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@poster
i would say your story is like that of when status changed, Taste do change. Was this man as irritating like this when he had good job. was he that irritating when you guys were planning for wedding. What would you have done if he loose his job immediately after the wedding.

I am a man, I know how frustrating it can be when you got no job to care for your needs. he is angry with himself, you are the only person around him so it looks like you are the one bearing the aggression.

Also you did not act well by hiding him from the politician that is helping you. If truly there is nothing betwn you and the politician, you should have introduce him to the man. If the man truly cares about you without other motives, he might have help him out as well.

Remember the good old days that he is always there for you. I know you are bitter now 'cause he is not a man enough but sincerely this time will pass away.

What would you do if you find him developed HBP as a result of this. o you find him to be a minister tomorw.

Take a deep breath, He is been there for you. Don't let him feel being used as you have used his name for you to get to where you are now.

Pray Hard. may God be with you.

denzel2009:
Seun is a business man.[b]If chat app is added, peeps won't be creating threads anymore,[/b]traffic would be reduced, loss of revenue for the owner, he has no control on chat discussions etc etc etc.

So, dont expect any application anytime soon.

Lastly, 190 would have ample opportunity to virtually harass the girls.

There are apps that can be embedded in the site and each chat line adds up.

So what is the crime in being a second and the London wife? Follow your heart

Congratulations to Emenalo

She is just being a good girl.

biodell:
Sorry nairalanders for sharing my own problem instead of contributing. In my own marriage of less than 2 years. i dont have a friend in my spouse, he is married to his job, prefers sharing his personal and family problems with is friends and anyone that cares to listen. i tried talking to him d last time, he said his job is demanding and i should understand that. Anytime he is at home, he spent most hours on phone calling his subordinates because of the nature of his job which requires supervision. I have stuff i will want to discuss with him, but he seems to be 2 busy. i am really running out of patience, because i feel this marriage is too early for me to be lonely. Moreover, i feel he doesn't care about my feelings, cos d last time, he told me he wants his mother to come and live with us permanently because his Dad is late. and we know it with mother in-laws. i am just scared, pls wat do u advice

As anyone pass through this phase before in their marriage? Kindly open up, your advise can heal a hurting soul.

9ice one

just did

I just need to ask if The times that planted camera for amos adamu has committed crime or not?

I had a similar story while I was in school. I will share it later,

Ogbanje, she wan use virtue for rituals. Oh Boy! RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN

last born, no hassle from younger ones. Me like me, me like it

Hi All,
Marriage can be scary. For those who are married, Can you please share with us marriage challenges you encountered and how you deal with it.

ifyalways:
keep a man. .bla bla bla.when wud men strive to keep their womencant men stay without a keeper?abegiii

There is a man out there that want to keep you, take care of you , make you happy, see you progress without any condition attached, I pray you find him. Then you will value this post. When you meet such a man, you wouldn't want to let him go.

@Poster. Above all that you have narrated. PRAYER works. and keep urself beautiful always.

Femary,
Does this page look like a telecom page?. Can't u just use ur common sense and do only one I mean just one right thing in your world. POST MESSAGES AT RIGHT SECTION

I like this 40 points. Someone should come up with 50 reasons to marry a 9ia woman.

I know of this.
* Her delicacy is second to none (If she is properly brought up and trained)

let it flow

I pray it will never happen. God forbid. This must be a 9ijerian movie scene

Sagamit,
shey Ujesha ni ere ni?

The lady should apologize. There is a place of stooping low to conquer. she should have use her feminine power to express herself to the man that she did not love the way the card was tored and he should explain the ladies picture.
Instead of being hard on him and want to prove a point. Which point is she trying to prove anyway after 2 kids.

Men don't like confrontational woman no matter what even if he knows he is wrong. I believe there are ways the woman should have handled it and the man will be the one begging her, taking her out now

Your mama is right, She does not want the girl to get preggy while you are not yet ready. She believe that living together now violate the foundation of marriage.

Is sex the only thing you look for in a relationship. Common have a life. There are ways you can take a lady to an unknown land and she would land be4 realizing it. Send me ur e mail address and let me send you a book.

If she is a good girl as you have indicated here, then just take it as her shortcoming, when u guys get married she will try all sort with you. she does not want to go to the adventurous land now only for you to jilt her later and she will be feeling used.

My 1 cedi

Sincerely, If it's a woman that got preggy for another man now, head would have been rolling, This man kept me thinking sha.

baby.me:
Now you are going to grow fat

@baby.me, I just sent you an email. pls respond

Like the way you are not available with 190 in abuja so somebody beside his house is keeping the place active until you show up. , (on a lighter mood)

Tink_sh:
[/quote]Tink sh, I'm Kinda real here, it's not an easy one at all, this guy has tasted the forbidden fruit, the seed he planted has started germinating. I know that 2 wrongs cannot make a right. It's even worse now that the young girl knew the wife. The wife is back to town, all the se.xctasy has gone down like a scale felling of his eyes. He just woke up to reality.

The poster got to double his handwork now , seems he just got himself another family to raise.

[quote author=Omolola1 link=topic=522566.msg6881267#msg6881267 date=1286298163]MEN! what does that gurl have that your wife doesnt have?

His wife is not around (not available at the moment) possibly she traveled to give birth to another baby . . lol. The guy was Hot and the 19 years old girl is available to quench the thirst.

baby.me. is dat u in the pix, u are really looking "ponito and palato"

Eyah:
Any girl that could bring out the best in you can be considered as a good girl. Moreover, a[b] good girl knows how to discreetly be Bad when needed.[/b]

In as much as I agree with ur definitions, the last part destroyed everygood things you wrote above. Once a good girl has gone bad, She is gone forever.

@poster, the situation is critical. It has happened and it;s no longer within your control.
In the first place, you should not have given a free ride to a girl. You have been led into the temptation and you have fallen for it.

One of your solution now is to beg the girl to go and take care of the preg.(I can't believe i typed it out 'cause in principle I do not key into abortion at all.) If she refused, then you are in for it o. you gotta to be a man and face it.

For Nairalanders calling this man names. I SMH and pray that may we not be led to a temptation.

The poster's situation is not a fairy tale, I have seen it happen (In one of my sojourn to one of the WA country). The lady met a man that is comfortable and probably the poster has shown enuff care and attention to her so she would not mind having the baby for him. The man has been lonely for some time, he got a company in the girl, as adult, s3x came into the show.

For somebody talking about morning after pill. I don't think the poster is that randy and he might not know morning after pill(I pressume). The girl might want something(baby) to show for the relationship.
She is just 20 and not yet working, even if she keep mum about the baby now, she wont keep quiet forever because she still need to take care of the baby of which she cannot do it alone.

LEAD US NOT INTO TEMPTATION BUT DELIVER US FROM EVIL.

lioncoolst:
HAve you sudddenly forgotten your vows on wedin day so soon?? Just 3 years ago!!! Didnt you say 4 beta 4 worse, , in sikness and in health.
Apparently, your husband is sick and needs to be attended to, but leaving him will not solve the prob, wil it? U need to stay and help the backside-fucker overcome
his sickness that might be psychological,emotional, physical, or spiritual.

Have u forgotten of DIVORCE on the ground of infidelity? Common being a gay is not a sickness, It's a choice.

u be she or he?