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Jolllyjoy:
and that is because they know the exact word to a woman's heart

Ofcourse,a serial killer like Ted Bundy"knows the exact words to a woman's heart"

PunkyVeer:
That one was crazy even I was scared of him. He was the type who didn't care who was there, if he wanted to beat her, he did it. He once beat her sister for trying to intervene during one of their many fights. They even got kicked out of two separate flats because of fighting. They had a sick kind of love. He beat her & she didn't press charges. That was their thing.

I tried her on FB several times but never got any reply back.

I am not surprised.Women are very much attracted to violent,aggressive men.Serial killers and felons in prison for violent crimes receive tons of letters from women around the world declaring their undying love for them and hoping to marry them.Gay serial killers also receive the exact same attention from women.Pretty women i should add

MULHOLLAND DRIVE_This movie was intentionally made inorder to confuse its viewers and develop a cult following (which it now has)

fabiano09:
Although i dont like movies with nudity and sex scenes buh THE AFFAIR is an exception. I like the way the story is told,from both sides perceptions,as is true with all human relations,we experience and remember things differently. If you love psychology and romance,this is for you.

I love this show.I love it so much,I made the opening theme song called "container" by fiona apple my ringtone."Sensual storytelling" that's what this program is.The exact thing that happened to Noah once occurred with a close relative of mine

pansophist:
Nigeria is a sexually heated society but sexually pent-up. Our materialistic girls are part of the cause. since them don restrict their kpomo to the broke mass niggas while the few yahoo criminals enjoy them in its varieties. Lol

You just perfectly explained this whole issue with two sentences.You are a genius sir.The nigerian situation is also slightly related to the situation in countries like india and egypt which also have large populations with conservative-religious beliefs and a large number of sexually frustrated young men and sometimes women too

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castel428:
man I knw hw frustrating dat could be cz av bn there once.but my perseverance later paid off sha,I kept being friends with her even came in wen she had issues with her bf.she is dz kind one in a kind faithful lover who bluntly told me DAT she can't double date,she meant it and I respected her for that but unfortunately/fortunately I don't give up easily wen I see a treasure cz dats wat she is.to cut d story shot;I cashed in wen her distant relationship had a crack cz of lack of attention from d guy,I took d opportunity being closer to her but deliberately avoided raising d issue abt her dating me.nevertheless am a social guy,I hang out with scores of babes casually but none of has ever won my heart as dis babe.wen i was almost given up she showed up to my room a week after our degree exams,hugged me for the 1st time with tears in her eyes and said those words that has entirely changed my world:"it's u I want".
cldnt believe it.so guy with women;never say never.
gudluck

My brother,this was no case of love or whatever its called nowadays.You were just her "backpocket man".She decided to settle for you when her relationship with the man she really desired crumbled.If it was you she really wanted she would have left the other man for you immediately you told her you had feelings for her.Women usually have "backpocket men" incase when things don't work out with their main man,they can easily replace them

PunkyVeer:
Hmmmm...

My apologises for the ignorant,shameful and hateful posts by my compatriots directed at south african ladies and south africans in general on this thread.As you can see,we hate hearing the truth in this country

bushdoc9919:
Thank God I am at home reading those lists of yours, otherwise people will start looking strangely at me....

My brother,these are just minuscle examples.What I have seen with my own two eyes are far worse and UNBELIEVEABLE.Whenever I tell my colleagues my experiences,they think I'm exaggerating.We can blame the education system however we want but what about the youths who don't want to improve themselves and thereby create their better versions?Many only want to "ball".For how long my brother?For how long?I'm tired

kilokeys:
She try.. I have seen worsterer ones

My brother,Ngr is in trouble.Moronic fucktards_(apologises to sagamite)everywhere.See for yourself____

weezii:
Funny how majority feels it's always about the dough. What you have to offer asides cash matters too.

Being calculated matters a lot.

my brother the words in this your post can only work if you are in a foreign wealthy western nation not in country like ngr with a very poor,desperate,hungry populace.no romance without finance in this jungle.Believe that

Elliot Roger? He was the privileged son of an American movie director who went on a killing spree that eventually led to the death of 7 people including himself, why? Cuz girls turned him down. He HAD MONEY[/quote]Don't ever compare the standard of living in the US to that of ngr.Elliot roger lacked a jovial personality.Ladies over there find a quality like that attractive in guys.If he had been patient enough,researched and travelled to a country like ngr with a very large poor population he would have "slayed" a lot of ngr women the way many foreign guys here do.He would have been treated like a king.His impatience killed him

INTROVERT:
I'm not happy with Jim Iyke as the left all the single beautiful Nigerian ladies and went to give oyibo gehl belle. because he wants half caste











The rest of you can give him accolades.

