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sweetrace:
I like that you’re big enough to admit when you’re wrong. I like and agree with almost everything you wrote. The but? I don’t agree that ladies are not logical. Who ever came up with that is a chauvinist!

Lol...CHAUVINIST?
But it's scientifically proven. Women mostly reason with cognition without the use of conscious rational processes...
INTUITION

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
OH my, I'm coming. Gracias

Lolz...no waste time oooo I won't wait for too long

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
OH my, I'm coming. Gracias

Lolz...no waste time oooo I won't wait for too long

sweetrace:
Rants? smh! Who sweeps a room when a guest is in it? What happened to her son, could he not have told her to stop or sweep the room in her stead if that’s their culture? As for what I’d have done, keep on with the imagination. When your girlfriend comes visiting for the first time, tell her to pound yam for your entire family. Your biz.

Lolz....All of you coming at me now bah
Oya I've heard you. You're right to an extent though ,,in fact you have a valid point, a very valid one.

You know men reason with logic and women with intuition. Intuition is sometimes right. Let's say my logic didn't agree with your intuition. I didn't reason a potential guest visiting for the first time is not expected to do anything, infact not do anything at all. and If I was the guy, I would honestly had asked my mom what she had up her sleeve when she swept whilst a guest was present..

She is a guest, visiting for the first time. She's not obligated to anything and shouldn't be compelled to.. if she wanted to its up to her, not me ..

Now you're satisfied bah.. Let's not argue again. When you're faced with such scenerio do whatever you FEEL/THINK is right...
You're a diva

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
A very toxic person could easily sweep that floor and pass d test. Then again, she not taking the broom could mean she doesn't even love d guy that much or wanna marry him.

You point valid...
Come lemme buy you cold stone

sweetrace:
See as your brain is running on zero fuel! Is it part of your culture to sweep while there’s a guest in the room? Was his mum being respectful? Why did her son not collect the broom from his mum so he could help her? Or the culture does not pertain to him? Please, don’t even try to imagine how I’d behave if it was me.

Firstly the brain doesn't run on fuel. Next time consider a more suitable metaphor...
ND your whole ranting is only centered on anger and frustration, there no reasonable basis, no substantial rationale to displace the mother's action as WRONG..

ND how would you have behaved if it were you? would you had kicked the broom off the mother's grasp, or shouted at her, or verbally abused her.? what you had done madam vexation??

Anyways everyone is entitled to their own opinion.

Sterope:
Yes, it is the reason some In-laws abuse their daughter in law and some women choose to be abused in the name of marriage. I don't know about you but sweeping while your guest is sitted is very rude in my culture. Common sense dictates that it is rude, it is an indirect way of telling someone to leave your house.

If there is one thing our African culture excels at, it is at treating people who we deem below us in a very rude and condescending manner. The receiver is expected to take it because of their gender, age, financial status and position. The mother clearly thought she has monopoly over rudeness. Being an elder doesn't mean she should not have respected herself. You don't test someone else's child by sweeping over them. Now I see why some families end up with monsters in law.

Dear you have a point though. But what if the mother's intention were quintessential, what if they were innocent.. You see in one way or the other we should try to understand virtually everything is relative and conventional..

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Lol. Not a conclusive test of character if u ask me

It could be ruled to an extent a conclusive one.
Besides why is everyone's thoughts and conclusion converge at "WIFE MATERIAL" Test

Duggedised12:
I dont know about other people,but sweeping when a guest is around is an unspoken word of "you are not welcomed here". That was very rude of the old lady, however, I won't be comfortable watching the old lady sweep.

I like your honesty...
The old woman might be trying to send a message which is only a presumption. However the lady in this disposition should have collected that broom, or make attempt to help her. We both know it won't reduce her one bit or mutilate her self esteem

Those days whilst growing up, when we see an elderly person carrying anything we would rush to collect it. sometimes when they resist we still insist, help them bring it to the house..

