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Snok58:
Good day guys.
I apologize for the long read and typos.

I met my girlfriend last year and everything has been moving fine. She was someone I intend to marry regardless of our issues. She is very loving and caring.

On my own part, I just finished my masters and I've not been able to get a good job. I used my savings to get a car and my friend gave me free accommodation in Abuja and I started uber. I'm a struggling guy but I come from a wealthy home, my father passed on recently and I control most things but I just remit them to my mum and I stopped her from giving me anything because I don't get satisfaction spending my parents money.

My girlfriend is young but she dreams of getting married early, I understand but I needed her to be industrious. I started a business for her in October which she tries a lot and she's making baby steps. I also give her stipends every month.

Our sex life is cool and I've tried using condom but she always frowned at it, so I resulted in calculating her free period, it was going well until a day she refused to tell me her cycle after we had sex. I got pissed and confronted her that I'm not ready for her to be pregnant, she said she won't and she's also not ready for it.

I came back from Abuja briefly in December and I was with her, I asked her for the cycle and she shifted the date and I miscalculated, long story short, as at yesterday she is 6weeks pregnant.

She told me the result, I asked her what should we do, she said she'll keep it but I'll have to do traditional marriage. Hmm, sincerely I did not want the child at this time. I told her I can be a father but I am not ready to be a husband, trouble erupted; she told her mum and her sister they called me I stood my ground that I'm not financially capable of setting up a family. She called my elder sister, I also did not bulge but however my sister noticed that she was building her judgment of me on my family wealth. I told my sister, I will only set up a family with only my acquired wealth and as it stands I'm only an uber driver.

I confronted my babe yesterday and it was evident that she wanted and planned for the pregnancy, she was happy. I was livid I told her that since she planned it, she should handle it that I just owe her money for the baby and delivery if she decides to keep it, and that my marriage plan will be put on hold, because I'll have to spend my savings. I was saving to do traditional marriage then travel out if things don't change. A child was the last thing on my list.

My girlfriend has blocked me everywhere and I suspect that her family are of the opinion that it's either I do traditional marriage or she removes it.

Guys my relationship is seriously threatened, I need advice vis a vis bashing

Which advice do you need again?

Is everything not black and white enough for you?

It's stories like yours that make me doubt all romanceland stories. You can't tell me you don't know what to do in this situation...why ask us for advice again

This is my car!!!


Where are the keys bro?

TechspeciaIist:
stop watching too much movies or listening to propaganda and conspiracy theories from Western Media. it's toiling with your brain

K

baralatie:
Dude is a weird guy mehn!

Wow.... Can you send me the link?

I want to see what makes him weird

baralatie:
Imagine if it was these killer American women dem.bill gates would have committed suicide! Microsoft would have been dissolved but Melinda was a very strong woman.
Both of them sat down and worked through the whole down process.(that kind strength should have been used to save the marriage sef but God knows)
All to save her kids and her life work!
She (Melinda gates) earned my respect o!

Because she really worked for it too, not like a gold-digger. Gold diggers don't give a fuq about anyone but their selfish asses

baralatie:
In the view they were showing this guy's body work out and chicks were drooling over this guy o!
Then he start talking about his view about life and I went like to to

In my mind I was like and chicks are crazy for you o

What happened about his views on life? Is he weird or what

baralatie:
Naaa!
Without it.she will split that wealth in half after living with him for some years!
That was the technical difficulty bill and Melinda faced!
The saving grace was that Melinda is a home builder and human resource manger and was instrumental to the easy phasing off the break up .if not bill will have committed suicided

Committed suicided

Must you kill me this morning

baralatie:
I am also not surprised about this divorce!
When I read his interview after Aquaman!
He is a different genre of a guy!

What happened at the interview??

Redpill!!!

MJBOLT:

no country in the world is willing to take the risk of starting a World war,both or all parties will suffer greatly irrespective of the winner.

So was said before the second world war, till it started.

I don't wish for it but lots of hotheads around now..North Korea, China, and Russia seem hellbent on starting some shiit.

Martinez39s:
You mean this profile. Take a look at the personal text.

