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I am not a Pastor nor an Evangelist nor a Minister. But this is what I have discovered about life, if you are truly called, you will love what you are called to do. If you hate or struggle with what you are being called to do, then you are not called. One must be at peace with what he or she is destined to do in life.

Hi Teetee345,

You have only stayed with your Aunt for a month and you are already complaining of being treated as a slave. It's obvious that you have been sheltered. Whether you know it or not, you are being prepared for your journey in life because you are going to meet people who are far worse than your Aunt and there will be no Daddy to run to. Before going further let me interprete your dream.

I remembered i had a dream that someone gave me a black substance to swallow that i had to die cuz i have something to do, i took it and swallowed it and i was holding my neck and struggling for breath , then i woke up from the dream

I remembered that I had a dream signified an event is about to take place.

That someone gave me a black substance signified it's an event that will will darken your view of life.

To swallow signified it is an event you will struggle against.

That I had to die because I have something to do signified it is an that event that will shake the foundation of your faith.

I took it and swallowed it signified it's an event you can not stop.

And I was holding my breath and struggling for breathe signified it's an event you will fight and rail against

Then I woke up from the dream signified it's an event that will strengthen you spiritually.

Meaning :

You being in your Aunt's place is not a mistake. It's an event that has been predicted in your dream. Be humble. Learn from her. Learn about your mother. Learn about your history. Learn about your foundation. If she is sending you on an errand and not her children do it happily. Make her happy because that is the only you will access what is in her. She is a carrier of secrets you will need in your journey in life. Embrace her because you only have a short window to do that.

If indeed APC will zoned the Presidential ticket to the South-West, why the outcry from the North? For the South-West Governors to support this, something big is going on. The Northerners in APC are not ready to cede the power to the South.

If Amotekun cannot be done legally. It must been done Illegally. The Southwest is being surrounded and all these is against the 2023 election.

fineboynl:
she is not wise and have this village girl behavior which I can't keep with, I want to just lash her. And minds you she is over 30.

Thank you for being honest with me. Let me quickly share a story that happened to a very close friend of mine. He dated a babe and that babe was a Virgin but my friend sha wanted to bang this babe. The babe explained to him that she wanted to dis-virgin on her wedding day and because of this he followed this babe to the village for introduction. And because he wasn't ready to go all the way, he forcefully disvirgined this babe. To cut the long story short, he left the babe and the repercussion of what he did followed him till today.

Back to your dream :

The day she came to your house, if you had told her to tell her sister to excuse you guys she would have done it. Agree? This lady love you naturally. I won't be surprise if you tell me what she requested from you is not monetary. So let me break down your dream.

I was in a trans/dream. and I saw her buying rice. She ask the market woman for erosion rice. I was shocked and ask which one is erosion rice again. Then they said it's flooded rice and that one is cheaper.
I shouted and threw spit in Africa way if abomination. Then I awake and it was in the morning already I think 7:30 am.

I was in a trans/dream signify an event is about to begin
And I saw her buying rice signify it is an event that will empower you.
She ask the market woman for erosion rice signify it is an event that will enrich you
I was shocked and ask which one is erosion rice signify it is an event that will increase your knowledge
Then they said it is flooded rice and that one is cheaper signified it is an event that you will commonized
I shouted and threw spit in Africa way of abomination signified it is an event you will look down on.

That young lady you are commonizing is an activator. Who is an activator? Activator is someone who come into someone's life to activate one's purpose in life. If you dare hurt her, you will be dis-stabilize for the rest of your life till she forgives you and people like don't forgive easily. If you know that you can't marry her, let her go jejely. Don't touch her o. Don't be like my friend that is still begging for forgiveness.

fineboynl:
I was in a trans/dream. and I saw her buying rice. She ask the market woman for erosion rice. I was shocked and ask which one is erosion rice again. Then they said it's flooded rice and that one is cheaper.

I shouted and threw spit in Africa way if abomination. Then I awake and it was in the morning already I think 7:30 am.

