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Going to 33 now, I no even think about it since 2yrs ago. Na real matter ooo.... Where's boogeyman's WTF.


Buh on a serious note, any serious lady should DM. We could work something out.

jonili:
I get that a lot from my female friends

Tell us one, oga Simpson

Hope you don marry Mr. Nice ride

Mimiey:
Hello Nairalanders.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, claims to want a serious relationship. Can he really be serious about being serious or he is just a play boy?

So I met this guy about two weeks ago close to my street. He calls but I hardly pick. Eventually, I picked and he asked if he could pick me after work and we hangout. I accepted. He picked me up after work last week Friday. He was quite interesting and funny, he talked freely like he had known me for years but he was really so touchy, I had barely spent 5 minutes in the car and he was already touching my shoulder and even when we were inside the bar, he tried tickling me, at a point, he put his hands close to my waist, I removed it. We both discussed if we had someone we are currently seeing, I am not seeing anyone which is the truth, he said there is an Ex but they just have sex and she has her own relationship. When he was dropping me off, he asked for a close hug, I hugged him and he wanted to pull me closer and kiss. I broke free and got down. He said I am not nice.

Well, we met again on Monday, I took just water intentionally. This time I minded the distance between us. He wanted to see again on Tuesday, I declined. Then at work yesterday, he asked to see after closing. I told him he can come briefly to my work and we can talk a bit in the car and part ways. He said he would like to host me at his house instead, I declined.

Anyway, he came, I got in and he started driving and saying, I will know his house today and besides his phone battery his low. My mood changed immediately and he tried to guilt trip me and said okay should we stop on the road and get a place to charge his phone. I then told him to continue driving to his house. He stopped on the way and got snacks. We got into his house. It was nice and neat.

Then we were watching a movie, he sat down and placed my leg on his, I was cool with this. Then he made moves to kiss and I declined and pulled away. All of a sudden, he started breathing fast, hugged me so tight and kissed me despite I kept pulling away and didn't kiss back. I am weak when it comes to my Bosom, then he got there and gave me the roughest and painful squeezing I have ever experienced. I haven't been with any man in about 7 months now, I am single and It's hard for me to do a little thing as even kissing randomly. So he got me there when he got to my bosom but it took only just few seconds to snap out. He continued panting and begging for me to reciprocate, he is so hard and hasn't felt this way in a while.

I told him I don't want this, he went in frustrated, stamping his feet, I tot he had agreed, only for him to come back naked and saying okay, he has heard no sex and "I don't want to force you", so he asked for a dry hump and wanted me to turn my back. I didn't. He still kept breathing hard, like he wont survive the next minute. Then he started begging for a Mouth Action. I declined and told him I wasn't up for that. I tried pulling, away and getting angry. He became even more aggressive, removed the hands I used to protect my chest and forced his way into my bra. It was a struggle and then back to begging till I made it clear in a thunder voice for him to stop and take me home.

Then he agreed, wore his cloths and kept complaining that I don't know what I have caused and he wont be himself. We left his house and he tried stopping at a Pharmacist and said he needs to get ibuprofen, then he didn't stop again and just continued driving.

This morning, he is apologizing and repeating the things he said when we got to his house that he wants something serious with me and he wants us to start something and want it to work out. He asked to come see me at work today but I declined. With this red flags, is there a possibility that he is truly serious like he said? Or he is just doing the usual lies to get the cookie and go away. He has a nice ride and nice house, I suspect he may have girls around him. My concern isn't all these, I just want to be with a serious man who is in for commitment and not just sex.

He rough handled me on my first visit to his house, can he be sincere about wanting to be serious?

Loreettaa:

Ok. I'm aging and wanted to know where I stood.

Shey oun wa okor ni? Message mi, jeka kolabo

Ewa na beans nau.... Food is food. Eat ewa to your life jare. Hope say you no tall sha... Lol

Ask her out nau, abi it is US you wan ask out. Where many werey full ground

Double wahala for dead body. Rip to the dead souls abi how we go greet dem

justjify:

Emefe-what?
Naahhhh! That one no follow.

sarcasm to the initial thread on emefiele

I see Atiku going back to APC to support Emefiele....lol

Oyinmiebiagric:
I did not visit Ada as promised and didn't go to her house for almost 3 weeks. Susan became a regular sex and more sex with her,she gave Ifeoma her space and respected what I had with Ifeoma, at least all she wanted was sex and I was giving it to her.

