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NwaforIgbo:
That's what I'm saying, they do doesn't mean its right...

what u do with ur lover of the opposite sex behind close doors is right , the only thing wrong about it , is that it’s fornication . There is nothing like a right way to hv sex , it’s what pleasures the both of you

NwaforIgbo:
GAYS ARE PERVETS, Nothing more.
You said sexuality is more thex organs. Oh is that so, so tell me what is the essense of sex in homosexualism? Or are u saying gays don't have sex??
People steal doesn't mean its right.. Some adults are attracted to only children too, does that mean they should be encouraged??

homosexuality isn’t only about sex! Some ladies use didios on their boyfriend. That’s why a guy hving such sexual fantasies dating women who r okay with it can never leave them . A pervert is a molester.

essentialson:
.. I have not even mentioned that to them. They must react to it negativity but in the end, they will respect my decision if I choose to go ahead. I generally want to know information about Edo girl (Esan) tribe that I intend to marry

lol ESAN?? Please leave that girl alone ! Forget about her alone , u hv her family to contend with, even benin people don’t like getting married to ESAN people, they only marry themselves most times. Family people fit worry ur children!! Like I said b4 they hv very deep minds and extremely sensitive, an Edo person can hold grudges for you for something very little , never tell you but carry you Waka .

There was an Esan girl that had issues with one Yoruba girl in my hostel n the girl fell sick for more than two tweeks , n babe had to go n beg her , she had to urinate in her hands for her to get better ,, Strange , but it happened. It’s not even a new thing there , u hv to be extremely careful with them.

They see their female children as a source to upliftment so if u marry their daughter n u neglect them , they will hold serious grudges against you , that’s why a entire family can gather funds for a female child to go to Italy and do prostitution.

I won’t advise you to marry an Edo girl , love isn’t enough.

Fweezy:
Take my advice as someone who has been there and done that. Don't do this because u will regret it later. A part of u already knows this but u came here just to re-enforce that thought. I wish I could tell you my story here or to u directly in person. Try and look for Edo men around and ask them candidly looking them straight in the eye what they think about Edo girls and if they would marry one. There and thence the truth will be revealed. They mostly have an entitlement personality and will be discussing your personal issues and secrets with their family members right in front of u cos they know u don't hear their tongue. I would hate for u to come back here and tell us ur story if regret when their true nature is revealed after marriage. They get violent and confrontational over little incidents and always issueing threats diabolical demos. They like to prey on weak and innocent mean like u who they can bend to their will because they believe u love them too much to become stupid and tolerate their excesses. U hardly see them marry tough men like their fellow Edo men who will deal ruthlessly with them when they misbehave. I can go on and on but let me stop here. Tell her to go and marry her own people. It's better that way.

Edo Marry Edo sir !

I hv wonderful friends from edo

But Edo people r wicked , the bad one is very very very bad . N the normal edo person is not normal ! They pretend a lot , n hv deep minds ! I know them very well I schooled there . I Dey use sense Dey follow my edo friends, the better ones r the ones who didn’t grow up in edo but they still hv their problems , very sensitive people

Hope ur mother and family r aware!

Don’t pick

dukeprince50:
so a boyfriend should loan his gf money but a gf shouldn't?
True love doesn't know gender, assisting ur partner is a great arsenal that makes relationship works irrespective of gender

yes sir

Scot1255:
Well if u don't know. Most girls are bi. My ex is a chronic one. I mean d type that will end up marrying a gal. My current babe is bi. She had to tell me with her own mouth.
I'm sure 1 out of every 5 girls engage in homo act. 3 out of d other 4 are also attracted to girls, just not willing to engage in d act.

ladies r normally attracted to themselves!! People like me will never engage cause sex is sweet ,, there is nothing a girl wil do to me that a man can’t,but I see some women n admire their looks !! There r a few that don’t even care or look twice at a woman , that’s less than 10% of women in the world . Those ones hate when u touch them too much, even rob their legs , but me n my other friends we touch each other’s breast playfully. Talk about sex a lot, get turned on but nothing happens. Lol

