₦airaland Forum

descarado:
So?

Pwayne2016:
That's good

EwuuGambia:
So what should we do?

This is double standard that I hate about an average Nigerian. Never stand with justice but always side with who and what

Whaaaaaat?

Foodqueen:
They should have bring the signing to her in the hospital.

But she never left hospital now. It was only agreed upon

Sharpsharp00123:
if this story is real then if na me b your husband u will pay dearly for this

The worst you would do was to divorce or separate from her. And you would simply pick race to downward journey without her in your life. He has practically become useless to himself and his family, what then is still special or important about him?

Sharpsharp00123:
Oga calm down jare

Modified……have u ask yourself what brought about d man asking questions regarding d paternity of d children? Or we should forget that part?
Or are u saying the man just woke up one day n started all those things?

Are you married? If you are not, you can't possibly understand that he might not have had any reason to say that. His goal might just be to hurt the woman and put her in defensive position, simple as that. You can't understand

Sharpsharp00123:
so he has locked the man up now, what if the man gets back on his feet tomorrow?

U are d kid here cos u don’t care to know how they have been living before the job loss

For a woman to take care of a man for good two years means the man has done a lot in d past n even u know that

The op skipped many parts in d write up n a wise man should b able to decipher that

She cooked n left nothing for the man, that was y the man got angry in d kitchen

The man destroying d phone should tell u there must b some issues of infidelity lurking around it

The man raising doubt about d paternity of the children should make u understand he’s definitely coming from somewhere, he can’t just wake up n say that at least op didn’t tell us the man has any case of mental illness

The man destroying certain things should send a message to u that the wife might have gotten those things while he was out of job n he was mocking d man with it

He's simply frustrated and feeling insecure. Men like him do misdirect their anger and frustration to their wives. He would say many things in anger which he would still apologise for later.

Let me tell u a brief story of what happened to my little cousin, the guy na yahoo boy n the girl is from a very poor background

He gives d girl 3k per blessed day n I remember when they did final year award the girl was given the most expensive in d department, she used iPhone 12, when the girls dad or any family is celebrating birthday na 50k soft d guy dey send

The guy later went broke, sold his car, sold his phone n all those shit n he requested just 1 thing from the girl

He told the girl to give him her phone for just 1 month so he can update his clients n at least get some change for survival

The girl turned the guy down n the guy who is now broke now observed that the girl has been calling other men with the phone he bought for her

The guy smashed the phone n seized everything he bought for her n sent her out

Today the guy is seen as d devil but the devil paid all bills for her hnd n even bought d most expensive things for her but just been broke for few months exposed everything

Imagine a girl from a very very very poor background upgraded to d level that she can’t drink pure water again she only takes table water but can’t sacrifice her phone for just few months make d guy use an update

Oga just pray u don’t have issues

Women go chop your eye, the op is presenting d man as useless but will never tell us his good deeds

The guy would sell the phone, simple as ABC. He sold his own phone to survive even when he knew that he was still going to need it, why wouldn't he sell that of his gf?

Gratefullheart:
this daughter of Eve... see what u have reduce ur husband to; his financial misfortunes will not be far from your doings

Or what he has reduced himself and his family to. Losing his job shouldn't make him become irresponsible and useless. He's basically taking his frustration on this woman. The day this woman finally has enough of his bullshitt and pack her belongings is the day his common sense will return.
Is he the first husband or last to lose his job?

Equity15:
hmmmm..then that's bad. They should have gone via student route. That amount would go a long way for them. My fiance was preaching the care worker visa to me. I researched it and saw that it's not something i can do. Told her if she can do it, we can go there. I'll go as her dependant. I have a remote job that can atleast cover us( even if not fully) if she doesn't get shifts. Nigeria is getting too uncomfortable to live in. I just hope the Uk favors us.

Lastly, will the COS be revoked if you don't get shifts for a long time?

Any advise for me?

Much more costly. Besides, you will need a dependant that can work full time if you want to live like human being, living decently. Even that opportunity has also been blocked

bigwig071:
If you believe this tunubu's people's propaganda you're on you own.... what of people that made it there? I never hear or see one wey travel and stay upto two weeks without getting like one or two good paying jobs.... they want nua stop to dey reason japa that's all.

Who or what's stopping you?

FashionCookie:
Then what do you have to say about those who have "invested" 10 million naira and above in Nigeria and everything washed down the drain?
How many businesses are really working out here?

Business is a risk taken, not only in Nigeria but everywhere.
They raised that money through whatever they have been doing successfully before, so I don't think we should still be talking about "washing down the drain" again.

FashionCookie:
Even if... People are desperate and so mistakes are only natural in cases like these. Everybody must not remain in Nigeria. I've noticed that when it comes to japa topics, the "bad belle" people plenty pass people with good intentions.

The same mentality that has put many Nigerians in untold hardships. Imagine you raising 10 million naira and above in this same Nigeria, only to get to UK or USA or Canada and become a beggar!

grandstar:
So what if Nigeria is an oil rich nation, does that mean it must subsidize refined oil products? Cameroon next door does not. Brazil does not. But most importantly, the money to subsidize it, 2.2% of GDP is simply no longer available. At least half of the country's national debt was incurred because of this fuel subsidy. It's ridiculous

Are you saying Tinubu and co are enjoying subsidy? I doubt they enjoy subsidy. What they enjoy may be more than a subsidy which is free petrol for transport. Even the American president does not pay for his movement. They are all perks of office.