School was becoming very boring for me,I only went to fulfill all righteousness and to see babes there. Ese was getting closer to me,but no time to have sex with her,my small friend Omolara and her friends has become used to me,this one na to Bleep them with my guys, but if I do that, no more respect. Am I willing to sacrifice respect for sex? Only time will tell,in fact i don't even know what to do with them. rBukola I've been going to her house once once, Shewa we can't do anything again because of what happened the last time with Agric teacher. Veronica is back to school, pregnancy has been aborted, but it seems she's now been careful with guys. Preye is forming sister, but I heard she's banging one ss2 guy.

Ifeoma has finished exams and she's now always at home, now its me and her,I now sneak into Susan's house, because queen Ifeoma might come in unannounced, to avoid that we now meet in Susan's house.

Ada is no more talking to me,she said I was with another girl and I refused her from coming to the house, so I should find my level. I was happy, because it seems to me that I was the one that broke up with her and not the other way round. Things were going on fine with my life until I followed Ifeoma to her school few days before Christmas. I was putting on my favorite colour, black jean and White v neck polo,Susan went into an office, she asked me to wait for her,I've been standing for some time and wanted to sit down. Biggest mistake of my life. I sat down under a tree.

Boy: Who you be?

Me: Good afternoon sir,my name is Oyin.

Boy: I say who you be you dey tell me your name, abi you wan collect.

Me: No sir,I came to see someone,I'm tired and decided to sit here.

Boy: This guy na in_Jew rise am go base,one of them grabbed me by my trousers and began to drag me when I heard a voice

Susan: Leave him alone, please he's my brother, I'm the one that told him to sit there.

Boy: Free am,they left me,which Tee you dey?

Boy 2: Free that boy na stinking Jew,I no sure say him don enter Tee. Guy you suffocate us,you go sort ikv.

Me: Thank you sir,I don't know its your seats, I will never come near here again.

Susan: Bros abeg no vex,he is still in secondary school, our mother sent us somewhere, so I came to school to sort something before we go to the place.

Boy: Fine girl which department you dey?na you go sort us.

Susan: I'm studying law,Oyin let's go.

you went to school with Ifeoma, how Susan kon enter? Ko ye mi faa

Saintmary:




So, where do we start from?


1. Don't be afraid.

2. Take your time to decide for yourself what you want, and what kind of man you want in your life.

In the meantime:

Don't call the girl again. Don't ask your husband about her. But please don't have sex with him. Don't demean your body.

It's not easy but that's the best way to help you and him to figure out what you want for yourselves.


A man who triangulates you with another woman is disrespectful, immature, narcissistic.

He will tell you her qualities while showing you how inadequate you are. He has seen you finish. See finish.



If you're tired of doing nanny work, take the kids to Grandma's, preferably your Mom.

REINVENT YOURSELF


Anticipate and be proactive.
Where do you want to be living?
Which career do you want to take up?

Take things one step at a time.


He will still try this nonsense with you again.


Whatever you do, don't stop your career efforts, because for him to gather the liver to threaten your MOTHER with divorce shows he doesn't mind living without you. And he has ZERO RESPECT for your Mom.



What are we even talking about here?

Face front and build some dignity for yourself!



If he wants you back, you have to check if he's truly repentant (repentance will take a while). And never let him do that to your mother ever.

you sha finally want to send the husband away for her patapata.

One werey on the loose... Lmao

Shey you dey whine us ni....

Lemme follow up

emmnprince:


@the emboldened: In managing secret sexual affairs that might jeopardize his relationship with her in the future?

of course

Arabinrin, we are all cheat, and we are victim of cheating. Why would you destroy your relationship and someone else's marriage.
Just go your way or accept him back. He's realized his mistake, and trust me....


He's gonna be smarter.

I foresee this won't end well

Where we kon meet ourselves bayii...

Pls put viewer's discretion

Lori iro

Mama Stella, sun ree ooo. Death na debt we all owe

Shey tecno spark? Baba, I dey in your shoe. I've decided to close my eyes and choose one of them. Whether na right or left, I no wan know.

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Political prophet

Greater heights to us all.... Happy new year great people

anonymousOG:
So you posted here
you've been cheating for Long before i Caught you red handed
If am bad as you say have i ever physically abused you or treated you wrong ( have never hide you from is any of my friends i treated you nice and you paid me back by cheating on him first )

Tell the everyone the real story
Am surprised you posted this here after you messed everything up

this is getting interesting.. Lemme sit here pls

Sorry dear.

dyingheart:
we dated for five months. i showed him so much love and care. all he did was complain it wasn't enough, he wanted to date someone else. we're not talking anymore. i miss him like mad. i can't sleep, i can't eat, i can't do anything. it's like my heart has been broken into a thousand pieces. i can't breathe anymore. someone talk to me


****abeg, the man in question is not a Nairalander. cheating was from his part. i was very faithful to him.

Omoh! Na to run leave this country remain before dem auction am.

Those space bookers up there sha

I smell front