Lol...everyone knows her/it on front page.

Lordcassy:
The west is turning into a Matriachy..
I can't watch the news anymore, it either I am laughing at some feminist,Social Justice Propaganda or I am totally disappointed at the lack of balls on world leaders....

These ignorant mofos should not accidentally trigger World war three

Canadian prime minister and France president is the worst...
Somebody browse make you see Macron wife

World war 3 is gonna happen at some point...I know that now...or another Thanos event to reset the clock.

heironymos:
It is surprising to see how cold she is when she talks to him on phone all he does is to start giving long explanations about irrelevant things and apologies will follow. And when I look at her that moment, all I see is a demon
But when she turns to me her face becomes sunny and angelic, like the contrast eh is so sharp. It's mind blowing.

ALL I COULD SAY TO MY SELF IN THOSE MOMENTS IS THE TRP IS GOLDEN(48KARAT PRICELESS).

That's how they all are when you lose frame. What happened to that poor nigga would happen to you should you pedestalise her

heironymos:
There is this 27yr old single mother that owns a cooking gas refill station where I normally go to refill. She started to pick interest in me ending of last year, she got my number and regularly calls to check on me, and when ever I go there she will strike up conversations with me and from what she says I understood she wanted me to put her up a pedestal by telling me about the wealthy men with flashy cars(she loves flashy cars) that ask her out and she bounced them, I also deduced that she is quite religious.
Fast forward after Christmas she called me to her house, we spoke at length about our interests especially relating to relationships. I stated to her I DON'T DO ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIP, I ONLY DO FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS, and my reason is that I simply can't fall in love, I can like people and be kind(not Nice oo difference dey) but I feel dumb whenever the feeling starts it's like I have an alarm system for simping.
So she told me she has a boyfriend that she met at the church, after some few days she told me some deep secrets about herself and all the while she kept on repeating "there's something about you", in my mind I was like with all the redpill wey I don chop for nairaland?
So she began to tell me how she despises her boyfriend and that she needs my advice because she is not happy with him, my advice was that she should do whatever makes her happy. And then when I was about to leave she kissed me.
The next time I went to her place we caressed.
Last week we fuvked.
Mind you technically she is cheating on the guy because she hasn't broken up with him for reasons I am not concerned about. And the guy is also good looking(I have seen him one time were he acted really insecure and jealous), but he doesn't stay in the city but he is serious about marrying her. So this coming Sunday me And her scheduled another session of musk and sweat, shi shi I haven't spent on her, I don't break a sweat while dealing with her.
So guys if a woman chooses u, she will break her rules and the rules of her faith just for your sake, after preaching in her ministry, she called me I went to her place and had sex.
She even said it herself that she doesn't know why she keeps breaking her rules for me.
Guys stay Taliban, motivated, ambitious,masculine, and finally never lose frame make it second nature and don't budge, in whatever you do, remain fearless.
But don't pedestalize women, for me they are mainly for stress relief. chase goals women are waiting at the finish line
MY FEW NUGGETS.

Why won't she choose you? That other dude lost frame and got jealous over a single mom to the extent of trying to wife her? Sounds so weak to her, so she came for you bro.

Just maintain that frame and watch as all fall into your laps. A part of me is sorry for her handsome boyfriend. Fuq that!!! I don't give a shiiit anymore. He would learn the hard way.

hebenz:
Why will you buy a phone worth over a million naira for Valentine?
Lands are there you didn't buy,
Business are there you never created one.
Just for Valentine.
What a shame.
The girl in question is a local hoe that hoed throughout her stay way back in the University.
I'm really disappointed in some ways.
Pls guys share this thread to save other men.

Doesn't mean she wouldn't fuq any other dude who wouldn't give her shishi

Ronaldo wants to marry that his Georgina gf!!!


I was so afraid this would happen when he started buying her all those expensive shiits!!!

I guess I would cross my fingers and hope for the best and maybe,just maybe,she would turn out to be a unicorn...


His career is dwindling...retirement is imminent...and these footballers women always seem to use this period to cashout.

PoliteActivist:
How about wooing and marrying someone with money?