I was wondering about this trans vision. This is a girl I'm planing to bang this weekend. She did called me yesterday. I haven't had sex with her and she have only visited me once. The day she visit she came with her sister which makes me not to make any move. The day I went to their house I saw them living in a bad condition house. Very terrible that I was having a rethink to cut her off. But there was favor she was asking from me during xmas the disturb was too much I think about lashing her while I help her with the favor. But never the less I help her and told her to come and see me but she couldn't made it before she travel for xams and promise when she is back she will come and see me.

Thanks for you concerned

So you help her without lashing? God's child. Anyway you have not answer my question. What did you see in her that is forbidden to you or that gives you reservation? Your dream is a past event. It is an event that has already taken place between you and her.

fineboynl:
I was in a trans/dream. and I saw her buying rice. She ask for the market woman for erosion rice. I was shocked and ask which one is erosion rice again. Then they said it's flooded rice and that one is cheaper.

I shouted and threw spit in Africa way if abomination. Then I awake and it was in the morning already I think 7:30 am.

I was wondering about this trans vision. This is a girl I'm planing to bang this weekend. She did called me yesterday. I haven't had sex with her and she have only visited me once.

Thanks for you concerned

You came to the religion section to tell us of your plan to bang a woman. What kind of advice do you expect? You already know they will tell you not to. They will tell you fornication is a sin. But I will go further to tell you if you dare it, you will forfeit it with your life.

When last has a woman come to your house and escape without you removing her pant? Why didn't you do it with her the first time? The answer lies in your dream. You shouting and spitting out signify there is something you saw the last time she came and what you saw is forbidden to you.

LoveElfrida:
I’m so grateful of your{
@Oaroloye
@Chieveboy
@kings20
@Ms. Luvmijeje
@Muttleylaff
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contributions here honestly. I think I’d just gone back in time now to witness things that have happened before the time we know�. I’ll keep that to myself now anyway.

May the Almighty Lord give us all more wisdom and knowledge.

Amen. When you are ready to share what you witness during your journey through space, please don't forget to @ me. I am deeply interested. What you are capable of doing is a gift and it is a gift I will love to partake of.

Smart006:
see aunty we mumu!!!

Why I mumu?

Eneche2:
2. In the second dream, I saw myself going towards a fenced land owned by a man (he is late) in my village. The land has two fences and gate well padlocked. As I approach the gate with two of the man children who were joking pursuing themselves, the man appeared in front of the main entrance gate and stopped us. I approached him and told him I want to go in and read my book, he said good my son, go inside and read while he sent the other two back with cain in his hand. As I entered, he gave me #200 and prayed for me as I moved further, he called me back and gave me the key to the other inner gate because that was were I was to stay and study. After my a while, I returned from the place and then went to his compound to return the key. After collecting the key, he thanked me, prayed for me and gave me another #200.

The Second dream :

Honesty : After the man gave you the key, you could have chosen not to return back that key. You could have leave the door open for the man to come back and lock or you could have taken the key with you. But you were honest. What you told him you want to do in the inner gate you did it. You just didn't do it, you went back to show how greatful you are.

You are obviously an honest and respectful person. Please don't change that aspect of you. In this day and age it is rare for one to meet someone with your characteristics. Do not allow friends to change that aspect of your life because it will take you far in life.

As I earlier they are preparation dreams to prepare you for your journey in life.

First of all your two dreams has nothing in common. It is not a dream predicting a future event. They are preparation dreams. They are dreams to prepare you for life. So let me explain.

Your first dream :

You are an indecisive person meaning you don't stick to your decision. You change decision like the weather changes. No one grow like that in life. And one of the major reasons you do that is fear of the unknown.

I have said this several times on Nairaland, failure makes you stronger. If you don't fail, you won't grow. Do you know you arresting your cousin in that dream was the right decision. Notice immediately you change your decision, it leads to failure.

Advice

1. Before making decision, take your time. Think of the pros and cons. Choose the one with the higher pros.
2. And when you choose stick to it. In every decision whether it leads to failure or success there's a lesson to learn from it.

Next the second dream.

golddust6000:
opposite. The reason why Og is are the most successful ethnic group is because they help each other.
You cannot see a homeless Igbo man in foreign country.

