₦airaland Forum

Sixfeetbelle:
He didn't address the issue, I did. Even if you say I didn't berate the woman, but at least I pointed out a reason, and a possible solution to the problem. He didn't do anything, just focused on the messemger. Don't lump in what I did with what he did.

Besides in the other video, the man wasn't chastised for posting a family video online. You all were only too happy to join the bandwagon of "women are hoes." What is the color of this hypocrisy right here?

Until he addresses he issues, he was clearly deflecting and he knows it.

K

Sixfeetbelle:
And I'm emotional. I said my piece. Why are you so perturbed about it?

Condemning someone doesn't change the fact that there's a root to the problem. I saw a part of that root and hit hard on it. You refuse to see it as that, expecting me to berate her like you did. But that's the difference between you and me. I don't do things people expect me to do.

Your first paragraph sealed the deal for me. I find it hard to converse with emotional people. Logic is an ocean in the desert for them.

Last reply from me

bbstarr:
Hey! Long time. I've been around but just on a low key.

Lol...you aren't the low key type. What changed?


Anyways, glad you're still around.

Jullima:
Sixfeetbelle please ignore these people. They don’t think much of women, they don’t think they are human beings with feelings, to them, only men feel betrayal. That is why they are bold in their double standards. Imagine one up there saying because he takes care of his responsibilities so cheating and betraying your vows is ok. The wife will suddenly be ok because the man will take care of his child, she wouldn’t be hurt that he was shagging another woman while he was supposed to be faithful to her. These same men will guilt the woman with “divorce is not an option” to accept his outside child. Betrayal from infidelity is only reserved for men.

I didn't see you condemning the paternity fraud woman two days ago? Busy much then or ignoring her fuq up because it suits you?

I checked your profile and SMH for you. If you continue blaming men for every single shiit in your life, you won't have any life left to live.

Anuoluwa1234:
A typical Nigerian man!!!... Many ppl blame the politicians etc, even I,... but truth be told, an average politician is exhibiting what and an average Nigerian man( male/females) will do, if power is given to him!!!.. ..

Wickedness, selfishness, scam, lies, every bad behaviour of this life is flowing in our muscles .. I believe there is something fundamentally wrong with Nigeria/Nigerians.. something far beyond human comprehension!!!!.

95% of Nigerians are deceitful.. no truth at all, etc... Imagine, a yahoo boy raining curse in government, calling dem Thief.. etc..

How many of us write the correct time when we get to work, how many of us care about our neighbors, etc... This this are all sum up, contributing to all these gibberish!!!..

The Bible says, Righteousness exalts a nation... And here we are, full of lies, hatred bitterness etc... Let's wait and watch how we will grow ...

Compare the behaviours of white ppl with the black, and reason why we are still far behind.. there is no magic in it.. but we can't pay the price, cuz of our human nature..

Only those who can realise this fact & understand, will be pulled out of that bondage!!!...

Sincerely, I sometimes wish all my live in Nigeria is just a dream!!!

Argue with Ur keyboard!!!...
Shallom

I agree with you.
You spoke well

Sixfeetbelle:
I ain't demanding nothing. Only that I don't see the use of chastising the midwife in this case as if she's the man or his side chic or his wife, even. People video more horrible things and hardly get called out for it when the matter on ground hasn't been dealt with. Example, video of Man confronting his wife about a paternity fraud.

This move to berate the midwife is a classical act of deflection. I won't see you do such if the case was reversed just like in the example I stated above.

He is right on his own point. Its nothing but lack of ethics on the midwife to post such. How in hell did the video of that paternity fraud dude comparable to this biko? She is a midwife working in a hospital under sensitive conditions in a health institution. What she did was unethical.

Funny that you berate him for not chastising the man which was the exact thing YOU didn't DO in the paternity fraud case.

SMH for you.

Sixfeetbelle:
That's your own issue with me. That I didn't explicitly condemn the woman is where you park your Lexus.

Okay. Wait. I dey come

*rolling eyes*


I'm never emotional but logical and objective. I called you out and thats it. You prolly thought I would support the man and voilà, you will then accuse me of hypocrisy. Life ain't that hard. I have said my piece. The rest is up to you.

Sixfeetbelle:
Your generous input is highly needed here.

Cc: Liposure, luminouz, donstan18, kokaneprodigy, authority2006, illicit, lefulefu, J111333

He did wrong!!!

What's wrong is wrong biko.


N.B: I am not like you that saw the paternity fraud case and didn't condemn the woman.

Mtchewwww

Sixfeetbelle:
Okay.

K

Sixfeetbelle:
Why are you spitting venom? Did I lie in my post? Men cheat, women cheat also. That's very clear. And nowhere in my post did I defend her. Read it again if you'd please.

Like I pointed out, fraternity fraud in most cases is committed by people close to the victim. If you check it, that child belongs to a Nigga that is close to the man. Only very few isolated cases are found in paternity frauds. And this is not a new thing. It had happened and will continue to happen until things are set right.