But nowadays even a secondary school child would see his/her teacher with load/bag and wouldn't even flinch. Instead they would ignore and even try to engage in a conversation.. Those days them no even born you well sef..

Anyways alot of things has changed.. What that lady did was outrightly malign..

sweetrace:
The lady in question has great self esteem. What test is that? so, she should impress the guys mother that she can sweep or will do anything to be accepted by them? I’ve seen and heard of ladies that sweep, clean, wash and cook and the guy did not marry them. I’ve seen those that hate housework of any kind and got married. Real men generally know what they want in a woman. The ones that don’t know what they want end up marrying eye service ladies sometimes. After the wedding, the service ends and the guy starts to lament that the lady has changed.

See as your mouth is running like tap..
I'm sure you have tradition or culture where you come from. Even if it's not a test, courtesy demands your collect the broom from the old woman and do it. it doesn't reduce you in any way but look at you claiming you're wise. Even I wouldn't go to my GF or fiancee's house, see her mother sweep where I can and not want to help her sweep it, or see the mom carry something and not help her carry it. It speaks alot on home training, respect and humility.

Certain little and foolish things are used to test the wise.. You think a mother- in- law would Want a wife that doesn't respect her... Even if nah fake, fake it. I'm not saying you should/must clean the whole house, wash the dishes or do the laundry..

Anyways talk is cheap.. nah people like you go even collect the broom sweep the whole compound..

ND the lady in question doesn't have any great self esteem but has very terrible self esteem and lacks character..

Rolax:
I bought the palm oil from local palm oil dealers inside villages in Osisioma close to Aba. They sell in 25 litres can; around #2700 to #3200 per can. You just keep the empty drums with them. A drum is about 210 litres.that's about 8 cans. When they fill the drums with palm oil, u pay them and carry your oil to a safe place. It is advisable to buy during March to May because @ that time palm plantations do well, there are enough palm oil available and prices are low. So, keep ur drums of oil in a safe place until around October to December when prices hike, depending when u are comfortable with the selling price. If u want to sell, contact dealers selling in the north to come and buy the oil. Selling is never a problem, a lot of buyers would be ready to pay. They'll pay based on the current price. There are other places u can buy cheap cuz they have a lot of palm plantations like Ohaji-Egbema and Umuagwo, close to Imo State Poly in Imo state. If u want to do the biz, u can start saving now for March next year. It is the kind of biz we public servants can do cuzz it does not require our presence though it's a long term one.

I would like you to put me through this Palmoil business... it's been more that 5yrs you made this post. I believe you still explore that stream of income.. Pls share with me your expertise in this Line of business,, I had it in mind but I don't know how to start, it's God's will I stumbled upon this today..

I could add you on whatapp if you don't mind.. you can drop it

NACE13:
I don't even know why my department is wasting my time. Because of their nonchalant behaviour I missed first batch. God help me, I need this 30k. I need to fund my small business idea

wait ooooo have they really implemented the new allawee? ..
or nah just hoax

StoneLucifer:
If u havent been there, abeg shift go one side first..

Lolz...Everybody pocket no be the same anyways So I understand your pain keep hustling bro You go make am! !

Liliyann:
I wonder where Somadina her so called Ex is!
Lesson
Never take all these broke boys serious thereby missing the right one!
Love is nothing without money!
No matter how much people talk bad about her, she made the right decision!
Life is to be enjoyed!
Marriage means luxurious life, pampering and care!
An old rich man is far better than a broke young boy that doesn't know where his next meal will come from!!

Are you saying Somadina doesn't know where his next meal would come from?
This life is very complex. Because she did it and probably, just probably it works for her ( we would know in the long run) doesn't mean it would work for someone else.

There are lots of young girls that left a vibrant young man that still finding his feet financially for a rich man because of MONEY. But in the long run, they wished they didn't. Some it's were their best decision.

Money isn't even in top three reasons to get married..
You don't even need to have too much money, just have what would make you comfortable ND be contented with what you have.

Don't mislead young girls.

