₦airaland Forum

ObaaOfYorubaLan:
You go soon go holiday

Sermwell:
Which citizens will surprise them? When people like you are here licking their ass everyday?? Just dey play!

Lanretoye:
oya go and supprise them.

DesChyko:
He should rest in peace o. It's a call to us that are still alive that death eventually comes for everyone. Live your life as truthful and as just as you can so you won't be caught unawares.

I see some already famzing. The deceased knew you would and already asked that you don't fool anyone with your false empathy. Say what's really on your mind and move on.

He didn't think much of the dead either.

SaturnNick:
When she told me she has many brothers, and I should not mess around with her

LordIsaac:
When I was unknowingly escorting her to the motor park on her numerous trips to go and see her second boyfriend! She’s married to him now.😊

Fiscus105:
If she can't see a single man from husband family and no single man from her own family to be discussing her marital issueS with but unrelated male friend, such woman is nothing but rag. She is olosho in making who wouldn't think twice to bed her so called bestie.

Ask urself honest question, if ur wife is fun of discussing ur marital issueS with her male friend, how would you feel?

ObaaOfYorubaLan:
Seun Osewa
dominique
mukina2
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
Rule 2

ObaaOfYorubaLan:
They want to bring that evil curses that the Yorubas and Hausa fulani Muslims practices enter Igbo land? God forbid bad things

Chimarto:
One Yoruba girl I dated was embarrassed by the inability of her food to come near the one I cooked in terms of palatability and presentability. Until we broke up, she prefer eating igbo food. Let stop all this Yoruba superior. Una food come last .... Nothing to defend here. The girl testified, she was astonished as at how I can cook delicious food as a man....this is something that is not obtainable where she come from.

domipreeque:
Definitely not Afonjanistans.
Gbegiri is poison.

KwuoteYourFada:
That oiled Spirogyra algea looking thing?

Bleh🤮🤮

casualobserver:
With due respect she is not acting right and you are not acting properly. Think to yourself, would you like your wife running to a man with all your marital problems, would you not feel disrespected? So why do that to another man?

The only male a wife should take her marital problems to (if she must her problems outside) are a male relative or her husband’s closest friend. Note I use singular. A good wife has one, no more than 2 male relatives or her husbands’ confidants that she can trust with her marital problems, if they are such that need external intervention. Her marital problems are not your business and again I repeat you are disrespecting her husband. What goes around comes around.

If she had any sense as a woman she wouldn’t bring her marital problems to you, if you had any wisdom as a man, and we’re truly her friend, you would tell her she is disrespecting her marriage and her husband by bringing her marital affairs to you. That is the acid test of your so called friendship. The minute you do she will stop calling you, but it is the right thing to tell her. So you see now that you really are not friends. Because you should be able to tell the truth to a friend without the relationship ending.

As a man you have no business in another woman’s marital affairs, the only women that should ever come to you are the wives of your best friend/brother/s or your sister/relative.

rabankonchas:
Very thoughtful answers.....

malaria:
Yes full time. Not all men want sex from women , not all women want money from men ..If you ever find a genuine friendship of the opposite sex .you will know life is not all about sex. The main thing they should all draw their boundaries when necessary.

atiku4President:
No one can draw boundaries. Even you know you cannot. Stop saying what is not possible. The answer is capital NO.

rabankonchas:
Very thoughtful answers.....

Onuh211:
The day she gave me 37 missed calls when I left my phone with my Bro, and went to work with my small phone, I knew I was dating an irrational lady, I called it a quit🙄 weird isn't??

A normal human being shouldn't buzz someone's damn phone more than twice! If to day we had an argument before I no pick call, e for dey understandable 🙄

I knew the way I initiated the breakfast was stupid, I had to make her understand reasons we can't work weeks later, and we broke up proper. She loved me and want to get married ASAP but I don't love her that much, she can take a bullet for me and I can't do same for her 🥺 She's damn beautiful to the standard of Nigerian men, manchester and barca dey like nicki minaj own 😹😹 but damn it, I NO DEY FORNICATE!

Joseph099:
When she put her pussy on my MOUTH

IzRayl:
Tesla is not the first electric car

Kukutenla:
So you think nairaland is the right place to seek medical advice on how to induce labour for a woman at full term
You must be a very wise man

Secondly, how are you sure the baby can survive induced labour? Have you carried out tests on the baby to ascertain the heart beat rate and other parameters from your phone o wise man?

kettykin:
This is the problem with unprofessional stuff, elsewhere if you refuse a rematch, you lose the belt

Totilopussylick:
Those two will never enter ring.

