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xolocious:
The truth is that you're confused n no one is in a better position to give you a sincere answer other than yourself. You know what you want, the qualities you're looking out for and lastly finding happiness. It's your decision to make. Happiness matters most in any or every relationship.
Go for happiness.

can you define happiness? Is there any human being that can constantly make you happy?

Happy989:
I started dating my boyfriend months ago and even before we started dating we've been good friends. He is intelligent, funny, has a great personality and takes good care of me. When he asked me to be his girlfriend I was so happy, because he is such a great guy. My boyfriend is in his final year in the same university that I attend. I'm still in my second year.

There is this guy in my department who is very good looking and also intelligent. He isn't jovial and extroverted like my boyfriend, but he is cool in a very confident and attractive kind of way. We started talking recently and he told me he finds me attractive. I told him that I have a boyfriend and he didn't seem fazed and never talked about the subject of my relationship. He still complimented my body and looks from time to time even though I didn't respond to his compliments in a way that indicated that I was in support of his actions.

During this covid-19 break we began talking more often over the phone and through texts and I always found our conversations interesting. A lot of times we'd talk till midnight. He is very witty and creative with words and I always smile whenever I see his texts or receive his calls.

Few weeks ago we talked about sexual fetishes and I realized we both had similar fetishes. This made him even more interesting because I found myself able to talk about stuff I hadn't talked about with anyone before, not even my boyfriend. This guy is not like anyone I've ever met before. His views on life are very unique and original and his personality is so complex and his sexuality is very intriguing.

The problem now is that I am beginning to develop strong feelings for this guy. When he calls me on the phone I don't wish the call to end. I find myself talking to him for minutes not minding the time. He is beginning to occupy my thoughts a lot and I don't know what to do. I still love my boyfriend but there is something about this guy that just seems to draw me to him.

I don't want to do anything that will break my boyfriend's heart.

lol.... foolish girl you have already started doing what will break his heart....Most girl's are incapable of loving because they don't understand that love is sacrifice... The truth is your boyfriend or husband or girlfriend or wife will never be the best person or most beautiful or intelligent person you will ever meet but you have to sacrifice all of that to be with him or her. You choose not feel that is love

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarrr
Isoright
One overrated dumb league is about to kick start

I keep on saying it
Merge Epl, Italian league, Spanish league German league and french ligue one
I can bet my balls no EPL club will come out top ten not to talk of top four

Lol e b like say na you go enter the field play the ball...lol

olajizz01:
Hahaha...............,OBJ,you just mentioned the most corrupt president ever, since our return to democracy in 99,this old fool has every opportunity to better Nigeria more than any president we had since 99,but what can you listed as his achievement.

You are probably a kid if you cannot see the achievement of Obasanjo

Blackmann001:
... There is no feasibility study on that rail line...

The project is an economic waste of resource if ajaokuta steel is not in place..... Less than 50 persons travel from kogi to warri in 10years...

Ooohkay..mayb corpers... This is simply cheap publicity.. Fix ajaokuta ND get my applause

lol.... They don't need your applause

Suddenly rape news is everywhere... This is the reason it will never be taking seriously

Exmilitant:
If the looting starts, the shooting starts.. I no longer support those protesters, they have derailed.

They don't need your support.... Face your country

FlordFlorez:
This is no longer funny. To what end? If Trump go military way now, we start criticizing him.

Trump ass lickers

ogbuefi677:
Financial autonomy by executive order instead of constitutional amendment.
The dividend of having a primary six certificate holder as president.

obviously the primary six certificate holder is more intelligent than you with probably a useless masters certificate

sassysure:
Oh, shut it.

U came out condemning a dead man of living a luxury life that didn't save him from death when u are yet to reach 60.
What makes u think he hasn't lived a fulfilled life or does life start from 61?

The Tinubus, atikus, buharis, iwuanyanwu, oshiomole etc are still out there more than 60yrs, living their lives to the fullest. Why is death yet to discover them?

U guys should get a grip.
Majority started out very poor. Go out there and make your mark. Nobody is ready to spoonfeed you.
What has this got to do with Africa?

Is it that you cannot read clearly? Where did I condemn a dead man in my post? Please shut it if you have comprehension problem....This country is in total mess because some of you just think luxury from morning till night. This is the simple reason we have politicians that will not hesitate to steal the entire country simply because they have fans like you guys

sassysure:
All these semi righteous judgeswey full Nigeria. I'm beginning to think u guys are our problems.
He enjoyed his wealth, his brain fed him, he lived in luxuries etc and it was time for him to die and he is gone.

You on the other hand is yet to enjoy these luxuries, your brain is indeed failing you cos a smart guy wouldn't think this way. Your post is filled with bile like most Nigerians who are instantly jealous that others are better than them.
Envy is bitter and impedes growth. When u are stunted in the mind it affects you outwardly.
We all will die. Either as kids, adolescents, adults or old people. You, this dead man and 1 belong to these categories.

Gosh, I have never seen people filled with so much bikes like we Nigerians.

what difference does it make? You ppl and luxury is just something else.... Who cares if you have 50 million houses made of Gold? The only problem will have in Africa is simply because majority can not afford basic life... If you can afford basic life trust me you will have a different orientation

godkiller:
Donald Trump should connect his fingers with his brain when typing.

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God bless Nigeria.

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James4bright:
Lol. Guy, most Nigerians girls are uninspiring. Most girls won't even want to settle with a man making a low income unlike the OP

But the OP seems willing to give the broke guy a chance. Hopefully they can build wealth together if he turns out to be serious minded. But the dude seems like someone who prefers playing around.

Not every girl can deal with your broke ass and still inspire you to get a job, no matter how low it is for a start. They would rather leave the moment they realize you aren't at the top of your game, without hesitation. She seems different.