That can work but then he will be wife in the marriage....or what makes you think a rich woman will marry him?

heartofcity12:

You are very wicked

In your dreams

Crimpsy:
so because someone does not have a job,

So He/She should not get married

Don't u know, Age is no longer by his Side

Will you feed and sponsor his kids?

Crimpsy:
I hope u are now married,

Irrespective of not finding a job

You want him to get married without a job and worsen his situation further?

What kinda human you be?

SOZINN:
Just completed the first four episodes of the Witcher season One last night. Henry Cavill's character is everything I want in masculinity. He has a nice body structure, he is stoic, doesn't show emotions, doesn't say too much (only what is necessary). He won't hesitate to call you out on your bûllshit (he won't sugar coat it), dude is fearless. On top of it his voice is electrifying and he doesn't believe in stupid shìt like love and destiny.

The plot is a bit messy but I'll continue because of him. I fûcking love this guy, I can watch him for a thousand hours. You should check him out in your free time.

Check out season two also...you will love it.

SouthWestBlood:
I said what I said. Periodt!

K

Polynek:
I can't insult what am telling you is dat I don't hv any respect for you again

K

Ladycewhy:
lol, he haff vex.


Oga na forum be this, let people air their views, even seun nor fit control wetin people go comment. Besides it's going around that this is not the first time na just say e score goal and the girl refuse to abort . If she had agreed to abort,he would have gone on to other nackings.


So Nigerians should only comment on politicians? I nor get the body wey dey pepper you at all. Cos you telling Nigerians to only comment on politicians doesn't make sense at all.

K

Polynek:
Sir, make I no lie,You are among the people I respect in Dix thread but like dix now I hv no single respect for you.
I can't keep grudge against U once someone offends me I let you know about it.
People like you are the reason many people don't share there stories in public bcox they will get all sorts of harsh words. Thereby making Dem to die with any issue they encounter.
After using such abusive words to me and u are now telling me is a joke
No p shaa,
We meeuve

You can disrespect me all you want bro. I can take it. I am against bullies also and have gone to mini-wars with monikers on this thread on bullying. The reason I responded like that was because I thought you were joking with your story. Surely, we have talked about that scenario thousands of times on this thread. So I was surprised you still asked for the solution and concluded you were trolling. You know how trolls invade this thread and try to mess up everything. But it seems you really took my response to heart. It's ok bro. Feel free to disrespect me if it will make you feel better.

Ladycewhy:
Na you dey talk this one? .

Or you are just having a bad day? Cos your comments dey make sense pass this one.

I'm sick and tired of mofos using SM to project their personal shiit online sis.

That dude jumped on the bandwagon to score one over the pastor. I don't give a fuq about the pastor or whatever,just the dude who feels he should attack that pastor based on his personal grudge. No logical frame at all.

Now over to you. What exactly has the dude done? He fuqed some girl abroad and got her pregnant. He apologised to his wife. What else will he do again? He didn't rape her or I would have been pissed.

So what exactly is the issue? Can't Nigerians focus their energies on these mofo politicians

ubunja:
Lol you just made me laugh man!! Lmfao..

I foresee doctors and nurses make a killing money-wise. Also, it would be interesting to check the abortion stats from now till June and compare with the national average over the same period.

I'm telling you the truth bro... It will really cause mayhem over here. You have no idea how many husbands are catering for bastard children but their wives know and won't allow such 'ATM' to go. Most women marry those that are ready,not who they love or whatever...so it's so easy to give that early pregnancy to a rich simp when the boyfriend ain't ready for marriage.

Abortion stats will go through the roof over here. Doctors and nurses will still make a killing nonetheless

SouthWestBlood:
Change of plans?

Anyways, I've always known this guy to be a womaniser right from childhood. The latest happening only further confirms it.

And who are you exactly?

And what if he is a womaniser....did it affect you in any way?

Y'all never use ya energies on what really matter...

ubunja:
Meanwhile in South Africa.....


The women are angry.

Try this in Nigeria and watch that DNA center get burnt mysteriously by snakes,or monkeys or lizards or some shiit.

The only way this would work is if like 100 of such centers start off simultaneously...