Your husband and you are available to give her out in marriage, so what exactly are you looking for? Telling your daughter she was adopted will add absolutely nothing to her life, what matters is that she has a home where she was trained, loved and today she's about to settle maritaly.

You people are selfish. Do you know what your uncle may have been facing in South Africa? If all went well with him in South Africa, he wouldn't have returned empty. If he didn't ask for something, you people wouldn't give him something as the first son? Hmmm

What if the crops are not ready for harvest? Failed c0untry. Instead of banning open grazing, they are telling farmers to harvest imature crops.

A religi0n of 'evil!'.

When we say that men should never be given cust0dy of their daughters when div0rce happens, they think we are not correct to say such.

Let her give birth to the child in her husband's house, but she will have to confess in future. Why is she suicidal over a community preeek? Whatever the husband will do when he finds out, she should take it and be strong. If he's a cheat, why is she so worried about missing him?

Even though I have not read the whole story, I totally support him. Tinubu played a Muslim -Muslim ticket, it makes it look like he doesn't bother how the Christians feel. So this man is totally correct. It is a big pity that Kumuyi would support a Muslim Muslim ticket. Leadership in Nigeria is supposed to be fair and impartial.

God may have been living elsewhere, but after he created the heavens, He lived there. May God expand this man's understanding, anyone can be wrong atimes. He should read the entire book of revelations.

Anyone can be framed and accused falsely. Someone may have been paid to drop the drugs in his house so as to implicate him, then they made sure they put it in the news, nap him and poison him. The guy is dead and truth is burried forever because I don't know if those who are supposed to dig out the truth will do it or back out due to fear and big names involved. So no one may ever get to know the truth. Stay away from culti$m and bahd gangs, yet they don't want to listen.

When they say "Keep away from bad company", they will not listen. If he avoided bad gangs*, he would be alive today. Young ones reading about this guy's messed up life will still refuse to learn.

Unfortunately, I am unable to still understand. Maybe she should pay tithe, and then still help the person in need. Thanks everyone.

Thanks

Wodu89:
Yes. Throughout the scripture God says bring your tithes in commodities form and eat in my presence. This was the ordination before money was formed. This is also right because it takes away the temptation of greed in care of individuals handling such

Okay.

woginid967:


I think you are missing the point.

God is a king, not an elected president.

When a king decrees, it continues till he says otherwise.


We dont serve God with our opinions... So it is wrong to give it to people in need

Is it correct t0 use 0ne's tithe t0 buy s0mething f0r children wh0 are in need? I need an answer t0 the question and if p0ssible a scripture to backup. The person believes in tithing in church, but she wants to know if it can also be used for the above purpose.

I have never seen a humans neck broken before being put in coffin. I don't just understand. The guy definitely came from a very irrespon$ible family, or maybe he belonged to a cult.

He must have paid a huge bribe to be able to succeed with such a scam, pretending to be mad when he is perfectly fine. The victims should brace themselves and get good lawyers and a medical team, otherwise they will not be able to get justice.

That is why writing a "will" is important. You must stand your ground. Tell your mom that you want your father's property to be shared. Meet with your trusted relatives, elders or a lawyer so that your father's properties can be shared, one of it should be given to your mom, You can't expect to take everything. When your mom is given her share, then she can do whatever she wishes with it. Tell your mom that she has no right to bring in a man, until she is given her space.

Whatever you do, don't let him keep the kids, the children are young and even the court will grant you custody. You need a second source of income to be able to foot the bills.

You have two options:

1. Continue to live with him, and ignore him as much as you can. If you chose this, you can also be traveling to visit your people from time to time, to avoid him more and reduce the stress at home.

2. Separation.

Prettycute90:



Are these not enough reasons to divorce him?
During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me.
I see that as way to make my children suffers.

I never knew that a 14yrs old boy would engage in kidnapping at such a young age. He is an only child so he cannot say that his mother was not providing his needs. Let him spend at least 30 more years before he is freed.

This is very bad. In life I trust no one. It's wrong to let the church know ones income, because you don't even know the church members who have access to the tithe records. Everyone has a right to some privacy for God's sake.

Jewessgratitud3:

They have the tithe record with everyones name written on it and ticked when you pay.

Even if you do a transfer you'll still need to indicate it there which will later be recorded.

Pray pray and pray, but if you are the type who doesn't believe in the supernatural, then when the consequences manifests, you will see it as a natural occurrence.

Sickening and disgusting. People who abuse children do not deserve pity or second chances. Unfortunately the Nigerian government don't seem to care, that's why they don't give severe punishment to offenders.

As long as you pay your tithe and don't keep it for personal use, then it's okay. If you are in any gathering of the brethren, you can pay your tithe. God gave us freewill and the Bible portion says "bring ye the tithes into my house"......, (the church). Personally, I sometimes pay my tithe to any pastor when I see they have a need, especially the genuine upcoming ones who need help. I sometimes connect to Christian groups online, and atimes pay part of my tithe to them.

Only joker's will believe the man's false narration. A good husband can never force his wife to become a full time house wife. Yes, I can beat my chest to say that she was forced to stay at home because if he was that rich and wished her well, he would have set up a business for her. He wanted her to be homebound so that he can manipulate and control her life as he wished .

All the bull$hit tales of How he was a caring/loving husband are well concocted lies so that he can get a lighter jail term. Have you ever seen a Nigerian woman married to a naija soldier in a happy marriage? Happily married my foot.

He thought after relocating he would still be able to manipulate her, but she broke Free and he finally killed someone's precious daughter. Men abandon their wives all the time, so what abomination did she commit?

A long epistle worth reading. RIP to the dead, too bad that he didn't have a second chance.

I don't think it would be safe to marry anyone who has the mind to commit suicide. Most people who have the mind to commit suicide can also commit murder. The lady definitely had good reasons for having dumped him.

He hasn't told us what he did to his wife, matcheww. Would a woman leave a good husband just like that? Besides, Nigerian men have been jilting their wives for a side chick, so....we move.

Only a fooool would claim to be ignorant that faithfulness is compulsory in marriage. If you can't stick to a woman, stay single. I wonder what makes you think women don't get tired of eating rice alone, we get tired, but we learn to respect marital vows.

kayperry:



E be like sumthing dey worry you how many times do we have to say it men are polygamous in nature

you think it is realistic to be eating rice everyday

Yes

qtguru:


He cheated ??

The stick serves as protection how? I don't understand. This is so scary

As a man, when you marry and yet you continue to live as a single guy, doing what you used to do, chasing women, then don't pretend to be surprised when your marriage crashes . Non$ense!