₦airaland Forum

Prettycute90:
Are these not enough reasons to divorce him?
During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me.
I see that as way to make my children suffers.

What can you advise please?

I just want peace of mind.

I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.

I'm a man too but sorry to say this: no court will give him the custody of your children because, they're still minor. That's the solution to who can have the custody of the kids.

Incognito403:
And the richer they are the less they bring to the table; they're neither useful for domestic duties nor helpful financially.

And you're very much correct. The richer or more popular they become, the more useless these type become in the house. They would frustrate the husband with night parties, late nights coming home, starving of husband unless he constantly sorts himself out, even their kids would get their fair shares. The husband might even consider suicide at some point.

Persephone1:
Not being realistic is looking for a man who will be above a standard she has risen in a country like Nigeria. Lol. Not only are billionaires in limited numbers, Nigerian men will most likely not marry women who are financially better than they are. Well she can relocate sha

I wish her luck.

She will see plenty of men who are ready. She even confirmed that she was the one rejecting them based on the fact that she earns more than them.
But the real question is, if she decides to choose one among these men she earns more than, wouldn't she be treating him like trash? Because, that's definitely possible.

Kobicove:
I understand where she's coming from.

Ideally a lady should marry a guy who is superior to her

Goodlady:
She has a point. Watch how broke boys ll cry here.

Her decision on relationship has flaw. I hope it doesn't take her long to realise that. When and where is the man earning more than her coming from? Is he coming at all? What if comes but with some other intolerable baggage?
What kind of respect is she expecting from a man who earns far above her? In relationship, you must have something to trade off to make it real and last long.

SpecialAdviser:
APC legacy. And some people don't understand why OBIDIENTS wants to FREE them. Tribalism and Religion no let them reason properly.

Obidients still remain the most corrupt set of people among all the political parties and their members. Just look at the stealings, diversions and embezzlement of campaign funds during the election campaign.

Sharpsharp00123:
Just imagine, how can apc not have 1 votes in 6 local government in one state in d east n d igbos still want us to believe it is tinubu that cheated them

So no one mistakenly voted apc in d whole of 6 local government n these people are still telling us they were cheated

I'm very grateful for this judge frankness. The only candidate that benefitted massively from rigging was Obi. INEC staff and adhoc staff really connived with LP in South East to perpetuate that massive fraud that defied logic and against common sense

jerryBoss1:
REALLY NIGERIA IS A COMEDY AND THE ACCUSER HAS BECOME THE ACCUSED. AS A JUDGE IF THERE'S AN OFFENCE PERSECUTE THE OFFENDER NOT SPEAKING LIKE A ROAD SIDE NEWS PAPER READER .

Pele! That judge really made fools of Obi, his lawyers and his online attack dogs like you. He took all of you to the cleaners. It served you right, you all deserved.

HIGHESTPOPORI:
The Justice Ugo just dey yarn dust

That's a fact that no sane mind can dispute, even you.

DaTruths:
Tinubu don finally Pocket Nigeria.

We Nigerians are living under his mercy, as God wished

It is still democracy, remember? You have Lawmakers representing you and your people now. Those are the ones who made it possible for Tinubu to do as he wishes.

DMerciful:
After you'll say all Igbos do not support Thuvb

And few ones who are brave enough to support him, no be names you people are calling them? Do you respect their freedom to associate?

MeNmyfamily:
Be wise Yul. The same people wey dey cheer you on now go later sabotage you and tag you IPOB if you contest in future.

And what about you who are busy running him down like he murdered someone?

My state's wahala is too much

1950Mack:
we know your type... all dis loose bet9ja miscreants with dirty tear tear jeans chanting jagons upandan and arguing for just argument sake. You wey dey see pass your nose wetin you don gain now... you no fit order point and kill for elegushi as only broke youths waste their fortune with unnecessary arguments

One. I'm not sure I can call myself youth.
Two. Never played bet in my life! Don't even have football app on my phone.
Three. People like me don't do "point and kill", we buy whatever we like and take it home to our family.
Four. I don't chase money, money comes in steadily whether I go out or remain in my house. We took care of that some years back. So, I can waste as much time arguing with you as I like. Laughing.

