₦airaland Forum

DanDeeBoss:
We have many other responsible ladies too who are married, so what are you typing??

I am typing the truth .

NYCnextStop:
and trust me no one is stopping you. Good luck to you.

So who says good girls don’t get married. Abi former runs girls no dey go Shiloh. Not every girl will marry or get a good man irrespective of being good or bad. We all seek out for different qualities in people. The so called runs girl is someone’s perfect girl

The issue is when the so called good girls get married we see it as normal so most times don’t notice but the moment when a former runs girl gets married it gets our attention coz we assume they are not fit to get married

Work on yourself op. Runs will not get you a man. Some runs girls have other qualities men seek which so called good girls don’t

Runs hv sha got them men . They hv other qualities n u belive there ain’t good girls who hv those good qualities also ? Who r very single ?

ibkayee:
I mean some get married to 'better men', some don't, same goes for all the self-proclaimed 'good girls'

Plus it's not like these girls have their sexual history written on their foreheads, every single one of these men can't know about everyone's past. And that goes for average and 'top-tier' men alike.

And since there are multiple facets to an individual, asides most likely being fine and experienced, who knows what other attractive talents and characteristics she possesses, or is 'runs girl' supposed to be her only identity? 'Reformed runs' girls are in happy relationships and get married to 'responsible' unsuspecting men every day

the point is whether they know or not ,, these runs girls base on we we wey know them , date n marry better men

lefulefu:
most times ex runzgirls are married to very faithful and submissive men .its only very few of them who are unlucky to end up with wayward men.

I agree ,, decent girls r dating the women beater and cheats

zexy2030:
now listen to the logic:
1. most girls travel for spiritual enhancement with dark powers while doing this business. Getting charms that attracts richmen and get them trapped, But u can't visit spiritual houses for husband, the spiritualist may end up having sex with them but these girls see sex as nothing provided it gets them results from reliable testimonies, so they take deadly risks u can't dare. My friend in Ghana how some girls would stock fresh meat in their pussy for 7days without food/bath/brush..then after the 7days they surrender the meat. Any man that enters that pussy after the enhancement becomes her maga for life, she becomes the controller. The man will turn deaf ears to anybody. Her pussy becomes the sweetest. Mind u she would dress sensually and visit all parties that elites visits and offer nearly free sex or lap dances.

2. Men love( their heart is trapped because of his investment) women that collects more money from them but sex less them with them. Those women have known the rules of getting the heart of men. plenty money little sex with a lot sensual manipulations. These girls party a lot. They are very sensual in their appearances. But you can't try that, your family will deny you.

3. Some of these girls can respect you and please you with everything after first time sex with you that u paid well, but will never discuss marriage with you but she is doing underground work to tie a man down that she wants, the sex is just for manipulations.

4. some of these girls eventually marry an older guy and may cheat around, and these girls are mostly orphans or from broken homes.

5. Being decent as a lady is the best but decent girls are always free pussy givers all in d name of love. Some even give their pussy and money, their airtime to keep a man. My dear life is spiritual if u can't chase spiritual ways of keeping the man of ur dream then u may loose him, except ur parents prayed well for you.

Deep breath *

InfinityFabric:
Thank you for the blatant confession, I've heard this before. Only to find out she's already a pro.
"I wish..."
"I have a friend who is..."
"I know a girl who does..."
...


You're a female, balls are not what you're known for. It's a male thing.

if u don’t know the meaning of someone saying they don’t hv the balls to do something, u r lost !! No it’s not a male thing , it’s actually more of a female thing than male . Cheers

BlackShit:
Just what I wanted to say.
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The so called runs girls know how to make a man feel relaxed and comfortable around them. They're go-getters, what people misconstrue as flirtatious. This doesn't necessarily mean being promiscuous.

The problem with the 'good girls' is that they're too discriminatory, choosy and strict. You must meet very high requirements before they even allow you come close to them. They tend to wait for a holy, perfect man to come beg their hand for marriage. You feel tensed and sinful when with them.

Honestly, most of the girls I've felt more relaxed and comfortable around are these flirtatious girls. They will so pamper you that you won't know when you fall in love and propose.

Unlike those other girls that will see you and be throwing away their face, because they believe that you looking at or being free and making moves on guys means you're a sinner.

No matter how bad you think someone may be, there are one to two qualities or tricks you can still pick from them, instead of condemning them completely.

Noted

unmask:
They learnt how to interact with men....The problem is most girls waiting for that special someone don't realise how important to start building relationships with the opposite sex from a young age.

Most girls that were free around guys get married faster. Free doesn't necessarily mean have sex with them

we r talking about runs girls , who hv sex for money n stuffs , indecent girls who expose their bodies , we r not talking of girls free around guys I honestly do not agree,, cause many decent ladies r free around guys !! The focus is runs girls , n she is very correct

emmaodet:
It seems getting a rich man is your getting the best out of life.
Why is it that nigerian ladies see marrying a Rich man as the Ultimate? Why?
Una no fit make una own money and be happy?
Why are you always looking for who to touch your life rather than who you can impact their life.
The world is choked, filled and saturated with receivers of Love, gifts, money etc the world needs more Givers - givers of Love, money, gift etc

Why don't you think it this way - Be a good girl, be productive and try to make impact in the life of your partner. It looks more fulfilling than taking, taking, taking.
A lot of guys are out there looking for who to start life with, someone that can make impact in their life, someone that can rub their back so that they can rub your back too.
I think one of the unfortunate things that can happen to a man is been born in Nigeria.
The rich ones are endangered species being hunt down by any means by women while the poor ones are being overlooked and distanced from like plague.

