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Steep:
a dog living like a bird is unrealistic, except the dog is reborn to be a bird.

CanadaOrBust:
I’m just presenting FACTS. In reality Nigeria is NOT a poor country. Many, many people in Nigeria are rich by any standard. Nigeria has the highest number of rich people than any black community in the world!

Oyindamolah:
MARTIAL BED.

My wife says no sex until her mother leaves our house.
FROM A MY COUSIN:

I'm happily married with two young kids ages 2 and 4. We stay in a 2-bedroom apartment and usually leave the connecting door ajar so that if the kids wake up during the night they may have access to our room to seek comfort, which is very frequent especially during these noisy thunder storms.

My problem started with the arrival of my mother-in-law, less than a week ago to spend 2 months. Of course, she sleeps with her grand kids in their room.

This doesn’t stop them from frequenting our room during the night, so the door is still left ajar. Much to my amazement, my wife has now told me that she will no longer allow us to copulate during the time her mother is with us. She said her mum scolded her and feels we are rude to engage in lovemaking knowing fully well that she is in the adjoining room.

My wife has always feared her mum so it is impossible for me to convince her that this is her house, not her mum’s. I don’t see myself going one week without sex, talk less of 2 months! Is it my fault that the bed creaks or that my wife has to make noise at her height of ecstasy?

I feel that my mother-in-law is being very intrusive and insensitive and I’m prepared to talk to her and ask her to leave if she insists on tormenting my wife, but I know that my wife won’t find it funny at all.

What should I do?

Steep:
Yea the rules of the bible are strigent and unrealistic because God is super holy and we are super sinful, the Christian God is an extremely holy and perfect God I mean to every letter holy, that even the seraphim cover ther eyes and their feet before his glory.
Our petty righteousness and good works is like poo before him, and he is a God full of Judgment to the letter that nothing can escape him.
But God is also extremely loving that he gave us Jesus so we can have a covering, Jesus took our sinfulness and died on the cross while we receive God's righteousness.

The question is what type of righteousness can withstand God's presence?
The answer is only God's righteousness can, and only the sacrifice of a truly eternal being can provide us that righteousness and only true faith in the eternal righteous being can we have that righteousnes

As a confirmation to this Jesus rose again from the dead after three days so that till today Jesus grave is empty, so that you will have every reason to believe in him.

Imagine appearing before this being in your own righteousness and good works, you will just know at once that you are done already, no question.

Boomboost:
Probably a social accident from an amoral animal.

Kenog4real:
Paid a visit to my sister. She has 2 kids 4 and 6. They came back from school and brought out their assignments with their last term exam script. When I went through the 4yr old script, I was baffled to see the kind of questions they have written because it's more or less of a primary school standard. I was told they would be starting exams in few days time but they still came home with loads of assignments instead of allowing their parents to revise their previous class activities with them.
Not that the kids are not brilliant but I just feel the of that exam questions and some of their assignments are way higher than their reasoning.
Is it same with the school your kids attends.?

DrLiveLogic:
The only reason I'm posting on this thread now is just so when the drama begins, no one will say it's happenstance.

Trump will be president and serve his full term. Many corrupt politicians will go to jail. It's the beginning of the end of the Democrat Party already.
GreyLaw says March 4. I don't know about that. What I do know is that by May, a lot will have changed on the landscape and in the news, and before year's end, Trump will be back in office. Then I'll come back here.
My source? Not necessary until it all goes down.

So go ahead now call us drunk, doped, low IQ and all, but in a matter of time, you'd know how little those who think they know actually do. No one here should deactivate and no heart attacks allowed, LMAO!.

It's sweeter that it happened this way and everyone on the left got to celebrating before reality hit em hard.

klassyguy:
I beg to disagree. I know exactly what was meant by "hell". I know for the first five years here in the US we had it a bit tough, but my wife and I made sure the kids did not lack in any way. My son has no issue communicating with me. If he was struggling mentally, I would know. He tells me anything that's bothering him. He once told me one of the kids in a higher grade tried to bully him during recess by telling him to "go back to your jungle". I had to call the school authorities who looked into the matter and they found out it was true. They had the parents of the kid apologize to me and the kid apologize to my son. So if it comes to communication, he knows I got him covered.

I spoke to my mum over the weekend (she's a registered nurse and has also worked with kids in the past) and asked if I was ever tested for ADHD when I was around his age. She told me my school advised I get tested then as I was so restless, but it came out negative. That I was just naturally active. So at least there's that. But having monitored him for a few days now, he has been very calm and not acting overly excited. Maybe it's due to the soccer games he had over the weekend.

I've already made an appointment with his doctor, so I'll wait and see.

Thanks alot for your concern.