Hoodbilonia:
Go kenya na
Na mouth u dey
My guy enter kenya
U no fit afford kenyan life
U go broke
Dey here dey swell up

Big lie nigga.
Even Kenyans no fit open mouth talk sey Nigerians no go fit afford their lifestyle.
Nigerians affords the kind of life in the UK, US nah con Kenya...Abeg find another thing talk

las las everybody go be politician. e no hard

Boss13:
I sincerely laugh at him. In 2009 he was a university student. He is yet to grow. What’s so funny with his disposition is that he brags about being skillful with sex. These are what boys do so he is still on track and not yet lost. When he gets married maybe there would be hope for him.

He thinks 10 years from now he would still have the same energy he brags about or the sex interest he so cherish and if he does then he is a pervert.

Yes boss....very laughable
Anyways let Boys be boys and men be men..
keep speaking bro I'm learning

I have a question though. Thank God you married
what would you say of a marriage whereby the woman is older with 1 or 2 years..would you advise a guy to tie the knot with a woman a little bit older than him?

Remember Love isn't enough is marital concerned decisions...

Boss13:
You would be unable to discipline that child. Because of the protective nature of mothers, the woman would be the first person to remind you that you are not the father of the child.

The child will grow to become a teenager and remind you that you are not his/her father.

The woman will be wary of you if the child is a girl because she maybe afraid you may sexually assault the child. Imagine your wife having such thought because you are only offering fatherly love.

Bro - forget single mothers I know what I’m saying and I know many men suffering this because dem no hear word.

I recognize when mature men are talking..
Bro you saying the goddamn truth...

OPTIMUSPRIME08:
stop confusing your brains with stupid grammar
AA cant give out AS Chromosome

Well I wouldn't say it's absolutely impossible there's a very slim chance in genetics considering it could be caused by:

(a) genetic mutation i. e one way or the other the DNA( deoxyribonucleiacid) of the organism that contains the genetic information has been ultered either by microorganisms/parasite ( bacteria, virus, fungi), by drugs,or complications during pregnancy, exposure to other biotic and abiotic factors.

(b) recessive gene: Probably the one of the parent(s) father, mother, grandfather or grandmother had an AS gene...ND it's was probably suppressed by the dominant gene of either parent(s)...

(c) one of either parent had extra marital coitus....

PS: What's written above is my two cent.. There's every possibility that I'm completely wrong.. No insult pls, if you feel my conjecture is false, you should but forward a superior hypothesis that invalidate mine...
I did human embryology, bacteriology,genetics, organic chemistry et al as borrowed courses in the university that year....So I still have little idea...Lolz

it's might be one kf those chimpanzee that posted this... So I'm not thrilled

pansophist:
In as much as I understand the satirical nature of the situation at hand, cancelling my football plan (or any other plans for that matter) sets a precedent that positioned me like a thirsty dude, who can be easily disrupted by the availability of a pussi. It will establish a detrimental knowledge in her head that to get what she wants, her pussi is the key to it. Men should understand that women do not interpret reality as they do, and you've just shot yourself in the leg.

If it happens in a real-life situation, then she has to wait. The match is only for 2 hours maximum, and if she can not wait until then, well, she is free to go. Men should realize that disrupting your plan because she chooses to be available reinforces the narrative women have about men, that pussi is what we worship, a symptom of a weaker male. Don't be that guy.

please spare us this bunkum..
who told you there's no second half or highlight...
You bang here well for 45mins go, watch your match for the next 45 mins.

HARDDON:
Smh At emphasized

SENSE PILL: The fear of not losing a gurls is the beginning of losing YOUR BALLS and finally losing the gurl.

That is not wisdom your friend applied, that is a wimp wine. A loser line.
This is the beginning of balls' losing.

You thinks she didn't know what she was doing when she threw that totally unwarranted threat?

The best way to have her is to block her. Some would call because they wud be flabbergasted how a guy could actually have the balls to blovk her . Others wudnt.we careless. Some wud use running into you as a platform to ask listless Qs.

