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Get a book and write your daily expenses. Going through it later will help you cut down on unnecessary purchases

Buy things in bulk. You save tons doing that

The most important is plan your finances! Budget! Budget! Budget

Sometimes we need to sacrifice to ensure we don't wallow in regret later in life.
I don't think its wise that you both are busy at this formative years of your children. Somethings gotta give. Sit down and think it through. Moving to a different nanny might also be a wrong decision. I think you need to decide who will take a less stressful job and also think of deferring your course

I will Never jeopardise my childrens safety and well being. Think!!

Kikikikikikiki. Somborri has being very naughty. I think its just a scare but pls kpekus with wisdom. You hear!!!

proudmom38:
Mamas pls is it posible 2 get preg without menstruating aftr child birth?


cc:modath,nurse kaffy,tchiwinnie,babythug,zaynie,soonest,lovinam,rezzy,chinwendym,beedam n gbogbo sabi mamas in da hux.

GenyEbere:
Good evening mamas teamjune how are we doing,hope great. Pls o I have this strong pain on my pant line every time since last month meanwhile I stopped wearing pant since 2months ago(no laugh o lol) so I want to know if it my hip bone that is preparing,the bone dey pain me well well somebody help

Hahahahahahahah. You just described me in my third pregnancy. From. 5months I didn't wear pant till I put to bed. I got big boxers, that's what I wore throughout. When I'm home I don't even bother.

I wore granny pants in my second. The pelvic pain was killing me. It was so painful so I didn't need any discomfort around that area. Go get granny pants its better than nothing

Do. You have a nanny? If yes then stay away from you six yrs old and concentrate on baby. Ensure you have disinfectants in the house. Wash her cloth separately and use dettol to rinse. Soak in dettol solution before you spread. Hand washing should be steady. Just try to keep baby away

All d best

Debbiemma:
Abeg make una answer me oo.my six year old is down chickenpox. How do i shield my six weeks baby from it.

https://www.nairaland.com/3056354/favourite-sex-positions-bed-nigerians

Hilarious stuff!!!

Hey! You know the thing about e- fights is that once you've spoken those words, you can't take them back. You are stuck with asking yourself if you overreacted or not.
Trust me pintoxx and cherrymum, you guys will look back on this day and wonder why you went down this road. No matter how right you claim, truth is that it shouldn't have come to this. I've learnt to choose my battle wisely. I'm a very nice and caring person( not hyping myself but people that know me love me to bits) but I've had an e fight here that I regret till today. Anytime I see d lady checking out this thread nd not commenting I feel bad. Was she right in her attack NO! Thinking back I should have handled it differently. She checked it some days back cos I saw her.

We need to learn how to react to things in a matured way. You can never tell tomorrow. Besides life is to sweet to allow a non issue become a big issue.

Hug and make up! Its not worth it. Mama's liking their post una do well, you hear!

Like I said earlier, just eat in moderation. Totally avoid junk food if you can. Eatt a great portion of protein and veggies. Eat carbs but not heavily.

Exercise is also very important. My dear, to push big baby no be beans. I experienced it and it wasn't funny. Its not about the cut but the stress of pushing wasn't funny at all

mitchyy:
Ma rie o. Thanks for tagging them. I've just been worried since afternoon and dh has vowed to never let me eat like before

Its a brand new day! Lord give us grace to go through tthis day Amen!

Duna baby O! E be like you need shackomended glasses!! Loll

dunamit:
But wait ohhh...i tot we are Godly mothers here. this man called Big poppasays asking for abortion pills without telling us the reason for the abortion n some of us ar bussy prescribing abortion pills for him. hmmm condom finish for market? wen him wan dance choki ontop hm woman he didnt come here to ask fr the brand of condom or contraceptive now wa belle don enter he is looking for abortion pills. hmmm odikwa very risky fa!!!!. #mothers say no to Abortion# my opinion.