Na this mouth go kill una.

chiemmanuel:
after the crash

I was to board a plane transporting cash signify an event is about to take place

As that is my job signify it is an event that fuels your purpose

But when I arrived signify it is an event that empowers you.

The plane was taking off signify it is an event that will lift you up

The Pilot refused to open for me signify it is an event with great opposition

I went back home signify it is an event that will demoralise you.

Later that plane crashed signify it is an event that will deflate you

And contents spilled everywhere with casualties signified it is an assignment with great repercussion

And I was rejoicing signify it is an assignment at the end of it will bring you peace

So I have update the dream . Let's go to the meaning

Meaning[b][/b]

As I earlier said these two dreams has 3 things in common :

1. Your abilty to sense when something is detrimenal to you.
2. Your tendency to come off as arrogant when trying to impart this knowledge
3. And in trying to avert this thing that is detrimental to you, you tend to face great opposition

An event is about to take place that requires you to be truthful. But you don't want to because in doing that people will make enemity of you. But if you don't do it you will lose your peace and you will lose your life. So would you rather make lose your peace and your life or would you prefer people to make enmity of you? Choose wisely.

chiemmanuel:
Please insult my intelligence and explain in plain language
In that dream, I was rejoicing, I wasn't involved in the crash

At what point were you rejoicing? Re-write the dream and write the exact point you were rejoicing.

chiemmanuel :
Second dream, I was to board a plane transporting cash, as thats my job, but when I arrived, the plane was taking off, the pilot refused to open for me, I went back home, later that plane crashed, and the contents spilled everywhere. with casualties,

I was to board a plane transporting cash signify an event is about to take place

As that is my job signify it is an event that fuels your purpose

But when I arrived signify it is an event that empowers you.

The plane was taking off signify it is an event that will lift you up

The Pilot refused to open for me signify it is an event with great opposition

I went back home signify it is an event that will demoralise you.

Later that plane crashed signify it is an event that will deflate you

And contents spilled everywhere with casualties signified it is an assignment with great repercussion

I told you at the end of the second dream I will tell you the meaning. But I think I don't have to because you already know the significance of it. So I won't insult your intelligence.

chiemmanuel:
thank you, but please can you break it down in relation to my dream , God bless

Okay.

my wife said she dreamt a tree wanted to fall, and I guided her and our children to a safe place, in that place, there was a riot, but I took them to a safe place, the tree fell down,
in that same dream people told her I eloped with another woman, and that's why I told them to hide, people were mocking her, she wanted to curse me in the dream, for abandoning her, she could not, she said she was weeping and praying that I am loosed from the woman, then she woke up.

My wife said she dreamt a tree wanted to fall signify an event is about to take place.

And I guided her and our children to a safe place signify it is an event you will want to run away from

In that place there was a riot but I took them to safe place signify the more you try to run, you more you face more trouble

In that same dream people told her I eloped with another woman signify the more you run away the bigger the opposition.

That is why I told them to hide signify the more you run away the stronger the opposition.

People were mocking her signify it is an event that will make you to be afraid of people's opinion

She wanted to curse me in the dream signify it is an event you know will bring you shame

For abandoning her signified an event that will cause you your peace the more you try to run away from it

She couldn't , she said she was weeping and praying that I am loose from the woman signify it is an event the more you run from it the more it will cause you distress.


Let me interpret the second dream before telling you the meaning.

chiemmanuel:
my wife said she dreamt a tree wanted to fall, and I guided her and our children to a safe place, in that place, there was a riot, but I took them to a safe place, the tree fell down,
in that same dream people told her I eloped with another woman, and that's why I told them to hide, people were mocking her, she wanted to curse me in the dream, for abandoning her, she could not, she said she was weeping and praying that I am loosed from the woman, then she woke up.

second dream, I was to board a plane transporting cash, as thats my job, but when I arrived, the plane was taking off, the pilot refused to open for me, I went back home, later that plane crashed, and the contents spilled everywhere. with casualties,

PLEASE I NEED INTERPRETATIONS

What does dreams have in common? I will list 3 common denominators.