This threat is a red flag. Guys like us don't abode red flags.

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Exactly my thoughts too.. I mean once and girl tells you she would block you ( even if she's damn serious or joking) such clear shot is highly targeted towards you balls/esteem/pride. You got to make the first call,,block her first to send a strong message that (a) you don't take shit from nobody (b) there one thousand and one girls out there craving for your attention (c) she's not that important (d) you masculine she's feminine, one have to submit to the other and you ain't settling for the less spatial position.

I have read quite some books about stuffs like this including the bang rule, advance bang rule, ways of a superior man, et al.. Nd first rule to attracting the feminine/girls is zero exhibition of fear, kill/conceal or suppress emotions first. It aids you have a hitch-free game. You show the I don't care attitude. Secondly, Niggaz should always remember that to have the advantage in the game, to retain your balls it's best you NEVER ASK A GIRL OUT. e.g telling her you like/love her Nd you want to have a relationship with her or you want her to be your girlfriend..Never try that..! I mean that puerile, men with balls don't do that.. Because in most cases, they would never tell you YES. Nd once you've received No, your balls is automatically in her grasp..

Anyways lemme not bore you guys with my long rhetoric... So that Nigga should Block that goddamn love-vendor that's trying to prove too important..He's gat to show the brotherhood he's got balls. We don't groom weaklings here!!.

Lastly Boss Hardon I hail thee..it's been a while ooooo. You get another book at your disposal?. something of plenary knowledge

ejiro2019:
I can't marry a lady older than me i preger the younger ones.

Ur choice is undisputed bro..
Everybody to em taste

Yigiyaga:
You see my point? She must not know or else kasala don burst.

Hahahahahahahahahahahahahaha....U get point bruh
But even if she know sef anything wey wan happen mey e happen....weytin go be go be brother.....


If kasala wan burst mey e burst...Women plenty,, so I shouldn't be under duress or go out of my way because I want to sustain a relationship...Life is bigger than that bruh

dxpecial:
;Di would like to date one who can help me!!!?! i would like to date one who can help me!!!?!

You mean Sugar mummy thinz.....
Lolz. ....u Wan taste better thing

husbandsnatcha:
Hw did u knw am angry ,am soooooo angry nw because of one smallboy

Lolz. ...Smallboy
weytin the boy do you ehhhhhh

husbandsnatcha:
Dey shud go 2 hell ,who nids nagging men

Lolz......Sis who offend you this evening


Let's assume you marry a younger spouse would you always use AGE against him when matter arises?...

Can you even marry a younger person provided you both very compatible?

tosyne2much:
It's not really about age (though age matter to some extent)

Some older ladies are well behaved than the younger ones. As for Submissiveness or loyalty, it's not about age but upbringing.

A woman can be disloyal even though you're 30 years older than her

You point, very valid. ..!!
You know some female colleague of mine( married) would be like a man should always marry someone he's older than with atleast 5 years so they( the couples) would grow old together..

Thier assertion/ collective conviction on this premise is basically because women become unattractive and thier physical qualities depreciate exponentially at a certain age compare to men...

But I honestly see such ideology as culminated parochialism and an embargo the African system has place on the society

lefulefu:
yea its fun to play dem oza room games with an older woman.. At least u go gain experience for dat side but wen it comes to settling down omo it might not be dat enjoyable o.

True talk though....But compatibility really matters than age bruh

My girl is a Lawyer by profession.....ND 2 yrs older than me
We very compatible, though she thinks I'm a year older.

I no Wan go lose my wife con marry my girlfriend because of age difference....shey u grab that line?

lefulefu:
of cos yes if she looks good like that psquare's older wife but 11 yrs ....haaaaah!:.

11 yrs. .nah to JAPAA STRAIGHT UP

To date older ladies can be sweet ehnnn....Dem to Sabi how to arrange their relationship and mark their territory when poachers try intrude...Hahahahahahahahahahahaha