Your allegations are unfair.I don't think this jim iyke relationship has anything to do with race.From his hastags,the lady seems to possess qualities he finds appealing.She only happens to be white.Jim has been wealthy and famous for many years,travelled around the world,seen and courted many women including famous ones too.Am just happy to see him calm and relaxed especially after all that TB joshua hullabaloo a few yrs ago

20pounds:
I bet he just woke up from his mid-day snooze when he did that. He was reacting to a dream and not a speech at the UN.

The man is a clown.Zimbabwe economy is in shreds.He is busy talking about gays.His speech wasn't even mentioned in the mainstream news outlets.It shows how irrelevant he has become in the scheme of world politics.Its a sad end to a once charismatic,visionary and inspirational leader."You either die a hero or you live long enough to see yourself become the villain"-Harvey Dent from "the dark knight".Its too bad Mugabe ended up becoming the latter

morethanadoll:
It was merely sarcasm for the person who posted the comment. Many Americans do not think the world revolves around them, so don't believe the rumors. Yes, he fame started in Nigeria, but do you expect it to stay there for only the ears of Nigerians? I'm sure he wants his music to reach the world, and not only be limited to one country. Other artists from other countries have become known in America, so why can't he? The whole point of my post was to shed light on the fact that this guy is talented and is finally getting the recognition internationally that he deserves.

Many of the foreign music artistes who became famous in america sang in english (excluding ricky martin,enrique iglesias and marc anthony. Not surprising because america has a very large and still growing hispanic population)Wizkid doesn't really sing in english and mainstream america isn't really open minded to what is considered foreign OR wizkid music is good but since he hasn't been signed by universal,sony or warner music,his music can't be heard in the US.Demand equals supply.No demand for wizkid music in the US, no supply of wizkid music in the US

aariwa:
Hospitality? LOL.Nigerians will only show you hospitality when you come back with.They care less that you are the best surgeon or engineer. The hospitality will last for a few days before they abandon you if you are not ready to shell out the dough

My brother,I really don't like any foreigner in ngr in whatever form or shade they come in.They are all here to exploit,ridicule and leech off us.Left to me,I would throw all of them out of ngr the way idi amin threw the indians out of uganda in the 1970s

morethanadoll:
Why are you into your feelings? I'm here because: 1) I can be. Whose going to stop me? 2) I am black and can relate by simply being black. 3)There are so many amazing people here, to exclude you. 4) I plan to research and ask questions to the natives instead of listening to lies and rumors, something that you should do. Last time that I looked into the mirror, my skin is as dark as yours, sir. Your ignorance is what makes you an exact reflection of your brothers and sisters in diaspora. It is this ignorance that, sometimes, keep black Americans from visiting the country because we fear prejudices as this. You are no different from the whites in Amerca with your thinking. But then again, I wouldn't know what color your skin is because there isn't a legit profile picture. You could be oyinbo. It isn't jargon. It is proper English. I wish that I was getting paid by WizKid for this, instead of the free publicity, but that isn't my goal. I have an amazing career already and am comfortable. If I was his online PR, trust me, he would be VERY big and do VERY well in America.You should hold your head high and be PROUD that a sister is recognizing great talent from a part of the world that is too many times forgotten about. By the way, I am immersed in living in poverty, Yoruba, pig english, your terms for calling black in America 'white', eating pepper soup, GEB, etc, so I'm not dumb or blinded. Have a good day, or shall I say night, since that is what it is on your side of the world?

Unlike what many americans believe,the world does not revolve around americans and america.Wizkid got his fame and made his money via shows and endorsements in ngr.From ngr he conquered the rest of africa,parts of asia(inclusive of the mid east) and europe.Wizkid does not have to be recognized in america to make a very good living for himself.He is doing just fine in ngr.You should instead,expend your energy on helping your fellow blacks in the US with all the numerous issues afflicting them rather than concentrating on ngr and nigerians

coolsix:
What are you saying?

I merely used my post to correct "vinchus" notion that being an alpha man is a negative quality rather than a positive and desired trait(by women including feminists) in men.That was why I also included the photo of a high profile actress and self proclaimed feminist emma watson with her rugby playing alpha bf matt janney.I simply exposed "vinchus" hypocrisy

Vinshu:
Of course I admire guys who are well-built but that is not my point. My point is respect and equality to females.

if you admire guys who are physically well built,(thereby alpha by their very nature)why were you trying to shame african men for their "alphaness" in your earlier post?

As for respect and equality,I see nothing wrong with that as long as women are ready to go through the difficult trajectories to the top men always experience without a helping hand(no quota,no positive discrimination,no affirmative action)Nothing

The pic below is that of the feminist actress emma watson and her rugby player boy-toy on the beach

BeastOfNoNation:
Is being feminist a bad thing?

