₦airaland Forum

FreeStuffsNG:
The truth is not hidden They are scared stiff of how she will take the news. She may go again and never come back . That will wreck her already devastated father. Her father is already grieving and don't want to lose his daughter again. Counselling can help all of them especially OP.
She should calm down and let them see she has improved in her mental health

You are saying that they're hiding her daughter from her because they don't want her go back again? Or, you're saying that they're punishing her? What is wrong with her mental health because I didn't read her saying anything about that? Or, you just assumed that just because she came back from outside the country, something is wrong with her mental health?
You can't hide someone's daughter from her and still claim that you are protecting the person. Jail time is staring them in the face.

iammolise:
I'm not making a case for people who cheat, it's wrong at all fronts, but I'll never ask my girlfriend or wife for the password to their accounts, the kind of person I am I'll know if she's cheating even without seeing any evidence, it's better know the signs than to go about policing her looking for what will break your heart and probably make you burned or violent (if you're the type), and in the same way also I wouldn't want my spouse to do unto me as I have not done unto her

Laughing. Gf, may be not. But wife, when you marry, you will know that it is different.
It doesn't have to look or feel like policing but you will need access to your wife's phone once in a while. There will be the need. Imagine living with your wife for 5, 10, 15, 20 or more years and not knowing her phone's passwords and not knowing yours! It doesn't sound normal or idealistic at all.

Note: about the accounts, people rarely logged out of their social media accounts. One may not even need those ones.

Brainlight:
GOD WHEN E GO REACH NIGERIA TURN

Obidient.

ThiefnubuBandit:
On the mandate of the Gabonese military government we stand gidigba!!! No shaking. Who misbehave go collect.

Dem-Are-Crazy in Africa is scam.

And autocracy is the one that will be fair? Lol

crossfm:
Hehehe.

Good one.

Watch as AU and ECOWAS rush to condemn the action. They sit down and watch corruption, nepotism and election rigging take over Africa and they do nothing,but once the people react they start to talk .

The west also watch as Africa leaders plunder the resources of Africa and they do nothing, but will be quick to react once the people want to take their destiny in their hands.

Mr Biden,the gay right activist is only concern about Africa only when is has to do with deviant's,I mean the LGBTQ people.
He comes up with his usual,I will stop aid's and bla bla bla once his project LGBTQ is threaten in Africa. But you will never see him talk about election rigging and corruption in Africa.

Africa will continue to experience such actions until they start doing the right thing.

When does military/coupists begin to be the face of people? Lol

Chido26:
Gradually

Obidient.

StrongAlphMale:
The earlier Africa is recolonize, the better for us all.

I swear. No respect for institutions at all

iammolise:
It repulses me when I see people walking around with this romanticized notion of what love is, most women and men believe untill they have full access to your everything then they're convinced you love them, that's jealousy not love, love is not difficult, love should not make you feel like you're being monitored. That you're couples doesn't mean you're still not independent individuals and should have your personal reserves, every person on earth is entitled to their own privacy, even prisoners have privacy at times, then why should the free feel captive.

What are you hiding?

Bennysam:
You're indeed a useless child , what do you mean hurt your dad? Is he the only one in that house? Why can't you calm down and take things easy , A responsible woman won't left such child in the care of another person and go as far as Togo

She should take things easy when she's literally going insane for not being able to know whereabouts of her daughter? Some people are plain stup!d!!

Chibuzoripob:
maybe ur daughter is working for somebody as a housemaid elsewhere. While ur parents collect her pay every month. Calm down,be friend/entertain one of ur sibling/mama to unravel the mystery

You could be right

decatalyst:
Hmmm...seems you are irresponsible and simply want to free yourself of the little girl at age 3...you travelled and abandoned her.


However, they owe you accountability. They need to show you the child you abandoned, dead or alive. They owe you that.

I would suggest you calm down, meet the most respected man/woman in your extended family, to come into the situation.

If this doesn't work out as expected, you can get them arrested.

That's far from being irresponsible dear friend. Kids stay or live with their grandparents all the time whether their parents travel abroad or living in the same country with the grandparents. Besides, she was sending money home to them.

Note: I hope you have concrete evidence that you 'abandoned' your child with them. Otherwise, they can turn the table and have you rot in jail for false accusations.

Like the receipt they issued her at the time? Lol. You think it is easy "to turn the table" most especially when it is centred around a missing kid?

PastorFire4Fire:
You have no sense. You totally misquoted my point made.

Looks like you need that sense more than I do.

obembet:
There is nothing wrong in men share Thier social media privacy with there wives... It even help for more security....


But I think it's only jobless men have time to be looking at Thier wives social media.

