₦airaland Forum

CatchMeIfUCanMO:
Mu², show me one person that have refuted it. How many Yoruba women dey gree do low-key or modest wedding?
Even the "I never chop" ones too dey wan do loud wedding even if it means borrowing to do it.
What do you call that?

You think everyone is an hypo crite like you?

Na you and your peo ple go end up the same way you people were last year.

How much you spend on the ceremony to entertain your guests depends on what you and your wife agreed on. But Yorubas don't tax groom to heaven or hell, no excessive billings, no long lists of items which SE and SS marriages are all about

prophetfire:
FAKE STORY. LIES. IT'S EVEN SOUNDING STALE

Groom absconding during marriage ceremonies in South East is not new. If you are embarrassed with stories like this, tell your elders to stop the practice

DestinedForGrea:
Please don't destroy your marriage because of mundanity. You married her with the small breasts, why is this an issue all of a sudden?

If you say you don't want to cheat on her, then it means you're fighting that thought. If you continue to worry about the size of her breasts, you'll slowly begin to find her sexually unattractive, and that's the beginning of a big problem in your marriage.

Please do all you can to terminate this worry from your heart while it's still fresh. If you ponder on it, it would trigger a lot of issues, and before you know it, it would be too late to trace where the issue came from.

Love your wife the way you loved her before. If your wife is a "good" woman and you allow this mundane dissatisfaction cause an issue between you two, you'd bite your fingers.

I didn't intend to type this much, but I feel you need these words desperately. Please don't destroy your marriage because of something as insignificant as a woman's breasts.

If Op could come to Nairaland to create a topic for this concern, you would be wrong to tag his concern INSIGNIFICANT. You would make terrible counsellor but I don't blame, you don't understand the subject.
Marriage itself is mundane

Some people have given practical and better advices: breasts implant or the wife fattens up

LordBEGGINSTEIN:
Who the hell waste their one whole year twice to do NYSC twice.

Collecting allawee without actual going to PPA , free money. Got it?

The reporter na mumu

How is he a mumu in all this? His or her report raised up two issues: obtaining genuine certificates under six weeks and participation in NYSC more than once

SmartProf:
Fake health challenges suddenly develop in these criminals when they are asked to come explain how they mis-used funds, but they are very healthy when massively stealing public funds. This format is too old.

That's because our laws, courts and judges allow them to under it. No special courts for these financial criminals with accelerated hearing and the use of circumstantial evidence against them. They are always let off the hook,citing nonsense technicalities

Ofodirinwa:
if everyone has guns, or even 20% of people, who will they abuse that priviledge to? Is it that someone will go to an open market and do armed robbery today, or herdsmen will go to people's farms at will? If you abuse the priviledge, it will abuse you back

Hahaha. Still, not everyone will have it. And if anyone decides to do damage, it will be too late to stop him anyway.

Totilopussylick:


Supported. It doesn't matter the outcome for Nigerians to own "GUNS" with licence and registration for protection. after all in Western countries majority of them own guns

And what is the outcome for those ones? And I don't think it is majority of them, USA mainly

jaxxy:
it is more respectable to tell ur wife and family including his dad b4 u do whatever u like. u owe them that respect.

It is not about telling, it is about permission. Telling is the right thing to do but people like Yui wouldn't get the blessing of anyone in his family because they were used to the one man one wife mantra. So, what's the point in telling and raising opposing gang

Fiscus105:
Others will do it with attendant effects, if you think what ur forefathers did 100yrs ago with total illiterate women , you want to try it.......they will post ur messy story here for us to comment

There are millions of Nigerians in polygamous marriages and you never had any reason to read their stories. And there are many monogamous marriages with plenty bad news, even murders. It is even worse for people in monogamous marriages.
BTW: how do you know I'm not in it already? Because I won't even advertise it

xareal:
if at least 5 of all the people in that super market in nasarrawa had side arms do you think those animals would have left there alive??

It never ends with just people protecting themselves. Many youths are now into hard drugs

Berankis:
Civillians bearing arms is what Millitary dont want. Because they know that will balance the equation either with the millitary or bandits/terrorists. They still want the civillians to continue to die like chicken.

Making civilians bearing arms will do more bad than good, civilians will be dying like ants.
USA as it is, with education and effective police presence, the country is battling with guns violence.

Fiscus105:
Oga, he lost to be in charge of her, immediately he brought another woman to be her rival inside her matrimonial house.


Any man that doesn't have issues persay in his marriage,that still go ahead to marry second wife, ......such man shouldn't bother to look for his enemy o, he is his enemy.

Not even in Africa where husband can have different gfs outside.

When did Africa become this? Lol. You better stick with your one wife and let others do their things

jaxxy:
yul is an indisciplined man who can't control his 3rd leg or else why get ur colleague pregnant then jump into a 2nd marriage without prior notice to ur wife and family?

Like they would agree with their "one man one wife" mentality and belief

ednut1:
Coming from a a useless man who impregnated someone else and did marriage without informing his wife. 🤡🤡

Lol. When did African men start receiving their wives' permission before marrying second or third wife?

Coolsat:
And highly narcissistic as well but people go still turn am to gender war to absorb him of all the rubbish he has been doing on social media even right after his son's death just to oppress his grieving ex wife

He's narcissistic but still married. You, who is not a narcissist, do you have a wife? Can a woman enjoy living with you? Internet judges

Coolsat:
So na breast be this guy problem

Him problem u know now, wetin be ur own problem?

tasalanoni:
Nl folks, pls your opinions are needed.
I'm currently 31, earning reasonably well and with greater prospects for the future.