She doesn't seem like someone who is excessively demanding, so how exactly is she a gold digger?

So your aim is to have a gf you won't spend a dime on? Even white women are demanding sef, it's just a feminine thing.

The way you guys makes these ladies feel like there is one rich dude there waiting never seize to amaze me... Are we begging women to settle with us? The ladies are they high income earners? Bros nobody is doing you a favour by marrying you.... Imagine a broke girl thinks he is doing a broke guy favours by dating him... Rubbish!!!!

James4bright:
You seem like a really cool girl. Don't listen to those random guys making you look like a gold digger. That dude isn't serious about his life, let him be.

I wish I had a girl who really cared about my career that much.

Na them... smh

Liliantalks:
My dear don’t allow the comments from stingy broke men affect you , Focus on urself , u would meet someone better. He doesn’t even deserve you

There is always someone better...lol. The truth is most Nigerian women thinks love is all about them, they fail to know that love is sacrifice infact they keep looking for something better till they get to 40...lol

Donbabaj:
You know at times you just want to please these ladies at times and give them attention. But not with my faith.

Please is she a virgin? If no then you are the problem

Henreez:
That's the issue but you can't blame her. When a woman is broken, anywhere she finds comfort, she becomes vulnerable to

Yeah you can never blame the woman...it is always the man's fault

Agbagbaregoo:
Put yourself in my shoes. How would you feel if they told you at the bank the person you sent money to has received it and is only playing pranks won't you be madd. Mstcheew

Are you new to bank? You sent money and you are the one going to print statement... This very simple issue you turn am to complex matter...lol.

Temmytems:
Trust me, I've done that— I've stopped calling. Sometimes we won't talk for days and out of nowhere I'd receive a credit alert from him.

I'll call to thank him and he won't pick!

After some days, he'll call and act like nothing happened and he'll go back to being sweet again.

After sometime, he goes AWOL.

It's like an endless cycle.

The problem with Nigerian girls... credit alert.
Credit alert Equals to love in Nigeria

Atlanticfire:
Ex loading

lol.... Should we tell her?

Naija246:
fraudsters no invade anything.
Alot of Nigerians are being tricked by various apps on the play store to reveal their bvn...most of these apps are run by criminal networks all over the world.

Some unscrupulous people are also tricking Nigerians to give up their bvn when registering for national ID.
My gf was asked to provide her bvn when she went to register her national ID recently.
Fortunately for her she called me and I advised against giving it up.


Someone should correct me if I'm wrong but is bvn number now a requirement for registering a national ID card?

can someone steal your money with your BVN number?

koyyes:
Lovely.

Meanwhile, some negroes are crying, barking and clamouring for their African women to feed and clothe them while they offer nothing but their decayed $perm.

Let them come and learn from this responsible, successful and happily married man. Or they remain with their red pill offered to them by some divorced f@ggots.

lol.... Clowns everywhere..... iPhone and money equal happy and successful marriage...smh

DanielIkeije:
I’ll advice you acquire a high income skill.

A high income skill will make you between $2000 to $10,000 monthly if you are really good at what you do.

Out of the 300k take out some money and pay for a course to learn a high income skill.

This will benefit you greatly trust me.

can you suggest one

Dyt:
Never ever
I mean never settle for an entitled man

Never ever I mean Never settle for an entitled woman

Eyeness:
pls go and hustle.
Goodbye

Bros abeg you get money?...lol I say make I ask o

Inferno001:
My brother, at this moment the naming is over and you have spent what you can afford and nothing can change it..it is only natural for some women to want to show off and I won't blame her for that but here is the thing..sit her down and apologize not because you did wrong but because you want peace..promise her you'll celebrate the child's birthday better and she will draw the plan and you'll give her whatever will be needed to make it her taste after all the baby is yours also and if not for the period we're in you would have loved to do more...just say this for peace to reign and make her feel she is right..a happy good woman makes a happy home my brother...

...modify...
For everyone quoting and insulting me calling me a weak man because I asked OP to be subtle and make peace, I'll ignore you!!!

useless men...is the wife handicap?

rhymesu28:
My people, I greet you all.

I am a married man with a child. We did our child's dedication few days ago online and my wife is angry that I should have spent more to entertain our neighbors after giving them soft drinks.

I have considered my pocket and sincerely with the present situation if I don't cut down my expenses it will be hard on us.

For almost two months now no salary. I have explained to her but she is not pleased with me.

How should I go about this matter please?

Tell her to bring the money to entertain the neighbors

mu2sa2:
That's why it's hard to believe the statistics that say half of Nigeria's population live below poverty level. A lot of people they say are living below $1 a day earn far more than that. For instance, a street beggar will invariably be classified as living below $1, but most of them rake in much more than that - in fact a lot of them aren't truly poor but find begging a convenient way to live without working.

I'm sure you always walk pass beggars without dropping one naira and yet you think they are living above one us dollars...smh

ojuu4u:
If man u love is not ready to settle down in the next 10 yrs, will u wait for him til eternity?

lol is love tied to a particular person? Maybe you guys should define love for us because I am not understanding o...lol

yinkaOdutuyo:
Ok thanks for a view from a cow!

So if your own girlfriend doesnt care for the relationship to end, its means she love you right cow??

The ackward moment when a mad man think he is same... Apologies doesn't have to come from your girlfriend alone, so if you don't care for the relationship to end, it means you love her right?

Ndeoma:
I haven't ruined anybody's happiness neither do I intend to do so. Try and read my post well and my reply to other comments.

lol.... The way humans lie to themselves...smh.

Ejima1:
Prayer is also essential

. So the only place you can pray is inside a church right?