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oloriooko:
OP some questions:
how long have they been married?
do they have kids?
has there been infidelity in the marriage before now?

the man has a very slim chance of winning this battle, he should have consulted wide before taking the step to confront the wife as a dependant in the UK

Usefulsense:
This is my story. Please advice.

I sent my wife to Australia in 2021 on student visa.

Wodu89:
The cage abroad are self induced and personality lifestyles. Please.

saasala:
Nigerians are too money conscious. Everything is money. They only want to travel for money.

Many young men who travelled abroad will send money home to build a house so that when they clock 50 they can come back home to their father's land to relax. Na that 50 gangan wey guys dey come back you won go.

Wish you the best of luck sha

DWJOBScom:
God bless you for thar advise
People are just in a hurry to be old abeg

Acidosis:
As long as your wife can/will feed you without complaints (just in case things do not turn out well for you), then you will be fine.

Your concerns are very valid. Not many 48 year old men would leave a N1.1m accounting job in Nigeria to go kill snakes in Australia as someone suggests here. I won't do it at gun point.

Wodu89:
You will receive satanic advice that will scatter what you've been building privately. Oga travel and explore, see the world. Refuse to the caged.

You can't earn lower than Nigeria in Aussie, not even it's equals. So why stalling ?

tunde1200:
It's a mistake and the damages is very bad.
Sorry to the family sorry for end time pastor

youngrichnigga:
The report get k-leg jare the police sef use armchair investigation and concluded

He also revealed that he joined a secret cult, known as Blood Suckers in 2013, which aided him to kill his father and two sisters through diabolical powers.

Curiouscity:
Same change I expected from my wife, but all the feminists a.k.a modern women accused me of being controlling? That I should love her the way she is?

Ok. Change is good when it's the man undergoing the change. If it is expected from the woman, then the man is toxic and controlling.
Una never ready for gender equality !

Romanoff:
What you people term "naggjng" is when a woman keeps complaining about something wrong you're doing. In order to silence her, una go sat she dey nag. It's because she cares about the man and the marriage being better. Marriage is progressive, it should change you. You can't remain as you are and expect your marriage or spouse to be happy.

TimT:
Lol... So after all the emotional talk, you still went ahead and bleeped the girl...
And worse, you liked the Bleep too much to say "it grips your manhood and drives you crazy"...

Oya enjoy dey go...

By the way, when you get married for companionship and love, then genotype won't be an issue..
But if you get married for kids, then look for what matches your type

Romanoff:
I have said this before and I'll say it again, no woman leaves a man who treats her well.

My own MIL, the highest she can stay for Omugwo is 3weeks, she even try for you sef for that three weeks. She will be running back to her husband.

You see a woman that "nags", it is because she still cares about you, when she goes silent, wetin dey her mind, na only she know. She will endure till the right time to bolt. The man will now be wondering where he went wrong not knowing that he went wrong a long time ago, na manifestation he just dey see.

Treat your wives well, don't be a Lion in the home, be relatable, treat your wives with love and respect, develop friendship and intimacy with your wife that will sustain you both till old age.

I know old women who don't stay for Omugwo cause them no fit leave their husband, such husbands are reaping where they sowed ni. If they were bad to their wives, you think the wives will be running back to them?

What kind of old woman wants to start life afresh, even looking for a job in UK at that old age when she should be enjoying retirement with her husband?

Make una dey ask these kind questions.

Kobojunkiee:
She even got a job too? Wow.... the woman must have been happy to get a break from what seems to have been a frustrated existence.

I applaud her.

jmoore:
This man is a pastor, his daughter got married and relocated to UK.

His wife went for omugo in the UK and have stayed up to 9 months. The daughter has told her mom to return home but she has refused. She got a cleaning job in the neighbourhood. The pastor is contemplating on taking a 2nd wife.

hisexcellency34:
Tinubu really disappointed me and many Nigerians who voted for him. This is not what we bargained for.