MangekyoAlt:
The CIA in collaboration with their British lapdogs and their Ukrainian puppets, have started making moves to eliminate some of Putin's oligarchs to cause a commotion amongst them, since their sanctions didn't faze them at all. They expected Putin's oligarchs to dispose him off after the sanctions they meted on them. But it seems they sanctions didn't faze them at all. They all have realized that Investing in Britain was a very bad move, and have even stood with Putin in solidarity. Whatever the USA planned to achieve by poisoning these old men who did nothing wrong, I call upon them to abandons such doomed pans, lift the undeserved sanctions, seek for their forgiveness, and thereafter, engage in serious diplomatic discussions with them. Anything short of that would only anger Russia, thereby adding fuel to the fire.

Amotolongbo:
If you did, then use the theory of evolution to disprove this my assertion which started the argument then.

OLAADEGBU:
The light has shone and darkness cannot comprehend it.

klassyguy:
Hence the reason why you choose to use the condescending tone you're using to refer to another person's kid. I get it, we are on a faceless platform where you can air your utterances freely. My kid is not going through any kind of hell. You wouldn't like it if someone speaks of your three boys like that. My boy is a very lively and lovely kid. Everyone he meets sees him as a very bright kid. He just has some behavioral issues which I believe is normal for a boy his age. I posted this topic to seek opinions on how to tackle them, not to hear insults, so kindly refrain from acting like you're a better parent than others cos you have it easy with yours. We are mature enough to share ideas on how to handle our children's development to make them better people without delving to the level of insults. Not all children are the same.

xproducer:
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"But Peter and John answered and said unto them, Whether it be right in the sight of God to hearken unto you more than unto God, judge ye." - Acts 4:19

Amotolongbo:
When you want to interfere or cut into a discussion, follow the it from the origin.

CanadaOrBust:
I never said God did it. People convert other people by preaching to them. You yourself, if someone preaches to at the proper moment and the stars align, you’d also get converted. There are forces in this world greater than man

kingxsamz:
Bro said it like Nigeria is competing with those advanced countries up there.
He can't see that his country is in shambles.

PoliteActivist:
Maybe their insights were from the serenity and meditatve peace obtainable from religion, as religious people are generally more in tune with their higher selves.

CanadaOrBust:
That’s precisely the point - no one got to them to preach to them and possibly convert them. You are lucky the one meaning to rob your sorry ass got converted!

CanadaOrBust:
He got converted on the way - so instead of robbing you he is in church today joyously praising God.
He’d then go ahead to be a productive member of society. Religion thus saving two people misery - u & him!
Do u ever look at things that way?

PoliteActivist:
Greetings sir. I would suggest you are looking at things with a jaundiced eye. Almost all innovations and discoveries that kick-started scientific and industrial revolution were by religious people - including the big bang theory atheists hang their hats on.

CanadaOrBust:
I’m just presenting FACTS. In reality Nigeria is NOT a poor country. Many, many people in Nigeria are rich by any standard. Nigeria has the highest number of rich people than any black community in the world!

OLAADEGBU:
May the Lord Jesus open your eyes like he did Saul to see what it means to become a Christian. They that are with us are more than those who are against us.

CanadaOrBust:
Those are obviously NOT religious people. Those whom they kidnapped and murdered are. If you would just be honest for a minute, you’d admit your average Nigerian is a better human being with religion than without

Amotolongbo:
where?

Point to it

Amotolongbo:
This claptrap is so useless and worse than the baseless religious doctrines!

OLAADEGBU:
If you think wearing a crucifix makes you a Christian then I can understand why you will think Hitler and all those hip hop artists with bling bling crucifixes were Christians.

OLAADEGBU:
Same lie you stuck on Hitler that he was a Christian when he was anything but.

BabalawoPikin:
You are still a kid. When u grow up. Pray u have a terrible life that will make u source for spiritual power for healing. Then you will see powers that even disappearing will be a small thing. Ok

Amotolongbo:
And did I mention your assertion?

BabalawoPikin:
Lol. If you check my first post u will see where I said aboki stuff...
If aboki man hit you charm bro. U go dey vibrate for ground like chicken.. If you doubt it, I will give you location if u DM..

A001:
The way religious people think can be ludicrous. I hope one day, many Nigerians will see religion as one of the major factors behind the poor state of development in Africa.

It puts a bar on a person's thinking faculty; and no people can solve life's myriads of problems efficiently and effectively when they can't think clearly.

Development and innovation start from the mind — a free (not enslaved) mind.

CanadaOrBust:
There are lies, then there are damned lies, before u get to statistics. Countries around Nigeria are struggling to enter Nigeria to hustle.
Do these people below look poverty stricken