Broda, I don't know if this is a joke or you de serious. I'm sure you read d hding of this thread before you came here. If you are not redy to be a man then you have no biz with intimacy. Leave that baby alone and don't ruin that young lady's life.

biGPoppaSays:
for how many days? it's
going to 2-3 months now because she had a strip test which she had to pee, and came with positive result

You are glorious! So glorious in your ways! You are an awesome Jehova! I am that I am! Alpha and Omega! He who was and is to come!!

Lord, we come before you today to acknowledge Your greatness. We thank You for life, health, protection, provision and favour in our lives. God we are so grateful.

Lord, tonight we lift our families to you. We declare that strife shall cease. We declare that misunderstanding shall cease. We declare that violence shall cease. We declare that lack shall cease. We declare that fear shall cease. We declare that terror shall cease.

Lord, tonight we ask in the Name of Jesus Christ that peace be restored in our homes, love be restored in our homes, financial increase be restored in our homes, divine health be restored in our homes, joy be restored in our homes, favour be restored in our homes.

Make our marriages fresh and clean again. Make our marriages whole! Make our marriages like new wine. Let your peace which passes all understanding dwell mightily in our homes.

Lord, our Mama's are here today giving glory to You name. May they all carry to term without complications to the glory of Your name. We declare that delivery will be a smooth ride. We declare that only those destined to be in the delivery room will be present on that day. Every instrument is sanctified in the blood of Jesus! The devourer is rebuked for our sakes. Those awaiting sad news from our homes will be disappointed

In our work places grant us great favour and increase. For those still working out their income, we sk that You give them creative ideas.

Lord, we remember our sister Adorablewifey. We declare that her baby has come to stay. We will not have cause to tell her sorry in any way. She will carry her baby till the day of delivery. Amen

Lord, we are so excited because a great and mighty work have you done in our midst. We are so grateful! In Jesus name we pray! Amen

It means your baby has taken the birth position. Are you almost due?

olubankemi:
Pleaseeeee I have a question, what does it mean for baby to be engaged? Pls don't read and pass by ooo. You can waka pass when you see it has been attended to. Thanks.

Blessedtwins, DD will be fine in not time. Hugs darl

Adorablewife, lay hands and your tummy and speak what you desire. Prophecy to your baby. We will be here to rejoice on d Dday!

pintoxx:
@ Olubankemi,may God restore ur mom's health,so dat ur joy may b complete again.Amen .

@Fabmummy n destinedmom,nice birth stories n congratulations.

@Mompurity2,howdy?We r gud dear,no serious bump yet,but feeling active movements.thanks n hop d twinnies r kicking smart.

@ALL ,pls does eating spicy food(very peperish food) hav any negative effect on loo?I need 2 no because i i luv my food very n since i became preggy my luv 4 pepper has trippled .

@BWhitneystacy my Able class rep,i dey troway salute,team august,team like no other.

Chai baby fire!! Na my mention make me see your question o. You hot mehn! Kai! You can vex eh! I had to check your profile to see the question

Pls next time just ask the question and leave greetings for another post. Its better tht way so your question won't be missed.

The answer is no. You can add cameroon pepper join. Notin de happen.

What a day!
#womenRock!!

Ahnie,
It is well dear! We will keep praying for your home. All I know and have seen is that the enemy is attacking marriages these days. We can't allow him to win. God can still cause changes to happen in your situation. If it is manipulations from someone then I'm sorry for the person because that the way his/her life will become.

Sis, sit back and see what God will do for you. Keep an open mind. Love cannot suddenly turn to hate. God forbid. You must enjoy marriage jare

NB: if everyone here shares their marriage stories. Nairaland go break! Lol

Please o. Na d outside u go de clean. The inside na chasis!!

Adorablewifey:
mama i think say i dey clean am o.

