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I disagree. Were you there when God spoke to them on it? It's the instruction God gave to them concerning their life. So it's not unbiblical.

My issue with all these is why the hell will the instruction God gave to them applies to my life. Why should what God told them be guiding light to how I live my life. Has God stop talking to us individually?

We are all Royal priesthood. Those that wrote the Bible are men like you. They ain't Spirit. You are all capable of hearing from God the way they were. If you write down what God tells you, the writing material you wrote it on is also holy book.

Enough of limiting who God is to the Bible.

Fair enough! As long as you are in the eyes of the public, you are fair game. So are the so called Pastors and Prophets. They are not and shouldn't be above criticism. They are all fair games.

He or she without sin should throw the first stone.

That's why most women are unhappy in their marriages. They get to lose their voice, their dignity and self will all in the name of marriage. Marriage is now synonymous to slavery. And it's the sole reason why most of our men are trained cowards. Their strength lies in how far they can humiliate and shamed their wives.

pocohantas:
True. Young Nigerian men are embracing white women these days. Most of these women might only cheat on them with menopause or the grave. Way better than an erect penîs.

Yes, you took a great decision by keeping mute. Your preaching won't have no effect. And I will give you 3 reasons why your preaching will be useless in this kind of case.

1. Porn imitate life. What do I mean? It is like telling her not to watch films where a guy and a lady goes on a date. She can't escape from it. It's everywhere around her.
2. It calms especially during period you are Hot. There are periods you feel like having sex even as a virgin. There are alot of things that triggers it.
3. It teaches her not to settle for less. Most men only thinks of their satisfaction. With porn she gets to know there is more to banging.

hopefulLandlord:
Hmmm, this is thought provoking but don't you think this dependence on "hope" from religion would've been a thing of the past if there were no religions anymore? wouldn't natural selection make those that require religion to get through when things get tough to die off and the idea too?

Has there ever been a world or will there be a world with no religion? I don't want to divert, so let me go ahead to answer your question. Will the weak die off without religion? Will the weak die off without hope? Can people adapt to a world with no religion? The answer is capital NO.

And it's simply because of of one thing 'Bias' It's easy for you to tell a stranger to die off. Will you let your child, parents or generally your love one to die off because they are weak?

GRAMMARJAMES:
Good morning Nairalanders. I just woke up this beautiful Saturday morning with this weird dream. I was exercising on a lonely straight tarred road . I'm the only one exercising at that moment, beside the road are school buildings for pupils. At that moment, school has closed and no pupil can be sighted inside or outside the school. All of a sudden, I saw a child crying screaming for help and pointing at his parents car up ahead which I sighted it. Here's what scares me most :. No matter how hard I tried carrying the child, I can't, if I tried backing the child, I won't be able to move. The child keep crying and pointing to his parents car ahead that I should help, I still tried pushing the boy but still he didn't move. That's how I woke up scared.

Please does this means anything or it's just a normal nightmare!!

Don't mind my blunders please, I failed English in WAEC!!

Thanks Lalasticlala

This is an event currently happening in your life. That child signified a challenge you are currently facing. You have been running helter skelter and there seems to be no solution to it. And it makes you incompetent and angry.

Your story is ha! The good thing is that you are still young and you still have the power to start all over and change mind. You still have the power to make a difference.

First thing you should do in order to regain your dignity is to go back to school. No one respect a cleaner. Save money and go back to school.

You didn't marry a wife. You married a woman who lacks ambition and who lacks vision. If it is just ambition, e better. If it is just vision, e better. But both, you are in soup.

If you mistakenly got broke, she will cheat on you. That's the day you will regret your life and your marriage becomes hell on earth. Just continue to pray that God should continue to bless you to maintain the standard you have set for yourselves.

It's vice versa. Women also lose interest in their husband. And the reason for it is pretense. People hides who they truly her before marriage. They hide their flaws or turn blind eyes to their flaws.

Secondly because they are desperate to get married they ignore conflict. The best time to fight over what you can't live with in your marriage is during courtship. What you can't accept in your marriage don't accept in your courtship.