1. You have the ability to sense danger but to the world it is call I too know(ITK)
2. People tends to perceive you as arrogant when transmitting this signal
3. And when transmitting this signal you normally face great oppositions.

I was talking to someone recently and I got to discover that this guy is a naturally truthful person. And those are the set of people the world hate most. When you are truthful you will become people's enemy. So I will give you the advice I gave to him.

My Advice : No matter the opposition, you must continue telling your truth. Your truth is what is protecting you from the evil one. Your truth is what is shielding you from death. In your truth lies the fulfillment of your purpose.

Happy new year MuttleyLaff. Thank you for your well wishes.

bigfrancis21:
hmm how is this even reasonable?

Are you OP? But because I felt you genuinely want to know why let me explain.

The OP(Original Poster) brought up a negative dream that occurred when his nephew was alive. Now ask yourself this question, was that the only dream he dreamt of his nephew when was alive? If it is not how come he shared the one where his nephew failed to help him up? What does that tell you? I will tell you, his nephew did something that hurt him deeply and the dream foretold it.

Even after his death, he still share the negative dream that does not relate to what is currently going on on this thread. What does that tell you? I will tell you, he is still hurt by it.

MedicH:
Do you even understand what is going on in the union? The problem is the woman earns more money and believes she gets to say who does what.

You also don't understand what's going on. Let strungup79 answer my question. Did he cheat during the blissful years of his marriage?

strungup79:
I'm 42 years old and married with 3 children (2 boys and a girl). I got married to this beatiful lady 13 years ago and everything was bliss until three years ago when my business experienced a serious down turn.

My wife's upturn in fortune however brought out the ugliness in her. She started trying to assume control of the home. She stopped consulting me on decisions concerning our home, rather consulting her parents. She practically turned my kids against me as she painted me as irresponsible.

For 10 years your marriage was blissful! Why do I find that had to believe?

You didn't cheat on your wife during those 10 years of blissful marriage? For your wife to sucessfully paint you as irresponsible, emphasis on sucessfully then l doubt your marriage was blissful for the for the first 10 years.

The issue with your marriage is lack of trust. Your wife don't trust you. And it can't be because she is earning more than you.

Chef2000:
Before his death (a truck hit him and he died at the spot) I had a dream and I saw the two of us walking on the road, I hit my feet on a stone and fell down and he was unable to lift me up and I was asking him to lift me up but he was unable to

Op, you're an unforgiving person. You're someone who can't let go easily when someone hurts you. And it is affecting you psychologically and spiritually. You are a very vindictive person. When a person hurts you the only way for you to have peace is to hurt that person back with the same measure or do worse.

Your nephew hurt you and you felt cheated by his death because you have not carried your revenge on him. The reason you are still seeing him is because you can't let go by forgiving him.

Mrsprissy:
Thank you so much everyone for your advice . Like I said earlier nothing actually happened between us before Christmas , everything was okey , on Monday December 23rd we went out shopping for Christmas after we took the kids out to the playgrounds and we ended the day with a nice dinner at the restaurant. On Christmas morning we woke up fine no arguments, he left the house and went to get his hair cut, I picked up his clothes and left it on the bed by the time he get back so he can wear them, he came back very normal on a good mood , the only time he got angry was when I asked him to go and change , I didn’t raise my voice , I only told him the clothes doesn’t look nice for the special occasion that was when he told me to keep quiet and I did. He took 1 hour just to change the T-shirt to a shirt and I wasn’t not happy but I didn’t say anything because he wasn’t in the right mood. Yes He beat me just because I have asked him to take a family picture , I swear to God I’m telling the truth and if I’m not lying because it won’t put any money to my bank account. This is the 2nd beating after 6 years of marriage , but this is one was worse than the first one. Something did happened back in October ( his fault) but we have already settle everything and went back to normal. I know it doesn’t make sense to some of you , even myself I just don’t understand why did he beat me with so much hatred when I did nothing wrong

He is cheating on you.

I've read your opening post 3 times and after reading it, it brought flashback of my childhood.

