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Victorycollins:
sit her down and talk to her about what is about to happen

lol.....see advice.....sense no go kill you

EXLOVER:
There is girl i know that her fiance came around the hood to visit her, while they were walking together the fiance saw an old friend of his, they started joking and laughing together, he introduced the girl as his fiancee, and they both exchange numbers. I know the guy very well, and i also remember the period the guy was sleeping with that girl.


The world is a very small place.

I have to open a thread and ask this question. I'm not yet in that situation, I don't know what will happen if i get to know that my friend have had canal knowledge of my fiancee (I'm even irritated by mere imagination) God forbid such for us. If you have been in such shoe can you tell us what happened after?

so reverse the question, let's say your wife to be introduced you to her friend and it turns out that you were sleeping with her friend when you were 19-20 years old... Will you be ok if she dumb you and marry another suitor?

Stephenomozzy:
Exactly! I may not think straight! Maybe that's why OP has come online...if you see my statement, I neither said she was cheating or not...but I tried to offer a way he can make things change for better!

Some people that have not even held a successful relationship are trying to plant wrong ideas in OP's hear so he can ruin the marriage that's probably already shaky but not beyond redemption

I understand your point tho, but cheating is a big deal for me. What OP's wife is doing is disrespect and I don't like disrespect in my relationship not to talk of marriage. Instead of snooping, op should call is wife and tell her that what ever she is doing is unacceptable and you will not take it and if she persist in all those secretive Chatting and re saving names then you will act accordingly.... How can a man be snooping and hiding to read his wife messages anyway....pussy men everywhere

xendra:
it's not just a line, it's reality. you can trash it I don't care.

I'm very sure you are not in a 'happy' relationship So....... whatever you say.

Take responsibility... Stop blaming men for your short comings

CsRockefeller:
Trash!!

Arent u ladies tired of the same line everytime?

Don't mind all these useless women.... When they cheat it is the man's fault....lol. They will never be responsible for anything

OdefaGirl:
Sir..... I will advise you to trust your partner and stop being paranoid.......see ehh, what women go through to make sure they keep that love for their hubbies is too much....... you will hear a woman tell you 'Oga I'm married' and his response will be...'I'm married too, we can tango well'......... keep loving your woman and she will reciprocate.....no doubt, the man might be wooing her.... but she shouldn't be giving him green lights unless she just wanna be naughty and play a bit.....all the same, women reciprocate hubby's love ...a lot.

But if you wanna be free from mistrust, just quietly tell her to stop flirting with the man before it becomes something else.

Modified: You alone know what you want in your home, peace or problem of trust?
We won't be there......

since it is too much for you women why can't you ppl just stay without getting married? You ppl should just stay and be jumping from one to one and nobody will complain

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!

When you find yourself in this situation trust me you will not give yourself this advice...smh

A girl that have her own boyfriend and you are quick to accept that you are responsible.....lol fake story jor

iyatrustee:
Bad market! Toke on a good day sef can go naked in front of the camera, how someone thinks he can exploit her through that avenue beats my imagination

That said, the fact that a lot of lazy peeps are out looking out to cash out big from doing nothing, absolutely nothing shows how low the society has fallen.

Lol... nobody want to scam her she is just looking for a way to post those pictures....Afterall she is selling her market online

Jessie21:
I got this call too.The person claimed to be a customer care from my bank....He asked for the expiry date and the longest number on my debit card...

don't ever release that information.... They will wipe your account

farady:
Nobody is causing panic. Simply calm down and think through, except maybe you're a banker. I'm not one. I know that email link to an account do receive sensitive bank information related to that account. So you can't just rule out the possibility that a scammer won't be able to access or hack into an account. I saw where someone either on the first page or second, posted where an account was debited immediately he filled the form. So how was that possible?

Which form did he fill? If it is this one that we are talking about that person is just a foolish liar... He probably do not even have a bank account

farady:
They can access or hack into the account number you filled, if the email and or the phone no you gave out is linked to the account. These are the important. Cause if they can access that email, they can retrieve your bank details like pin and ATM information period.

The rest requirements on e form is just to populate the page and make it look real.

so bank will send your pin and ATM information to an email....lol. The phone number you will have to work with a network company to kind of do sim swap on your line....

mceze:
Lies! You can't be scammed with the info you gave on that form...

lol don't mind the liars... He is saying it with so much confidence as if he is the one that they scammed....lol.

ogbonnachrys:
The form requires only account number and phone no. Can one be scammed with that info alone

Don't mind them... Except the person will have to call further and confuse you to give more information with the claim of telling you the previous information that you unknowingly provided

just2endowed:
I think so

How?

piroux:
I don't think she's nasty or wicked. Selfish, definitely. Wicked, doubtful.

12 years with a man and you can't get him to the hospital to check himself?