The pressure to settle down is getting stronger by the day. However, I don't consider myself psychically fit for marriage in the midst of the deterioration that the marriage Institution is experiencing.

Judging by my current perspective and disposition on the subject of marriage, I don't see myself setting down even in the next 5years. I try to carefully look at the pros and cons of contracting a marriage in today's world and I always come to the conclusion that there are more cons than pros.

I'm also not a very family oriented person in the sense of creating familial bonds and deeply cherishing them hence I derive my fulfillment and pleasure in doing the things I love to do, acquiring wealth and giving help wherever I deem necessary.


Nb:As for raising the adopted child, myself, parents, siblings and a helper will be involved while financial responsibility will be exclusively mine.

Then, you have no business raising a child, be it your biological or adopted child because there's really no difference between the two

tasalanoni:
The idea of a babymama sounds somewhat immoral, deceitful and wicked to me. I believe that if a lady is good enough to produce a child for you, she should also be good enough to be brought close as a wife rather than a mere baby making machine

Sometimes, it is more complicated than the way you just simplified it. I'm not talking about the man who already has the mindset to make someone a baby mama. I'm talking about knowing the true colour of a woman after getting pregnant for you

dre11:
The senator spoke on why the National Assembly added billions of naira to the 2024 budget.

Nlfpmod

Lol. These people are clowns, walahi. The direction of the next three years has been set and it is not looking friendly, not promising

Winning123:
I thought he wasn't smart however you are even worse. Let all the coalition in Nigeria come together, Tinubu will still win as long as they present a northern candidate or Igbo man from the South East. Head or tail, he will defeat them.

Go figure! APC is meddling our economy big time and that's why the party's votes went down from 12 million in 2019 to 8 million in 2023 despite the fact that APC presented new candidate. APC votes will still go down in 2027 with the way economy is going down the slope right now. Don't mistake, I'm APC member.
Coalition just need a northern presidential candidate and southern VP. APC has cast, whether Tinubu or someone else, opposition parties just need to merge their scattered votes

Fiscus105:
Maybe you are talking about military coalition. Tinubu is not Jonathan or Buhari, even after 8 years it would require, more than colition to defeat APC under Tinubu watch, it's only death and probably if military ready, that can stop Tinubu and not any political colition or 3rd force.

Our votes are now counting, mostly. More and more people are having reasons everyday to vote against Tinubu and APC next election. Even last year election, APC votes went down by roughly 4 million votes. Imagine how many votes will still be out of the APCs 2023 election eight million votes! It is up to the opposition parties if they want power or not.

Buhari gave you express way to Aso rock, you guys foolishly gave ur ticket to selfish and serial looser.

Correct. They used selfishness to let power slip out of their fingers.

mannobi:
Even with coalition or cohabitation that man will do his eight years in office.

But I still believe that complete coalition of PDP, LP and NNPP can defeat Tinubu hands down.

He is really really smart in politics and the powers that worked against him last year are now in his own hands. The north won't want to truncate this present arrangement between the north/south so it is better they let him do his second term so power can come back to the north for eight years.
My concern is for the south east because of our kind of politics. After the northern rule, don't be surprised if the southwest and north support power shift to the south south.

You are a good analyst, you didn't comment with emotion. Everything you said, right on point

Absuchat:

With or without coalition....as long as the Inec remains partisan, he will do complete 8 yrs there

No, you're wrong and the man is correct. With coalition, APC stands no chance because rigging of elections in Nigeria has been minimised and our votes are now counting. Pessimistic people like you hardly come out to vote on election days but always quickly to accuse umpires and the ruling party.
Imagine PDP, LP, NNPP and G5 votes for just PDP alone! That would have been mortuary for APC!

Tokskob2008:
Very bloody but the FRSC guys wouldn't know until things starts to fall apart later

The army got served too this time around. Most of them are lazy ass niggars, guns are what make them confident.

ojun50:
3years I move into the compound now, late last year I told landlady about us washing it oh.

The woman just dey talk story since then na boiled water I dey drink.

You can pay for it, it will be cost effective for you and others including your landlady will benefit from it. As long as it is easy access, not those that are very high

Drsnives:
My neighbor own don dea bring out warm

You meant worms?

Ravenna:
Well, some tanks do not require washing really, esp the black tanks.
If your tank is not black, you go wash tire because Black reduces the amount of sunlight penetration into the water.
Those microbes need sunlight to reproduce.

Haaa, thank you. In our former apartment, we had two tanks, one was black and the other one was green. I did invite plumber once a year for cleaning and I would notice that the green one always had more algae far more than the black one. I observed but didn't know why, I'm just understanding the reason now. Thank God the one I paid for but yet to install is black.

CameroonPepper:
I'm a med lab scientist.
I know what I'm saying.

And you think that kind of comment is appropriate for someone with your profession? You're a disgrace to your profession and your mother and sisters. Shame!

Tunde835:
It means she likes you.

That's for sure but one shouldn't read into it any further

MichaelSokoto:
Mr. Seun, abeg na d new way wey u wan take dey run Nairaland be dis?

Wat manner of topics do we see dis dayz?

shaking my big head 4 d mod wey push irrelevancies to fp!

Country is hard, this kind of topic is sometimes needed

charzyh2:
Couple of ladies have called me big head and I know that my head is not big. Now I know I'm not the only guy being called big head.

I've searched online but can't seem to find straight answers to what it really means. Can anyone tell me what it really means?

Just few days ago, two observed me and agreed that my head is big, bigger than it was 12 years ago in the pic.
And it is really kinda cute though.

Tunde835:
It means she likes you.

That's for sure but one shouldn't read into it any further.