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acidtalk: Guys without being all harsh and all that.

Can you share your experiences of girls you have dated and currently dating.

Are they they type that talk you into investing and investement modes such such buying a property, bonds, mutual funds or one business idea, or ladies whose only priority is for you to keep buying every thing they sight, going to the cinemas and all.


Ladies please also feel free to share your experience about financial mindset of your guys.

Sorry
Lot of ladies will like you to buy the Gold for them
Nice cars, house and forget there is tomorrow

You are worrying over the little thing
The important thing in life is not how you PROPOSAL
HOW BIG THE WEDDING WAS
IT COME DOWN TO HAPPY MARRIAGE LIFE

Shollypopz:
Are the men from the conservative state of Tennessee (white) the same if compare to men from New York?
Lot of single mama is growing within Nigerian communities in the developed countries. There are big issues in the community.
Respect, Consideration and Fairness will go a long way to create balance between our culture and the developed countries
Keep pushing the envelope people

effiongbass: pls read well.

* i just finished my university education here in the east and going for my youth service by july this year.

* my girl friend is pregnant and we have decided to keep it and tell our parent. a conclusion was reached that we will get married before i go for NYSC scheduled for july this year. my girl friend is in her final year as well. we love each other.


* my father suggest we still stay in his home till atleast i get a job cuz to him we are incapable of getting ourselves an accommodation.


* but really,i hussle well & and i got the means, i could afford an accomodation, atleast a two bedroom for myself, my wife. but dad will ask questions about how i get my money.... and stuffs like dat. u knw how strict fathers can be.


* the reason why i am writing this is that most ppl i told abt this or knew i am getting married frowned at the part that i will still stay in my father's house after marriage. it doesnt go down with me also.

**pls tell me your own view on this staying in parent's house after marriage & advice me. or if u have had similar experience pls share with me.

thanks to you all

You need to be VERY CAREFUL LIVING WITH YOUR PARENTS
Your girl or wife will need to be at her best
Let her stay at her parents house
You don't need the drama

asewo: Just got back from my third trip to the UK in 5years on vacation.
I met this girl on twitter about a ago and we have maintained a cordial relationship.
I got to know her friends too via the same social media and we got talking, and i like one of them Ronke she is cute trust me really a goddess.
So it happened that i got to England sometimes last month and we hooked up about 3 of them, they ask me to take them on shopping and i couldnt fall my hand as a sure 9ja boy...
They said they had an all white party that night so they need white jacket, so we went to westfield and before i could say jack my bill was 450£.
I managed to pay for it with a very terrifying look on my face. This girls dint stop there they wanted lunch and at the end we were on 55£ lunch....I purposely stayed off the party cos i dint have cash to blow i am just an hustling 9ja guy...
Ok this is the part that vexes me, we hanged out about twice and nothing physical happened with any of them... and they still wanted me to pay for there hair about 100£ each for 4 of them and take them to Wixkids show cos they believe i am still in London ...
Pls can i eva get interest on what i have expended already?

Taking you for a FOOL
Got played

slimyem: [size=20pt]psycho babbles!![/size].
Btw doofus,the last thing i'd ever want is for you to like me..
HATE ME!
that's what make me bounce!

Bounce asshole
So you have psycho problem in your family Ashawo
You need to F off
I told you to go play with yourself Dog
I know I am a stupid person
I don't like hole like you to Bleep with me

slimyem: babbles!!!
U nor reach...
Duh!

I don't like you right now
You can babbles the hell on
Repeat after me back off
Retard Ashawo
Go play with your !!!!!!!!!!!!

crackhouse: Yeah i am one of them.

How can a crack house be faithful?

London people like fight
Carry on

Idowuogbo: Y us! U wan learn wetin? @ 50? Oh gal time don go o! Endure abeg! LooolZZ

The good thing is she is will to learn and make change

remmer56: Dear NLders, I nid sum advice and opinions on something I find embarassing currently. Firstly, I've been single Fø̲я̅ sum 3 yrs now, finally met dis girl whom I met through A̶̲̥̅ cousin of mine.. Nice straight headed cute looking babe, d tin iz.. We bin able to establish good communication, told her I had feelings n all dt Fø̲я̅ her, but noticed she's bin on this hard to get tin.. Sincerely I wnt sumtin serious wit her n wonder wat your opinion would be as to wat best to do to win her heart... Some serious and meaningful suggestions wld be greatly appreaciated.. Thanks ya'll...

She is playing hard to get
Let her know that na be joke matter

freecocoa: Private o,public o,closet o as long as i'm in love and willing to say yes,he could as well do it in a market place .