There is nothing generally wrong with seeking for equal opportunities for the female folk.My grouse with these so called feminists is the way they don't want to pay thesame sacrifices men paid to attain the top positions.They seem to want everything to be handed to them on a silver plate and the way they demonize men inorder to justify their point of view completely disgusts me.You want something?Strive hard to get your desires instead of trying to guilt men into giving you handouts

Vinshu:
First of all.. this is what we, the feminists are fighting against. In the Nigerian environment there is discrimination against women. African men in general have the Alpha-like feeling that they are the boss of the boss.

Women across all cultures generally prefare masculine men to feminized ones.Take the rugby world cup for example,have you seen how physically "built" the players are?Tell me you don't like what you see

PunkyVeer:
Hmmm, I respect that. Your reality. I don't know what else to say

I understand.Nigerians are bred in a very cruel environment which is completely different from other world countries.Everything is all about survival here(jobs,relationships,getting an education etc).Its all about "stomach infrastructure"

PunkyVeer:
Awww, now that's a heartbreaking thing to say. I hope you know that there are women out there that are appreciative, etc. The OP comes across like a very good guy to me & this is coming from a woman.

Madam,being a "good" man will get you nowhere with the Nigerian version of women.He should either save the money,invest the money or donate the money to an orphanage(there are hundreds of thousands here)but giving 20%-30% of his earnings to a lady who am sure has another "mugu" some place else is plain silliness.Can she do thesame for him?I very much doubt it."Love" is a decision not an emotion.I don't mean to sound so harsh but this is just my reality

PunkyVeer:
Please spare him, he's in love In a way I agree because she has two salaries & should be able to make do with that, without leaning so much on him financially & for everything at that. She should take financial responsibility for some of her Bleep-ups.

No he isn't.He is just extremely stupid_.Nigerian men have got to stop believing they exist inorder to please women who don't even appreciate their sacrifices anyway

EnlightenedSoul:
Too relevant. And to men, blindingly so!



On a career-networking site, for pete's sake! Honestly, what is wrong with you people?

You are being very biased on this thread.Are you saying women don't stare and gawk at men they consider attractive?I for example never knew who Ryan Gosling,C.Ronaldo,Neymar and Mikel Obi were till I heard women speaking endlessly about their supposed good looks.They've also been incidences of singers jennifer lopez and Madonna posting photos on their instagram handles of male models they consider "eye candy" and
I never heard anyone call them "sexist"

Sagamite:
What do you understand by the terms "pervert" and "freak"?

When it comes to sex_ual issues,the average woman is waaaaaaaay more "perverted" and "freaky" than the average men[b] but only with the men they consider attractive[/b]

Sagamite:
The reality there is that if she was late 30s and single looking to marry and he was a 6ft4 thirtysomething year-old who is a partner in a law firm making £1m+ a year and he complemented her that she looked beautiful, she would not say he was "sexist".

She would be looking at how to encourage him to take her on a date and make him put a ring on it.

She would not say "this is LinkedIn, you are not suppose to approach and date people on it".

Her concept of "sexism" is being wooed by a man she is not interested in.

Bloody lunatic feminist!

My brother,the highlighted part of your post is the root cause of this rigmarole

PunkyVeer:
You've "shined" my eyes. Thank you very much. I now understand.

Don't believe her post completely.In Nigeria the most sexed and promiscuous men are the most financially buoyant ones.That's men in their 40s,50s,60s and sometimes even 70s and 80s.The economy is terrible.Many unemployed poor young people.Sex has become a commodity for sale especially amongst the ladies.Many of the guys on Nland are in their late teens and 20s still struggling financially.In other words;hustling virgin nice guys.If you don't have money as a young able bodied man in nigeria,your left hand will become your gf and wife.Sex_ual frustration among the young male population is very common.No romance without finance in this jungle

@OP_ the country is hard on many Nigerians including the so called pretty ladies.How can we be bothered about impressing ladies when almost all of us are in survival mode?No time to form posh for anyone anymore.We are all learning how to lace up our shoelaces and tighten our belts

koice:
Depending on how deep ones pocket is, I would start by recommending
-a smartphone that can handle hard multitasking without skipping a beat,
-a smartphone with a chipset designed for efficient power optimization,
-a phone with top of the shelf graphics processing unit that can handle even the most intense programmes,
-a smartphone that has a pixel per inch density that is above 400, a smartphone that doesn't use onscreen softkey features,
-a smartphone that has at least random access memory that is above 2gb,
-a smartphone that is easily upgradable to the latest operation system,
-a smartphone that has a micro-sdcard slot,
-a smartphone that has a battery capacity that is above 2500mAh,
-a smartphone that has a micro usb port of 2.0/3.0 that supports fast charging


Most smartphones with the following features and characteristics are expensive high-enders, however, UMI, Huawei, and Lenovo, are brands you can count on to give you quality smartphones with high-end features at affordable prices.

I'm not a fan of window phones, never used one in my life, thus, don't know much about 'em.

Na wa o...see info...infact,over-info sef.Let me save this post for present and future reference.Thank you so much bruv