At this point, I'm going for Obi if there is rerun

taylor89:
Africa and power drunkenness

Wetin dey pain me be say this Ali Bongo is more healthier than Tinubu

Today a thread on Nairaland says naira is the most worthless currency in Africa within the last three months which is the exact three months this bedwetter stole power

All of a sudden I no come dey hear his tenure will favor me and my family

Same bastards that voted Tinubu were caught yesterday on stowaway trying to run from Yoruba land to Europe in a deadly vessel mission

We will show Igbo a lesson na wetin put us for this mess

Igbo wey you wan show lesson dey ball regardless of what’s going on in the country

Me nothing concern me because this economy dey even favor me at least I get my payments in bitcoin

If you like call me yahoo boy na you know

Tinubu will rule till 2089

victooman:
Hello Nairalanders,

l want to settle down latest next year, l live in Abuja, and the business l do is giving me a minimum of 6k daily.

Though on a good day l can make more than that, my major concern is that l feel it is too little considering the present inflation rate.

Please what is your advice, should l go ahead, or wait and expand my income, l dont want to marry as a man and start suffering abeg.

Anitatunde:
I travelled to Tanzania in 2018, in search of greener pastures, greener than The green in Nigerias flag. I was skilled and versatile in cosmetics and beauty products in general. So the plan was to establish a multi million dollar cosmetics firm, far away in a country called Tanzania.

I took multi layers of loans from different micro finance banks, friends and relatives. I was able to gather almost 30 million naira. I applied for a Tanzanian visa and it was out in days.

NwaAmaikpe:


Could it have been resolved that easily?

Conspiracy theorists who are still owing Mama Kebiratu for the indomie she sold to them on credit will sit in their kiosk-like bedrooms and use borrowed airtime to say what they do not know about what they should really know about.

Inspite of the frenzy, common sense should nurture you not to believe certain things.

I see people rejoicing and I wonder how this news will affect the life of Mama Simbiatu in Obajana whose orifice needs to be tended to.

Bikonu, tell your wife to tell her friend to tell his neighbor to warn his mother that went for August meeting that NwaAmaikpe; the orgasm and heartbreak donor is still alive.

Kobojunkiee:
Not when you are in a Nigerian marriage which is what the man is talking about. For instance, many Nigerian women in Nigerian marriages have had to stupidly condone adultery, abuse, etc. all so they can continue to wear that Mrs. title in their Nigerian marriages. Even this man boasting here may have had to subject his own wife to many of the same in all of those 34 years, things he would not openly speak of on video of course.

Entanglement:
marriage is not for the kids neyneyney
Isn't not the mature minded adults divorcing up and down?

Stop opening your mouth to say useless things

MySolace:
She should first b arrested for dumping a daughter of 3yrs.

Who is she even asking about her daughter, did she entrust her into anyone's care?

She's supposed to b taken straight to a psychiatric hospital cos her mental state needs to b ascertained.
And probably take along people da support her actions too, cos their brains need to b checked too...

MySolace:
U saying d wrong thing. She didn't mention monthly.

Look, u can deduce sth not said using sth said.
Inasmuch I wouldn't wanna crucify her, but I think she really made a big blunder!

From her story, I could deduce she's a single parent still leaving in her parents house, likely she got d daughter outside wedlock.
Dats already some kind of dishonour to d family. If her parents are against her leaving, certainly she never left the child in their care(dey would not accept to take care of d baby), she clearly abandoned her daughter and absconded to far Togo.

She claimed she was sending something home, to who exactly? She could afford sth to send home yet she couldn't afford calling home, how? Likely this gal never called her people throughout her stay in Togo, and I'm forced to believe she never sent anything to anybody too. To who exactly did she send those things? ...the father, mother, siblings, who exactly?

She abandoned her child and family. After flirting around, she's now forming a responsible mother...? I refuse to buy into dat!

If I should sound like FalseProphet;
I see d gal going along to act rashly, and I see her family disowning her entirely!

IamAsiri:
A baby that is barely turned 5 or going to turn to 5? What will that one know how to do?

Bennysam:
She's going insane now

but she abandoned the same child and left for almost three years

FreeStuffsNG:
Where was police when she left home and abandoned a daughter and family behind? How will police help them get her back if she suffers a relapse or bolt away from home again and they never see her again. Omo ku san ju omo so nu lo. Does it not concern you that a mother can travel so far away Togo and kept sending money for the upkeep of her daughter left to the parent? Is the daughter without a father or all the father's family are not alive? Dysfunction is written all over her case and the parents are more stable than her.
Police will only help expose what everyone in the family already knows about her mental health except she wants to quit the denial. Her parents didn't eat or kill the child, that I know she knows and it's clear the parents need help to get over their fears of losing her again