Cause that’s what they want ,,, bottom line u could even say she was wrong , cause she wasn’t , run girl met the rich better men ,,, while the decent once’s should suffer with men , na wah

mimimile93:
You're entitled to your opinion

what’s urs ?

InfinityFabric:
More like: I've been thinking of getting into the business, will this be true for me too ?
Answer: Na express u dey face, something feel jam u.

hmmm u can’t Shame me with the rubs business talk! I wish I could be one but I sincerely don’t hv the balls to

Babythicksme17:
She stated the obvious.Bad girls always get responsible and caring bf/husband.

very obvious fact !! They call all women prostitutes but the real prostitutes r getting the best out of life

yyba:
99.9% correct, I know a lot of runs girls that got married and they are leaving peacefully with their husbands.

THANK YOU

em527:
o.p you be runs girl or about to be one?
maybe you just looking for someone to certify your curiosity so you can Bleep around and get l.g chairman as husband too...be careful before you enter express

I wish I was cause they seem to be getting the best out of life

pizzzy:
What do you expect when be say you good girls go dey play hard to get and dey pray to holy ghost to give una signs before una go agreed to date a guy.my advice is Don't turn ur self into a LovePeddler all just because na runs girls dey marry better husbands u might miss ur luck going down dat road

these same possibilities r the reason decent girls r decent , n still don’t gain nothing from it

Ihatefeminist:
fat lie

how ??

Pimples:
The grass is always greener on the other side.

explain please

Oyiboman69:
The time ashawo get good opportunity don pass.now people don too many for the market both small small girls... I strongly reject that your conclusion

small small girls kee ? We talking of women in general, woman wey quick spoil enter street meet better guys, look at Jemena for example opening her body everywhere, is happily married

J111333:
That's what they make you believe on social media.

nah ,, all these ashawo and run girls hv serious bfs, while decent girls r stack single

What u guys think ?

How true this ? well to me , very true

All my colleagues in the University that were busy distributing p*ssy around are now married to rich responsible men, living better life.

But we that were dying in fellowship then are still doing "God when?" on every thread.

Hmmm....It is well.

https://mobile.twitter.com/Deola__Adereti/status/1252567725693702144

Expensiverichyb:
Don't borrow him. Just dash him from your heart. And don't put your mind, your hope of marriage on a man because you are spending on him.

Just be good to him if you have. If the relationship work out fine. If it doesn't work out, still be fine.

But be very careful. Be sure he's not in the relationship because of your money.
Good luck

Why will she spend for a man who’s her boyfriend without hving hope of marriage

MummyIMadeIt:
Truth be told, that lady loves you more and is willing to wait. Hence she opened up to you.

Either Propose or let her go?

Now aside from your financial phobia which has been sorted out in a way by ur lady (talking about her willing less to wait) , I believe there are other underlying reasons you have deep inside you about your lack of marital commitment to her.

Forget that bandwagon talk of "children suffrage".

I ask, Must you give birth immediately after marriage?

Do you suppose you remain financially redundant even after marrying her?

What are your plans for the future?

Frankly with what's on ground economically these days, a man can wait till eternity to get married if waiting to be made.

If you love that lady, then you should start your marital plans now against 2021 unfailing.

Meanwhile what do I know as I am still single

you spoke well

Semperty:
See as everyone here is saying let her go like say it's easy

Lol

Bennysam:
Let her go then because marring your age mate is not
Advicable

age is just a number Abeg

GodWrites:
Those that gave birth to gays never prayed for such. It's simply beyond your control, and no amount of "godforbid" would change that.

I will never give birth to gays!!! God punish you for that useless statement

GodWrites:
Unfortunately, you can't choose who you give birth too. Guess what? I am certain you will raise one, and it would teach you a whole new lesson

God for bid !!! U should give birth to all homosexuals since u love them a lot

21cents:
afraid of losing a woman? pls how old are you?
wake up and smell the coffee my dear, it's a man's world. like someone said, seems you're still below 22 when all men from all walks of life wants a piece of you thereby giving you this overbloated self worth and thinking the chasing continues forever.

any man can pretend to love you just to chop you.

fact is: most men preferred by women have work(ed) too hard building themselves up to let a mere woman make their hearts pound. love ain't shiiit

this is the reason I won’t even bother

NwaforIgbo:
Says who??

the world , cause it’s non of ur business how two lover which to pleasure themselves.

GodWrites:
A typical exhibition of brainless folks filled with hate is often to indulge in ad hominem. But I won't engage you in that aspect, cause it would be brutal for you.

Your previous comment was far from being comprehensive. Which school did you attend? If I had asked you to rephrase, you probably would have perceive it as an insult.

Instead, I tried validating and you resorted to calling names?

Lemme make my stance crystal once again.

Morality is subjective. In some parts of the world, incest is a norm. While in some others, it isn't.

But what makes a thing moral is when you are not harming anyone through your action.

What two adults do with their BODY, MONEY and TIME doesn't affect you in any way, and none of your business too.

Unless perhaps you want to join them in a party.

After a careful analysis of your comments so far, you've ticked all the boxes or a closeted insecure gay battling with internalized homophobia.

How did I know? I'm a sex therapist and I meet your kind on a daily basis. One glaring problem often faced by people of your condition is ignorance and religious indoctrination.

If not that you're far away in Nigeria, I would have told you to come to my office for some prescription.

Anyway, I hope your accept yourself soon.

HOMOSEXUALITY IS DISGUSTING AND WRONG ! I DONT WANT TO GIVE BIRTH TO ONE , SO I WILL NEVER SUPPORT RUBBISH

NwaforIgbo:
It is statutory rape because our law says so.. Homoemsexualism is anti-social and a social perversion too because our law says so!!

*Bows out**

I agree