₦airaland Forum

LOVEHAPPINESS:
You are looking for a 14 year old girl.

Yerima, is that you?

dominique:
How will the homeless people cope in such weather

makydebbie:
That I'm a hoe because of how profane and sexually liberal I am.

Preciousgirl:
Can you imagine?
A guy sent me a Christmas wish via text message : "Merry Christmas to you "

And I replied "Merry Christmas darling"

My husband has seen this message and says I must leave his house. Now I think I have reached the limit. I am leaving for good

wordbank:
No go do pass yourself
Forget external hall, use outdoor or church hall
Use dry meat, the chicken don already cross the road
Hire wedding gown of 5k, na just for 6 hours highest
If you get coat wear am, if dem no like am make dem suit dem self
Cancel alcohol, especially if you dey marry Rivers babe
As you dey dance just dey shine your teeth, bolanle pepper dem oo

iyatrustee:
Ungrateful man!! The phone sef get manners greet you welcome even still tell you goodbye, what if the phone na marlians wey no get mannerz?

pocohantas:
You sure have comprehension issues.
Happy New Year

pocohantas:
Yes, it is really pathetic. Nigerian men are cheap if you ask me. They don't even expect much from their women in this aspect, so any small thing you do is appreciated.

Naija ladies are just so stingy. Many of them believe you can't be chopping them and chopping their money too.

czarr:
I be man o bros, you mean the lady I quoted

czarr:
men are not that hard to impress, just the simple things, a little effort.

there's a reason you guys are still together.

pocohantas:
Impress? No.

Not because I do not think they are worth it, but because I am generally a nice person when I am in my best behaviour. I will do anything for you o. Call, chat, listen, cook, clean, take him on dates, gifts...etc.

The problem is, it seems Naija girls are not usually nice to Naija guys, so whenever you are nice to a Naija guy- they start catching feelings anyhow and seeing future.

Jodha:
Impress a guy Asin?....

Why should I Impress him....?

Funmmyastic:
Meaning?I hope you've not mistaken me for funmistic.queen?

Riele:
But I'm dangote's daughter na .

mekaprime:
You're welcome Sire. Well am not really a series person per say, as in, most of the series i saw/have seen this year revolved/revolves mostly around Superheroes, so if you don't mind em', you can check out the following.
Watchmen
The Boys
Swamp Thing
Tom Clancy's Jack Ryan (Action)
The Big Bang Theory ( Comedy, if you're a science geek, you should love this one even more) .
If the above ain't what you fancy, then the esteemed gentlemen & Ladies over there at the Series thread, would be glad to help, as long as you ask.

bukatyne:
I don't get:

The man can help as domestics is her responsibility.

The woman must however provide even though it is the man's responsibility while doing her domestic chores!?

Repent, this is a new year.

Preshy561:
True. There are still exceptions.
Just get a hardworking rich man with sense, though most are lazy and senseless.
Where you deh since?

zexy2030:
If you live in Ibadan let me meet you, pm me OK?
Things shall be fine OK.

Erediauwa:
[color=#ff9999]I will like to know the female animal called "LIOPARD" that don't want to change it's spot.[/color]

lalanice:
So? Why are you the bitter one

bukatyne:
What has feminism got to do with this?

You expect a wife to run the home domestically and financially when she is not a single mother?

You must be a very wicked man.

24kmagic:
Well, I don't know you personally, so I honestly cannot sympathize with you.

I know many so called "evening newspaper that are terrible. By terrible, I mean very terrible.. Their character is nothing to write home about. They are so bitter and frustrated towards men and every one around them as if we caused her singleness. They are all over nairaland.

Having said that..... Let me just say this.

Most Nigerian girls don't know what they want in a relationship. You started dating @ 21, what category of guys did you date? Reasonable guys or guys in your age bracket? I don't know so much about the spiritual husband thing so I can't relate.

An 18 years old girl should not be in a relationship with an 18 years old boy. I mean, what will they be doing if not fvck, fvck, drink, smoke and fvck? 8/10 of such relationships doesn't lead anywhere.

Date guys at least five years older than you and give him your terms and conditions. Tell him youre not in for games. Tell him you want a real relationship. Of course you could have sex cos
it's your body, but be sure that you are building something. It doesn't necessarily mean it must lead to marriage, but tell him "let's just get serious with each other and see where that leads us. In the event that it doest lead anywhere, there should be no hard feelings. He could be broke, but he must be focused.

Most girls date little boys that are yet to even know their right from their left. After spending the best years spoiling around, they now want to settle down with reasonable guys and when such reasonable guys are not forthcoming,, they start to get bitter towards men. What a waste of time!

What annoys me the most is that such boys they had fun with will not even like to marry her.

I always say that as a girl, with your character and what you have in-between your thighs, you can make even the toughest and strongest man kneel down to beg you to be in his life.
And again, as a lady in your thirties who have had at least five relationships that didn't lead to the altar, then 9/10 times it's your fault and it takes something extraordinary for her to finally settle down and even if she does, it will be with one widower who just needs someone to cool of with.

Me I don talk my own.

No offense.

bukatyne:
Hahahahahahahaha!

You do not want the man to do chores (to retain his manhood) yet you think the wife would be okay to do chores + financially manage the home when she is not a single mother.

This is not me saying the OP should/ shouldn't do chores or whatever (there are several variables):

It is me pointing out the hypocrisy and wickedness of your stance.

If you want to run a traditional marriage, run it and stick to your roles.

You cannot eat your cake and have it.

Amhappy:
If it's my elder brother becomes a house husband God Forbid,i will ginger him to get his arse out and work or do business. There's nothing wrong in him washing his wife clothes my husband washes mine but it's not a full time job nor will it put food on the table. Sitting at home and doing house work only will kill the morale of any ambitious woman talkless a man. You can only do that for a meantime while working your way out. Those that value their spouse taking over their manly duty reciprocate by taking care of the home more. It's never a problem for a family that walk together.

Ladycewhy:
will the story be the same if he was married to a white woman? Abegi ,all this talk is bullshit. Which is why i laugh when i see deluded men write "hustle ,you can get any woman you want" . when the money vanish all that is left is bruised ego and resentment. They become frustrated because the only thing they had for control was the money they put on the table. Which is the main issue the op is facing. Many Nigerian men believe "he who pays the piper dictates the tune "in a marriage,well the op cant pay the piper any more ,too bad.