Ronaldo723: My girlfriend of 8 months has broken up with me because she says I have no plans for her
I was surprised by the outburst cus she is still very young just 19 I don't know what she means by this statement because non of us are ready to marry now
I love this girl so much... I suspect that because her birthday is coming up next month and I haven't said anything about it so she feels I don't take her seriously
I have pleaded and talked to her but she is adamant about her decision that she is tired as I'm wasting her time
I haven't talked about her birthday yet cuz I'm having a hard time, things are pretty tight with me but she just can't understand
Please guys what should I do I'm truly in love with this girl that I'm having a hard time moving on
Jestin: I went to site today to complete the roofing stage in one of my buildings. Some workers were doing the wood work while i directed some to clear the compound because it was bushy.
One of the workers shouted snake and before a blink of an eye, they killed the snake. Cut off the head and tail and kept the body to be consumed later. I took some photos to share here because i know Lala and nairalanders love snakes.
Gibon viper! Highly venomous!
It's called 'gwobe de nisa' in Hausa meaning ' tomorrow is too far'
thesilentman: Because we live in proximity-same town, she wouldn't quit checking up on her daughter virtually every day or at least every other day.
I felt a deep intrusion on my privacy so yesterday I summoned the gut and asked her if she didn't have a house. Before she could reply, I told her, 'learn to stay where you belong! I did not marry daughter and mother!` She has since disappeared into thin air.
This evening am thinking whether i bleeped up or not.
You Bleep up! Why didn't you use her daughter to tell her?
CarNaWife: My rent was increased 60% I think because i recently bought a car.
What I noticed about some landlord are 3 behaviours.
The first one is they will increase your rent if you achieve Anything or seems to be progressing. This one is common among the Igbos.
The second one is they will give you quit notice to pack out. This could be out of jealousy. They want to be apha and omega and don't want tenants to raise shoulder with them.
The third one is they will be happy that you are achieving things in their house and want people to see that their house had no problem. They can even reduce your rent or not bothered to ask you to pay urgently so you can pay at your convenient time.
promisedwealth: Good morning Great people and wonderful family, please just like the saying a problem shared it's a problem half solved.
I have been married to my wife for over 6years now we have been through all together we have two kids 4 and a year old .
my business since late 2021 has been rough I lost some money trying out a different business I'm based in the eastern part of the country.
Early last year my mother in law told my wife to come stay with her in Lagos till I can find my self again, they left imo to Lagos on feb. 2022 I have been I contact with them ever since sending money across also it happen that my wife started bringing the idea of myself joining over there in Lagos ( my in law has a little school in Lagos that has been where my wife has been teaching since she left) .
Concerning the relocation I told her it's not easy as I have to look for money to get accommodation, shop to start a business also the money will be much which I can't afford for now during someday last year I told her to come back during one of our discussion she told me she it's not coming to east again I got angry.
I noticed the mother will never allow her leave her school so I kept mute about coming back since I was neither ready yet do we kept on going no issues.
Just this april she changed, hardly pick my call,stop calling me by the pet name she does.
I tried to find out what happened, she told me she wanted a break. I was confused I tried to guess why she came up with that. she needs to seek and know if it's the will of God for our union that's after two kids .
I was lost also I have tried to restore this woman sanity since then till now I have spoken to the mother she it's not saying anything than what ever she decides it's best for her the only once telling me not to worry at the brothers but I'm worried honestly .
I don't want my kids to grow in different homes.
I also tried to make her see this same reason she told me the kids will be fine she's not looking at anything making her decision please I need advise it's my wife under a spell or what.
I don't want to raise ny kids this way please advice please....
My friend! Travel to Lagos and know what's up. Phone conversation will not save your marriage! You don't sound serious sef.
BERNIMOORE: They fought for the same course of oppression but they're divided and have ego
Seun kuti and psquare were fellow activists & active at the Endsars October 2020...
Police Brutality and the Army oppression at the toll gate is still without Justice Peter of psquare a boy that often assume himself to be larger than life...is in loggerheads with seun because Seun question some LP officials who were corrupt. Psquare believed that nobody should question anybody in LP....and at a time, psquare is making LP looks like Igbo party I don't support seun behavior... But for fellow .musician peter especially to start engaging lagos police commissioner in a Sarcastic motive to make sure seun is destroyed actually shows that these youths are also egoistic and that's not good for the country
Did P square include 'igbo' and or 'LP' in their banter towards seun?
Tell your horrible rulers to fix the roads! If the roads are as they should be such accidents wount be happening. Secondly the, authorities in the port should make sure any container that is not strapped to the truck should not leave the warf.
lovediehatelive: I met this pretty homely girl sometimes ago.
She was reluctant the first time I toasted her and won't want to date me. However, I persisted till she succumbed.
She's everything I want in a lady. She didn't want to visit me when we started dating until one day I promised that I won't touch her.
She visited and was so graceful that I thanked the heavens for sending my soul mate to me.
We discussed a bit and I made her feel comfortable because she was really uneasy.
As promised, I didn't touch her. She felt so free that she rested her head on my chest.
The urge to kiss her became so strong, but I resisted.
What's the use of spoiling things now when she can be mine forever?
She later left and we became really close from then.
I was happy because she's madly beautiful yet so down to earth.
I was thinking she is a virgin but I needed to clarify.
So one day, I used talk to bring talk and stylishly told her a bit about some rough life of my past for her to feel uncomfortable.
She later opened up to me about her first kiss and how the guy went on to have sex with her even though he promised her nothing will happen.
She was 19 years then.
Since then she stopped visiting guys and is no longer in contact with the guy.
She swore that she hasn't kissed or had sex since then.
Now she's 23.
The thing is I really deeply love this girl because she's just exactly what I needed. But I promise myself that I will marry a virgin and nothing else.
My love for this girl is beginning to affect my thinking.
Nsogbu001: No one knows what's going to happen to him or her . Before you step out of your house, pray against principalities and powers. The devil is roaring like a hungry lion. Prayer is the only way you can conquer it. Donot mind all the so called atheist.