You're just contradicting yourself and going in circle... just hear yourself out... read your recent comment and tell me you're not just arguing blindly

No. I don't contradict myself and no blind arguments from my side.
My point to you is you're myopic, can't see beyond your nose.
Saudi is not advanced, they are using money to lure big European players and coaches. And we're telling you that if sustained over the years, they will be there. China or Russia failed doesn't mean Saudi will fail too.

Now stay the phuck off my mention ... I am not even supposed to give you the attention you seek.... you're another troublemaker...

You can choose not to respond instead of crying and wailing like someone whose bread was snatched.

can't you mind your own business abi saudi pay you to advertise for them ni

You want to mind your business? Don't post on social media. Download games on your phone and start playing it instead.

MEGAWATCH:
Hmmmmm

I don't know Why labour will not allow NIGERIANS to suffer for just another 4 years,

Let NIGERIA suffer in the hands of Tinubu so that after this suffering sense will find them by fire by force.

The most foolish people created by God in the world.

NLC is not even fighting Nigerians or masses. May be you should take a look at their demands once again. Thanks

Isokotolopia:
This government of Tinubu is a danger to humanity , they will use divide and conquer in almost every facet of Nigeria. If Tinubu cannot have it his way he will cause division he will polarise everyone and everything against each other

Tinubu will introduce factions to even Law enforcement and security agencies

Just look at yourself, SMH. Instead of you call out TUC leadership, you busy ranting about Tinubu.

DukeNija:
I will say it again, the Northerners are the least tolerant people in this country. Wike did way worse than Kwankwaso but PDP keeps accommodating him and to think that NNPP is Kwankwaso’s political project speaks to their zero tolerance for dissent.

And you think PDP is owned by southerners? Mumu.

gammarays:
Well I stated Saner climes. UK is not the only destination abroad.

This thread is about those who travelled to UK in the first quarter of this year.

We know people are leaving for a better and saner environment. Study Visa is just one of the routes.

And I'm telling you that study visa to UK and the opportunity to bring your dependants was reason the figure is that high. And the lack of that opportunity is reason it won't be this high first quarter of next year

AllenSpencer:
You are talking about morals and etiquette's. That's the "UNIVERSAL" way that sells everywhere!

Teaching a kid who is yet to know his right from wrong is indoctrination. I "PERSONNALLY" belief my kids will get to find their religions has they grow up. In a world where multiple religions oppose each other about not being the way, I am not even 100% certain that my religion is the way., so why should I initiate them into my beliefs .

Because you're the parent. Unless you believe that your way or belief is not the right path. There are some things that could backfire if parents try to be too liberal or too extreme raising their kids. There is a need to maintain balance.
If you are a Christian, Muslim or whatever, I don't have problem with you raising your kids the same way. What I'm against is extremism or refusing to let them go their separate paths as adults if and when they're willing to.

Lemos14:
He is a 4 year old lad. His brain has not developed. What do you expect please?

Yes, he's a kid. He has picked up a bad habit at Sunday school class. But doesn't mean you should see it as something that makes him unique and" destiny child", whatever that means.

Beverlyjean:
Russia China did not sign A-Class players ..... Saudi have signed balon dor winners and top 3 nominees of the balon ... the have signed top coaches ... Ronaldo, Benzema, Neymar , Mane, Mayrez , kante are A-class ...Salah , De gea , lewandowski, modric are next online .... it has never happened b4 ....

I don't know why some of them are fixated on China's or Russia's failure to project Saudi's league failure. Are the conditions the same? No. Saudi is signing top class players both old and young. Signing top coaches from Europe. And there is money to sustain the services of these players and coaches for a long time. Yet, they couldn't see Saudi league revolution! Well, it means it will have happened before they can see it.

1950Mack:
pele o... you wey de live in the future... na ontop football matter you de form woke... abegi park one side...

Don't tell me that that simple explanation hurt your feeling.

read other people's comments and see am not the only one in this school of thought...