That man is the wicked one! That's how they lie against God and make a mockery of spirituality.

He couldn't go and get tested, wasn't sleeping with his wife but supported her through pregnancy?! Is he Joseph? Or she's Mary?? Nonsense!!

He was more concerned about what people thought of him, his 'Man of God' status and the answer to his prayers.

He knew he was sick, he knew God hadn't answered his prayers, he knew she cheated but he would have gone with it anyway.

His reason for the suicide wasn't because the child wasn't his, it was because everyone else now knew that God hadn't answered him.

You did not see part where the woman said she made sure she did not allow him to see his pant...smh..... All of you are the same thing... Bunch of selfish human beings

demigodd:
Please guys,
I can help you wash clothes or clean your house or any other house chores if you live around Ago- Okota or Isolo for a token.
It's no longer funny. The few loan apps i've tried won't lend me. Someone can suggest apps where i can get a loan

Bros stop lying to us you are a demigod

yomifola:
Sad news....

All these rich pple.. They are really suffering oo

Nah dem dey always give this orisirisi sickness

Yet.. We poor cabals still want be like dem without we knowing what dey are passing through.

Poor man.. The only thing poor man suffers from is poverty.

But rich man... You go hear... Ezxreacheartieria diseases aaffecting dem


Anyways... Rip

When poor ppl die you don't hear the news, nobody bother to take to the hospital to find out the name of disease or cause of death.... They just bury them.... So don't ever think that poor ppl are immune

frankputer:
hmmm,
no new case in Lagos. i smell lies.
trying to protecting Lagos image, it's better we know what ahead of us than to do seek and hide.
NewYork did not hide anything.
today there curve is flattening and they are thinking of reopening of economy.

please tell us the real situation.

is there anything they will say that you will not call lies? If they say 10000 new cases you will say lies they want to steal money, if they say no case you will still say lies... which Kind human being Una bi?

Susu888:
Who would've thought that the U.S.A had dumb people as well but


apart from that watch how some self made inferior ass lickers will praise this move while if it was done in naija they will criticize it like there is no tomorrow.

. Lol they have alot of dumb ppl some are even questioning the statistics... They should leave them when they contract the virus they will understand better

missimelda01:
You only told us the things you did for her, what of the things she did for you?
Did you notice at any point in the relationship that she was acting uninterested?
Marriage is a huge step, did you both have marriage in view while dating?
Parents have huge influence on some people, maybe she's one of them.

In conclusion, it's not advisable to convince someone to marry you.. move on with your life, you'd find someone else who'll feel the same way about you.

Lol...what can that hungry girl do other to have sex with him..

StreetFight:
They did not say the same about Sani Abacha.

What did sani Abacha do to you?

DWJOBScom:
Stay safe
Goodnight

Goodnight

DWJOBScom:
Today my friends and i reached out to 3 selected families in our estate and won't stop and we are looking forward to Volume II
God gat our back and hasn't stopped providing for us
Yes i tithe

We don't Tithe and God gat our back too...stop misleading ppl that God got their back because they tithe

DWJOBScom:
This is not an argument that gives rewards for the most eloquent
Tithing shouldn't be the problem here
Tithe and till give as well help the poor
Everyone needs help so don't neglect one for another

I don't see a Levite priest in Nigeria... I don't see a tribe without inheritance. If you say it is that the law that you are following but something that predates the law which is probably Abraham, then you will know Abraham gave a tenth of spoils of war...lol not is income or his own personal farm produce.
It was purely a voluntary giving base on the victory he achieved...

DWJOBScom:
I don't think you understood what you just said and i don't think you know God

I don't think you know God too... if You think tithing is the most important thing then you are just another zombie Nigerian Christian

Pharaoh350s:
Don't say this, at least we are trying to get to somewhere
A journey of a thousand miles begins with a step

Please they should hide the step...

Millenniumlady:
Who will buy for me let's quarantine together i love the phone

one year quarantine?

ORBLIGHTS:
NO! NO! NO! WHAT YOU GIVE TO THE NEEDY AND POOR IS NOT TITHE, PLS DON'T MISS THINGS UP.

So please what is tithe? And please relate it to the new testament specifically after the death of Jesus

OBAGADAFFI:
Most of them are not Christians, they just post to drag the Church

Even Millions of Nigerias that go to church and even pay tithe are not Christians ( Christ like) most of them are just church Goers and followers of pastors

DWJOBScom:
First you must a relationship with the author of tithing - God.
He will explain himself to you and in every way you desire. He doesn't need your money o and he still doesn't instead he calls you to fellowship and obedience .

In summary to have a better understanding about tithing -ask Jesus into your life and he will teach you.

Even Jesus reminded us that tithing is not a weightier matter...lol... But you Christian criminals find a way to still say otherwise