When so little(starting from age 4) I remembered consciously dreaming of seeing myself serving people and employing people to help. Before I know it, when I am alone, I will consciously dreamt of being in a very large crowd, organizing how to feed them all and all I will need to achieve that purpose. It's my happy place. It is a place I consciously go to when I want to be happy and run away from my environment. I stopped doing it and I don't remember when it stop. Your thread was a reminder of those moments in my life.

My Advice: There's nothing wrong with you. Embrace it. In due time you will get to understand the messages in those dreams. When it's time to wield it, you will stop consciously doing it. For now embrace it. Fly away.

LoveElfrida:
Thank you sir. I've already closed my mind on her, I'm just pained, that's all!

I already deleted everything about her from my physical life, apart from the one in my head, I even blocked all our channels of communication, 'cos the more I hear her voice, the more I crazier becomes. She calls and text me almost everyday.

If she is truly the one, you won't give up on her. You will wait for her. You will be willing to play the fool for her. You will be willing to chop sand. You won't mind being humiliated. You won't mind being her handbag.

If she is truly worth it, then keep being persistent.

Anifaza:

My mind is made up that everyone should stay on their own. Hubby is the only male, seems to be the only one doing well and parents are no more

This part of your post stood out for me. Your husband is obviously a man with deep sense of responsibility. He feels like it now rest on him to play the role of a father and mother to his Siblings. He feels like he is the man of the house. And in return his siblings are trying to play the role of his mother.

He is never going to change. It is who he is . In this kind of situation you only have 2 options

1. Don't bend and lose him
2. Bend and keep him.

If you think he is worth it, I will advise you to bend. Play the fool. Go and ask for forgiveness from your sister in law. Tell them to forgive you.

livebyday:
I think it's a function of the mindset of both ladies and the men in question

Firstly I have known and know ladies like this..and like a member said on the previous page character has alot to do with it..

Such ladies usually had a phase in their life when they assumed their bodies would get them.everything and let's say due to age of exposure they realized the folly in this and changed

Now here's the thing, such things from the past stick to you like a cologne, and you know what they say about your thoughts and mindset shaping you ? It's true .. such ladies who used used their bodies to gain every advantage now have this aura all over them and irrespective of whatever change they have implored they just give off that aura of easy lay, or easy lady and hence every man who comes around them.irrespective if how nice or toxic her character may have become will just usually want to sleep with her .. in a way it's can be seen as poetic Justice or karma in effect but I have noticed this.

Another set of ladies with this aura are those who come very extremely humble back grounds and hence have some sort of handicap in the quality of life .. for example she can't express herself properly or may be incapable of reading or writing now unfortunately Nigeria is a jungle or like the animal kingdom there are no saints in the animal kingdom, there are only wolves and sheep and the wolves eat the sheep. In this context such women are the sheep and the vile Casanovas are the wolves whom are good at spotting such women and offering them false hope , " I will help you get a job" i I'll send you to university" etc they make these ladies promises knowing fully well these ladies have chronic inferiority complex hence these ladies are easy prey

So true. Let me add 3 more reasons men wants to sex and not date.

1. Desperation : Men can sense desperation from afar. No sensible person wants to date a desperate person because deep down, it feels like you are putting a gun to their dead and we all hate that.

2. Self hate : If you don't love yourself, you can never be happy . It is lack of self worth that will make you to judge yourself by the standard of men.

3. Environment : If you are constantly meeting men who don't see your worth, then it is time to change your environment.

What will she do if her dream husband lose his job, his business collapse and things generally goes downhill? We are all allow to dream. We are all once foolish. But life have a way of shaping us up. It changes our perspective. Our Values and our desires. She is still young. Lets give her the room to be foolish.

It begins. The waves of opposition begins.

He was arrested in Osogbo, Osun State, on August 5, 2019 for participating in a nationwide peaceful demonstration aimed at demanding a better country from the administration of President Muhammadu Buhari.

I hope this is a turning point. politically this is not sustainable. If Tinubu and co thinks, he wont do the same to them, I will advise them to wake up from that dream.

This is an indictment against APC and her husband. She is complaining as though she is not part of the government.

This is lawlessness at his height.