I couldn't hear you, come again! Lol

Medianna:
Even if I’m given the access. What exactly am I checking?
Doing other things is harmless but once you begin to police someone else’s phone anything that looks like what you’re looking for, will be mistaken for what you’re looking for.

Can you allow your husband to have access to your phone/social media? It is not about policing at all. Once a while, I do use my wife's phone for transactions. And I wrote down all my own PINS, codes, usernames and various passwords on a piece of paper for her because she's not interested just like you said in your post

SenatePresdo:
This couple of a thing is way too overrated.

Couples shouldn't even be sharing the same bedroom.

Na this kind see finish dey bring insult.

According to you, it causes see finish. Lol

englishmart:
Only hopeless simps condone their partners keeping their phones from them. I will divorce my wife the very minute she refuses me access to her phone.

If she can't allow me access to her phone, the meaning is simple, she's keeping secrets

ValarDoharis:
He should enjoy his temporary power. His boss Tinubu has less than 2.3 months to be booted out

You wish

miekoe:
To build is a problem , to destroy is not. Why not take ownership instead of destroying something that was built with millions of hard earned cash .

They didn't say the plot belongs to the FG, taking over it is another crime. You don't get it

tydi:
Aboki and initial gra gra
Na them fvck ashawo pass

At least, they have dignity of not using their teenage girls to run baby factories and ashawo joints.

And ruined the economy in the process. . Go out and see what economic activities have been reduced to in every part of country. It's pathetic and shameful. Sometimes, it looks like people have been evacuated to Mars or the moon.

DevilishMan:
He is Yaribanza so I'm not surprised.
Poverty is their motto.

That's why your tribesmen litre every nook and crany of Yoruba land

gaby:
When the one who is supposed to be the "prisoner" becomes the warder due to reasons other than his/her qualification/competence, this is what you get.

The story of Nigeria from bottom up.

It would be nice to have him repeat what he said in the video in English whether NEPA no go take light.

You didn't make sense, you might want to go over the nonsense you posted again.

DevilishMan:
They should settle their dispute like men.

12 noon tomorrow in front of Oba of Benin palace. Ten steps away from each other. Turn. Shoot.

Wicked somebory

I'm loving every moment of this man's humiliation and frustration

Abaman001:
They should end that nonsense immediately

Modify, Tinubu should as a matter of urgency end that scam called N.Power, right from the the inception of it, it never added any value to the economy....it's a complete waste of tax payers money

What now adds to the value of economy? Tinubu keeping it? Or, Tinubu allocating that same money to road projects which eventually ends up in the pockets of contractors and administrators?
That monthly 30k really boost the economy unless you don't know how payments of salaries and stipends boost the economy.

SocialJustice:
There's no need limiting anything. Poverty will teach any unwise family a bitter lesson. This is not even a time to get married, talk of having children.

Those who can afford it, please carry on but those that are assuming starting a family will bring financial breakthrough, safe journey too.

You don't get it. Untrained children become burden to the society. Most will turn out to be criminals who will be disturbing your peace. That's the big picture

meum:
Some people no go gree😂

I gave this a thought the other day. Here’s my thought on that day: Two per family. The question I asked myself was, will that work? You know the answer already 😁 It’s a NO.

Even Nigeria won’t think of such. She enjoys “the most popular black nation” status and would like to remain that way.

Most Nigerians wouldn’t want to hear of it. To them their RELIGIONS doesn’t restrict them so how dare you!

Point of correction: Their Religions

TriCee:
Nawaoo. Why would Obi sponsor Rufai's father's burial? Man is capable of doing that himself in any scale.

I no get money but I was able to Bury my own papa. This one get.
Obi shouldn't reply to these things, but I understand he's trying to protect Oseni's pride and image.

Oseni didn't want that kind of burial.

adecz:
So, he can remain a Christian to get
a Hausa Muslim wife❓

Why must she be Muslim? She could be a northerner/Hausa and not a Muslim now.

Oshin56:
corruption is our problem not subsidy. Where as some people will keep on shouting that subsidy most go. What will now be the benefit of the citizen?

Let's ask them. May be some of them will mention good roads, safe drinking water, good hospitals with affordable health insurance for all, mortgages, grants, scholarships, etc. But I doubt it if they themselves will believe it

donmik:
Help me tell shameless glutons.

A man who is not concerned about the death of his son but a prostitute woman and political sycophantry is whom some persons here are hailing.

Sorry for the woman that gave birth to theor likes

Why are you crying more than bereaved? Someone who is better than you in all ramifications

adecz:
They can give him a fine Hausa wife👰
to add to his harem if he agrees to convert
to Islam

We have many of your tribesmen and Christians who married 2 to 3 wives the same day. He doesn't have to convert away from Christianity before he can have 8 wives