Yes I hv , when I was in boarding school in jss1 , my school mother was a lesbian n she was trying to initiate me ,, i would hv accepted base on pressure n all the gifts but gladly , she n her girlfriend got caught n got seriously embarrassed! I swore never to get that close to her again

dukeprince50:
see the rubbish u are saying.
If u are in his shoes will u be happy if a guy did this to u?
U Av been by his side, surpass every other gf he had in the past, u av been supportive and wen things get bad for u and u ask him for cash, he refused and rather tell u he will buy u d foodstuff instead of giving u the money, won't u dump him.
Nonsense and millenniumlady

there is difference between boyfriend and girlfriend, get that

If he asked you for 20k borrow , give him 10k as dash . Don’t let him feel he can come up borrowing from you everytime , set boundaries to everything , cause na so e take Dey start !! Forget love n caring . Every useless asshole was ones nice n caring . If u do this he would think twice b4 saying anything about borrow again .

Modified :Learn to say No too . If u were not in his life would he die ,, guys like looking for independent women so they can start borrowing from them, then when u refuse it would look like u both r hving an iss. Set the boundaries early and fast

elmagnifico411:
Nice one broad. You get sense mehn!! Your comment covers everything. I think Op should read your comment carefully and digest everything in there. She may then have a change of mind cos what she wrote is below expectation.


I don waka

done but still do not agree with he’s perspective.

Oluromantic:
I admire your observations op. I have these few points to say;

Your opinion is pertinent to you and does not work for every home. Forget about the general societal belief and focus on what works for you.

Sharing responsibility with your man is not unfair biblically and legally. Helpmeet means you're to help him in his endeavors of your interest and the children and d Bible did not say your submission should reduce accordingly cus you're a helpmeet.

"Husband love your wife" and "wives submit to your husband" has no conditions whatsoever attached to it in the Bible. Its simply a command. Your wife might be stubborn, you're expected to love her in obedience to God's command. Your husband might be stubborn, you're expected to submit to him in obedience to God's command

That is why compatibility is important than religious beliefs in marriage. Marry someone who knows your financial, emotional, characteristic strength and weaknesses, then the love ur wife n submit to husband Bible verses won't even be mentioned often bcus your living together is already peaceful.

On the basis of compatibility, the wife might be richer and yet claims to be submissive. It will work for her cus she married a man who's compatible with his wife richer than him and not because she submits. Because without compatibility most African men would cope with a richer woman no matter the emphasis on submission.

Being a helpmeet to ur man doesn't cancel d submission aspect. However if the man is unrealistic and unreasonable, the woman has the right to take necessary steps on financial grounds for the interest of herself and the children. In other words other aspect where submission is required need not suffer unless when necessary.

only 2% of women will pay house bills n be submissive! That’s plain out fact . Many men r enduring in their marriages Incase u r not aware, the woman does the house chore, care for you and the kids n still pay bills n u expect her to be submissive? Only a few can put themselves that low in other to remain married .n others, the men endure what ever their wives do . That’s reality

Samakus:
Na students dey do that shit! The money wey dem dey spend no be their own. After graduation and they start making their own money, coupled with the experiences they have gotten, they wise up.

Mugu still dey sha but they're reducing by the day!

Sleep tight

U r not better than guys spending money for their babes

jelel6:
Op, I thought this is for sharing "Your worse dating experience" and not "Share your date's worse experience with you"?

I'd expect the gentleman to be the one sharing this because it looks to me he got the rotten end of the carrot and even complained after 24 hrs of having regrets from it!

is it just me or does this message have so many of the pronoun "I"? And that is noteworthy in the sense that it's normally used when the writer is about to "pick", "like", "collect", or "ask" for something.

If this is the worse date experience you have had, we can only imagine how your best one went.

I felt way worse my dear ,, he was even the one consoling me at some point ,, I thought he would hate me or something but he never did , we did video call some days back n talked for a while. I wish I took it easy on him. I would hv picked few things lol . I didn’t even realize I picked at much !!

jelel6:
Op, I thought this is for sharing "Your worse dating experience" and not "Share your date's worse experience with you"?

I'd expect the gentleman to be the one sharing this because it looks to me he got the rotten end of the carrot and even complained after 24 hrs of having regrets from it!

is it just me or does this message have so many of the pronoun "I"? And that is noteworthy in the sense that it's normally used when the writer is about to "pick", "like", "collect", or "ask" for something.

If this is the worse date experience you have had, we can only imagine how your best one went.

lol the truth was that it was my worst dating experience.