My dear Ahnie,

Sometimes we need to walk with wisdom in this journey called marriage. You shouldn't have gone ahead with the dedication ceremony since he already said no. What you should have done was to speak to your pastors to come to the house and do it quietly. The most important thing is the dedication and not the party aspect. I dedicated my first two @ 1yr and there was no party. Same as the rest o! Not by choice but I had to follow dh's track make kasala no come burst for my head. Although our pastors had already blessed them during their visit.
The food aspect.... Naa wisdom too. Feed zino with all she needs when he is not around. When he comes home, you act his wish. In no time all this will not be an issue in your home. The way we handle things determines the outcome. Meanwhile don't go dragging people into your family matters. I believe you courted oga, so you kinda knew his stance on certain matters.
I don't support violence in anyway. That is the only matter I feel calls for concern in this case.
I have received a slap (HOT ONE) once in our Journey. The truth is that I truly deserved it, but when I raised a volcano I shifted everything to him o. Hian. Everybody supported me cos of the way I painted the scenario. I didn't tell them the main matter ( bedroom tinz. Lmao)

All I'm saying is that you really need to think deep and hard before you take some steps. If your mind is divorce then it will be hard to forgive and move on. Above all take it to the Lord in prayer.

Lol! Madam wetin u de find dia na? Lol
Thank God all is well!!

Adorablewifey:
I am done dipping my hand, thanks ma.

Ahnie, your post was a shocker! Don't you think you re going ahead of yourself a lil bit? Have you tried God? Have you seen the movie " WAR ROOM"?
I wish you would share a tiny detail so we can help out. You never know who is in your position. It is well with you.

Sorry dear but you have to bear it. You know Most drugs are not safe in pregnancy. Try oranges it ight work.

cutienik:
stposh..senior lovinam said my mind nd mam Britneystacy made punchin points too...sit down nd tink ova dis suggestn cuz i got married at 30 nd plannin to do kia nd relax b4 35 as God wills,dnt forgt dt man proposes God disposes o..ots only Him dat determines wen nd how d babies will com..we cn neva play God..may d Lord guide u nd bless ur home...

@mam nazablossom...i had it durin my first preggy...i guess its paart of d package nd infact am avin it earlier now wt hip cramps too.i use diff pillow to hold my side as suggested here by senior mamas..u r almost dia luv.

@mamas mornin to u yall,pls am avin mouth ache lik wounds on my tongue,throat...i knw wat i cn use if am nt preggy bt am lost now..pls wat cn b done?if i tell u wetin i wan try...na e-slap nd knocks i go get
cc:lovinam,soonest,Chinwedym nd my sabi mamas...pls i nid d remedy asap..culdnt eat beta food since yestanyt,thanks all.

Hi dear, This shouldn't be an issue in your home at all. When we became wives/ mothers, sacrifice became our second name. University is not running away, you can still go for your masters programme at anytime. He wants to have his children early and train them too. You married a good man. Don't break your home over such a petty issue.

You should pray to get a good company that don't discriminate against pregnant women.
Above all pray for divine direction in dealing with home issues

stposh:
Good evening mothers, I knw am nt an active member but please I need advice to save my home.
My husband has been on my neck for us to start our second missionary journey by july when our baby will be 10month old.i am not ready to go down that lane anytime soon due to many factors such as
1) I deferred my m.sc admission due to the 1st pregnancy which am suppose to resume nxt year January.
2) am presently a stay @ home mum n I lost a lot of job opportunities cos I ws pregnant n now I have resume rigorous search for job wc I cant afford to get pregnant now.

3)am just not psychologically ready for another missionary journey.
My husband reason for hs rush is that age is not on his side n he wnts to hv all his kids n concentrate on training them.

Pls mothers I need advice on how to go about this cos I hv a good husband who adores me and this is trying to bring issue btw us.
Am 29 n he is 38.
Tia
Cc zaynie ozcy Chinwendym kaffy4bill n my awesome mothers here.