They have money 🤑

lovewinner:
Sometimes is good to marry the classic we claim to love someday but she might bring us pains if they is no proper understanding.The mistake had been done.you need the way out.What you admired in other ladies do it for your wife.You can train her,invest in her as well as bring the beauty in her because she is now your wife and it doesn't change even if you live the county. sit her down and look into the good things you can put together to make her meet your taste.Take her out for shopping,playing.Get her classic movies and tell her you appreciate if she look like this for you.Get her cream,cloths and nice shoes.Dress her hair and change her taste. Tell her you love to love her.she will improve and before you notice she will give you a nice look.

Goodnewsforlife:
u no get sense

U left it there despite all complains of people online about how betting platforms rob them

Oga na u do yourself

U get 90 million online n 5 naira no dey your account n u get mind sleep?

What if the whole site crash n never come back again?

U are not wise

Goodnewsforlife:
how will someone who have sense leave 90 million in online account n sleep

The highest I can leave after winning is 10k

AqualinaXYZ:
Seun if you want sanity returned to Nairaland you would have to sack some of your TRIBALISTIC moderators



You’ll see your moderators taking sides on politics threads and banning anyone who doesn’t agree with his views


I no wan mention him name but I believe we all know him


When APC supporters attack people who doesn’t support una Tinubu and the attackers fires back they’ll rush to tag him boom you’re blocked


But that particular mod never ban APC supporters


We all mustn’t support Tinubu and till your mods understand that then tribalism will always prevail

ovie8200:
Copy-cat....from Tesla.....

Chinese always steal!

emkz:
I am not the one to advise anyone on the reason(s) to get married.

Depending on your level of development, you'd know for yourself why you want to get hitched. So long as your reason works for you, good for you.

immortalcrown:
Fiction!

Things like that happen a lot. Even worse things happen. But this particular one is likely a fiction to grow traffic. Examine how it is written and presented.

Nigerian bloggers are scammers, and they cash out big time because average Nigerians lack common sense. Take note, those bloggers don't give updates on most of their stories because most of those stories are fabricated. So, they put their misguided audience in suspense. But for a true-life story, you will definitely get updates.

Don't bother about revealing the identities of the man and the woman. Just tell us specifically when (the particular date or month or at least the year) and where (the venue) the wedding is supposed to take place. Don't make the venue vague. Mention the exact (street, state and country) Church or court for the wedding. Those who know the venue will confirm whether the news is fake or not. If you mention a venue that doesn't exist, the news will easily be proven to be false. But you craftily leave out these details and your misguided audience don't care. As a matter of fact, anybody who asks for the necessary information will be bullied almost to the point of death by your fans. Everything goes in Nigeria. Every half-baked bread is a balanced diet to an average Nigerian.

Jewessgratitud3:
Too bad I can help your lack of comprehension to simple explanations as this.

Let me paraphrase. What I mean is.. after defining your purpose and having a clear direction of where the relationship is headed ( which I never said would require money to be achieved) you would need money to execute the plan that follows afterwards eg marriage. Or do you, after defining purpose keep it pending due to lack of money to go ahead with the plans of getting married or what is the essence of purpose without money to execute your marriage plans?

Even an elementary student will understand this simple explanation. Sorry I can't help you further.

emkz:
Marriage is not a failed union. Marriages fail because man fails.

That marriages fail is a result of the decisions of those involved.

(1) Why do people get married? Why do you want to get married?
(2) The thing we bandy around claiming it is "love", how many people will remain in love when the thing that fuels the love is missing? It could be finance, sex, body structure, and all sorts of things. Would you remain with someone who suffers a mental incapacity during your marriage?
(3) How many married people are truly friends with their spouses? You find many entering marriages calculating how it would be used for poverty alleviation, endless sex (which gets tiring after a while) and security. Some even get married to pepper their peers, while others do it to look responsible. Many more do it because it is the next thing to do after a certain age. Some even do it for childbirth.
(4) Following on point 3, some get married and are lonely in marriages because their spouses have unfulfilled hopes and expectations with some ex who they really preferred to be with. They expect a certain satisfaction from the marriage which they do not get.

My conclusion is that marriages fail because man does not really like something good. Give them a fulfilling life, they'd find a way to ruin it. If not, why would a man or woman ruin his or her household with his own hands?

flokii:
I don't know why but opinion polls suggest that marriage is more or less a trap for men, but a lucrative venture for women.

The man gets to shoulder all the burden, pay bills and spend endlessly, but the woman gets to live comfortably and keep her money all to herself .