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motun2017: about to fry beans now Only beans?? U be learner!! I just finished frying FART now....u wanna taste  |
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Romance › Re: Secondary School Boy Surprises His Girl On Her Birthday With Gifts & Gets A Kiss by luminouz(m): 7:23pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
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Romance › Re: Secondary School Boy Surprises His Girl On Her Birthday With Gifts & Gets A Kiss by luminouz(m): 7:21pm On Sep 18, 2017 |
Evaberry: I will come back to say what's on my mind
ModIfied.
Most of you that will condemn them started this when you were in primary school, don't come here and form saint.
leave them to enjoy their young love, their kisses, moans and orgasms. it is not your lips, body or fvck.
No biggie here, some of us started way younger. I just hope they are sensible to use condoms, besides baby girl is already using what she has to get what she wants, I won't be surprised if she becomes a millionaire before the age of 23 nice one girl, you rock!
Future slay queen. Evaberry nitori olorun!!!!  |
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khiaa: Yeah he's one of the characters from luminouz stories.  Lmaooooo!! |
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pedrilo: her name is itohan i knw her Itohan ko....Etomi ni!  |
Romance › Re: Women Are Ungrateful by luminouz(m): 9:16pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Sabrina18: Who break this one heart, guys don't take heartbreak easily, have you ever seen women typing this kind of shiitt on nairaland but they get heartbroken too. They do...all d time!! |
Romance › Re: Women Are Ungrateful by luminouz(m): 9:15pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
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Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 8:29pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
NevetsIbot: you are a very foooolish person. and I'm just being considerate with my insult.
oloriburuku Lmaooooo Ur still considerate like this  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 8:24pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Ayinke93: I don't judge men that get physical with thier wives until I hear the man's side of d story.. I'm a lady and I'm saying this from my heart. I grew up having first hand experience of my mum insulting my dad badly, her mouth is very sharp and she insults and slaps him at the slightest provocation. Infact there are times I get very angry and talk to her badly. I grew up seeing my mum very rude and it had a bad influence on our relationship... Even till now, we are not close at all. Although the all scenario made me grow up to be more reasonable with handling issues with men, but it has as some bad influence on me... Sometimes I tend to shout at my bf because that was the only means of communication I saw my mother use growing up.. Women should be calm and learn to briddle your tongues.. My parents are still married today all because of my dad.. He's the calm one but my mom is a story for another day. Till date I'm still work in progress when it comes to handling issues because I learnt everything I know about character and manners outside home.. Thanks to the good friends I made in school. A woman should be an home keeper... Men don't just beat unless something triggers them.. Unless of course u married a psycho. Waooooooo....u really impressed me! Too bad u have a bf!!  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 8:13pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
HaneefahRN: Abi o, a man that cheats is also emotionally abusing the wife let's not even talk about all the risks he is exposing her to. Still doesn't justify violence.
If the wife's tongue lashing is unbearable even after some measures had been taken to make her change then divorce her. Rather than behaving like a lunatic Be like say u don chop better slaps before abi  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 8:12pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
[quote author=pocohantas post=60560589]  Haba...ask around on NL na....my rep as a gentleman is airtight!!!  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 8:11pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
humeeh: Hian!!Konga boo nko? Lmaooooo Na jumia boo me want!!  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 8:10pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
humeeh: I'm doing fine...how abouh u?....Ehhn ehn,biko,all these pet names of yours,which dictionary dem dey? Lmaooooo!!! U always know how to make me laugh!! Well....I get them from my heart  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 7:59pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
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Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 7:52pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
lozanni: Sexual frustration has really set in for the woman. This might really be what is causing her anger, as the husband is not satisfying her sexually, she lost total control and went on an uncontrollable rant and was abusing her husband. I wonder if she is experiencing a hormonal imbalance, estrogen, somewhat like the hen that chases away another hen that is lying on top of eggs it had laid, just to claim it. The woman should have sat with her husband to discuss the above issue, as things like fruits (carrots, bananas, date palm, plaintain), good excersise(jogging, skipping, lifting little weights), good pre-intimacy and sexual technique can help him overcome the problem of weak sexual performance. The above is true for most couples as they, always fail to discuss their sex lives, which is very important. I absolutely agree with u!!! It could be Cuz of sexual frustration.. But some women too endure that n never react publicly naw I think she is just d troublesome type!!!! |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 7:50pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
humeeh: Haaaaa,moi alien pop,don't kee somborry oo Awwww...honeychile....don't worry....I don calm down...how u doing cuteface  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 7:49pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
pocohantas: It's tiring o. Because I don't know how anyone will see sense in inflicting injury on another. Except in self-defence, I don't see myself engaging in a fight.
OP is telling us a story of a woman who ended up with broken teeth, we know of so many who ended up 6feet below. Abeg, let's be careful what we preach. I get!! But u n me working together sounds fun..our homes goan be peaceful....don't u think??  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 6:46pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
pocohantas: No, I won't. When I see such stories, first thing that comes to my mind is, why not leave! Tell me, didn't this man know his wife is troublesome?