It depends on what kind of dreamer you are. If your dreams come true, then be on the alert. If your dreams don't come true, you have nothing to worry about.

But for you to be worry, then your dreams do come to pass. Be on the alert. Put your ears down. Be vigilant.

All parents are bias. Each and everyone of them are bias. So your case is not different. In my own case, my immediate elder brother is my mum's favourite and unfortunately for her I'm my immediate brother's favourite. So imagine the clash. But as I got older the resentment faded away.

So get use to it fast.

What you can't accept you will contemplate doing it to others. If your wife do it to you will you accept it?

Is your type that will come online to complain that your wife is hiding things from you. This is how you infest and destroy the foundation of your marriage which is trust.

Op, oya do this : breathe in, breathe out. Breathe in breathe out. Relax, take your time. Please don't rush into another marriage.

Marriage no tire you. Enjoy being single. Enjoy the power you have to make a decision that will only affect you. Enjoy your freedom. Go out, have sex.

After all that write the names of the two men on a board. Then list their pros and cons. Always have it at the back of your mind that it's possible the first guy is impotent.

humilitypays:
on threads like this, I hate to read comments from female monikers sounding like good or different women showing fake pity for men, you all are the same once you cross over, so don't even pity the op, continue to be who you and your sisters are - wicked! Don't you dare pretend to be a good or different Nigerian lady online, stay to your color

Hehehe! See me see wahala. What gives you the fecking authority to tell me how to react? You are so full of yourself. It's your type they called devil. You will just be roaming to and fro looking for trouble.

Thank God you are now getting a divorce. This life is too short for you to be in an unhappy marriage. Your mental health is too important.

So I must take permission from my husband before buying things for my mum with my hard earn money? Not his money o. Then why am I a daughter?

Forgiveness. She must forgive him. An eye for an eye makes the world goes blind. He is still his husband. He is still the father of his children. He is still his lover.

Mypeople2:
That is true ,very true .Another one is "I am sorry ".Many couples cannot say " I am sorry" .I know a lady then that cannot say I am sorry, no matter what you say to her .She cannot apologize and she doesn't want any apology from you

So true.

The biggest mistake any person can make is to marry someone who finds it difficult to forgive. They won't forgive until they do back things that's far worse than what was done to them. Their type kills their wife or their wife kills them.

I am tired from just reading what you wrote up there. It is is like living in hell. You married a man who finds it hard to forgive and in addition is very possessive

People that struggles to forgives are not suppose to get married. It is their types that murder that partner. If you run away he will kill you.

I know that I shouldn't say this but the day you will be truly free is the day he dies.

You are too soft. You are in a position to do good and you refuse to do it. You are not just soft, you are also incompetent because you are in a position to stop evil you refuse to do it. You are not not just incompetent, you are also evil simply because you repay bad with evil.

Above all, you lacks character simply because you are now thinking of reporting because it will affect your job. I dislike people like you.

Kudos to Lagos State Governor for leading and Lagosians for following. I have been so much impress with our public transport management and the management of public space.

Nigeria is improving and I am grateful to witness our progress.

It is always like a dream when you lose someone unexpectedly.

May God grant those who he left behind the fortitude to bear the loss.

amaks:
Our food actually comes from the middle belt not from the north.

Please google is your friend. Every region has their own area of strength. Does middle belt have groundnut, millet, tomatoes, pepper? Do they rear cows and cattle?

You all should just be praying they find cure for this thing because if not you will all get to know the importance of each other.

Dukeking:
So the borders are open for food but not for people?, Who drives the trucks then?
With the continued shipping from state to state the virus would spread easily

Of course. That's why I said none is safe and all hands should be on Kano.

Dukeking:
Lagos is on lockdown, foods isn't shipped into the state anymore so I think it's independent for now

That's not true. Food is an essential commodity, so it's not affected by the lock down.

As someone else said, all hands must be on Kano. If Kano goes out of hand, none is safe. Our food security is in jeopardy. Most of our foodstuff comes from the North.

Sammy07:
You're very st.upid for your statement.
You think outsider doesn't understand igbo?

What did he say? You all should speak English.