Hahahahahahahha. My bump will close the thread so don't even go dia. At 6 months my bump looks like I'm carrying quads. Rotfl
Happy Bump day mama's!!

mitchyy:
Congratulations on safe delivery @IzzyStevens! Pls prepare the BS and serve it hot. We are eager to read...


What time is it? What time is it?

It's #ThreadBumpies!!! It's #BumpyTuesday. It's #BumpCuties. Let the bumps flow....

Remember you can share your old or new bump photos. It also doesn't matter if you are now a mom. I can't wait to see the baby bump photos of mum zaynie, kaffy4bill, lovinam, modath, tchiwinnie and lots more. Hope una still get them?

onyinyechika08:
Happy sunday all, abeg mamas in the house, shey non stop headache na part of the package? I practically carry my head in my hands 247 non stop. Av nt treated malaria.
Sabi mamas, pls throw more light.

Yes sometimes. You might wanna go to the hospitals to run tests to eliminate malaria. (The test is very important)
Simple tip: when you feel the headache coming up, go and lie down in a your bedroom, draw the curtains to make the room dark. If you can get an ice pack,place it on ur forehead. Dump all electronics too. Have a nice rest and you will wake up very refreshed.( My Docs prescription)

Don't worry at all. He will speak well before he hits 3years. Don't compare him with other children too, it worsens the matter.

cutienik:
mum Sayoberry is funny ooo...
...Abachuuuu....dat gal is an actress....welcum to d slap club...i still dey chop mine bt am applyin mum modath tips nd it s workin small small...

@mamas my lo is still speakin korean @almost 2yrs..his words dt i undastnds r...let go,Moon,sky,One,five,hallo bt he undastnds instructions bt cnt stil speak in sentences...pls shuld i b worried?
cc..babythug,lovinam,soonest nd sabi mamas

Awwwwwwww. You were in lala land when it happened. Very soon you will deliver o! Keep bumping!!!

ifyjip:
Am back o, i was lucky to meet my gynae. So he checked me( putting fingers inside) I was kinda scared at first cos ppl said it's painful but I just ignored but nothing sha he said continue with ur exercise. So na weewee I carry design my matrimonial bed o.

Kai! This pregnancy fit u eh! See as your skin de shine. Lovely bump too

ifyjip:
Am on way o @ loviam let me get d hospital am be sure will keep u guys posted

My dear head to the hosspital to get checked. It could be your waters. Has it happened to you before now?

ifyjip:
My people I pee on d bed last nyt, hmmmm..has it happened to anyone b4? and I was soooo embarrassed. I woke hubby up he just said "put wrapper thr and lie down u hear" gosh at my 39 weeks ....odikwaegwu

Zaynie and tchwinie na catapult I go use shoot una for yonder. See dia mouth

#StillHungryForBaby. Lollz

pragmatistm:
Hello house. Our newborn baby boy made his grand arrival on 25 March, just minutes before 5am.

My wife has been on vigilante for two weeks now. Please, what is the remedy for mother's body ache after delivery like this?

Do mothers even rest after delivery? Vigilante is so real! What she needs to do is sleep as soon as baby sleeps off. She shouldn't use that opportunity to do house chores. She needs proper rest. Meanwhile I hope she is breastfeeding the right way. She should bring baby close to her and not lean forward towards baby. If done wrongly that's the no1 cause of body/back ache.
Hugs to baby

Tchwinie!!! I jump and pass o! Ah! See fine boy no rashes!! Baby don de hungry me again o. LoL
Thanks for ur comment on diet

Cute babies all over the thread. I thank the Lord for His blessings. I pray that every woman on the fruitful vine thread will these receive blessings in doubles.
Izzzystevens. I envy you in a good way. I always wanted twins. Identical twins but none came my way. Enjoy!!

Awwwwwwww. Count it all joy.
@tchwinie pls can you comment on the protein issue. Thanks

AwesomeGodIAv:
Hmmmmm! Na anoda journey oooo. My baby is just 5 months old o

Don't knw wot to do