All the people supporting OP, are only doing that because the woman is still alive and a woman was the victim. Let OP change the victim to a cheating man, who was poured hot water and we will see emotions flooding here. *sighs* so many possible outcomes n scenarios in this marital issue sef? Its tiring o....... |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 6:45pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
jumzzy448: Thank you op. I could remember the first time I heard that my sister's hubby slapped her. I got so furious and told the husband never to talk to me. He had to apologize to the whole family before everything died down.
Now another time, something like that happened again. Fortunate/unfortunately for my sister, my younger sister was at her house for holiday when the whole ish went down.
My younger sister had to call my mum that we should talk to my sister cos the whole things could have been avoided cos when the heat was much, the husband decided to leave the house to go cool off, but my sister locked the door, held him by his clothe and told him we wasn't going anywhere.. her mother in law was also around. Everyone was begging her to let go of her husband but she refused to listen not until the man gave her one hot slap.
What I'm saying in essence is, not all men are beast, rather their wives bring out the beast in them. U sound sensible...jumzziii or jumia or whatever u call ursef  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 6:39pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
pocohantas: So, what of the women enduring emotional abuse...being cheating husbands. Would you rather they walk away, leading to an increase in divorce rate or pour him hot water?
Walking away remains my best option. I'm not interested in hurting anyone. Poco baby...u can just pour me d hot water!!!  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 6:37pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
OlujobaSamuel: an incident happened in our area, the woman was beating the husband in the midnight and was shouting, my bro heard from his room and went to inform my parents in their apartment, when they got there, they saw wife in short knicker crying on top husband and beating the husband, they stopped the fight when they see sey people don wake up, as they were trying to plead with them to let go, the child was saying help me beg my mum to stop beating my dad, the dad told the child to shut up, sey if he talk again, he go beat am. anytime the husband dey pass him reach, wife go talk sey you wan start again abi, na night for me and you, the husband no go make sound again. na later i hear sey the wife na meat seller for market. Lmaooooooo!!!! |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 6:36pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
EgunMogaji: I'm glad that you had this education.
While I'm not naive to think that some Men are not truly bad but it is my opinion that a lot of this DV stuff is propagated by women.
Your neighbor is lucky. Were this to happen in the US here is what's going to happen to your neighbor
1) He'll be arrested immediately, no waiver, he'll go to jail
2) He'll be charged with domestic violence and face a felony charge, State Vs Neighbor
3) He'll need to come up with bail (here bail is not free, not at all)
4) In some locales, his pictures will be on the jail website and in local newspaper
5) He may loose his job
6) He may get a restraining order filed against him to stay away from his house, his kids, his kids schools and anywhere where his wife may known to visit
7) The wife cannot withdraw the charge, his case is with the state as its a criminal case
Many men never recover from this
9) Many men go on and kill the wive then themselves.
10) Many men go nutbats and kill the woman, her friends, her coworkers, actually travel to other cities to continue to kill her family. Why? Because he knows his life/career is practically finished with a DV charge on his record.
11) I won't bother listing the collateral damage in erm sof loosing hi sjob, losing his house, loosing part of his future income.
So I've been where you got today, the part of not just taking the silly my husband beat me story. It takes two to tango.
If your neighbor is smart he'll pack out of that house today and leave the she devil aloen for another man to deal with. But he must take care of any kids that exists in the marriage, no question about that.
I personally don't take bullshit from women. I'm on my 3rd marraige because of this no willing to deal with women trouble. There are lots of issues and trouble out there in the world and no one needs his own wife to be another source of that issue. So I bounce immediately.
I don't even know how your neighbor can face the other people in your building now. Egbon.....I bow ooooo!!!!! |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 6:33pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
GAZZUZZ:
No need, tell her if its the house you want, come and have it, press divorce and move on.
Attitudes like this did not start over nite, when i was dating, i ensured I had a fight at least 1nce with any girl I was interested in to see her excesses. Many failed but 1. OK......nice one!!! |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 6:21pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
GAZZUZZ:

That was dads strong point  The thing can pain my mama ehn  she will even push him to say somthing  My guy will not say pim..... Likewise my dad!! I took DAT from him.... But I pray not to meet d kinda wife d OP described.... I may lose my cool n become a bitçhbeater!!!  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 6:20pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Prognose: Aaaaaand it hit front-page Yeaaaaaaahhhhh.... Oya dance shoki!!!!  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 6:15pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
Evaberry: so you are laughing at me bah. :-( U know I can't beat u nah as per gentleman wey I be!!!  |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 6:11pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
smithsydny: her coment pisses me off Yeah....she is weird DAT way!!! |
Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 6:06pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
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Family › Re: Today's Experience Changed My View On Domestic Violence by luminouz(m): 6:03pm On Sep 17, 2017 |
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