₦airaland Forum

Mariangeles:
Your husband is in delusion.
Believe me, it's hard to wake up from those type of illusions and by the time he's disillusioned, a lot of time might have passed .
KEEP PRAYING FOR HIM because he might be under a spell...how else can one explain a full grown man living his life as an errand boy for another ?

Bla bla bla...

Wait till you marry first and we shall see.

You think you have life all figured out, yeah?

chiboyo:
Acidosis,
I completely share your opinion on this issue and it really baffles me that people would spend so much to put up shanties just to be called "landlords"
Your example using mutual funds is also apt..

Even if it's just 1m she gave her husband to add up to their personal project, 350k (or even less) can serve for an apartment and the rest goes into a form of business to sustain the family..

We really need to change this narrative that makes people believe that once you build a house, almost all your problems are solved..

You are wrong!!!

Most of y'all are mummy's kids who never rented any house in your life.

Acidosis:
There's no burden anywhere. The money the poor spend on personal apartment can pay the same rent they avoid for 20-50 years. Rent for some is only 50k. Without a meaningful job or business, they spend a cumulative sum of N1-2m on a building project. How's that sensible?

Do you have a house?

Have you stayed with a landlord before?
If No to 2 above,then you have no idea how important it is to have your own house.

DCmonster:
Oyo state

Ibadan?
What's the last price you wanna sell it?

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Where are you based?

Obiaksnews:
This is a clear case of jealousy, the kids were threatened that they have lost the affection and attention their mum used to give them before the coming of the new baby.

Sad case...

Jealousy abi?

Why didn't you kill your younger siblings too?

That shiit is more than ordinary

Imagine if she ate beans and suddenly farted on his face

kestolove95:
Are u expecting us to tell u wat to do? Ur write up is taller than ur sense.

Always forming jagaban with your mouth!

Every time Cho Cho Cho Cho... Like Egyptian parrot...

Expect tribal warlords here in


3.....2.....1


Gbam!

etrange:
Lol.. you missed the sarcasm.

No I didn't!

You kept using enlightening upandan and that amused me.

Just had to reply you sha!

etrange:
This is very enlightening. Can't you see the subject has been enlightened and they're saying she bleached?

For you perhaps,not me!

AgbenuAnna:
Manageable but hope you like food very well?i don’t want somebody that doesn’t like it appreciate food

If you see me physically,you will realise that I appreciate good food very well,even if I can't cook it.

So go ahead Maami, work your foodie magic on me.

How is this news enlightening?






@Bluezy13... I like your analysis. Melanin occurs in hair,eyes and even the brain, apart from our skins.

Now the question is, higher concentration of melanin is supposed to be the best thing a black man has,why then do most NLanders reason like bleached-white whales.

skylowlow:

What,you follow me come here too?

AgbenuAnna:
We that are now singles nko,who will we now do this for? or we do for us ?

Worry no more,my good lady....

I'm available in the crucible of love...
You can do it for me

I can't cook to save my life but I can pound yam for 100 people.
Hope my skillset is enough!

LolaO...

No guy except one with a chronic bipolar disorder treats a gf of 5 years that way.

Something is wrong,either from you or him.

Solution:

1. Go visit him. Do you know his office or something? If you do,go check on him,take the extrafuqinstep...you said you still love him right? Then prove it by going all out to see him face to face. That way you confront him like a self-assured woman and call him to order. If he is cheating,you will know then and promptly move on with your life.

2. If you cannot travel,then outsource the deal. Find someone in asaba or someone willing to go there...for just 2 weeks. There are guys who aren't doing anything so a little detective work won't harm them. They get you results and save you time and stress... Based on their report,you then know if he is worth your attention still or not.

About his mother stuff...who do you think she would support? You or her own SON? She would make up anything so long it doesn't affect her own baby na. I haven't seen any mother who would choose a prospective daughter-in-law over her own son's decisions. None exists. So prepare your mind for the worst and have a plan B.


#luminouznuggets

OP....you meant injection versus tablets/capsules

So for me...its Injection...

Goes into the bloodstream ASAP and works pretty faster

BUSINESSARENAA:
I once said that the closure of these borders is not a properly thought idea, but some ignorant entities were ranting up and down.

Rice is not the only commodity that passes through a border. There are a lot of genuine business that passes through the land border.

