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popsy2:
he might be the dad.

Nicely put

martinzjay:
I thought I will never forgive a cheating girlfriend until the girl I madly loved acted funny.
Normally I see cheating in a relationship as a normal thing until I met this girl who mad me believe I can actually have one girl friend. She made me believe that if I ever betray her trust that it’s all over.
When she went for NYSC I noticed she started acting funny by missing my calls and giving excuses. She told me she will be lodging with a female friend after passing out from camp and I suspected that she wants to Bleep with camp boyfriend and when I called that night she told me that she later went to one family church lodge for corpers because all her camp girlfriends wants to party....imagine aunty forming saint for me oo...
Recently I visited her in Abuja with out telling her that I’m coming only to ask her to come outside and take what my cousin bought for her and she came out with one guy around 9pm and I was shocked because her sister whom she is staying with traveled that weekend.
On seeing me she couldn’t believe it and I did as if I’m a casual friend and handed her the cake I bought for her,told her goodnight and she turned to leave...I couldn’t believe my eyes....this is a girl that made me believe she can die for me.
I called her back and asked who was the guy and as if her senses came back she started begging me and that the guy was just a neighbor whom she asked to accompany her to the junction since it’s late and the guy sensing the misunderstanding left the scene.
I had never been SHOCKED in my life but I just have to forgive her even though I thought she cheated because I can never believe my girl can walk out on me because of an ordinary neighbor.
Secondly I cannot break a relationship after spending close to 10hours on the road for it.
So since that day,I made up my mind that we are all cheats especially when not together,no matter how you see it.

I'm sorry about your pain. Emotional hurt hits hard,I know. We are all humans, flawed and vulnerable. Like I said earlier,nobody is indispensable to you except YOU. She meant her words but after a while, her interests shifted. It happens to the best of us. The only person whose words deserve your trust is YOU.

OROSUNBOLB:
I hate being taken for a ride! I won't forgive and forget such deceitful act. I will fix the two dirty bastards permanently. I have a case at hand now that I'm working on and by the time I'm done with that idi0t,there will certainly be gnashing of teeth and tears of sorrow in his households. You don't send unscrupulous messages to my wife at odd hours in the name of being a business partner or friend!

KOROFO won't forgive me if I don't treat your Bleep-up and put you where stinking fools like you deserve. Your G-nut is soaked in kokoma already and you must chop am.

You're nothing but a ball of hate and hurt.

Fix yourself first,OK?

fireback:
I forgive one sometime. Latter she started acting as if I can not live without her. At times, when we have quarrel, she will threating to cheat. She knew I love her so much. But the day I finally open mouth and told her it's over between us, she could not believe her ears that day.

Lol...

The relationship power belongs to the party that loves least.

mosallah:
I caught my girlfriend recently cheating. I jus?retend as if nothing happened.. Saw her chat with another Bleep boy. Really broke my heart

I know how you must feel even though I have never been cheated on.
My philosophy in life is simple: love yourself so good that nothing anyone does will make you feel so bad as to give up on life. Never trust too much or rely on anyone else but YOU. Keep an open optimistic mind but be ready for disappointments because no one, not even your own mother, would love you greater than that you have for yourself.

One simple test I gave all my ladies was this.

Will you still stay with me if my diick is cut off? Their answers have differed but in the end, they said they won't stay till the end. I gave them options of IVF, surrogacy and adoption. None took them. To them, a diickless man is a useless man. And all of them told me they loved me. What y'all call love is all about interest and personal goals. . Irritation and emotional trauma would overwhelm reason and the so-called beautiful union ends up in tatters.
Only a few humans ever transcend this natural inclination...and I'm one of them!

*sighs*


Another wailing thread. These are becoming common as Xmas draws nearer.

No one owes you anything. Humans will always be humans. Interest comes first, love(or any of it's variants) come a distant second. Only a few escape this vicious cycle.

phillippians:
My gf was secretly flirting with my best friend, both of whom I was harbouring in my apartment on campus. They grew fond of each other and she later prefer him to me cos dude was a comedian always cracking jokes for her to laugh at and also because he was from a wealthier background (I am not from a poor home either) baby girl wanted to feed with both hands Lol, having secret sex with him unknown to me but my guy usually told me anytime they meet. Dude was a bit loyal, but d girl? Very ungrateful! I prenteded like I didn't notice until the guy travelled out. A helpless baby mama who's baby papa doesn't have a dime to take care of her and the baby, I was playing the fatherly role to her and her child and this is how she paid me. Long story short, my friend later travelled out to USA to continue his studies without telling anyone of us until he telephoned us from Califonia, it was then it dawned on her she's lost out. Wanted me back but I didn't only reject her, I introduced my new gf to her three times more prettier and 10years younger than her, and of course still single and not a fairly used baby mama! madam nearly commit suicide! Friendship Na scam joor!!

Inside life shiit

A thread that started with some points to ponder on turned, as usual, into a classless tirade on African girls are better than asian women or vice versa? OP turned his own thread into shiit...



Waste of space.

I was already planning to attend. Must Africans deny everything about their heritage ni? There are good/white witches and evil/black witches na.

I read OladimejiRufai's comment and stopped reading all others. There is nothing more to add to that masterpiece.

Glad to see some people here are that logical

freeDR:
What you gon do if I don't?

Amma fry ur balls

freeDR:
Since Explorers got married, things have not been the same.
See what marriage does to men!

Sharrap punk!

selfmadeOLX:
Meanwhile, in Nigeria my country

Nneka the Tiger Queen

You don mad!

danwise5:
1000 workers?? How many do they have then
Pay after we've designed your website. We design reliable Websites, Web applications and Mobile apps. KLICCkK anywhere HERE for our designs

All in a rush to claim FTC and advertise, see as u disgrace yourself. How many staffs First Bank get? A bank existing before you were born?

I read the first page and gave up.

Farady and lewisTherin summed up my own opinion succinctly.


As usual, most of the commenters can't just move on past base gender mudslinging to actually give workable solutions.

Pathetic!!

cococandy:
Embarrassing

Really??

This is sick na...

Haba....9year old boy?



Habaaaa

No one dey respond ni?

Get me proof and let's expose whoever naaaa!

lilwetdick:
show screenshot as proof, lets know

Yeah...I'm waiting for that too