But of course, you're spitting venom because I didn't outrightly condemn the woman. Tell me, between you and me, who's being objective?

Come off it biko. You didnt defend the woman ke? You practically exonerated her from every blame in the book na. According to you, she wasnt to be blame but then men hitting other niggas gf pussies. You shifted goal posts and came with the narrative that the man's nigga must be the girl's father. Even that assertion is barely plausible in a scenario where a girl dated 3 guys in separate towns and even if in the same town, they will never know one another. Paternity fraud is fraud, call it out as such and dont make excuses for such behaviours in women.

Your last paragraph is laughable. Telling you to call a spade one and not a hoe is now spitting venom? The evidence is glaring for all to see so why try to shift goal posts. This is not a gender war BS for me. If it were to be a man who did such, I'd condemn him upfront. What's wrong is wrong. Stop with the 'his close niggas are hitting the spot and enjoying the thrills' diatribe to cover up what's bad. If such were to happen to you, I'm sure you won't ever tow that path.

K

lefulefu:
depends on the girl
if she is exposed she will appreciate such gift

True

nkwachii:
[s][/s]

K

She is an adult naaaaa

Sixfeetbelle:


I initially didn't want to comment on this thread, judging by the amount of venomous words and insults being spewed by the men folk but I need to chip this in.

Just like someone pointed out, I'll reiterate it. Until men learn and agree within themselves to respect another man's wife/girlfriend, paternity fraud will always come into play. Go to romance section and see nigga praising other niggas for sleeping with a lady in a relationship. Until men learn of their fertility before venturing into relationships/marriage, paternity fraud will always occur. Go to health section and see what I'm talking about.

Very few women will honor a man and stay true to him as well as vice versa. However, a man who trusts in the bro code blindly will always fall victim of betrayal.

According to men, "women are meant to be fu*ked. Guess who the jokes on now?

My two cents.

Rubbish again!!!


You subtly twisted the narrative from the obviously guilty woman in that video and in a universe filled with so much clarity, you lost yours and suddenly blame MEN for her misdemeanors?

I know you sometimes post stuff here but this is the most bizarre of all. The video might be fake but your response to what happened is so not logical.

I'm not the type to spew insults on anyone here or be vulgar but can you be objective for once? How is this related biko? Is the guy in the video impotent? This is a clear case of someone who cheated and made another man pay for it for 3 years. That's very wrong,no justification whatsoever.

Other females condemned her play. You and polyta babe defended her. Let's be logical biko.

Lawd in heaven!!!


Is this news worth sharing bayi ni?

Them dey swap spit and I should watch again?

Tufiakwa

Galactico4ever:
Most of you must be using freebasics cos i don't know why you can't help a blogger by clicking on the link and getting the full gist.Pics of the culprits are there too.

Click and post here for us, freebasic users

Ishilove:
Ask your ancestral gods.

Lmaoooo


Someone cannor play with u again ni?

This one just wants to trend by force

derbykol:
Sure!

If you believe that guy meant those words, then Santa also comes during Easter.

Lol...see fights here sha...


Una just take this story very serious with the way una dey throw bombs left and right.

Its really not worth fighting over.

This one dey cheat the company that employed him yet he was wondering if juju dey follow am?


Nawa oooo

JordanMichael:
"you and your daughter has till the end of the month to leave my house"
Naww! She's leaving that very minute

Dude is cool as fuq.

Even the logical me won't allow them to stay till month end,unless that day is 30th or 31st.


She leaves that very day. Nothing on earth can change that. I know the daughter would be so pained considering the level of closeness between us. I might even still like her but that level of deceit can never be tolerated.

Ladyhippolyta88:
Wetin concern me.
The man should adopt the child it is not her fault who knows if another man is also helping him take care of his.
Abeg make we hear word

Are you for real?

Ladyhippolyta88:
Good point

Bad point....

Check Google for why!!

alfredilly:
Conduct DNA test at your own peril. Instead of the man to safe his heart and avoid needless enquiry, he just take a step that might haunt him for life. When the little secret is with the woman only, or kept away from both, they have family and children but now that it's open, he lost a daughter a wife and then a family.

They weren't his in the first place.

Why are you lots reasoning askew??

Jacyeen:
some mother in-laws are extremely wicked, especially those from broken marriages.No matter how nice you are, they will still see you as a competitor.

And how do u know all these

EAhumble:
I never said the op is a beast, i was actually refering to myself.

Oh...ok...


My bad

SweetCunt97:
I've forgiven cheating partners in d past. The ones who felt bad o not the ones who wanna claim alpha or right.

Lol...in that case,thats good.

SweetCunt97:
It was probably the devil or she was just too naive. Forgive and give her a second chance. Remember God said we should give as he forgives us our trespasses

Jesus!! So you can advise like this?

Can you do such in OP shoes?