Those are the people in your league who possibly can't see beyond their nose.

they're going to secure the bag period...

You still don't get it, no one disputed that. But the point is Saudi league will also benefit from it. Every player is after money, as much as they can get, be it UK, Spain, Saudi or wherever.

nothing special about saudi football ... if you don gerrit fogerrit

Yeah, we know. But with this, if sustained, give them few years and you will see how myopic you have been.

Emmexguy123:
I always wonder why Former governor of central bank is the only one suffering what Buhari and his workers did to the Nigerian economy.

It seems that some people are above the law in this country.

Emefiele too show himself knowing well he is from the southern Nigeria.
Nawaooooo

Southerner or no southerner, Emefiele is a wicked man. He deserves everything he is going to get

Lemos14:
Your son is a destiny child. If he can see wrong things at his tender age and correct them then he is not your regular Joe kind of child. He is unique

Destiny and unique by embarrassing strangers and his parents up and down, right?

AllenSpencer:
Instill basic etiquettes and morals into your kids, and let them find and perceive God by themselves!

Parents need to stop indoctrinating kids into their own beliefs. That's how many became Christians and Muslims today.

An extremist in the making....Already attacking people based on his own beliefs.

I think you are wrong about that. You have teach your kids your way and you don't have to be extreme about it, they can find different path when they become adults. If you are now talking about extremism, you're talking about something else entirely.
I'm sure that if you an atheist, you wouldn't want to take your kids to church or mosque.

Iyaebube:
It started last two Sunday at the children's department. They were taught covering of the body as a child of God and ever since that day, my son has not remain the same again on his way of reasoning. My husband n I was all joking about it but it's getting out of hand the way my son is going about it

What he does now is he doesn't allow us especially me to wear skimpy wear at home anymore.whenever I put it on he will be shouting mummy cover your "private part" even my last baby that's not up to 2 was playing with the sleeveless top she was wearing the chest was showing immediately my son started shouting baby cover your private part. The private part he use to shout instead of another word cover your body provoked me to flog him to stop using that word cos he's just 4.

The incident that happened yesterday made us speechless was my family n I went to have a nice time because since that last two Sunday my son haven't stepped out of the house. We decided to have fun yesterday only for my son to screaming mummy see this one she or he is showing there private part. It brought alot of attention to us that we quickly ended what we came out to do.

How do I handle this issue to clear it off his head cos I have spoken n spanked him to stop but this is what he refused to stop saying n is embarrassing. Of all they where thought in Sunday school, why did he chose this one to practically implement?

That's what religion's brainwashing does to people, young or adult.

He should remove himself first

GanagiBitrus:
First, Nigerians don't trust Govt again because of several betrayals in the past eg case of INEC & electronic transmission.

Second, the actual meter upgrade may not take more than 5mins, but NEPA will remove your meter, then put you on high estimated bill for several months before returning your meter.

Third, after the upgrade, no guarantee that meter will not start billing you higher.

It doesn't. As long as you don't increase your energy consumption in terms of loads and use time, you are good. I did mine like two weeks ago

optionalY09:
BBC just shut up, we don’t need you to instigate anyone to violence.

Where are people actually going

See mumu question!

Reelmii:
...everybody dey feel am ...i no dey hear I CAN FEED YOU AND UR GENERATION...again

Lol. Everyone, both rich and poor have been humbled. Whatever you were spending to feed your family before has now tripled. So, no more boasting

Wodu89:
The entire nation got changed. You can travel from Lagos to Kaduna or Abuja now without experiencing a single holdup. It has never ever been this way before now

Zionmdde:
Yeah raise the fuel price to 2k per litter so only celebrities and politicians will have their cars on the road. That will translate to no hold up and minimal pollution

Idiots

And the economy is nosediving on daily basis. Tinubu really hurt the economy.
I'm sure he's more confused now than ever before.

Mr Tinubu has assured that there are no further plans for petrol prices to rise - which ought to happen as the naira weakened further - all but signalling that the subsidy was back.

Nice one