Yes, it's unfair they are paying themselves money for recess. The matter arising is "how much is involved?"

Let me be super generous and say 10bn the senators award themselves but that is peanuts to the $10b (7.5tr) that the fuel subsidy will consume. It's the difference between being hit by a toddler on a skateboard and a high-speed train. There's no contest.

One function of the government is certainly not to load more debt on the heads of its citizens and see life depreciate in other ways.

Or do you want to return to Buharis days? He gave you fuel subsidy but the nation's debt quadrupled under his watch. The Naira lost three quarters of its value. The economy has been stuck in a comatose state for 8years now!

There are better ways to help the citizenry without destroying the economy or the government purse.

Firstly, it is unfair. Then, you asked how much is involved. That's one funny way to defend the indefensible. Lol

Wealthoptulent:
Yo a compound Fool with with LEARNING DISABILITIES, so because TINUBU announced made him the Culprit?

I don't blame you, you are such an ignorant being. You couldn't possibly know that Buhari's policy, orders, commands, decisions, power and authority ended May 29th, 2023. He's just a perfect scapegoat to the wicked Tinubu. But to you the ignorant zombie, it was Buhari's fault.

And if e didn't announce marketers won't find out on getting to market following week which was June?

June ending! You are not informed at all. SMH!

Ode ni ę,

Ode ni baba e!

na una make the obidient movement be like packs of loss wisdom.
Oga o

May be you should go and dig my past comments on Nairaland before May 29th, 2023 to know where I belonged before this frog eyes turned out to be a disaster.

like say na stone, aridin okunrin, o din din bale ile kan ni yi o. Ode omo

Baba nla ku baba e lo nba wi

wirinet:
It's either got to do with selfish self interest or primordial sentiments such as tribalism, religious affiliation or political correctness.

Or, may be ignorance

Evolutionlove:
Extreme Evil Beings are always Anxious to carry out their Plans and Activities.

I have never seen anywhere in the world where someone would be announcing a thing of Pains and Sorrows on his/her supposed celebration day .

Even when I heard about his announcement of the subsidy removal, I still didn't believe that he would see it through because I knew that if it was real, it was going to be a real disaster!
Fuel scarcity is looming unless marketers are told to continue selling at prevailing market prices or subsidy is brought back. You can't remove subsidy and be telling marketers to be supplying at a loss

owunabastard:
This is what I have been saying in this forum, many Nigerians just follow the bandwagon because many people are supporting the removal without knowing the implications..... they also support. This is only thing the masses are getting from Nigeria government. Fight the corruption enmeshed in petroleum industry and not removing subsidy

FG sold subsidy removal to us as solution and many people agreed. That wasn't solution but running away from the problem

tamdun:
Yes,other countries are paying for subsidy, what other countries are not doing is pay their neighbors subsidy

Then, it is failure on the part of FG if they can't secure our borders and stop the smuggling of subsidised petrol. They shouldn't punish the masses for their own failure.

Wealthoptulent:
Hmm.
This Ipman are our problems! Self centered ppl
Now they wana frustrate the Government and the masses! Who ever is found hoarding fuel should be sanctioned and product confiscated!
They need to cooperate with FG to make things easy this hard times, not pursuing GAINS!


I would have given ur write up second thought, but at the bolded made me not.
Get the Fact bro! TINUBU DIDN'T REMOVE SUBSIDY, PMB did.. they didn't pass the Budget at all, hopefully who ever won ELECTION would have inherited it!
Let leave Blame games!

You be confirmed mumu. You never heard of supplementary budget? You talk of governance as if it is rocket science.
PMB paid petrol subsidy for his 8 year tenure, he didn't announce petrol subsidy removal.
Petrol subsidy provided for by Buhari was to end in June but this useless Tinubu couldn't even wait till June ending before he announced something that was not even in his presidential acceptance message. As a result of that, he threw Nigerians and our economy into panic and free fall. Marketers made huge and undeserved profits for a whole month!

foleskay:

Nobody can tell me government is not paying subsidy. They re still paying,if not the price would have gone up to like 800, because of their so called ''market forces''. Awon werey.

I wonder what's d big deal in paying subsidy for fuel asif other countries don't pay one subsidy or d other for their citizens.

US govt pay subsidy on fuel,food and energy. Wat subsidy are we ejoying as Nigerians . Not even food subsidy, we pay to fix everything. We pay for our our security,owo odẹ,pay to construct our own bore hole,pay to fix transformers,pay to fix electric pole,pay high price for food. So wat benefit do I enjoy from govt as a Nigerian. Ijoba ma sofo ni

That's why I didn't get it when I saw some people here giving their full support to petrol subsidy removal. I'm sure it is becoming clearer to some of them that this policy is nothing but economic suicide mission.

ideatoprince18:
May Petrol Stations Ration Fuel As Marketers Shun Importation favor me and my family

Boring. Senseless

It is expected. You removed petrol subsidy and said that you wanted forces of demand and supply to dictate the price, that you're no longer want to have anything to do with petrol prices. Now that naira is falling freely and uncontrollably everyday, you're now dictating to importers and marketers of petrol not to increase the price! Do you want them to be doing business at a loss?
It is very simple. It is either you pay subsidy or allow the market forces to be at play, you definitely can't have it both ways. Impossible!

grandstar:
There was no other option but to end the subsidy.

