time in NCCF conference in JOS.

What else can I say oo, I made money, I mean goood money, Thank God

Question answered? NO,
I mean Can people hear animal's voice? sort off

othuke7:
Thanks bro, av heard u. Its not dat easy u know, but av learnt my lesson bitterly. I was thinking i wuld change her by taking her to church programmes. I saw some changes afterward, but never knew its but 4 a while.

Every school ot though on relationship will tell you that you can't change people, It's not possible. If i like drinking Garri, you cannot change that in me to be taking chicken and chips.

Stop, all these running around like an house boy, You are 30 , your mate are fathers to thier kid and 1 small 20 years old gir is doing you this way.

If you are scared about your investment on her, please close ur eyes and let it goo, there are better 1000 and 1 ladies out there, more matured and more loving that iare ready to settle down with you in your 1 bedroom apartment. Even some of them are ready to take u abroad. common, wake up and llive like a man.

google,Moralistli and yorke, please  let's leave this bashing. serious matter dey for ground.

This looks like a serious maater o. the lady seems to have reah her bus stop while d guy just did a bad hit and run. Kasala don burst.

Why are u whinning or complaining here for when u know you are not ready to listen to advise.

Please don't waste people's time .

There is this believe that some human beings have the capacity to talk to ANIMAL.
Is this real or they are all fables?

@Sienna,
I really appreciate that piece, please ensure that you are there.
@follypimpi,
This is a great offer I cannot say no to, Can I meet with her without coming to the BBQ.
Seee grooooove.

, I no dey vex oo, Is peachie coming with her friendssssssss? If yes I go come , If no I no dey show face , lol

Autum don reach, winter dey come Hmmm!

^^^ Funny NL's, 'cause I am a guy now, no show for me, no lele, I no go come take ur Girlfriend away, though I am seriously searching sha.

@tkb417,
I appreciate the offer, Thanks but no thanks

@debosky,
i don't just know how to respond to you, move on and have fun.

blacksta:
I cant seem to understand what the issue is, did anybody reject your invite or did u notify anyone that you would like to attend. Anyway it is not too late. The event is open anyone on NL who wants to attend all you need to do is simply contact the right person by reading through the thread.

Simple as abc and it is not an exclusive event.

Ok calm down.

^^^ This is my point, They painted it as an open event and when I contacted the guy, see the response below.

Hi mate,

Thanks for the intro, I have seen your post on the thread.

Unfortunately, you do not have the level of NL posts and length of time on NL to join the event this year.

We normally require at least 200 posts and about 6 months on NL to qualify.

I appreciate this might be disappointing and even frustrating but we want it to be a NL meet-up, not just any people meet-up.

Maybe next year.

Regards,

Sagamite.






Sincerely, No hard feeling, I have moved on, I wouldn't have signify interest in the first instance if not for the fact that they post looks like an open event fo ALL NL in London.

hmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!