Samakus:
This thread will show you that spending lavishly on girl doesn't keep a leech!

https://www.nairaland.com/5803445/mother-said-she-cant-marry

so u think cause that happened to one persons , means it will happen to every other man out there ,, don’t waste ur time , u can’t discourage men from taking care of women they want to take care of.

I went on a date with this guy to the mall , we wanted to watch a movie but wasn’t time , so we entered shoprite , been A while I entered shoprite so I saw a lot of things I liked that I don’t see often , omo I picked n picked n picked , the guy paid almost 30k for everything, we still watched the movie, he even still gave me transport, the next day I felt really bad , cause he actually told me he didn’t expect to spend that much , so I asked for his account number n sent him 10k . I had a wonderful day , but felt guilty the next , we still talk very Well

Samakus:
The easiest way to lose agirl is showing her that you're afraid of losing her.

Liliantalks, shey you have seen that spending lavishly on a girl doesn't keep a leech! Imagine how much this mugu has wasted on a leech. If he had used that money to purchase a piece of land or two, by now, it would have appreciated and become a good investment for him


I will never be a maga for any lady! Let me continue being Mr Stingy that I am for my future wife and family to enjoy.

okay sir

Kingarthur21:
madam,this buttresses my point you are dull. We need to question where you obtained your NCE,OND or HND certificate,except you paid for it with your body.


There are vaginal infections that occur to kids and even urinary tract infection. Its a shame you ladies like swtbabyvee, Eulalia,favy1235, babythicksme17,and yourself don't know much about your reproductive organs. I am even more conversant with a female organ than you that have vaginas.
Read more,study books,watch documentaries, read Britannica and encyclopedia to increase your cognitive abilities not just watching zee world.

If I ask what a fallopian tube you may begin to fumble or if I ask what endometrisis is you may foam at your mouth.
Buy the book "every woman" by derek illewyn jones to study all about gynecology,a must read for women so you can understand your body better.

For a start,google and study the meaning of the words prolactin, luteinizing hormones,hysterectomy, mammography, pap smear,dilation and curettage (D&C) etc...study them and learn more about women reproductive health and organs,increase your knows of gynecology

Sixfeetbelle,veefierce /shugavee /sweetbabyvee ,capslocked,Eulalia,mjbolt ,omar09,lamanii22

U WIN

Catchfirez:
Make Una fear God.

weyti concern God for this issue

Kingarthur21:
there are two possibilities,an infection(BVD,vaginitis,thrush or candidiases)-don't mind my spelling.it COULD ALSO BE MOLESTATION FROM A BOY(they fiddled with their bodies etc)

They should consult a doctor for examination before conclusion,if he is guilty necessary steps should be taken

please a 5 years can’t get such infections, it’s not possible !

Casalindal:
I cast a love spell on my partner

I need that seriously lol

TheSourcerer:
feel free to have sex with whoever,as long as you aee both adults and it's consent

I agree ,, I am very uptight ,, even guys I like to sex, I won’t , because I believe I hv dignity n all !! Just realized it doesn’t matter !! Live ur best life !! After lockdown, I must sex all the guys I like . Sure thing

Makavelli25:
Youdonminit

that guy deserves to die

Mehn I Broke my friend iPhone 6plus screen when iPhone 6 just came out then,,, mehn I deny am flat n she no suspect me. She asked me tho but I deny am !! I no get money to repair screen of almost 20k, cause I would hv definitely paid, if I told her ! We r still close friends

sparta:
Hi landers
Am an attractive lady of 26 and i get a lot of attention from so called "men". I have equaly been attracted to a couple too. The problem however is that I have never met one who dosent mind waiting till marriage to have sex. They all bolt the moment they know am a v and i aint ready for sex. It really hurts because i used to have a lot of respect for the male folks, most of my friends are even guys. I dont know what to do coz   am not ready to go into a relationship involving sex. Is it a crime to be a v and to want to wait till marriage? Am sincerly asking, Are all guys like that? Am even beginning to get scared, will i ever get a man of my own.
Pls help me, am realy discouraged and getting hateful of men.

U have no reason to hate on
Men !!! Me for example I almost hate them

Kingarthur21:
Says the person that had to change her entire signature because of me. Wow...I feel on top of the world

lol but u had the energy to check on me abi?

Kingarthur21:
Walahi one buffoon even changed her signature because of me...lol

u are obsessed!