Sorry
Your time slow moving-----------Pass
NO Ring

Gentle02: I am Henry n I stay in Portharcourt, I am looking for a serious lady for a serious relationship, I am 33, I am caring, honest n have a good sense of humor, u can reach me on 08038358602, 08072750061

Lawyer or Doctor and Oil worker

Kevin_II: yeye people

Leave the dude alone
How can somebody in U.S completed a Master degree or MAB with an Engineering degree?
In one year
With Engineering degree you need about 42 credit to complete MBA
Lot of two hours credit class.
No body be FOOL

Kevin_II: Stop lying thru ur teeth man. UK ain't any better. There's no country without high crime rate areas. So tell that to the marines. And UK has also had it's share of school gunning incidents and an abundantly high high school knifing incidents. We read the news too u know


Depending on where u live. I have more than enuff Nigerian friends, and there are more than enuff Nigerian/African clubs here. No biggie


I laff in swahili. How much did u pay for your masters? 20,000 pounds? What is 'reasonable' about that?

Dumb

Dumb. I'll take a loud brash talker any day to that horrible british accent. yuck


Which century do you think we are in? . You need to see my fb friend mix



These ones no deserve comment. I see you're wildly beating the air to come up with 'points'. okare o

1/4 have not been to jail?
Do I understand you correctly? Is that a stat to 'celebrate'? At any rate How does the fate of the African American male affect me?


Still beating the air, wildly


Who needs public transportation when I can drive my own car on freeways?


I can concede that. But hey, you get to meet every tribe and country here and if you're sociable enuff, experience it too. I have probably eaten dishes from every nook and cranny of the world already



There u go again spewing stewpid lies. How much did you pay for your Masters? 20,000 pounds? How much did I pay? $4! Serious. Dude, UK survives on tax and education, not same here. These schools are sinfully rich and give out scholarships freely. Sorry if you ain't smart enuff to make the grade. I got a free roll through school - scholarship on 1st year, RA on second year. I paid nada, rather I bought an Accord 04 after 14 months from money saved from the generous living allowance I got. So once again dude, how much did you pay? How much did you borrow?
And for your info, u do your masters there and want to come do PhD here, you have to do Masters here all over again. They don't believe in your 'Masters' here.


Lol. We both watch on TV, so what's the difference. What other sports do u get to see? cricket? How dumb!


How does that affect me when my company pays for it?


Poor you You work and give 33% to govt? I cry for you....bawling and leaving thread

Btw, I don't give a fcck about the US either, just that y'all should stop screaming about that lousy place as if it's heaven. I wouldn't live there if I had the choice

Dude
Leave London people alone
London na heaven for them
The 2X2 room and small houses like our car garage

O boy go F that woman next time she visit
The woman is in control
Man up boy
Do you have two balls?

Dagoldzibit: Why is it that the common say among fellow nigerian guyz and ladies is that they cant date some one that has given birth before.. Is a child a disease?

it is just the way Nigerian people think
I fail to marry a lady because she had a kid before She was a very good lady
People sometime don't want to deal with the woman Ex
Some Ex are really bad

y me: OMG Sagamite & CO
y'all should take your love hidden fight elsewhere
I'm trying to observe, learn and adjust/add some qualities most of these men want in a woman in order to be a better wife to my husband
kindly take your sealed, insecured love game somewhere else

keep the qualities coming

Girl you have my respect "I'm trying to observe, learn and adjust/add some qualities "
Please can we see your face?

shymmex: How do people make kids without romance?

Just F her
No Kissing
No touching from the head to toes

slimyem: yeah,you got a problem!
....for quoting me pointlessly in the first place!
Excuse me pass abeg!

Abeg yourself
I know you have issues
Best bet is to back of me FOOL
You can go ahead and have a F??K up day

Mynd_44: Two wrongs does not make a right

Dude
I understand that two wrong doesn't make a right
But If I reach out to you and you are playing hard
I will pull back and play hard

michelin89: What is the best way to deal with an extremely stubborn man without coming across as a heartless b-itch?

Give him is respect

tolex29: I am a faithful man by God's grace, not by my own efforts or righteousness. Faithful men are those who simply see unfaithfulness or infidelity as a sin punishable by God (for us who believe in God that is). It wasn't stupidity that Joseph (of the Bible) repelled all sexual advances by his boss' wife even when such act would have been committed in secret, but he said 'why should I commit this grave sin against my God, and then my boss'. That is what keeps us going as Christian men...the fear of God! People who are unfaithful are independent people who feel liberal and believe God does not exist or people do not have to live in fear of a god, or that even if He does exist He'll overlook them later and they'll get away with their evil acts..they are not guided by the fear of a God-judge who repays people for their acts either here on earth or in the life after. By the way, I am happily married to the glory of God to a faithful wife too...it hasn't been by our efforts but the Grace of God that covers us as children of God!

Lot of us Nigerian men see it as a sin but still !!!!!!!
Our D take us to the place we don't want to go
Ladies see you
They move it that you will respond

I will move away from that direction
Not going East Thanks