Last year, debt servicing was higher than government revenues. This year, it was estimated that debt servicing would consume 96% of government revenue. Where then is the $10b for petrol subsidy will come from? The massive increase in the debt burden over the years was government borrowing money to provide the subsidy.

Lol. Do you even realise that Nigeria is an oil producing nation, not buying oil?
Do you realise that the same person and his cabinet who removed subsidy are on full time subsidy, everything?
Do you realise that despite 96% debt servicing crap and bullshit, your lawmakers are still paying themselves for going on recess?
What exactly is the function and usefulness of Nigeria government to her people?

Angelfrost:
With where the Naira is headed, along with flying fuel price, there will be more layoffs before the year ends...!


I'm still asking for the umpteenth time...

Is the nation's security fully ready for what is coming??!

We can't all expect hungry and frustrated youths without hope to just roll over and die... Wahala dey come o.

That's exactly my fear too. Violent protests, chaos, unrest is looming if the price of petrol is allowed to continue to soar citing market forces as the determinant

SalamRushdie:
Can you see the state of the economy ..when y'all were encouraging Tinubu to remove fuel Subsidy without any plan and float the Naira without any plan , didn't you know it will have consequences? Some people that have been sacked will never again recover if care is not taken ... Tinubu lied to you that only Big men drive big Lexus SUVs enjoy fuel Subsidy and y'all beleived him .....if Tinubu was serious about saving money for government the first thing he should have done is to cut this stupendous cost of Governance but he didnt do that but instead went after cheap Petro that powers the masses

We might be heading towards recession. They removed kerosine and diesel subsidies and got away with it but effect of petrol subsidy removal is proving to be a hard nut to crack.
Tinubu wanted to save money and he's having 48 ministers and still maintaining about 10 presidential airplane fleets.
The worst part of it is that some dullards still insist that fuel subsidy removal was long overdue. Everybody go collect sapa last last

FashionCookie:
Trust Nigerians to rejoice at other people's misfortunes...see comments. SMH...

Always bitter towards others. On Sundays they'll occupy the front seats in church. Wicked souls...

This is not rejoice, people have been advised against this japa syndrome without knowing what they're getting themselves into

PastorFire4Fire:
Nobody is asking her to leave her marriage but the question is, was the man like this from the onset? He lost his job and he is depressed. Why not help him talk to people about getting another job and let him see your effort on that.

So, if you lose your job, it now becomes your wife's responsibility to go out and help you secure another job that in addition to her working, cooking, taking care of the kids and the house?
Did you read the part where she said she returned from work, went to school to bring the kids home and slept off due to the day's stress?

jayAjoku:
Stupid people like the OP are one of the reasons marriages break up , You will see a Married Woman Cozying up to you and you will stay there Acting like you are a 10 year old child trying to play it off as office friendship when you know damn well men and women cannot be friends without some form of sexual interest on either side . Op you know what is going on you’re just forming naive I hope her husband catches you and shoots you nonsense. Once a woman is married leave her the heck alone don’t even compliment her

This your anger and name calling should have been directed at the married woman making advances on him, not the other way round. But I get it, you're the type who blames men for any issue between a man and a woman.

N3TRAL:
You wouldn't notice what she called you if you haven't been nursing wild sexual fantasies in your mind. As an appealing young man, I get called "Sweetheart", "darling", "my love", and "my husband", etc by mature women. I'd exhaust Nairaland's cloud storage if I opened threads for all of them.

I advise you with the utmost sincerity to suppress that intent you have to knack somebody's wife 😂. It never ends well.

So, you don't notice what somoone calls most especially when it is not appropriate? You must be most dense person alive in the universe.

HardBishop:
You know how brutal we are. Take your time

Yeah, I saw how you brutally put down Dora Akuyili's down on the street of south east like a rabid dog, his brain was partly blown out. He gasped for breath for like how many hours again before he finally died?

Alpharey:
That's the Koko.. You, You and You. Direct your anger and threat to the perpetrators, not to Igbo people in general. If you do anyhow, you see anyhow.

See yourself now! You didn't call on your criminal brothers living in your backyard to release the innocent man and not to put your innocent brothers in trouble. But instead, you want the tribe, family and friends of the victim to focus on the perpetrators hundreds of miles away. . You need sense.

PastorFire4Fire:
And that is exactly the start of a journey to a broken home.

A broken marriage is better than living with a lazy, frustrated, violent, destructive man and abuser. It might be hard on the woman in the beginning but she will still have her life. Do you see where this man stops if he wasn't given this soft brain resetting treatment?

Since 2015? Laughing