If you are importing or exporting to some of the west African countries, it's easier and more cost effective to use the land boarders than the sea port.

Imagine a man exporting textiles to Ghana from Kano, how possibly will he do that through the sea port in APAPA?

I am totally against rice smuggling but the government should have come up with smarter ideas to deal with this issue, and not shutting down the whole boarder.

Presently I have about two trailers of hides and skin from Mali parked at the boarder incurring bills, with high possibility of spoiling within the shortest period of time because of its present condition.

How do I import from Mali to Nigeria through the seaport?

It is only those that does not understand what happens at the land boarders that are jumping up and down.

Once again I reiterate my stance against smuggling rice through the boarders, but we have to be more tactical in handling certain issues as regards to our economy.


This boarder issue in Nigeria is like a fly perching on a man's scrotal sack, you have to apply wisdom in dealing with it, if not you may end up hurting yourself terribly bad if you hit it with great force.

Use the inland dry ports or any sea port of your choice. Its because the thing dey affect you that's why you are shouting. So you'd rather your hides spoil at land borders than use the seaports? SMH

Nigerians are very selfish creatures, its always about their personal gains,never looking at the long term effect and funny enough,they are always the first to blame the government on every little thing

Beremx:
Nigerians will suffer more from the border closure. Someone with sense should tell Buhari the truth. Border closure is not all about rice importation.


What a country!!

You have been ranting all this while and I wonder why,out of most people here,you just won't see the good in the border closure.

The vitriol you keep pouring out tells me something... You are either a contraband importer or you make money from importation and your source of livelihood has been cut off.

Border closure is good for Nigeria,at least for now.

Op80:
I am a lady and I like what you put up there. That's what would drive me out because I will feel not cared for and any guy that shows me he can care, I won't look back before I follow.

Juliearth:
Yes, it should be one of your prerogatives. In a saner clime, a wife should be actively involved in footing some of the household expenses. It is also advised that a man appreciates his wife by giving her personal upkeep allowance. I am not married, but I think it would be romantic to have my husband fix me on a monthly allowance for
my upkeep.

Lmaoooo!

So your idea of 'romantic' is to be given monthly stipend?

These girls won't kill me aswear!!!!

Hmmmm...



Cool death.



Me likey!

oshe11:
Ugly Rich Women married to Poor Handsome Dudes

Ain't that a biitchhh?

See as those kids spoil the thread with their local disses...

SMH!!!

chukzyfcbb:
Yes na true but look beyond the surface.

It now means women can satisfy themselves sexually without a man.

They can even decide who can father thier kids, The condoms &oral contraceptive was created by us men and given them power to decide when they can get pregnant for us. We don't decide shitt

What happen to the Sex dolls men created for thier own pleasure? Dead and gone!

I may not expect you to see things differently, but man is constantly inventing technologies that will make the life of a woman much more easier, it's unavoidable.

You are smiling they now have DiL.do, well news flash you just created an invention that makes them do without you. Give her a Child and let her make her own money, most women won't need you for anything seeing DiL.do has been Invented.

But a man will always constantly be in search of that women to surrender and pledge his weakness to. it's how we are wired!

#We have been Manipulated

What a skewed analysis!!!

You are the one being manipulated bro.

Okoroawusa:
Testosterone level n sexual libido?


I don't think you know what you are talking about

He is right and you're fuqin wrong

I won't say much but go observe a billy goat and a nanny goat and you will understand better!!

Saw the mention late or maybe I was too busy to check on time....

Read through the comments....

SilvaBullet,Truthsayer09 and one girl made nice points.

My own?

I absolutely hate the word 'upkeep' for a woman I care about...girlfriend or wife/mother. The former because she is not a dead ass and the latter because they are assets. Upkeep denotes unquenchable liability to me and I hate it.

I just give money when i feel and know it is needed. A good wife will know better than to sit on the 'your money is our money and my money is my money' bullcrap.

@Plead...

tommyken:
You are ignorant and pround of your ignorant, love exist and has been proven to flow from people who have a selfless and good heart. When two good people who attracts eachother meet Love always happen.
After I had 3 previous failed relationship I thought love was a scam until I met a good girl who show me what it means to be love and love in return.

He is right and you're also right!

The difference is in the way you see life.